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My life ..this dude got me rolling in tears..how can I change

ChildOfDoom:
Aside my intellectual ability, nothing else to benefit from me in matrimony. I just hope no one is deceived by my innocent looks or gentlemanliness. Lot's of skeletons in my cupboard.

- no sexual satisfaction for her as I have a weak erection due to years of self-service

- no ability to hold a home together as I am wayward, a chronic punter and profligate spender. How possible will it be to save and take care of my family. I can barely feed myself well.

- I have got anger and communication issues. Hard relating well with the opposite sex

- I have got health issues based on an obnoxious lifestyle devoid of proper healthy living. I doubt if I will make a good husband or father having failed on my own.

Working on all these vices; but I guess there is little or no chance of a 30-year-old changing again

.......bro why did you write my life here....am exactly what you wrote here ...first class graduate but all these you wrote is my life right now and am 30 now...please can I have your number

Bro, my situation is worst than yours, I started betting in Ghana year 2012 I was introduced into this act by my sisters senior boy boy..(apprentice) then I was a university student barely 22 ..this dude use to give me 5cedi ten cedi to try the live games ..this is how it started gradually I started going to bet house myself without the guy..now I graduated from little 5cedi to 50cedi believing is the sire way of winning... My brother to cut story short I became so addicted to the level that I graduated from.live game to another game called spin and win..(virtual) worst than naija virtual...this is were my life turn from good decent boy to dangerous guy..I started staging criminal act just to milk my people cos my brothers are rich...man I quit finish my degree but I committed a big crime in Ghana by impregnating my police galfrind after forcing her to take salary loan of over 3million for me...I couldn't pay the loan and yet she got pregnant in the process ..man this was 2017 the gal arrrestd me and lock me up for three days until my people paid the money and they bailed me...my people decided to ban me from Ghana cos I became a real cancer to them..(my two elder brother and eldest sister all are in Ghana for over 20 years) so they ship me back to naija ...I came down to naija with depts of over 30million on my head...my family rejected me ..only my mother use to ask if am living or dead ..I started rooming the street of south south until I join one guy into yahoo yahoo...i was doing the yahoo without thinking of gambling ..my guy for 4months I didn't bet on anything until one Russia woman paid me 6million after % ..man this is were my life got even worst..I left Ogun state to anambra and started betting crazy to catch up those money I lost ( mind u I wasn't into naija virtual) just live games ..this is how l lost all the money I came back to zero...I lost my mother in the process I couldn't go for her burial even when I was in the east all because a lot of people I owe will come to attack me...brother I started sleeping on.the street cos no one would tale me in....finally I left anambra to Enugu just to avoid those I owe from seeing me ..I was just on the street of ogbette rooamjng like a mad man.

One day I stroll down to a hotel to seat and watch soccer , there I met one gal who was serving people and I asked her if she was working there she said she was the manager of the hotel..my brother I drop down and pleaded her to allow me take my shower and change my cloth cos I have not bath for four days...this lady took my to one emplty room and gave me soap and towel...before I could finish bathing she brought me a full plate of indomie and ask if I have neat cloth to wear I said they are all dirty..she went to those bend down select guys and bought two.jeans and a shirt ..my guy this is how I met a savior..she asked me questions about where I came from ..man I drop down and table everything to her ..myisery and my pain...she told me she will help me but she will lock me up in one room for months and give me laptop and make surr I eat well..she told me since I have the skills of yahoo is better I keep trying it and forget gambling..this gal gave me one room second floor and brought a HP laptop for me worth 70k she would bring me food three times a day and after one week i started looking fresh again..and both of us fall in a romantic relationship ..to cut this shit short I pick 1800dollar and I told her ..she told me she would like me to get a small bus and be ridding around Enugu day time and at night I will be doing the work... Guy this was 2019...my life kept moving fine with no gambling I gave her the 1800dollar and she completed and we bought seina of 2012 model she told me she took loan of 2million to make it happen so I must not play..guy I started hustling day time with this car after she helpt me register with the union...to end this story I went back home to.my village for the first time in 6years then no mother..my brothers heard about my return and they realise I metamorphosed back to my normal life ...after hearing how the gal helped me they told me they will hold a meeting around december 2020 to rift me again...man all these while no gaming again oooo, I stopped totally ..they came back December and after mettimgs and discussion they devcided that I.must marry the gal which I agreed we went to nkanu west and paid her bribe price and we fix the traditional around easter 2020 before the covid struck we did indoor marriage and she became my wife...my brothers donated 5million to support my life again..this is how I established whole sale provision shop for my wife and kept driving the sienna cos I realise that when you stick yourself into hard work gambling will never cross your mind...I drop both yahoo and gambling and now my.life Came back to the fullest..I chose to base in Enugu because that is where I found my.life back....now my wife is doing so well with our business and I can.now say we are able to buy a land of 1.3millin last year October and soon we will build on it to stop paying rent....brother pls stop virtual game ..atop it it will lead u to grave...this story is my life and nothing was added to it, I thankgod for redeeming me and bring a woman of then 24 to change my life for good.....God bless the real women of the south east and Nigerian as a whole.. And God rest the soul of my mama I never got to see due to my mess..


Last year was the worst. I made millions of naira but all when down the drain on virtual bets. There have been days when i can finish 500k in just an hour on virtual.

Right now I'm indebted to so many apps. My name has been broadcasted severally and people who used to look uo to me are wondering what went wrong. I don't know if i can ever build my image again. I'm so ashamed of myself that i don't know if i should live again. The problem is anytime i have money, even after saying i won't go back. Once I'm credited, i go straight to it. It won't be an exaggeration to say i have lost over 15m within the last 5 to 6 years I've been into this shameful habbit. Please i need help, i need advice maybe from someone who has gone through this phase successfully because I'm at the verge of ending it all. I used to be so responsible and now my life is not worth emulating at all right now.

Mods please help me move this to front page as i need someone, just anyone to tell me how i can move forward from this mess.[/quote]

Mr Traveller, can u pls tell us which part of Lagos u grew up..cos my part of Lagos is neater than your germany

Iamundisputed:
In terms of organisation, Lagos is not a model city. Talk about transportation, environment and general infrastructure. I haven't been to Jo Burg, but my mom has... I've been to bigger cities in Europe as I studied in Germany. I have also been to a few African countries as well. While we are not competing, you need to understand that organisation is what makes a city called a city. I lived all my life in Lagos, and I can tell you Lagos is very dirty, if not for trade and commerce, it would be a very bad idea to live here.

PS: Next time be polite... I don't want to insult anyone as I love to debate intelligently. Please let's respect each other.

That's politics for u

k for keke na pep

@op u just wasted me mega

nerodenero: The wife dey try, in fact, people wey marry actors dey try. Imagine Majid kissing this babe passionately and the wife go just talk say na acting

freak

MANGAM: Copies of their dad

the dad is he a pornster? justasking

Sepp360: I just did! He strongly objected and told me that yhu didnt give me some reasons to prove ur point!

men with foresight save money better than any woman because they know the consequences of been broke

morhsuud22: Hitting the like button

GO die