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RomanceRe: The Lies About Girls Not Liking Fair Guys. by Bendeco02:
Glowqueen3:
Am a dark skin girl and l like dark guys,yellow guy is a turn off,they are too entitled and very manipulative with no mind of their own,infact most light skin guys l have come across only brag about their look which they consider as their only achievement in life,they are always seeking validation and can't even hold an intelligent conversation. They believe the world revolves around them where as most of them are just average looking and they are bleachers.
How can someone be manipulative and also have no mind of his own same time?

Assume you are beautiful maybe some light skin dudes fit reason your matter. grin

By your write-up is like you're highly intimidated by them or they have shown you shege?
RomanceRe: The Lies About Girls Not Liking Fair Guys. by Bendeco02: 1:18pm On Nov 06, 2025
Originalsly:
Again ... it goes back to what was the attraction for that woman. Fair complexion period. It's no different from a tall White blonde guy with blue eyes and long flowing hair ..the "rock star" type of guy show up and be mingling. He would be mobbed by women. Most women would perceive him as a great guy because of the "White is good" mentality in many of our women. Same mentality goes for the "fair" guys. With expectations come disappointments. Fair guy ... dark guy ... there will be questions about the dark guy.... is he a womanizer? ... is he married? ... does he have a job? ... where does he live? ...is he in a cult? ... is he a yahoo boy? ....maybe a ritualist? .... does he want to use and dump me? ..... but none of these questions will surface for the fair guy ....because he is good. It is only for the fair guy to say yes ...and she opens body and soul for him. When reality strikes... blame the man ... fair guys are womanizers.
hmm grin grin
RomanceRe: The Lies About Girls Not Liking Fair Guys. by Bendeco02: 7:33am On Nov 06, 2025
jaxxy:
we are not talking about ajebo, regularly black house and regular fair guys. Girls will prefer darker guys, fair guys will only be picked by very dark girls but fairs girls won't want fair guys that will be sharing sunscreen with them. grin
It depends on what you sees as fair sha grin

Someone like Mike Tyson is still fair. Hope you're aware?

What most of you sees as fair are those that looks like half cast.

For some people that sees fair guys as soft.

Muhammed Ali is fair, Mike Tyson is fair, Anthony Joshua is fair. Why are they dominating their dark counterpart physically? grin
RomanceRe: The Lies About Girls Not Liking Fair Guys. by Bendeco02:
Originalsly:
Bro ... how can you argue with a woman about what a woman finds attractive in a man? How about what you find attractive in a man she doesn't? You living out rainbow vibes . Men and women are wired differently... especially when it comes to opposite sex attraction. Ninety percent of men may have five attractive qualities in a woman .... boobs ....yansh .. legs ... complexion ... personality ... that's it. For women ... it's like 50 attractive qualities minimum.... height... hair .. voice ... deeper the more attractive ... complexion ... hair on face or chest ... fashion sense ... ruggedness ... status ... wealth ...and I can write until tomorrow. Just don't be arguing with a woman on reason for her attraction ... it will make no sense to a man but fully supported by women. Again ...women are wired differently.
Na you know what you're saying

Majority of women that talk negative about fair guys had bad experience with them if you observed well.

When they talk you observe it.

For most of them to say that fair guys are player or womanizer and proud says it all.

Someone that is not attractive can't be a player and womanizer when you also claim they are mostly broke. What then attract women to them?

Enter Facebook and observe when a fair guy post picture compare the engagement to when a dark person post his picture as well. The fair guys followers/commenters are mostly women.

The same girl you're defending claimed that her boyfriend is fair. Why didn't she chose dark guy to date when dark guys are majority in the society? Not that dark guys are scarce or don't toast her
RomanceRe: The Lies About Girls Not Liking Fair Guys. by Bendeco02:
jaxxy:
Girls are usually fair skinned so they usually want darker skinned toned guys

2ndly fair guys are assumed to be more feminine than masculine unless he does more to look masculine.
Nigeria women are not naturally fair skin more

They bleach to be fair and they have that mentality that most fair guys bleach too.

They hate what they do grin. They bleach and they hate men that bleach. They have pride and believed fair guys have pride too

Without bleaching Over 70% of Nigerian women are chocolate and dark.

Only Fulani have more number of natural fair ladies.

Forget about musculine or not. The ones that says they like dark men only picture handsome dark guys in their head and only accept them. As average dark guy they will insult you to take good care of your skin and reject you without wasting time.

Even the handsome dark guys they follow are still soft looking guys that looks like ajebo not portable looking men grin
RomanceRe: The Lies About Girls Not Liking Fair Guys. by Bendeco02: 11:26pm On Nov 05, 2025
dreamxhaser:
You see! What you all fail to understand is, it’s more of a trend.



Few years back it was the fair guys. These days it the dark skin guys.

Millennial women prefer light-skin, while GenZ prefer dark-skin.

But what i have come to realize is if you ask women to show the light-skin or dark-skin guys they like, they will show you pictures of the most handsome among both.

