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PDP is a joke

Only wike now decides what happens in the party and at same time work for tinubu.

In Nigeria, being calm don't pay. If they like, they should not man up.

You're just calm with her

Those kind of girls deserve arrogant men.

Match her energy if you're to accept her back because she will keep getting you angry if you're calm with her

Juniorangel:
Am also from Onitsha and you just said it as it is most people don't know the real story behind Okwudili, am from the same village Umudei with him so I know him well enough
and that's not him there.

You're welcome bro

Am from Umuikem village

rinzaugustine:
That picture there is not derico I know . Derico was darker than charcoal

Yeah that man is Okpompi one of the Bakkasi commander not Derico

This guy matter never rest ni

This guy is dead since 2001 but his rugged history lives.

Till date i still see his story on facebook

But the contents/story contains some false information.

Derico is from Onitsha not aguleri.

His name is Okwudili Ndiwe

The pic above is Okpompi one of the Bakkasi commander not him. Derico is darker than the man above.

He used part of Umuleri/Aguleri as hide out but he is from Onitsha.

Am from Onitsha too, so i know about him.

Derico fought for Aguleri against Umuleri back then.

That's when Onitsha still hot, but now many strong guys are no more.

Hemanwel:
The SE that was ones the most peaceful region in Nigeria has now become the headquarters of all forms of crimes.

This can happen anywhere

Forget somethings you read online. If you move to east, you will have more peace of mind.

If you enter SE, everywhere is densely populated to show you that it's still secured.

If East is not secure, tell me where is better. Is it NW, NC that heardsmen kill as they want or SW that can't secure their land even with their presidency.

@ least if an arm robber jam you in the east, you know they want money and not your life.

Most of the people that always publish only negative news concerning the East are yoruba people and that's political. Same people that can't secure Kwara state their land from new terrorist group.

That's why even with their propaganda when statistics about peaceful region drops, SE still rank among the most peaceful region

Woman is better than this man

I prefer to deal with a woman than this basket mouth.

womaniser:
We work in the same company but she is upper management although quite young. I'm older than she is.

Ever since we met, we always hang out, go to concerts, restaurant outings and wine tastings etc. We (just both of us) have ended the night in her house on multiple occasions where she makes dinner, and we eat,drink and gist till late into the night. I don't sleep over. She is very free, clutchy but we don't do any romance only hugs etc

But once we're in the office or enroute and we jam, she won't even make eye contact not to talk of greeting. She would stand right to me and talk to other people, when she returns to her office, she then chats in teams or WhatsApp. Annoying!

She's a fun person tbh. Smart, exciting, rich and independent. I'm thinking of cutting her off totally but who knows, she may of help in the future. It's just confusing

Is either the lady is a discipline woman that like to take her office serious or she just friendzoned you and don't want others to think both of you have something in common.

Chimookigwe:
Igwe of Nnewi is not as powerful as Obi Cubana not to talk of Obi of Onitsha.

Don't mind the funny guy

They believe and argue things out of sentiment

sexyking1:
From what you are saying, it is definitely fact that you are not from Anambra state or maybe an Igbo. In the cultural dynasty of Anambra state as it is structured, obi of onitsha is not mostly regarded as a reverend igwe in that state. His infulencial no doubt, but when kings with great cultural value is talking, he wouldn't dare to speak.
Igwe nwafor orizu is in the category of Eze Nri, Igwe osita agwuna na Enugwu ukwu (Late), Eze amosu na Mbaukwu, Uzu awka, etc. Orizu is a living ancestor and can't be compared to a political king of onitsha. Mind you, most of this kings like Osita agwuna Na Enugwu ukwu had more opportunity to make himself a political king, but he followed the odinala and rejected the white man's lobby.

Read what you just typed and ask yourself if you made sense.

Apart from Nri and Obi, howmany other monarch existed in the east before the wihite came?

You can believe anything you chose but fact remain unchanged

emapeteum:
Not true, my brother. The Obi of Onitsha is the most powerful Igbo king, even recognised by both the colonial and Nigerian governments.

