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RomanceRe: My Boyfriend Doesnt Provide For Our Kids And He Beat Me by Balkony11223(op): 11:34am On Jun 13, 2024
Hollybratt:
My advice for you is to report to his family, tell them your plan, if you are ready for divorce let them know.
if i report to them maybe they wil even be happy coz then they wil be sending them even more money
RomanceRe: My Boyfriend Doesnt Provide For Our Kids And He Beat Me by Balkony11223(op): 11:33am On Jun 13, 2024
stunnert:
You're a foool for having more than one child for a man who hasn't married you.

What if he decides to break off the unhealthy relationship you took have going on . What happens to you then ? After two flat tires
wel then at least i wil have my peace and i wil see how to take m y life back.Staying with him doesnt benefit me or my kids at all.Kids are not good to be staying in abusive envjroment and where they are not provided with basic needs
RomanceRe: My Boyfriend Doesnt Provide For Our Kids And He Beat Me by Balkony11223(op): 11:18am On Jun 13, 2024
goran3310:
What!!?! Is he normal? Write in which situations he becomes aggressive? How does that happen? Do you object to him first and then he reacts aggressively? Does he drink? What it is?
he smokes...I dont do nothung wrong to him before he becomes agresive.He doesnt pay no clothes for my kids and shoes and he is reciving money for them from government.I think he doesnt like me and kids.The only family he cares is the one in Nigeria and i am so tired of him.I am tired of being abused beaten and not giving notjing
RomanceRe: My Boyfriend Doesnt Provide For Our Kids And He Beat Me by Balkony11223(op): 9:49am On Jun 13, 2024
goran3310:
What do you mean he treats you like a slave in the house? In what situations does he become aggressive? You wrote it yourself. He works. He pays the bills for his family, you and the children. He pays for food. I guess he also pays for clothes and shoes.
no he doesnt pay clothes and shoes.My family does that
RomanceRe: My Boyfriend Doesnt Provide For Our Kids And He Beat Me by Balkony11223(op): 11:33pm On Jun 12, 2024
longetivity:
I thought women get power over there, abi u dey lie
i wish i lye but i dont
RomanceMy Boyfriend Doesnt Provide For Our Kids And He Beat Me by Balkony11223(op): 10:59pm On Jun 12, 2024
Hi everyone.I am livinf with Igbo.man whom I have 2 kids with.We live abroad.He has work me not coz noone to take care of our kids.He is extremely agresive.Only pays the bils and food for us and the rest money al goes to his siblings and mother in Nigeria.I feel so helples.He is so commanding stingy wicked to me.He most times treat me as slave in house
RomanceRe: Boyfriend Doesnt Want Me And Kids by Balkony11223(op): 1:08pm On Sep 04, 2023
Goodlady:
Veracity if this story is needed
what means veracity?
RomanceRe: Dating A Woman With Child by Balkony11223(op): 1:05pm On Sep 04, 2023
izonborn098:
Madam from ur previous thread i can see u are trying.. Sorry things happen this way but becareful with ur safety...
thank you for youd kind words.Where do you live?
RomanceRe: Dating A Woman With Child by Balkony11223(op): 12:53pm On Sep 04, 2023
Moh247:
cool


Yes...


Having a child is a sign of maturity especially if she raise her kid properly and has an occupation to take care of herself then she's responsible

I fvcking can't stand all this young girls especially some GenZ... They are just not focused , not goal driven, quite shallow in discussion.. you barely have sex with them roll over to sleep and that's it , nothing to talk about because they are empty


.
I understand u
I am about to be single mum of 2 so thT why i am asking.I am somehow afraid that i may not find any man again but i believe in God..I been true hell with father of my kids.Realy the worst things u can imagine and stil in proces to get away from him because he wont alow me go with kids
RomanceRe: Dating A Woman With Child by Balkony11223(op): 12:51pm On Sep 04, 2023
Moh247:
cool


Yes...


Having a child is a sign of maturity especially if she raise her kid properly and has an occupation to take care of herself then she's responsible

I fvcking can't stand all this young girls especially some GenZ... They are just not focused , not goal driven, quite shallow in discussion.. you barely have sex with them roll over to sleep and that's it , nothing to talk about because they are empty
I understand you.I.am.about to be single mother with 2 that why i am asking

.
RomanceDating A Woman With Child by Balkony11223(op): 12:31pm On Sep 04, 2023
Helo al.I would like to know would you want to ever date woman with child already?a single mother.If yes why yes if no why nk
RomanceRe: Boyfriend Doesnt Want Me And Kids by Balkony11223(op): 12:02pm On Sep 04, 2023
donald017:
Attention: any lady who's financially stable and needs a man for marriage should quote me so i will drop my WhatsApp number07052408578we could start somewhere
lol
RomanceBoyfriend Doesnt Want Me And Kids by Balkony11223(op): 11:55am On Sep 04, 2023
Helo all.I been with this Igbo guy for 3 years now.I have 2 kids with him that are very small.He is very agresive towards me.He beat me chike me throw me out of home.He works and i dont work because my papers and i need to take care of kids .We both are now in our countries.The money he is reciving from government for kids he doesnt give me any.If he goes out i dont know where he is goung the time he is coming back.he lives life as a single man.He never spend time with kids or help me with them.I am clean woman.I cook clean mantain house and kids clean always.Nobody is helping me.But for him he always complain about me insult me cal me names how i am nothing zero.Everytime he talks how i shoukd work but i cant.I feel like his slave.Because he doesnt give me nothing.He want to mary me but i think he doesnt love me.He also said how he doesnt love our second child because she wasnt planed.Pls HELP me what should i do?Anytime i tel him we should separate that i should go back to my own country he alwwys tels me he wont alow me go with kids
FamilyRe: How To Tel Him I Am Pregnant Again??? by Balkony11223(op): 11:34am On Sep 04, 2023
frozen70:
It seems that you are not even married to this Igbo man and you keep having pregnancy even when he warned you about getting pregnant again