So at the end, they just love handsome men, it’s just the trend that’s creates a serotype.
You have sense
RomanceRe: The Lies About Girls Not Liking Fair Guys. by Bendeco02:
jiggyman:
Yes oh! All the cucausian males are feminine! Thats how stupid your logic is
Don't mind some of these loud mouth guys grin

Fulani that are fair and skinny conquered Hausa and other dark tribes in the North

Today Fulani are still dealing with SW dark men.

Why are dark skin masculine African men can't stand Arab invaders even in the olden days when bow and arrow/matchet were used for war.

This is to show you that we african men don't reason logical.

Igbo have more light skin men than yoruba yet are more muscline, confident and dominant than them.

People that believed that dark guys are stronger never went to boarding school. All the guys that gave me tough time back then in the school when we did gang things were all fair.
RomanceRe: The Lies About Girls Not Liking Fair Guys. by Bendeco02: 9:17pm On Nov 05, 2025
SmartPolician:
A fair is more attractive than his black counterpart; it's not even up for a debate.

You have to really come close to dark people to notice their beauty, unlike fair people. Fair people glow from afar, unlike dark people who sometimes look stain..ed. cheesy

I have seen videos of really dark people visiting Asian countries and kids were trying to wash blackness off their skin. grin

There's nothing to celebrate about having a thick dark colour. grin If you fall into that category, make sure your spouse is a bit light-skinned. Stop reproducing mini-satans 😂
This guy funny grin grin
RomanceRe: The Lies About Girls Not Liking Fair Guys. by Bendeco02: 8:39pm On Nov 05, 2025
Cybertroll:
huh
Are you serious?
Madam this is camera shade.

Go and watch flavour videos. He is not fairer than wizkid.

Even between this flavour and Aseke who have more female fans or crush?
RomanceRe: The Lies About Girls Not Liking Fair Guys. by Bendeco02: 8:25pm On Nov 05, 2025
Cybertroll:
Your first sin was comparing Wizkid to Burna Boy. Wizkid isn't even fair, literally medium dark tone.

Fair is Tecno or Flavor undecided

I'm unbiased. My boyfriend is fair
So flavor is fairer than wizkid?

You have eye problem ni?
RomanceRe: The Lies About Girls Not Liking Fair Guys. by Bendeco02: 8:08pm On Nov 05, 2025
Shey, this is the asake? grin

RomanceRe: The Lies About Girls Not Liking Fair Guys. by Bendeco02: 8:00pm On Nov 05, 2025
Cybertroll:
That's the definition of fair? grin

Anyways have a blessed day!
Those ones look like half cast not fair
RomanceRe: The Lies About Girls Not Liking Fair Guys. by Bendeco02: 7:55pm On Nov 05, 2025
Cybertroll:
Your first sin was comparing Wizkid to Burna Boy. Wizkid isn't even fair, literally medium dark tone.

Fair is Tecno or Flavor undecided

I'm unbiased. My boyfriend is fair
Go and learn color first before you come to argue

You think being fair is looking like Ramsey Nouah?

You don't know what is fair abeg

Which one is medium? undecided
RomanceRe: The Lies About Girls Not Liking Fair Guys. by Bendeco02: 7:47pm On Nov 05, 2025
Cybertroll:
Wizkid is somewhat 'effeminate'. Burna is a bad boy. Two different aesthetics that most women find irresistible.

I'll choose Burna any way. Rema used to be my favorite, but he's obviously homosexual. undecided

So it's Burna, Asake, and Odumodu (because have you heard his damn voice?!) grin
Stop deceiving yourself.

You mentioned Burna Boy because you're dark and want to support dark skin.

I did not say that all girls will choose wizzy but majority.

Bad boy is not by muscle but by doings and cordination.

Most bad or play boys that women like are soft looking guys.

Even the dark guys women crush on are the soft looking ones not the gra gra or muscle type.

The asake you mentioned, do he look manly?. Person wey be like say na man he dey do
RomanceRe: The Lies About Girls Not Liking Fair Guys. by Bendeco02:
Diamond098454:
what....... Albino.......... This guy really hate me
I don't hate you dear.

For example; Wizkid is fair but his color is totally different from yours.

Drop wizkid and Burna Boy and ask your gender who they prefer more.

Even as Burna Boy is taller, majority will still pick wizkid.
RomanceRe: The Lies About Girls Not Liking Fair Guys. by Bendeco02:
Diamond098454:
I can't be fair and still date a fair guy no......
Me personally, I prefer dark skin guys hmmmmm they looks too handsome
Normally you escaped albino not fair, your hair color says it all, so dating or marrying fair guy will affect your off spring grin

Women are the ones that toast the fair guys that I know.

Women never held any meeting to conclude whether they like fair or dark.

In general, women like handsome men with neat skin, not fair or dark.
RomanceRe: The Lies About Girls Not Liking Fair Guys. by Bendeco02:
Cybertroll:
People have been tanning themselves for ages tho.
And you should say YOU love fair men. I prefer them medium to dark. grin
Not Africans but white/europeans

White are not fair, they are almost white in color grin
PoliticsRe: Seyi Makinde Is Not My Friend, We Are Political Associates - Wike by Bendeco02: 10:46pm On Nov 03, 2025
We know

Normally you don't have friend.

