₦airaland Forum

XerXers:
But Peter Obi interconnected the whole communities in Anambra with good road and you said he has no legacy projects.

y didn’t he show us during his campaign

A man who was shouting go n verify but never brought anything, many of u cursed him during his governance but suddenly became an angel during presidential election cos he’s igbo

Danisaint112:
See them Tinubu loyalists spitting all over the thread. Supporters of a known criminal and global drug lord.
I wonder how this people sleep at night.

OP the only reason they found their voice is because the mandate barawo who won election through Criminality and thuggery has been selected by INEC.

One thing I know is darkness can never defeat light. He who laughs last laughs best. We are waiting for supreme Court. The supreme decision will tell you wether the Obidient movement is dead or not.

u igbos keep decieving themselves


Na for here Supreme Court go shenk una, hope u have read inec stand on d election?

Tinubu won it

Rebuker:
And how did you come into that conclusion that I am Igbo, sir?

I am a lover of knowledge and whenever I see a fountain of it, I am always in awe.....

your comment gave u out bro

CilicMarin:
I recommend NgeneUkwenu, the lady can do the work.

cc: Seun.

I guess your alternate moniker?


Ogbonnnnnnnn

fourboys:
read the article again.. now with a calm mind

u igbos can deceive yourself

DatNiggaDaz:
How are you Sure that he did not do all these you mentioned. He cannot be blamed for something that is going to fail unless he is the chief executive of the scheme.

He was or is a Promoter. He does not run the day to day Business unless otherwise.I may be wrong though. He has no case here

so that means I can endorse any scam n when it crashes u claim ignorance

ManOfMan:
How did know he/she is Igbo?

check his previous topics n comments

Wodu89:
Hahaha. Nigerians and Bitterness

guy this is not about bitterness, those so called celebrities should check d details of what they endorse n who they market for

For u as a celebrity to b an ambassador of a product it means u vouch for them with your integrity cos many will buy d product cos of u, they feel u have accessed it n see it to b right

Any celebrity that endorsed any scam should b arrested

gawu1:
One of those headless mobs.
When we start giving you now, the next thing is to copy UN, ECOWAS, human left, human rights and so on.

don’t mind d igbos, na everyone b their problem

BrighterThanDay:
As a child from a broken home, I saw marriage as my happy ending of finally having a home filled with love and mutual understanding. After the death of my mom, growing up with my dad and stepmom was hell. I was treated as a stranger in my own home, so I thought starting my own family will be a lot better.

After I completed my education and got a good job. I had a lot of suitors willing to settle down with me. Most of them were rich and accomplished men, but there was no spark, I felt they weren't genuinely in love with me, and since I was never a materialistic person, I turned them down. I get easily content with what I have and I spend prudently. Then I met my husband. It happened that I was his crush back then in school, in fact, he even approached me as a student then, but I turned him down because I knew where I was coming from and I never wanted to gamble with my studies, it was my only hope to leave my father's house and fend for myself.

Fast forward to when I met my husband after school. He didn't even have a good job. But I could tell I meant a great deal to him, we'll speak for hours on the phone. I fell hopelessly in love with him, I could already picture a happy home with him and our kids. Then he proposed, and I accepted. I met his family, they were nice on the first visit.

After the introduction ceremony with my family, I started noticing certain things. I was taking pictures with his phone when I saw a message from his mom telling him I'm a stranger and he shouldn't allow me to come between them. I was surprised and wondered where all this was coming from, I asked him and he reassured me that it was nothing.

Then his father told me that hope I know that a son should love and care for his parents more than his kids. I kept pondering this statement. Then the worse of it all was his married sister, she hasn't even met me, but she rained insults and abuses on me on his phone and why he needs to make money first and allow his family to enjoy his money, before getting married. She said I was old, and just forcing him to marry me. I was just 26 then, but my education was very fast.

I had to speak to her dad about this and he cautioned her. I tried speaking to her myself but she rained insults again on me. I called off the wedding at a point but my then-fiance begged and involved my brother and so we went on with the wedding preparations. The wedding went well and his entire family stayed with us for a week before leaving.

