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Hmmmm. May God give u d strength to overcome. ur dreams will come true, Karma will not forget d idiot dat raped you.
but please quit taking hard drugs, u look so much older than ur age.

y'all shouting how old is Van Vicker. abeg wetin una wan use im age do?

thanks buh my question is When will d form b out

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lyk seriously? u were given an assignment n u came here to ask for answer? Gosh! See d so called Leaders of tommorow

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Iykestix:
but it was written there that we should upload our uniben admission letter

UNIBEN admission letter kwa? screenshot

dafoly:
pls, has anyone uploaded jamb admission letter? or is uniben admission letter alone good

upload ur jamb letter o. ur not being asked to upload any UNIBEN admission letter

donvicky2007:
What of the 2016/2017 online clearance for Postgraduate students ?

Postgraduate online clearance has started

Eghosagraviti:
That's not true.

that's d blunt truth. don't give dis ppu false hopes

those dat their own is showing paid should just forget abh admission dis year.. it's showing paid cos d form was not Submitted mini d registration is incomplete.

Hmmm. inspiring

Joe171:
what exactly are you pained about, my words or the fact that your parents were barbaric in that act of your circumcision? f*ck girl, how does your stinking virgin vagina help your miserable life?

silence! d best answer.

Joe171:
it's your life, if you like stay a virgin till you die.
your parents are barbarians displaying their barbaric behaviour for having circumcised you.

foooool. it's tradition. stop insulting ur parents rada take tym to go through some books or go browse to see y sm gurls are being circumcised..
Linda Ikeji is circumcised, does dat mean her parents are barbarians? u soo foolish n displaying ur height of foolishness won't help ur life.

Okay. after listening/reading different advice from left n right here. I think Majority opinions boil down to "don't loose ur virginity now". ok. I have heard u all. I have decided not to beg him m sorry. if he comes back begging, i will giv him my terms n conditions, i f he doesnt accept den i will just try to forget abh him n move on. If we r meant for each other, God will find a way in the nearest future.
tank u all Brothers n Sisters. God bless u all

[quote author=harffie post=50827587]Let me tell you the TRUTH, if you're not READY.....please, don't. Truth is if he tricks you into having sex by using psyche and all, he might still leave you..no good man ever ask of sex from a 19 years old girl..
How sure are you that he won't takeoff the next minute after getting what he wants?? All guys come as friends, forming good friends and gradually they integrate into something else and start demanding for something serious.. Be wise.[/quote
tnx bro

Vikky014:
babe keep ur virginity. there is no gain in premarital sex. a cheat will always find an excuse for cheating

tnx

DaySpringer:
Love is grown over time, by seeing each other in both the good and the really bad times. Love is shown in endurance, shown in the commitment, which is a decision to be with the other person even when the feelings are not there.

What you probably feel for him is infatuation.

Here is a quote about Love to give you perspective.
Love is an action based on the Conviction of commitment not on the ebb and flow of emotion.

The emotion of feeling overwhelmingly drawn to someone, sexually turned on to them or fuzzy all over when they walk into the room or the thought of then comes to mind, is intermittent, fragile and too easily pushed aside by other competing emotions such as boredom, depression, health issues, financial circumstances, familiarity, annoyances and so forth.

It is the sense of obligation due to the seriousness of the commitment that provides the impetus for appropriate behavior in spite of momentary glitches in "that loving feeling"

And most importantly, it is the behaviors of loving that help stimulate and perpetuate those "loving feelings

OK. tnx so much 4 ur time. I appreciate

dat Lecturer is a fool. How could he raise his hand to hit a Lady. typical "wife beater"... Learned Idiot

yea. He exists

ok

nawa oooo! see dem killing themselves untop who exists or not

not funny

ok

EternalTruth:
pls bro does it really mean that girls who are circumcised don't have any feelings for sex and don't also enjoy love making elucidate me pls

n why are u sad abt it? u know of any Lady who was circumcised? probably ur girlfriend? or are u planning to circumcise ur daughter? plz don't try it o

DaySpringer:
Love at first sight doesn't exist..

