[quote author=toujurs post=108672532]You are a liability, Miss beauty16, a huge one, and i can never advice your guy to marry you. You are a leech. Your mentality of entitlement is irritating. Most of you ladies are the reason guys dump your ass, but you will begin to nagg like the guy was at fault. This is nonsense. Who do a guy look up to for help, No one! But most of you ladies are so lazy, that you can't hustle on your own[/quote your conment doesn't count because you get it all wrong.

aktolly54:
getting what? He actually speak sense but you won't listen because all you want to hear is SEND YOUR AZA ,thats how girl like you think. You think the world revolve around you.

bravo I will shock you later

Hashabiah:
I need to meet this guy and shake him personally for being the wisest redpiller alive.

bird of the same feathers who is stopping you from going to meet him look for his address and go and meet him now.

aktolly54:
do you give the guy Toto fuc.k ? I don't think so . but if the guy is servicing your engine then he must support you but if you are waiting for him to support you before you give him toto then he's right to treat you that way. I SEE YOU AS A BEAUTIFUL WOMAN ,BASE ON YOUR COMMENT SO FAR, SOMEONE IF SOMEONE GIVE 50K TODAY, PEOPLE LIKE YOU WONT APPRECIATE IT AND NEXT MINUTES YOU SEE SOMEONE GIVE YOU 200K ,YOU ALREADY FORGET THE PERSON THAT STRUGGLE TO GIVE YOU 50K. I wish you the best in your search but you better be prayerful and don't expect someone to carry your family problem, though you will see one yahoo boy who neglect his own family to take care of your family and probably used you to renew his money when things isn't Rossy.

Let me be a gentle guy with you, DID THE GUY GET THE MONEY BUT REFUSE TO SUPPORT OR HE DIDNT HAVE? Before someone come for hand in marriage ,he must be financially ready. The first time he come meet your parents, nothing less than 20k for your mom,just to prof that he will be good inlaw

you are not even helping matters here at all just go off,do I need to let him Bleep me before he can support me,if he doesn't have money would i been saying he refused to support me.

efficiencie:


Selfish woman jam selfish man...I doubt the marriage will last 24 hours. Your primary reason for getting into the relationship is to receive support from the man. That makes the man your maga. The man on the other hand refused to be 'maga'ed rather he has seen a lady with an investment and would like to sa're wo'le and prey on you. Aunty end the deceptive relationship and pray to God to send you helpers (not magas). When the helpers come don't try to deceive them into a marriage and don't let your choice of a spouse be based on your personal interests rather let it be based on mutual interests. Don't go into a marriage as a parasite rather endeavour to be in a mutually symbiotic relationship! You hear? I no sey you no go hear. You go wan maga another man but just remember that a rich man that can help you with cash today can beat you to coma, cheat on you, give you STD, or even use you for rituals tomorrow.

you guys are not getting me,why?anyway tnkz for your advice I have heard you.

Lovebliss2:


My dear, just face your life and do your business.
If God sends a helper along the line, fine. Don't force it on anyone.
God be with you.

Ameen thank you very much

CruiseCity:


Can you imagine. You are a thief! Hes he responsible for your father’s death? You want to play emotional scam here. Go get a job. Can you imagine the entitlement. Yen yen yen yen

lolz what are you even saying, what is the big deal if you just pass by without comment if you don't know what to say.

Truvelisback:
The guy's decision was good. Besides, they are yet to be married. Why would i spend so much on someone i am yet to get married to or on someone i am not yet sure she would accept my marriage proposal? Na only MUMU man go do so.

yes we are yet to be married so does not mean you have never give your girlfriend a dime or support her before

Hashabiah:
Abi...but I really don't believe this tale. Because no guy in 9ja is this stupid to start sponsoring a person who openly comes out to say that the reasons for their relationship is financial gains

I told him my mind my reason for the relationship so what,if not for that sake I won't want to be in a relationship or even get married,
when my dad was alive I don't give a Bleep abt them some men are just something elz plz

qtguru:
A man is not a plan for survival

you are right,maybe the way of my thinking was wrong

Truvelisback:
Pls, don't blame the guy, he hasn't yet get married to u. If i were in his shoes, i would have done the same. It's ur family issue, not his, until u both are married b4 he may/can show more concern abt it. Many ladies have disappointed men who sincerely help these ladies who they intend to marry. So, don't blame him, find solution to ur family issues until both of u are married.

Kk thank you very much

PrimeWatermark:


Is there a possibility of you marrying him first? He's probably scared of getting played.

If you can't marry him before he takes up those responsibilities, then let him go and get yourself a 'more generous guy'.
You can't force him, it's his money and he decides what to do with it
He has not even finished taking care of his own family. You think it's easy?

you are right that is why am asking for an advice what exactly should i do in this kind of situation

johnsonmartina6:
you can WhatsApp me,, maybe we can talk more,, 09074635796

what do we need to talk more about I need advice if you have one just said it here am listing

johnsonmartina6:
na this kind guy we need my man,,, os wan use him take feed e family, later e go say him get another man to marry, trust the guy na,, him wise,,, gals with their sence of entitlement,,, they have little Brain,, you enter relationship because you want a guy to help your family,, this one no know watin she dey find for life

you are right it's obvious I really don't know what I want for life,

Hashabiah:
I have no advice for you or any lazy female that wants to dumb responsibilities on men .

oh really then what about men that want to dumb responsibility on women,am not a lazy woman and again what I did was a support,I don't depend on him,you talk as if you don't read my post well I have my daddy business running support is what I need if he is truly a good and a gentle man who really want to marry me as he claim he should have at least support my business to make it grow if he support my business and my business stand well there will be no need for me to ask him for a dime,and you,don't be like that to any lady because it won't do you any good.

Hashabiah:
I need to meet this guy and shake him personally for being the wisest redpiller alive.

really so what is your advice because it's an advice that I need.

I was into a relationship with a guy some month after my dad death,thinking it will bring a helping hand to my family not knowing that it's a situation worst,this guy doesn't support me rather than making things worst for me I told him my reasona for the relationship and he promise to support me but ever since we start dating not even a dime has he support me even when my little brother was hospitalize I talk to him about it but he added that if I can also be of a help to him right now he will also be grateful that I should forget about my brother sister and mother issue and concentrate on my own future first he is telling me that the little money am earning for the business am doing to support my family I should be bring it to him to use it and plan our future that he want to get married to me,that I should be thinking about us not my family,I don't want to ended up married someone that will not understand what I fell for my family.
The worst part of it is that when I ask him for a help to support my business to make it big since people come to the shop a lot,he promise to do that for me but uptill now not even a dime has he bring,sometimes when customers enter the shop they won't get want they want,my daddy shop is now going down.
So yesterday he came to my mum with one of his family member coming to ask for my hand in marriage without even my notice that he is coming,so my mum told them to go and come back that she want to hear from me first because I didn't tell her anything about anyone coming to ask for my hand in marriage so this visit was unaware to her so they left,I have been a guest of this forum for a very longtime now so yesterday that I was very angry I decided to join this forum and seek for an advice, I just don't get it advice needed please

bjnice:
I finally wed my beautiful Queen in Ibadan yesterday.

Your wishes are appreciated.

wow congrat