My husband got a good job, I was working, we were fine and money wasn't our problem. A few months later, my father-in-law died. I sent messages and called hubby's siblings to comfort them. I couldn't travel with him immediately due to the nature of my job. I kept calling to check on him and inquire about the traditional rites I might need to be a part of. Hubby said his father was a pastor so he won't need to do anything, while we were yet speaking, his sister who hates me snatched the phone from him and said I have to do this and that or I should pack my things and leave the house and then she shouted at me.

I was so pissed and acted in a way that wasn't right considering that we were all mourning. I sent a message to her, telling her to be nice considering that we are all mourning but if she chooses to continue insulting and humiliating me for no reason, I won't take it. She forwarded the message to the entire family, including uncles, aunts, and grandchildren. On the day of the burial, I was treated as an outcast by the entire family, she told them not to give my birth family food, even though they came bearing gifts and comforting everyone. Hubby had to step in and ask the caterers to serve them.

She kept fighting and shouting at my hubby throughout the burial and tried denying him of things he was supposed to do as the first son and child. I was humiliated and she kept castigating my name and insulting me to hearings of everyone. I wasn't even allowed to eat. I was quiet all through, when family members were asked to sit behind the corpse, she asked me to excuse them.

For fear of my life after the burial, I had to go lodge in a hotel outside. The next morning she and her brother kept shouting and complaining that why did hubby allow me to lodge and that I should have been with their mom. They continued the humiliation, I couldn't take it anymore or hold back my tears so I left.

Hubby later told me that she held a meeting in my absence with the entire family and told them I'm a bad wife and needs to leave her brother. This was when hubby stood up for me and said I wasn't going anywhere.

Our marriage was never the same. Even when we had our daughter, no one called, hubby was ostracized from his own family and he blamed me sometimes. I couldn't concentrate at work, and my job is performance-based. I was scared that I'll be fired, so I resigned.

Hubby's income wasn't enough to sustain us, so we started facing financial difficulties. He had to even go meet the same sister to borrow money, even though I discouraged it. She always mocked him for it and I had to pay off the loan at a point.


When she saw that we are now broke, she stopped fighting with him and they are on talking terms now, of course, she still wants nothing to do with me. I know that they are family by blood and nothing is too hard to forgive, but each time she calls and they are happily discussing, Ican't help but feel angry for all she has caused us. I'm sometimes tempted to leave this marriage because this is not what I envisaged at all.

My brother is also married and I have never felt the need to interfere in his marriage or fight his wife.

I don't know how long I can continue in this union, even my innocent beautiful daughter is hated by them.

your husband no get sense at all

The sister is doing all these because she knows your husband na mumu, how can a sister have so much influence on him n the entire family like that?

U are not d problem here but d foolish husband, either u take it or leave it you will have to leave that mugu one day or they tell him to leave d house for u

That guy u call husband no get sense, it’s after u are gone that he will realise his mistake

PoliteActivist:
Tinubu is probably depressed from all these negativity as we speak, poor guy

president elect is depressed according to u igbos

Same post u traded your Biafra for

floret23:
duro4chan, heliues and other happy slaves, despite your degree of falsehood, you guys will never deny who Tinubu actually is - a hardened unrepentant criminal. I commend you employed orchins for that.

igbos calling others slaves

11th wonder of d world

maestroferddi:
You mean 8 million people allocated to him by Mahmoud?

yes

Now do your worst

Many are now seeing that the obedient mantra is just like a plan b for Biafra n when it has failed Nigeria must burn

Newton2024:
Tinubu is a disgrace to yoruba race. He is the worst of us. A country that has Chimamanda Adichie, Okwonjo-Iweala, Akinwumi Adesina, etc. shouldn't have a Kleptomaniac drug baron like Tinubu in politics let alone becoming president.

u igbos have renewed another 8 years wailing

maestroferddi:
The most ridiculous comment of the year...

Oga, the issue here is Tinubu who is trying to force himself on Nigeria when it is obvious that Nigerians don't want him...

Tinubu's brand of political leaders are no longer desirable in African politics...

