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@tpia call me what ever name all i know is am a man of myself and you can't change me except i want to change

armyofone:
se.x is like a pill to many men esp an africa man. a book a course mate once gave me to read ''sex is a nigger game'' interesting.
if only other ladies do not give him to their roving abunna. it is good for a woman to have a job and be useful to herself. when he cheats, you either do the same or leave. age when women take nonsense is long gone. many guys here are defending cheating, you servicing two woman, why not the woman service two men too?
pls cheater should not hide but let their woman do the same, my take.

LOL well nice observation there well i never ask my wife not to but the day i catch her red handed she is leaving my house shikena

^^ Well its non of my bussiness what your Gender is and if am married or not well i am the kind of guy that dont make things up i am who i say i am and i will never come on any social network saying i am who am not and also i will never lie to anybody about my life and affair cos i come here and say i have never sleep with any other woman excpet my wife for 5yrs you will all praise me for that wont you? but God will be up there laughing at me so what will i lie for ? if not for the fact that we should respect ourself do you think i care to tell her i have Girl friend ? if i tell her what will she do to me ? kill me she should go ahead now nonsense i owe no one account of how i run my life simple

@kandiikane that na your bussiness if you like put on your profile that you are male why you are female non of my biz i run my package how i want it anyone that is not satisfy with what am doing should jump off the cliff or hug transformer, as i said earlier am not accountable to anybody even my parent cos am old enough to know what i want.

ronkebp:
hMMMMMM!!!! this topic is a very emotionla one, it is already on page 15 and it is still going strong, nice,

@Bashy, change your ways, especially if you consider a spiritual cleansing for your personal self and not only because of your wife, all those girls you are 'banshing', you don't know their make up spiritually, just be careful, . Moreover you are talking about toyota rav4 2004 when people are buying 'range rover, supercharge latest model for their wives, (kidding).

Hmmm well i know you are saying this cos you are a woman and supporting your fellow woman check my last post and tell me wish of them fit you

@Abali i like your response to this and i will post some thing down here for any woman who have not been through that to come out and say it cos my wife fall between one or two if not three of them

REASONS FOR MEN TO CHEAT

1. a woman who cheats on her man before marriage especially with married men will definetly be cheated on.
2. a woman who nags too much will definitely be cheated on.
3. a woman who has no time for her husband will definitely be cheated on.
4. an arrogant/sturborn woman will defintely be cheated on
5. any woman who disregard  her husband wish will be cheated on, for sure
6. any woman that fails to keep herself in shape physically, materially, sexually, socially, spiritually, will also be cheated on. (women always act like delilah. remember samson? pls no explanation
7. any woman that expect their husband to cheat will be have it cos her expectation shall not be cut short.
8. any woman who keeps too many men around her (whether married or single) will be cheated on. the hubby may confess trust but right in his mind; he cannot convince himself that his wife won't cheat with one of them.
9. any woman that cannot communicate with her husband effectively will be cheated on.
10. any woman that fail to keep her husband secret from outsiders will be cheated on.
11. any woman that cannot resolve her family issues without a third party will be cheated on.
12. any woman that fails to take correction from her hubby will be cheated on.
13. a woman that cannot cook will be cheated on.
14. a dirty woman will be cheated on.
15. a woman who monitor her husband movement will be cheated on. (periscopic in nature)
i have to stop here.

if your man cheats check out yourself on the above.

dont mind MUMU PDP they should ask GEJ to resign instead

chaircover:
@bash demy I know you are only doing what you think is best, but as a woman please let me tell you that money is not everythng.

Seriously, Many women will give up their 2004 model Rav4's just for their husbands to spend quality time with them. There are so many lonely married women out there who their husbands think are very happy but they are worng.

You are also making a mistake by withholding intimate relations from your wife because you feel that she will start looking old. Olori adura ni wipe e ma lo ara ying gbo gbo gbo. It is allowed for both of you to use each other till you are old and grey

Well i understand you and get where you are driving at but i know you are only saying this cos you are a lady well i know i love my wife so much and she know i love her, as money is not everything so is sex not everything do you also know that and talking about Quality time should i spend 24/7/365 days with her no but i give her enough time to show her how much i love her and always take them out twice a month to the cinema and even sponsoring 3 of her younger ones i believe those should show i love her, but i need sometime to experience life cos those are what i dont experience during my school cos am too busy for that then

2mch:

I am sure you wife will be thinking the marriage is the worst decision she has made. My friend you are accountable to your wife, and your children. Because your behavior can +/- impact their life. You are making a big mistake having this thought process. You need to see a psychiatrist. . Am surprised any right thinking person can type that. Bashy Demy, honestly tell us if you have beat your wife before. I truly suspect you and know exactly the kind of person you are. 2004 Rav-4

Well i am a respected man and i respect my wife i have never rais my hand up and i will never i curse the day i will ever do that cos i know i can't but i believe everyone has reason for there own act even someone who kill his/her mother will have something to say

This PDP self they are good for nothing let them point out out of all the PDP states wish can stand Lagos maybe Borno State where they are bombing there self day by day, PDP is a fail party and we all know that calling on Fashola to resign that guy Gani abi wetin be him name most be high on 7up, when it happen in Texas did they ask the Governor to resign we are talking of develop country and state

^^^ hey i use God beg you no ever lay curse on me what is your Zap.I.N.G. problem with my life i borrow money from your father to give my comcubine? and beside if got none i only have those girls that i use to refresh my blood what your problem am not ashamed of anything cos am not account to anybody how i manage my life and home even my parent cannot tell me how to run my life and home so all you wish me will be yours. KILODE KI LAGBE KI LEJU i throw stone and you throw Olumo rock wetin happen abeg mind your bussiness there is a freedom of everything shikena

tpia@:
and if the woman builds her own house with her own money they'll still complain why didnt she tell them.

