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Tambuwal will soon register as APC member and all his sins will be forgiven and forgotten like it never happen.

Congratulations Arsenal top of the league for a reason. Dominique

I’m not surprised. Terrorism is state sponsored when they want to achieve some wicked objectives, the people become their guinea pigs

If the governor is the leader of a party in his state like APC is teaching us, then Wike is the Vagabond. We always knew sha only his sycophants think otherwise

Good for him, everyone is guaranteed freedom of association by the constitution

May his soul Rest In Peace

But NBM is a “deadly” government pressure group and nothing more as they claim 🤣🤣🤣

Wickedtruths:
This fraudster is a Nairaland member

https://www.nairaland.com/edoborn2014

Lmaoooo good detective work chief 😅

Not surprised. All that crew have questionable sources of income

Save PDP in Rivers state first.

Is that the wife pictured ? If you marry person wey pass you exponentially you are liable to have these experiences

Survey for what exactly? Is there any parameter(s) set by government for minors not to buy alcohol?

79 isn’t enough. Search for more please. God bless President Trump and the hard working ICE officers.

Wike is expiring. He’s merely beating about like a fish taken out of water to be eaten. Eventually it will be eaten

All join. Tea and Coffee are alien to us.

Happy married life to them

Tantita isn’t it owned by Government Tompolo OMG 😳, no wonder the blogger deliberately omitted the name of the chairman and founder. APC and Tinubu tufiakwa.

Imagine a known criminal used as a front for our public image among nations.

As it should be. Why will any one wanna to sit at home for Nnamdi Kanu?

Waste of time. Makinde and the other governor are still being loyal cos if they leave PDP is dead dead.

All I wanted to see is whether Fubara has a role to play, and he does. Congratulations on his second term.

Happy 50th anniversary people of Ogun State. That state is big sha omo

Carrick will bell the cat.

A good development

This means the award can be bought at the right price.

APC = The more you look, the less you understand

This makes me remember when things like these were perpetuated in Enugu state during Gov Sullivan’s tenure. When ladies were used as kola amongst the governor and his associates and he was dashing them Kia picantos left right center. Maybe one day we will get the full gist

Not surprised. Power makes men think they’re invisible

BAT should do good for once by picking up the remaining Kanu brothers and reuniting them in sokoto. If he does this, he would win my heart over. Gov Otti is too sentimental on this issue.

Sampalo:
Trump worshipper sighted , plastic brained

Tinubu worshipper sighted. Brain dead

They will soon comeback and be made Obas’ and Baales’.

Sirchiboy:
Abobi I don get your id.
No lele

Hold the id well o, make e no loss. You know say you dey very careless

QuinQ:
He never removed the quote, heartless guy.
Here it is:

Justicepluto:
Life is like a two-sided coin.

Three years ago, I met a young woman fresh out of NYSC. When we started dating, she told me she had graduated with first-class honors and was exceptionally intelligent. Impressed by her potential, I began supporting her in every way I could. I encouraged her to pursue her ICAN certification and provided financial help, even though I was struggling myself. At one point, I had to ask her to stop making random financial demands, assuring her that I would always support her when it was truly necessary.

For the first two years, as she grew professionally, I focused on building our future. My dream was for us to travel together after our first year of marriage. She was indeed brilliant, intelligent, and hardworking, which only fueled my commitment.

By our third year, we had seen significant progress: we acquired lands and a car. But amid this growth, one persistent issue overshadowed everything, the lack of basic respect. She never respected me the way I respected her. I held her in such high regard that I even tempered my sexual energy around her. During intimate moments, I often appeared subdued so as not to overwhelm her, especially since early in our relationship, she had mentioned that sex was painful for her.

One day, during a disagreement, we went out to resolve our issues. In the middle of our conversation, she abruptly stood up and left. I was stunned but swallowed my pride. After talking to her about it, she repeated this behavior during another attempt to settle things this time, I took her phones in frustration, and she snatched mine, even pulling my second phone from my pocket.

I began questioning why she couldn't show me respect. I never hit her, abused her, cheated on her, or shouted at her. Whenever I tried to correct her gently, she would raise her voice to counter me, and I'd stay calm to avoid escalation.

She rarely did any chores when she visited. To be fair, she would cook, but that was it—nothing else. Helping with something as simple as cleaning the toilet seemed like an act of divine intervention. My laundry was never her concern; she could wear my clothes and just leave them for me to wash, as if it were none of her business.

Over time, it became difficult for me to address her behaviors without sparking fights, so I started avoiding those conversations altogether. I even bought several plots of land through her, and her company at the time gave her commissions, yet not once did she ever say "thank you." I overlooked all of it.

Her constant disrespect and eagerness to walk away during conflicts made me realize I needed to test her loyalty. I couldn't pinpoint the issue, as there wasn't a single aspect where I thought I was falling short—and when I asked her, she couldn't name one either. Was it the gifts? The phones? Extending my generosity to her family in small ways? The advice I gave? I was truly confused.

During one argument, she left our shared bed, slept alone, and packed her things the next day.

I decided I had to confirm what was really going on, especially since February 14th was the day I had planned to introduce myself to her family officially. When she later came to apologize, I lied to her that I was a sickle cell patient. She cried, accused me of wasting her years, and left. As she was going, I expressed my interest in her regardless, pleaded with her not to tell anyone, and asked if this was a sacrifice she could make for us—that she should think about it and get back to me.

Did I go too far? I don't think so. At one point, I had sacrificed my job, my source of livelihoodbecause her actions had triggered me so deeply. We met again later, and I begged her not to walk away. I promised everything: adoption, sperm donation, IVF. She refused, saying the money we could save and channel into other things shouldn't be wasted.

This was a woman who, in our three years together, had never done anything for me or my family financially. I borrowed money from her when times were tough and repaid it almost immediately. She earned well currently in the hundreds of thousands but never once had she given me even 5,000 naira as a gift. The first and last time she gave me any money was for a hospital bill, and it was 10,000 naira. Yet here she was, complaining about wasting money.

I laughed it off inwardly as she left and sent her belongings after making sure she asked for them. Weeks later, her mother called me as usual to ask about our issues. Because of her daughter's pride, her mom would rather intervene to settle things than her make any genuine efforts to show she was sorry. I felt there was no point discussing it, if her daughter's pride and ego weren't in the way, she would have stepped up to make amends herself, rather than involving her mom.

Now, I'm starting over. This time, it's not about who's the most successful or intelligent, but about finding someone who will stand by you when the chips are down—someone willing to make sacrifices, even when it's uncomfortable for them.

Many highly intelligent and working-class women remain single or end up divorced for a reason. Some are married but face similar challenges. Ultimately, it's about recognizing your potential and finding someone who will stand by you to achieve it.

In the end, she was stuck in a fantasy shaped by her past relationships, which I don't want to write about. In the end, everyone will be happy.

N.b
I couldn't type everything i overlooked and endured but i am glad it's a fresh start..

How is he heartless?