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Zizaboni:
Beautybaebee, what does it mean for a a lady to be circumcised..... How does that works pls explain??

go n browse abt it

lol

skywalker240:
Ok........., KID

u av been noticed na. haba! old fool.plz leave a KID's thread n go do ur work. u r too old to b here

skywalker240:
Kid, i wont take u serious cos you just want attention,by tellin lies yi This is what we do to liars

OK. no qualms. m not here for a fight or argument. check front. bye! tnx 4 stopping by

JerryTemi:
I will advice you to keep your legs crossed for now and am using myself as an example if I no what I no now I wouldn't have allowed anyone to touch me. sex has its consequences. good luck

tnx sis

gemale:
Try 2 experiment wt touching ur self . It seems u dnt play wt ur self so u dnt know wt excites u. Hv u try using ur fingers 2 play wt ur G spot b4? Try dt & 1ce u get d ryt strokes, teach ur guy hw 2 do it. Also oda parts shld b explored 2 know ur erogenous zones. Do it alone @ first den do it wt him. Also try & relax & forget dt circumcision thing. It's $€x nt advanced physics. Just try & focus on hw u find him attractive. If u r tense when he's touching u, just go on a break by offering 2 gv him head (no normal guy wld refuse dt; I hope u can do dt satisfactorily). His reaction wld gv u confidence 2 carry on & make u feel more powerful. Ur vag shld b d last place he shld touch, he shld hv caressed, kissed, sucked, bitten (gently o) & stroked every oda zone b4 heading dere. He shld focus on touching & kissing ur inner thighs & mons (groin) b4 finally playing wt ur vag lips (if it's still dere depending on d degree of circumcision u underwent). If it's nt present, he can go directly 2 sticking 1 finger (preferably d index) in dere & start slowly massaging ur walls. U shld hv bn long aroused & wet by den. Den he can start stroking ur g spot; he can try adding anoda finger (I doubt it wld enta because of ur virginity bt still try). Den u can let ur ring tone (which I tnk wld b real ds tym) dictate d pace @ which he shld stroke. If u r relaxed & he does it correctly, I assure u dt @ a point, u wld start begging 4 his D. He shld enta slowly & nt start thrusting immediately. Ds wld allow u get used 2 him. Then he shld start moving slowly @ first den little by little increase d speed until he finally releases. Heavy kissing & touching shld b going on throughout d process. D main thing u shld do is relax. $€x is a natural thing dt doesn't need complex thinking. Good luck.

tnx buh lyk I said, we do everything except SEX. blowjobs n all dat buh if he wants to put d real tin in, I will just feel weak n he would let me b

skywalker240:
How can a virgin fake moan,..dat kid contradicted herself

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gosh! illiterates everywhere. well, I understand myself, if u don't biliv it, go jump inside lagoon

Joe171:
This your write-up shows you know a lot about sex, and stop lying, you were not circumcised.

see dis 1 o. yes, I know a lot abh sex, am not an illiterate. av read alot so it's not until I do it dat I will know abt it. u mean to say wen u were a virgin, u Neva knew a tin abh sex? mtcheeew.
n yes, I was circumcised. I dint just wake up to form story. u are not my parents so shut d f*uck up

ladyshindharah:
well, I don't need to comment on that, u can question the NYSC who brought the link out!

that confirmation of payments link has been there since registration started. maybe u just got to know abt it.
sometimes even if u av made payment, it will still show lyk u av not made payment so d next tin to do is confirm d payment with ur transaction ID n ur good to go

ladyshindharah:
some people didn't pay for online printing of call up letters and they were able to print their green card..... ur payment didn't have effect on printing of green card...sis

lol. it has. if u wanna print it without payment, a msg of "You have to make payment first " will pop up.

ok. buh him visit don epp

if it wasn't successful, u couldn't have printed ur green card

lol. u forgot to mention d haters/fake friends who sit in a corner watching u wit one eye n counting how many likes u have on ur post

Hmmmmmm

Alhajipablo:
U r 19 years old and having sex is your major priority.Children of nowadays.

having sex is not n can never b my major priority. if u don't understand wat I wrote up there, kindly leave d thread

Zceesneh:
yup buh don't know whether she is a virgin, am 100% sure that she isn't one she relocated frrom lag to abia state, are u the one?

