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All the positions required minimum of 5yrs experience. Hmmmm all is well

Sabrina18:
Enter a rebounding relationship, it helps quite a lot.

It pays to take your time after a breakup for many reasons. Give makeup a chance, few weeks might not be bad. Rebounding relationship can be fatal and can also mean you can't exist without a relationship.

so true! i feel mine is even an issue cause I read meaning into all her moves and she terms me trouble shooter. but its in my nature to be very observant.

Royal155:
If beating is out of what you are seeking for, then I've got no advice for ya.
But if beating is in play, here is my advice: head to a nearby koboko shop and get a very strong koboko.
Anytime she misbehaves again, sock the koboko in a pepper water and drop one or two lashes on her back.. she'll dance for sometimes and even all the demons possessing her will all testify to the potency of your right hand.

Do this and glorify the name of the Lord.

Emir of zao zao

OP i get your point. for years now I've been the one doing almost all the financial thing and I always treat my money as our money, but now, bae has gotten job she is paid almost x3 my salary now that fear thing is trying to come in but i won't let it as i am well to do on my own. But bae is very matured sha, i believe she is different

ybalogs:
Reduce that stress that is becoming traumatizing. An Okada man worked till 2am, on getting home he decided to take a bath. He suddenly ran out naked shouting ghost ghost ghost ,narrating His ordeal,he said he has poured water on his head ten times and its not touching his head. Neighbours rushed out only to discover he didn't remove His helmet from his head before having His bath. HMMMMMMMMM, REST IS VITAL! Have a RESTFUL weekend.

Why derail my thread?

Hello guys, I just wanna learn one or two things from ya'all. I take no nonsense from my girl and she knows I am a principled and learned guy but the normal girls misbehavior do happen sometimes. We have never battled insecurity b4 cause we hide nothing from each other since 2012 we met in the Uni.

So my questions are;
1) how do you make her feel the heat of her wrong attitude or better still how do you treat her f^#k up?
2) how do you make up or what do you really expect her to do to pacify you anger?
3) how long does your anger last?


NB: beating is out of it
Sorry for the jamb questions though

Bro to be frank with you, girls are very difficult being. You need all your head and a bit of your heart to survive in nowadays relationship. Be nice but make sure she doesn't take it for granted by giving her the chance to be nice too. Apologize very little or not at all. Give her chance to miss you even when you guys are together. Never allow her read you completely. Could say more but...

A man must honor his vow no matter what. You have no reason to have a mistress as a married man

Rorachy:
But if am dating someone that does his laundry, I will still do the laundry, I don't like seeing dirty clothes littered, I will just start washing it. So I will also need you to reciprocate the love even though am not the type that pack dirty clothes.

so i thought too

but she washes yours. i thought mutual things are the sweetest?

i've been with bae for 5yrs now and i can remember washing one of hers once and i did not regret doing that

guys in the house, if your woman do wash your boxers and some undies for you,
can you wash hers without a plea from her??
pls truth only

CaesarDon:


You are wrong for making it seem like though you are wrong

If u don't man up and talk some sense into her she would always use that work issue as your mumu switch

So true. She's always making it seem I have a choice to make between her and my career. But this one really got me and this time around I'm not letting it pass.

Ishilove:
Balistic4, you and your girlfriend have a lot of growing up to do. If you cannot ask her some serious questions then you two should give each other a break so that sense can fall heavily on you.

Yeah, i guess you're right and I'm really going to give us a nice break.

henro4niger:
Op, if I may ask, are you two not leaving in the same state?

Nope. I only go to anambra once in a month to do clearance. I'm a ghost corper there.

Hey guys I had an issue with Bae but I don't wanna bore you guys with the whole story.

Yesterday morning my girl called me and told me she was sick which I suspected it was malaria. I told her to get drugs and she said I should help her with 2k that she has not gotten atm for her nysc account (we both serve in the same state but I work in a private networking firm as a field engineer).

By default is was supposed to go see one of my site close to her area but my MD called and said I should cancel all my movements that we'll go to akwaibom for a new site survey which I had to obey immediately. I called bae and told her of the developments and that I can't show up again which she did not welcome easily. I even had to show her my MD'S call and sms he sent to me. Yet she refused to understand me saying I'll always choose my work over her.

Fast forward to today, she was admitted to a hospital yesterday by my request to her fellow corp members and believe since that yesterday I've called everyone around her till dey even got sick of my calls, but I was worried cause my fiance behaves like a baby when she is sick. I wanted her to come here in enugu but since she is not strong I opted for the hospital over there.

I've paid the hospital bills but what really got me mad was when she kept complaining about my preference for my job over her and how I could not come. But she knows how delicate my job is cause any suspension from my office the information will be relayed to nysc and I have gone for suspension because of my fiance and we both suffered because of the suspension.

Pls guys anf babes, was I supposed to compromise my job to go see her within this extremely short period of time even after being there in the spirit? Honestly the report and design i submitted to my team was poor cause my mind was not there yesterday when I was doing the site survey.

Harddon pls respond to my request pleeeeeaaaaaassseee

Hello Harddon. Nice job you're doing here. Please I need your help.

I've been dating my girl for 5yrs now since my 1st yr in university. I did not start by toasting her but we were just into each other and we started having sex. Fast forwarding things, I truly love this girl and will and pray that I spend my life with her but the thing is, people around her see her as a loose girl and that makes me remember how we started and to add some of my family members don't like her just because of where she is from but I see this as no excuse.
I play my game well (I think) as I've been the guy in the picture for 5yrs now. I don't cheat on her but I am stern enough whenever she misbehave. So far her slate is clean as far as I am concerned and I would like to propose to her once we're back from nysc. But my question is, how do you know a girl is loose. And what are the implications of having a loose. And to add, I am in between nice guy and alpha male and I have never cheated on her. And what should I do if she falls in the category of loose girl. Thanks