Well you have to keep that pregnancy and deliver that child no matter the situation and condition that you will see yourself

But don't feel bad if he doesn't marry you probably because he has been engaged at home

I don't see why you have to leave with a man and busy having children for him without even his family going to ask for your marriage

That's why he is treating you like nobody
Hello.I delivered that baby 1 year ago.He doesnt love her.He plans to mary me but he doesnt love me and the second chuld too.My first child i also canot say he loves her.He never spend time with us he is always going to see his friends and i dont even know when he is coming back home.I sugested him many times that i go back to my country that we separate but he says he wont let me go with kids!!!!I canot continue to be his slave anymore!!!The money he receive from government for kids he is not giving me any!
FamilyRe: How To Tel Him I Am Pregnant Again??? by Balkony11223(op): 6:35pm On Sep 29, 2022
pointblank247:
Op
Actually, something is wrong with you.
why??
FamilyRe: How To Tel Him I Am Pregnant Again??? by Balkony11223(op): 4:58pm On Sep 29, 2022
Sweetvie:
is your 18 month baby not a citizen?

Plus
You can't abort 8 month pregnancy
U can only forcefully give birth to it and give it away
yes i know my plan is to give it away
FamilyRe: How To Tel Him I Am Pregnant Again??? by Balkony11223(op): 4:46pm On Sep 29, 2022
advanceDNA:
U have phone for typing..u cannot google number of social services or call the police?? Is ur 18month old not born there?

If the man is a citizen then your children are citizens and u cant get your right to remain through your baby....and stay the hell away from him.... which country are u in sef ??
Germany
FamilyRe: How To Tel Him I Am Pregnant Again??? by Balkony11223(op): 4:15pm On Sep 29, 2022
Ikennaford:
Some stories here is really hilarious,,,, you no get leg to commot from the rotten relationship, you lazy bitccch that's it no offense, your stupid boyfriend knows you can't do without him,pesin like you if you no see boyfriend weh geh money na olosho be your last bustop, truth is bitter
yes all is truth except that i am lazy
FamilyRe: How To Tel Him I Am Pregnant Again??? by Balkony11223(op): 4:01pm On Sep 29, 2022
Abfinest007:
U don't have to mention his tribe .abort it if d pregnancy is still in d early stage
that is the problem is not in early stage.I domt know what to do
FamilyRe: How To Tel Him I Am Pregnant Again??? by Balkony11223(op): 4:00pm On Sep 29, 2022
Rexymania:
And you didn't know all this while that you were pregnant?
no because i didmt have any symptoms and my stomack started growing only few months back
FamilyRe: How To Tel Him I Am Pregnant Again??? by Balkony11223(op): 3:55pm On Sep 29, 2022
Rexymania:
If you had sex long time ago, then are you sure he's responsible? Or are you seeing someone else?
Yes long time ago but he is the father becausw i didnt sleep with anyone else.And also my pregnancy by now should be 8months old already
FamilyHow To Tel Him I Am Pregnant Again??? by Balkony11223(op): 3:49pm On Sep 29, 2022
Helo all.I live with Igbo man for 3 years in foreign land.I dont work because of my documents.We have 18 months old baby that most time i take care of.She was planed.Most times the guy wil beat me insult me how i am lazy how i am good for nothing.Many times I starved together with my baby because he didnt give us money to buy food.He controls me comands me everything.He complains every single day about me but anytime i tel him we should separate he doesnt wana hear about it.I do all domestic works i take care of our baby.I am good woman.Anyway i found out i am pregnant again becausw d way my stomack is growing.I try to tel him this but hr doesnt wana accept the fact that i am pregnant again.He is forcing me to go exercises in gym and forcing me to be making videos there so inwil show him.We donz have sex long time ago.I feel always so wortless with him.Pls what should I dohuhAbout pregnancy?He told me he doesnt wana hear it that i am pregnant.but my stomack is already round
RomanceRe: Agresive And Comanding Boyfriend by Balkony11223(op): 3:19pm On Aug 13, 2022
Jeon:
Lolz

he is like to because you don't/can't give him Master card, papers, Visa card and all necessary foreign documents.
He doesnt nees them he already has them
RomanceRe: Agresive And Comanding Boyfriend by Balkony11223(op): 3:04pm On Aug 13, 2022
Lionstep:
Start working too
why
RomanceAgresive And Comanding Boyfriend by Balkony11223(op): 2:44pm On Aug 13, 2022
Helo everyone.I am white lady and my boyfriend is Nigerian igbo.We live in Europe where he works.I dont have work because of my documents.We have one smal baby.He pays for rent.For food he hardly gives money For our baby too he doesnt spend much.He beat me insult me for every smalest thing.He can hit me because i didnt wash his clothes or coz some object is not on righr place.All the time I been good woman to him.Cleaning washing cooking as am his wife.Bt for him he always find somethung to complain abiut and insult me.he complains also about my weight and am slim lady.He has hit me once so much that my nose bleed.The problem is I do stil love him but I think he wil not change.And when I think beter I have nothing from him.He doesnt treat me wel he beat me insult me doesnt give money for food.He only treat me well when he is not tired from work or at vacation.We have beautifull baby.He has also started being abusive with her and his ways of training child are very agressive.Also I am pregnant with another child with him but I didnt tel him.I know he wil not be happy.Please what should I do?

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