shege45:
truly some ladies do not like protected sex.
you are right for not engaging in suchwhat i would advise you to do is for the both of you to go for a test together

that we will do next week. Thank you.

taurusmena1:
Young man? Do not be stupid. Do u wnt a child outsie wedlock? U hardly know her nd its obvious she wants to have a child as an excuse to pin you down. Are u ready for such responsibilities?if yes, do u need to jump in blind?

No go mumu urself

I don't want any child out of wedlock. But this lady assured me that if she gets pregnant she won't bother me for anything. She would take care of herself and the baby, unless I want to be involved. But she won't marry me.

chigoizie7:



It is very clear, all she needs is a baby from you.


You do not have to do anything if you are not ready to father a child yet.


Some of these women just want to live a life of a single mother.

she said if she gets pregnant that she won't bother me for anything, unless I want to get involved with the baby. However, that she won't get married to me.

foolbuster:


You have already taken her for medical checkup and you are still asking for advice.

I have not. But I plan to do that next week. Do you think I should abort the idea or still go ahead with it?

Goldensword:
She want to use style get your seed, may be she want to live a life of single mum. I can relate to such experience, mine was with a commercial sex worker self, and my very first sex worker encounter, the lady was all over me professing love to me, she even asked we go for medical test which she will sponsor herself, just last week Sunday, I got a text from her that she paid for a hotel, i should come over let see. Just tread carefully with any lady that insist on raw sex, they have agender my dear

What exactly do you mean by 'getting my seed'? this lady wears beads around her waist. I don't believe in fettish things, but right now I'm beginning to look at it from every possible angle.

Gaggi:
One of my greatest regrets is ever engaging in unprotected sex with chics I knew nothing about their health status. It happened with a couple of girls in my past, thankfully I never caught anything and never got anyone pregnant but I still regret my foolishness. You eyes go clear after you cum.
Please run from her if she doesn't like protection, there is nothing special about her that you would want to jeopardize your life for.

Thank you.

positivevibez:
That girl na winch o my guy run she don't even care if you are HIV + or not she is on a mission

really I was dumbfounded. I couldn't believe it. This lady does not even care to know my status yet she was insisting on raw sex. My fear now is, even if we go for and I confirm her health status, how do I guarantee she would demand raw sex from other people?

SBL28:
Free her, sex should not be that complicated. Unless you want to risk it all! But over what

True. Thank you.

SassyBella:
Do the medical test before anything

Thank you. I plan to do that next week.

Fountainofyouth:



It really beats me that a guy, at the climax of arousal and urge, would really not have the sex raw, no matter the consequences.

Lol, it wasn't easy but at that point I had to apply some seft discipline.

positivevibez:
Go for that test so that sorry will not be your name in the nearest future she is a reckless heaux

it really beat me how a lady would reject sex just because you want to use condom.

MJBOLT:

why do i have this funny feeling she wants to pin another man pregnancy on you


if you have unprotected sex with her,be ready to face whatever comes from it.

No, I haven't had unprotected sex with her. I'm really confused. I don't know if I should stop seeing her or just take her to a hospital for test then start having unprotected sex with her. But then again, how am I sure she isn't like that with other people.

Hello everyone.

So I met this girl through a mutual friend and we started bonding. Initially, I didn't take the friendship seriously because this lady is a little older than me and I do not see any future between us.

Now, things got more intense between us. She visited me one time, one thing leading to another, we were in bed, about to have sex and then I pulled out the condom but she refused, insisting that she doesn't enjoy sex with condom. I was very surprised to hear that, so I tried to make her see reasons why the condom is very necessary. She adamantly refused. We ended up not having the sex that day.

Just last week she visited again and we spent the night together. We tried to have sex again but the same issue came up again. She insisted I must not used condom. Now this got me upset. During the conversation that ensued, she made it very clear to me that she does not have any STD/STI so I should not be afraid. She however admitted that she was ovulating and that the chances of getting her pregnant was high, but that I should not worry that she'd take care of herself and the pregnancy, if it happens. She said that she would not force me to get involved with the baby if I don't want. However, she made very clear that she's not ready to get married. This got me confused.

I don't want to let my guards down by indulging in unprotected sex with someone I don't trust. I also do not want to hurt her feelings. So I plan to take her for medical tests next week and then we can kick it off from there.

What's your advise for me.

Thank you.