You even have strength to reply that guy

See his point sef

kaltonga:
Once again, most of you here are just talking like kids, who is the Obi of Onitsha when Igwe Orizu is talking, my dear am not from Anambara but I can tell you that we IGBOS recognize Igwe NRI, Igwe Nwafir Orizu, Igwe EZE uzor Awaka then that Obi you call.
Obi of Onitsha is an arrangement of Zik and the Nigerian government but the Ogbo traditional settings this are the monarchs, you can argue with your village people oo

Oga you're yarning dust and still do that boldly.

Why are you emotional?

No.1 Monarch system in the East is Obi of Onitsha.

If you have issue with Onitsha that your personal problem and it can't change the fact.

Apart from Nri, most of these kings you mentioned don't exist before the white came to Nigeria. White recorgnized Onitsha monarch when they arrived.

Have you seen where Eastern Kings gathered and observed their leader?. If the president or so want to visit East and see traditional leader, Obi of Onitsha is who they know.

Who knows igwe orizu outside Nnewi?

Villagesquare:
Nnewi doesn't joke with their monarch he is the most revered monarch in Anambra

What did you just say?

You guys will just come online to yarn carelessly

When we talk of respected or most regarded Monarch in the East not only Anambra, that's Obi of Onitsha.

Monarch is not Nnewi thing. You can just talk of business/trade. For traditon, leave it for Anambra North and Awka

pocohantas:
And that is what matters. Focus on her.👋

Okay

pocohantas:
Use this energy to convince yout wife. If she were any happier than I am, trust me, you won't type this epistle to sell a concept to me.

Lol

Not married but preparing.

My babe don't do gra gra. She knows what i hate or dislike.

pocohantas:
It is not about if I like it. It is about what I can accept or take. I understand if this is what applies to your parents marriage and yours, but it is not what I grew seeing with my parents. It is also not a view Mine conforms to _thanks to his parents marriage too. So let's all do what we want and be happy. Thank you

My parents are happily together till date. But that doesn't change the fact.

Remove emotions from your eyes and see reality. Enter dating groups and see women looking for any man available to marry, they don't apply spec again.

Women of old generation have brain to understand life, they respect men and know the value of men unlike what we have now. Women of this generation do gra gra alot and at the end they turn to feminist with bitter mind bashing men.

No matter what you chose to believe, you don't chose or go for men instead men chose and you only accept or decline. You can't marry a handsome billionaire because that's your spec instead the billionair have to see you attractive and well mannered enough before he approach you. Am talking of marriage not dating

pocohantas:
It is not just about making money, you have to be ready to marry. If a 26yo financially stable lady is ready to marry, is her 26yo male version ready? There is also responsibilities. I had a colleague who wanted to train his younger brothers through uni before marrying. He was already 29 at the time and the last brother was just in 100L. By the time he is done, he might be like 35.

I do not buy the concept of anyone being the prize, whether he has money or not. It stems from a superiority complex that you can do anything, put in less work and get away with it. I wouldn't be with a man who thinks he is the "prize".

Men are the prize, whether you like it or not

Shey you have seen dwarf men get married to normal woman. Have you seen the other way round?

Any man that is not married till old age chose not to marry, that's the fact.

Marriage matters to women more. What most men need is children and it can be achieved via baby mama things.

Women can do shakara to chose men they date but when it's time to settle down that's when they understand that men are the prize. All the men chasing same girl will all disappear.

Most men are just after sex not marriage, know that and know peace

Any man hiding his age does that because he is yet to achieve something at that age not because of women or getting a partner.

If you're doing well for yourself, you don't have to lie or reduce your age.

Even if you are 50 years and have a house/car, women will still rush you.

The poster don't know what he is saying

Any man that hide his age does that because he is yet to achieve something equal to his age not because of women or relationship. That's the difference between men and women.

My oga at office just got married last year december at 52 years and that's his first marriage. The girl he married just finished serving in the company.

If you're doing well as a man, age can't be problem for you to get a partner. If one woman rejects you because of your age, their are hundreds of women in that same town willing to marry you.

And so?