Well she can't even dare to build a house without my consent and beside i am Building a house for her to show how much i love her and i bought her Toyota Rav 2004 model on her Birthday this last may so what and i give her money to boost her business infact i just send her money to what else would i do to make me a good husband tell me oooo you guys want make i they phoke my wife everyday so she go look irritating to me? Oh, Hell no cos i want every moment we make love look like the first time we are making love shikena

@tpai Well to you that what you think though its a game sometimes you need to play but with careful

^^ who are you referring to Mr?

geosegun:
I hope you guys read the comments made by mark very well.
He only insinuated more fund from ecological funds to be released to parts of Lagos state
that were flooded in the past few days[b] for rapid development and amelioration.[/b]
He was not asking for total state of emergency in terms of anarchy.

Please let us read articles well before criticizing.

ONE NAIJA = ZERO TOLERANCE TO BOKO HARAM + MEND

Maybe you reading with your 2 legs up David Mark move motion of State of Emergency While Ganiyu Solomon move motion of Fund from Ecological is David Mark and Ganiyu solomon the same name read again and respond

N.B that David Mark is a disgrace to National Assembly

ronkebp:
^^^^^^ ehnn!!!!!!!!!! 'give orders', where are you giving the orders, burger king or macdonalds, ? Your wife must be very very very quiet oooo,

LOL if she does not quiet will she chase me out of the house i build with my money? or when am suffering and smilling where is she abeg

^^ Well she wont find out and if she find out i will beg her and explain to her but if someone else get to know and trying to tell her thinking they are helping her , they aren't helping her oooo like i said ealier in my humble home i am a King and Kind never make suggestion King give order

tell that to the ghost

The people Governor i trust you jare you are to be called R.R.G ( Rapid Respond Governor)

@ronkebp there are thing you do for your wife that she doesn't need to know cos if she know she wont understand you are doing it in her favor i am the kind of guy that always tell who ever am dating that i am married and that any money i can't give my wife i can never give that lady i use that as an excuse so if she ask me for #10.000 i will tell her this moment i can't give my wife that kind of money so i can't give you, well i believe we are diffrent kind of human with different reasoning my wife mean so much to me and i adore her

@tpia good for you ooo at least the left over will be left your hubby LOL

@ronkebp Well i have my reason for doing away and to me not cheating as you guys think there was a girl am dating back then though we only had sex once and she never want to come when ever i call simply because i dont usually give ever what ever she demand for, one day she ask why am i cheating on my wife and i said am not cheating am only helping her cos i love her so much and i dont want her to look fade to me i want everyday i make love her to look like the first time and i am the kind of guy that love sex so i can't be having sex with my wife everyday cos i dont wanna get tired of her that was the last day have seen the girl and when ever i call her she say she is also someone girl friend so not every man that do it to hurt his wife i do mine cos i love her and i have promise her that she is the only woman am gonna marry and so shall it be

@cooker glad we think the same way i always protect myself but why are the ladies in here complaining after using yourself as a girl with more then 5guys before marriage now you are want your husband not to enjoy the fun outside, i urge any lady here to come out and say she has only slept with just one guys all her life

^^ nice one and happy married life but i will tell you 2yrs into my marriage i never cheat so lets what story you will have in 2yrs hope you wont kind to share on here.

That will be the last thing i will in my home i am the King i will never tell my wife am traveling if am not though things might happen during the process of my traveling but it wont be the reason for my traveling

Well am not in Nigeria now and wont be until end of the month

coogar and kandiikane you guys are maing this thread lively for me

enjoying this thread keep em coming

@2mch well i understand your view but how would you expect a man a rich man for that matter to taste only one phony in his entire its not easy girl Tiger wood,Abrahamovic, and lots more have prove that

Nothing can even maybe you dont know you are dealing with a genius in this game even with voodoo it wont work

How will they know my movement when i do my things atleast 100miles away from my hood and about having extramarital kid that will never happen cos i always tell the girls am dating that we are on contract so they know my house and even if they know my house they can't even come cos i have put the fear of my wife in them so Mr/Mrs i know how i do my things

Well that why i am always perfect with what i do cos i always protect myself by using condoms so about having another kid outside my matrimonia home is 0/100 i am a good planner and i always tell my wife not to try to monitor me or else she will be hypertensive, i am always a Good husband/father that everyone would want to have but if i dont cheat at this age do you want me to when am 40,50,60s? am in my late 20s so i need to catch the fun now till my kids are grown up to know right from left

I can't just stop reading diffrent stories and applying more brain to my cheating level, well as for me i have promise my wife not to marry another wife and i always keep to my promise that why i always tell any lady am dating that i am married and the chance of having second wife is 0/100 so they know from start and i warn them not to call me anything from 6pm cos those are the respect i think my wife deserve but going by the away match he sweet gan ooo

deasy:
To me men infidelity to their spouse don't just happen all of a sudden,"one thing or the other do leads to that",because a married man is like a hungry man,and i expect every spouse(woman) to give the goodies to the man in order to quench his thirst and hunger.

Nice said jare