If you see him with other ladies, you will be okay with that?

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hmmm. den wat do u tink I call it if not love @1st sight? I mean we never knew each other b4 o, our paths just crossed n he approached me, talked for a while, collected my number. a month later, we started dating.
well, maybe it was lust @1st sight. lol. buh it later turned to love. I can remember he told me he just wanted to play games with me wen d relationship was 4 months but he fell in love helplessly

no, I won't b okay seeing him with other ladies if we r still together

Rone16:
That's how some guys are..Joke koh..He wasn't joking so I think you should give him your terms and conditions which is abstinence and if he doesn't agree,leave him..You don't have to kiss(have sex with) many frogs to meet your prince.Just be patient because you're still young.

tnx

DaySpringer:
How long did you know him before you began dating him?

You do not want to have sex with him but you want to be with him. He should be able to understand and appreciate that if he truly loves you. If he is trying to pressure you into sex then he is trying to control you in one form, trying to bend you to his own personal wishes.

If you have carefully and clearly explained to him why you do not want to have sex and he still insisted came back to try to cajole you into giving it up then it means that your values do not align. And this leads to another absolute truth, if you two do not share core values in a relationship then it will come crashing down eventually.
You may get back together with him and he will be satisfying his urges somewhere and when you eventually find out, he will say it was an accident or any other lie.

Sex is not beans, sex brings lust, a powerful force that changes people.

Love is not about sex.

I saw a quote on twitter the other day,
A relationship is either heading for Marriage or Heartbreak, don't enter if you're not matured enough for either.

What is the point here? Ask yourself why you truly want this relationship. What is your reason for being in it? Is it fun, fun, ,companionship? Or can it stand the test of tough times eg. This one.

I think I know him 1month plus b4 we started dating. it was love @1st sight. we were never frnds b4.

He doesn't cajole or persuade me into having sex with him, my NO is his NO n I can bet my life he's not cheating on me.

tho our relationship has its ups and downs lyk every other relationship buh now i just feel he's tired of d no-sex relationship, none of his actions really show it except for d statement he made which he later said it was a joke..

Since i dnt even understand my sexual life cos of this circumcision ish, i broke up to let him have his way with other ladies if dat will make him happy

DaySpringer:
My Dear,

Maturity is a complex thing and in this life, one must know where he or she wants to be else he will end up being swayed by the tide of the society.

In this world, there are certain absolute truths that always prove themselves time and time again. Even if people's opinions disagree with them.

1. If you do no give him your virginity he will cheat on you.
Why is this true? because he has said it, and even though he said it is a joke, he only joked about it because it has crossed his mind before. He is a guy that has tasted sex and he has urges and lusts that he seeks to quench after all he is a guy.

2. There is love and there is mere infatuation, Love is seen in commitment and the decision to be loyal to someone after fully understanding them. Choosing to be with them in their good and bad times, even when the butterfly feelings are not there. Go to number 3 question below.

Now let me ask you a few questions.
1. How long have you been dating him?
2. Have you told him about being circumcised? If you haven't Why? Examine the reason as you are typing it for me.
3. Are you sure you really love this guy? or you're just loving the fact that you have a boyfriend?

tnx dear
now lemme ansa ur questions
1. av been dating him 4 more dan a year. we met last year August.
2. yes I have told him. I told him sometime early dis year buh he thought it doesn't really affect me (guess cos of my faked moans or something)
3. yes, I love him with my life.

pizzylee:
never lose ur virginity based on advice,do it wen u r ready...I don't think breaking up z a good idea if u love him dz much,he was being straight with u DTS y e told u all DT,I mean e cud av done it without telling u....but u r a girl now,find a way to cool his head just till wen u r ready,if u don't know any way talk to wise girls...... emphasis on wise

tnx dear

I love you. biggest lie

this topic tho. even without it making front page, it has 4 thousand plus views.
gosh! I just pray he's not among d ppu dat viewed it o