OK since u are 100%sure she's not a virgin, y tinking her to b me. Plz am not n don't knw of any Mary

Zceesneh:
mary so u are the one, so u have a boyfriend?

am not Mary plz

ZeeAfrica:
Somethings u said here give de impresion dat u r a bit too matured for yo age. B a child, and do things which ppl yo age do. A man shud be last thing in yo mind. Its a good thing to save yoself for marriage. And any guy worth yo virginity is de guy who wud have been patient enough and married u. Study, build yo life and stay good. Otherwise go beg him and sleep wit him

tnx buh m not a Child any longer, come January I will b 20yrs old. is it until I reach old age dat I should engage myself with a man.
yes, education is Paramount buh I don't have d money to further 4 now. May God provide.
I cnt beg him to sleep with me, plz stop being harsh

Zceesneh:
is ur name mary?

noo. y asking? u know of any Mary with same Problem?

tenk u all

Lovelynature:
Nawaoo! How does a virgin knows all these?
You know you are not going to enjoy the sex.
Like seriously? How do you know that miss virgin?
You fake moans. Are you fvcking kidding?
What do we call this version of virginity?
You aff spoilt miss v

u mean u cnt fake moans if u were to play d role in a Movie? must u b a sex expert b4 u can do dat?
yes I know I CNT enjoy Sex due to my condition

Raine80:
He did not notice you were circumcised? Or did he not get to see things down there? If you start with deception it's very difficult to be honest later on. Females feel pleasure inside as well as outside their privates. You will feel more from the inside but that is not an option for you. The problem here has been all this playing at sex with no actual sex , he is human. Men don't switch off and on like engines. If it's on it can stay on simply by thinking. You need to ask yourself what would happen if you get married and the guy finds out about your situation after the fact? It's not fair on him.

he knws buh he doesnt tink it affects me in anyway.

iamharkinwaley:
You said you love him, so why fight it? Besides there's nothing bad in losing your virginity at your age just give it to him and with time you guys will get to enjoy each other.......... And if you are scared of him using dump you, let go of him, wait for the guy you're sure will stay with you till Jesus come..

hmmmm. till Jesus comes?

nmreports:
I honestly appreciate your sanity and right thinking.
I totally understand the circumcision part too.
I have dated someone like that and I tell you this guy would bounce too because I'm guessing he is young.

While you think your circumcision can be a problem, remember love conquers.
Wait till you are married but try to marry early too if you can. Endeavor to tell the man you want to marry about it.

Trust me I have first hand experience and I don't want you to get to a point where this thing becomes a huge mental and sexual problem for you.

tnx soo much dear 4 dis advice, I appreciate. Yea, I promise to tell whoever am going to marry abt it

Benita27 and Judeefcc. plz u guys should not quarell o. I opened a thread for advice not a boxing ring.
thanks

judeefcc:
Let him go others will come, wait till you are ready to lose it then go into a reLationship

I always feel lyk am ready buh just @d last minute, I get scared

Justycxx:
corrupt mind, you can eat the cucumber with groundnut

lolz. I tot it's d other way round. d Miss Anambra type of Cucumber.
hahahaha!!! tnx 4 making me laf

2dice01:
mehn guys are trying

how? I don't understand

Justycxx:
Buy a cucumber

how can a virgin use cucumber? plz use ur brain

I don't know how to start buh lemme start anywhere sha.
Am 19 years old, a virgin. I started dating @ d age of 17. I left my first BF cos of sex issues.
I decided to stay single until am ready for sex buh I met anoda guy last year around August, he asked me out, i fell in love with him n we started dating. all through our relationship, we did every thing except sex. He doesn't complain actually lyk dat, he told me he loves me not becos of Sex, he can b patient with me till am ready.
So yesterday, I went to his place n after a while, he asked me "How long are we going to continue lyk this" (talking abt romance without sex). He told me all sort of things ranging from how much he loves me to how he might cheat on me n look elsewhere if I continue treating him lyk dis since "he sef b human being". I actually broke up yesterday cos of dat statement cos I cnt share my Man with anybody. Buh he later begged n said it was a joke, even @dat, I still broke up.
Seriously, I understand him, I feel for him, I would love to give him my virginity buh am scared of Sex. am circumcised n scared I won't enjoy it n he won't enjoy me too. I don't want to b used n dumped. (truth is, I don't always enjoy pre-intimacy, most times, I fake my Moans anytime we did it cos I don't want him to feel less of a man or see me as a stick)
Now,
Since yesterday, I cnt stop thinking abh him.
I love dis guy soo much n he has become a part of me. Dunno if I should just let him go or call him n tell him am sorry.
I always come here as a guest buh today, I joined dis forum cos of this issue.
Plz nairalanders, wat do u advise I do