Know and have peace...

so the 8 million people that voted him came from heaven right?

Newton2024:
All the "comments" above is from one person. Every drug baron's surpporter is fraudulent by nature. Like Tinubu, like followers.

u igbos are showing who u are to d world

Few months to election u will start acting sane again abi

NotoriousBiggyS:
To all the so call tinubu supporters I have questions for u I need answers

1. So many people hate tinubu, but why do you like him
2. Every sane people love justice but why do u hate justice
3. Every sane people who meant well for our dear nation hate tinubu but why do you love him

u igbos re decieving yourself

Tinubu will b sworn in n there’s nothing u can do about it

tomi4life:
I am 35 and my wife is 29, we have been married for 6 years now, we have 2 children a boy and a girl. We didnt court much during our courtship because of long distance.

I really have a problem with my wife and not sure what can be done to address, now I must be very honest am not sure there is anything I can do I just want to use the platform to vent my frustration.

My marriage has not been very good, lately myself and my wife leave like room mates and not lovers, despite the age difference between me and my wife she doesnt really respect me. For the 6 years we have been in marriage 3 things have caused all our fights: cooking, Sex and finance

My wife rarely cooks in the house, things around welfare are not taken seriously, actually in a week, my wife can cook for me just 1 time. She cooks for the children and baths for them daily, we also have a help who does alot of cooking. She rarely askes me what I will eat, honestly I always have to go to the kitchen to sort myself, sometimes I buy food outside from eateries and bucker. Sometimes when she cooks it usually very late 10pm. I have complained severally and what happen is she tries to change, after a week, we are back to the same state. My wife can do without cooking for me for weeks. It really really pains me cos am a foody and I knw hw my mum treats matters of food. she is this person that forms busy, either she is busy with work or some church activities, she always has an excuse. She goes to work only ones a weeks the remaining 4days are remote. To address this issue I now order soups from major restaurant outlets, An example is today easter sunday, I had to tell our maid to prepare rice for myself and the kids, cos my wife was in church, we all went to church but she decided to stay back, knowing fully well no food was prepared.

Sex: [/b]our sex life is very boring, when we got married we always fight about sex, cos anytime I ask for it she always complain she is tired, so what I now do is ask for it only sat morning, brethen this is only day I get sex. If I miss that day, it is still next week. We sleep in different rooms, she sleeps with the children in the master bedroom while I sleep alone in another room. I can tell most time she doesnt enjoy it and never ever askes for it, I always ask and initiate it. She just lays like a log, even kisses is a no no, except she is really on, which rarely happens.
[b]
Finance: I have always earned more than my wife, when we got married, I was earning 3 times what she was earning, but she changed jobs and got promoted severally and we were earning the same amount. she also does alot of side runs where she gets 200-300k monthly as side hustle, there was even a time she was earning more than I did. I dint let it bother me I continue to foot the entire house bills. 95% of the enitre house of comes from me, she only pays the maid , buys cooking gas and my sons diaper. Every other thing in the house is covered by me, house rent, school fees, project, all the bills. I give her 75k as food money monthly. I have continue to question her why I should give her food moeny if I still have to end up going out to eat. I think the only reason she sometime listens to me is cause i still provide the finances for the house. The time she was earning more I could see how she belittle some of my decisions. I just prayed to God, cos I noticed the respect was gone, when I talk to her about her role as a mum and mother to the home, she says she is working, she is busy, I mentioned to her that the money she works is for her, she doesnt share with the house, I have never asked her for it and am not against her working, she however should not neglect her responsibility as a mum. That my role as a father, God helping me is to provide, and this is why I work. I also noticed when I got a new job and my salary increased she kinda off felt jealous she didnt tell me but i noticed it, she began to aggressively look for jobs.


I really dont think we have that initmacy, we are just there, my wife cant come to tell me anything bothering her, she keeps to herself. Funny part is she is a very religious person, my wife will sleep with bible on her hand, wake up with bible pray and serve in various church unit, I however dont think she really understands what she reads. She also has a very bad temper sometimes when I raise certian issues, the ways she talks sometimes I have to hold back a response if not the whole thing will escalate. There are days I will raise certain issue up, the next things she mentions is " let just dissolve this marriage as it is not working" sometimes , I just refer her to her bible cos the utterances that come out of her mouth makes me doubt her understanding of Christianity.