Even tinubu, you're just respecting him for now because he is the president.
PoliticsRe: How Nigerians Are Reacting To US Threat Of Military Incursion In Nigeria by Bendeco02: 11:46am On Nov 03, 2025
Jaynotifier:
The US should maintain their lane and refrain from invading another sovereign country. The best they should be talking of is giving support to the security agencies and not an outright invasion. They too have challenging issues within their country, will it be okay if Russia decides to invade the US to try and fix the issue? the best Russia can do is to offer assistance. There is no place the US has intervened that has ever remained the same, if they can offer support to our forces on ground, they should stay far away from us.
Cho Cho Cho

If they fail to maintain their lane what can you do?

Strong nation like Iran was dealt with it's you that don't manufacture your military weapon is making noise

If they give you gun can you even face bandits talk more of U.S military apart from running mouth online
PoliticsRe: CPC Blacklist: 12 Nigerian Governors, Other Officials May Face US Sanctions by Bendeco02: 8:19am On Nov 03, 2025
okuta007:
suddenly you want one Nigeria ?? you guys in the north are making me realize the need for Nigeria to divide - Lets go our separate ways for just 10 years and see who is really the liability in this contraption called Nigeria
He is Yoruba guy not northerner

They are the problem we have in South
PoliticsRe: CPC Blacklist: 12 Nigerian Governors, Other Officials May Face US Sanctions by Bendeco02: 8:09am On Nov 03, 2025
adioolayi:
Sharia constitution is subject to Nigeria's constitution.

Moreso, it's for those that are Muslims in the states that adopted it.

Mind you, I am not a Muslim, but I have been to Kano before..and I know non Muslims are not subjected to Sharia.

Like I admitted, there have been some reports of highhandedness....but, largely, Sharia courts doesn't have jurisdiction on non-Muslims...except you just want to lie
Keep shut oga

Are we supposed to have religious law different from the national law in a cellular nation?

So Christians states should apply their own law as well in each Christians states?

You say the law is meant for Muslims but they always attack and eliminate Christians over whatsapp chat and other petty things.

They destroys Christians business (alcohol) because it's against islam and you're here yarning dust.

Some of you South Westerners are something else
Foreign AffairsRe: 70 Americans Shot Dead Across The United States In The Past 72 Hours by Bendeco02:
So now, some of you tinubu/APC supporters will start to search for negative news in U.S to post undecided

No matter what happen in U.S, you can't compare it to Nigeria.

Do you know howmany people that has been wasted in Nigeria this year alone?

You're not in a war with any external nation yet over 200 of your people were eliminated in a single night @ Benue state. Such thing has never happened in Ukraine and Gaza combined.

The way some of you reason sha.

@ Op If they give you option to chose where to reside between U.S and Nigeria, can you chose Nigeria?

Some of you can't even travel to the rural areas of your state or enter the forest.

All your president do is to talk about 2027 election and how he will capture/win all regions.

Shey he was running mouth before talking tough to Trump, now he observed that the man is serious, he want to go and meet his VP not even him to plead and make peace.
BusinessRe: 24-Year-Old Innovator, John Onuigbo Nominated For The Future Awards Africa by Bendeco02: 6:56pm On Nov 02, 2025
Nice one

Congrats Onuigbo
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Burnley Vs Arsenal (0 - 2) On 1st November 2025 by Bendeco02: 5:58pm On Nov 01, 2025
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RomanceRe: I Caught My Girlfriend Cheating And Am Happy by Bendeco02: 1:31pm On Nov 01, 2025
Zonefree:
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She never loved you.

You caught her with her real boyfriend. As long as she's concerned, you're just a "means to an end".

The money you gave her to go see her father, she used it to take her real boyfriend out for enjoyment while you're busy taking photos.

You lose. Move on.
How do you know the guy he caught her with is her real boyfriend?

Most of these girls are not loyal to one man.

Even the guy he caught her with can't be her only boyfriend.

If you chat that kind girl now, she can hang out with you and run other things depending on your cordination.

Some of these hook-up girls are some guys serious babe grin
RomanceRe: Why Some Men Can’t Get Hard Anymore — Even When They’re Healthy by Bendeco02:
I dey watch porn but I don't have erection issue.

Once my babe touch or come close to me, my gbola stands like rod. I can com and gbola still stand.

Maybe say masturbation not watching porn.

Rubbing your hand on your dick frequently have effect and it's bad.
PoliticsRe: Peter Obi Knocks Yoruba Leaders Over Silence On Current Economic Hardship by Bendeco02: 8:57pm On Oct 30, 2025
Peter Obi said nothing but the truth and fact
RomanceRe: Try This With Your Woman And Know What You Are Dating (image) by Bendeco02: 6:37pm On Oct 30, 2025
Samantha125:
Using your Igbo on me I see.

What does that mean?
Better remove Igbo from your mouth

That's not Igbo language undecided
CrimeRe: Two Sisters Killed In South Africa For Rejecting A Man's Advances (video) by Bendeco02: 5:25pm On Oct 29, 2025
Some men sha

If you know you can't take rejection then stop approaching women

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