We will not still vote for him come 2027

Let him contest for House of Rep first

Livelystone01:
Who told you guys Jonathan wants to run?

Whether jonathan or another southerner, especially from SS or SW it will affect tinubu votes assume things are normal

Assume our votes will count in 2027

Then APC willl be heavily affected by PDP zoning their ticket to South.

If Atiku/Obi contest under ADC and clear NE, NW and SE. They supposed share SS & NC with jonathan and tinubu if our vote should count. Tinubu supposed have the least vote from SS & NC if things are done the right way.

We know how APC expects to win come 2027. But it may not be normal game as usual because no candidate will go to court again. If North and SE/SS team up and protest against tinubu it will shake the nation.

helinues:
How did Nigeria make the list and what are we disliked for?

Is this a question?

Nigerians are disliked for fraud, especially internet fraud.

You know howmany europeans and americans Nigerians have wrecked so far?

And civil servants has been receiving same salary from Buharis tenure till date that Naira value is ×3 worthless

No issue on that

White women also openly say they prefer black guys over white guys.

Howmany black girls are even hyping white men compared the way their white women hype Africans especially Nigerian guys

We must not lament over everything abeg

Last month or so a video trended on tiktok where russian girls are hyping Nigerian men, calling them sexy.

When we insult white men and call them small dick, we don't see them cry or lament. We blacks are the main racist just that we don't have the suphiscated weapons to dominate.

Even American blacks are complaining of fellow black women chosing white guys over them recently. The world rotates, everything now is not about sex. Before, black Americans mock white men now they are lamenting

Made up story for views and likes

Only low IQ person can believe this

Of all the place but inside keke. Lesbians know where and how they get their partners

Just like a gay man asking his fellow man out in public

sheddo619:
It's possible,let me shock you
Alot of people in lagos spend those hours everyday in traffic while going to work.

Lagos is not big compared to Abuja just that it has a lot of traffic.

Abuja roads/express are always free and wide yet you will spend @ least 2hrs from kaduna to Abuja city

OneCandleAway:
Mmm
Going to work in Abuja daily from kaduna. I've never heard of that one. I know of people going from suleja, keffi, to Abuja daily but isn't kaduna too far for a Monday to Friday work schedule.

Don't mind the Op to be yarning dust

Even people staying outskirts at town like Zuba, gwagwalada e.t.c can feel the stress going to work from those locations talk more of Kaduna.

Assume Abuja city is located near the boundary of Kaduna it would have been better.

Spending like 2hrs 30min every day to get to abuja and another 2 hours to return home. Will the person have strength again to go work the next day.

Most Offices are located at Maitama and Central Area, that's far from kaduna.

Starz825:
You get...

As handsomeness no dey pay bills


I think the op is somewhat right...he stated the obvious tho

This is the summary...


As you get older into your thirties...

You already entering into full adulthood....

Your fine boy/girl...bad boy/girl stuffs... isn't the most important anymore...


What you're bringing to the table...is all that matters .. to your romantic partner


Unlike back in school days when you were so young...no responsibilities... nothing....just the looks and small English speaking skills will do..


And this goes to both gender....as a lady sef...Most men no wan marry 30 yr old liability again.....what are you bringing to table....no be sheybi I am fine na...

No be your beauty go help take care of me and the kids ...

Op is saying you have to be more than just your look at that age 30+..you got to have substance that stands out before anyone can notice you.... especially for a man

That's the point some of them fails to understand.

What attracts women more once you're mature as a man is your status/power. You're no more a secondary or univeristy school boy that still do fine boy things.

Once a girl is mature, her aim is to get a financially stable partner.

That's why your uni school girlfriend will leave you once you guys graduate and marry older men that are less attractive/fit but financially stable.

Snoring na

At least it will be only in the night i will experience it.

I can leave the bed room for you and sleep in the sitting room.

For mouth odour or body odour, that's very bad. People will be avoidung getting close to the person. And they will gossip behind you

Kobojunkie:
1. Stop spreading false information.



2. Story for the Nigerian gods whose weed you guys continue to smoke! 🙄🙄🙄

Drop the source of your statistics