I have never assaulted her, we have nt had any physically fight, what happens is most times when we have issues, I dont speak to her for days, then she come back apologizing. Sometimes when am wrong I also apologies.

Am not saying am perfect, I know there are areas I can do better, like in the buying off gift, I rarely buy her gift, not cause I cant but Cos she earns well and I believe she should buy whatever she needs with her money my wife earns approximately 800k monthy.


I expect my wife will support me but it like she is stressing me. when we go see my parent or our parent, it is all smiles, they dont knw hw stressful their daughter is, she even forms trying to serve me food and all.

Dont get me wrong she has some good side, but this thing is really getting into me. I dont drink, smoke or womanise, divorce is also not on the table for me.

shes doing that cos u are a mumu man

I don’t believe all these things really happen for real ooo, thank goodness for traditional men like this who will put women in their place n don’t mind what d society call us

Keep forming gentle man till she starts beating u

Minime10:
How keyamo, FFk, Lie Mohamed, Dele, woke oke messed up big time, by attacking Chimamanda's letter. Now the letter has gain global traction
Mek una dey play

igbos n self deciet

When will trump come n conduct referendum in Nigeria?

Gucciblog:
Dear Peter Obi our DADDY OF ALL Daddies!

Go and ye into the world and prosper in all you do, be rest assured that we Nigerians are solidly behind you locally/internationally, offline/online.
OUR STOLEN MANDATE MUST BE RESTORED, INSHALLAH...✊🇳🇬✅

just dey play

Pinkybae:
Stop talking and listen up for a few minutes in your life. I am so tired of people's partisanship that has blocked every sense of reasoning in that country.

You, as a young person I assumed wanting 85 year old cognitively declining man to run your country shows your incapability to run your life.

Is your grandfather still running your family? If the answer is no, why do you want Tinubu to run Nigeria.

The man is incoherent and can't even make meaningful sentence 😡😡😡

keep quiet there, since u igbos hate tinubu u expect everyone else to hate him right

U igbos will insult everyone for d next 3 n a half years n when it’s few months to election u start forming love

Do u know d number of people that u igbos have lost with the way u handled this post election stuff?

The same way u overdo your Biafra madness that made your fellow igbos turn your back on u is the same way u will overdo this n few non igbos that support u will turn their back

Felabrity:
Uchins won't care as he is not Igbo


He dey collect two salaries sef

yoruba boy scam Yorubas

It shouldn’t b igbos problem cos we Yorubas don’t care what happens in your region

What do u igbos have to do about this or na only Yoruba matter dey give u erection

BombAttack:
No need for this. You see that war they want we have mobilized already. Let's see who will cry about burning down Lagos.

Don't disturb yourself

That markets they burnt at Apapa is their last.

Any forward attempt

The entire government facilities in Lagos will explode including their useless Oba Palace

we are waiting for u

riverbird:
One simple advice for this set of Yorubas .....the Igbo nation you are trying to provoke by all means don't let the Igbo people reason your matter, na only Igbo fight Nigeria for good three years and six months even with the British and France on the side of Nigeria they could not defeat them, if Igbo people reason this yoruba wey no wan get sense I swear it won't be funny at all.

let’s see your worst now

Shebi u fought d whole world in won but couldn’t even go out on Monday in your region

Let’s see

Johnthum:
That War you are looking for, you shall get it.

It's a promise 💯

let’s see your worst

helinues:
What's this mentality of having solution to others problems but are just clueless about solving theirs.

Sebi tomorrow na another Monday, the illiterate youths will still lock their grandpa and grandma at home tomorrow. The acclaimed educated region where illiterates and drop outs are making the law

it’s highly annoying when igbos see all d problem in another man’s land but this same people don’t care about d fire in their own house

This is d situation report in one of their states but they don’t care, tinubu is their problem