MARRY YOUR BEST FRIEND
True love is first evolutionary, before it is revolutionary. Revolutionary love is the kind that takes your world by storm, sweeps you off your feet and turns your world right side up or upside down. When most of us claim we are looking for love, this romanticelixir is what we are yearning for.

The truth however is that even if you find revolutionary love, it seldom lasts, because it isn’t practically sustainable. What most of us fail to realize is that, the Hollywooddirectors, actors and romantic writers who have so publicized revolutionary love, won’t be struggling with their relationships, if they really understood what love was all about



The practical alternative to revolutionary love, is evolutionary love. This is the cool,calm, collected,procedural and gradual realization of your affection for someone, most likely a friend, that has being in your life all along. The reason why this works is because it is built on F-R-I-E-N-D-S-H-I-P.
Friendship not showmanship is the most realistic foundation for lasting love. Everything else is a farce. Unfortunately most of us turn down the opportunity to develop intimate love with our best friends, because we are blinded by overfamiliarity.

I am fully persuaded that one of the main reasons for marital delays is because people tend to ignore the evolutionary love within their grasp, in search of the revolutionary love beyond their grasp. How unfortunate this is! Notice I am not against revolutionary love in the least sense, all I am saying is that evolutionary love comes first. The only revolutionary love that lasts is the one that is built on the solid foundation of evolutionary love.


Why is friendship crucial to the evolution of your love life

FREINDSHIP IS PERFECT ENVIRONMENT FOR AUTHENCITY.

We all know that it doesn’t take any effortto be yourself around your friends. The pressure to pretend isn’t present in the best of friendships. You seldom have to impress your friends, you’re just you around them. If you’re broke, angry or depressed, you won’t need to hide it from your friends. I am persuaded that this lack of authenticity is why many relationships fail. The desire and pressure to impress our lovers can be one of the most emotionally draining activities in love. You won’t have to do this, if you will simply settle for your friend.



A TRUE FRIEND ALWAYS HAS YOUR BEST INTEREST AT HEART

This is one of the greatest antidotes to selfishness. When you settle for your friend in love, such a person would already have developed the habit over the years of acting in your best interest and habits die hard.Selfishness therefore can’t come natural to them, because they’ve spent most of their lives watching out for you and they are least likely to stop now that you’ve become their lover.



FRIENDSHIP ELIMATES THE ISSUE OF PROBABILITY IN YOUR PARTNERS PERSONALITY.

In other words you aren’t guessing who they are, you know who they are. When I was younger, marriage counsellors would warn me that, you don’t really know a person until you marry them. I always found that very disturbing. You mean I had to be guessing who my wife will be, and wait until marriage to discover who she really was?

That is senseless! What if she turns out to be the wrong person in marriage? Wouldn’t discovering her true nature after marriage mean I would be trapped with the wrong person for the rest of my life? So I married my best friend and discovered the marriage counsellors were dead wrong. There is nothing my wife is today, that she wasn’t when she was my friend. I can almost hear someone shout” but people change”. Well, not when you’ve been their best friend for over 15years.

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THE MASTER PLANNER
(Life As A Virgin)
=Based On A True Life Story.
Written by; Franklyn Peperena.
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......Episode 1 AND 2....
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My names are Queen Chioma OLISA, and i hail from Anambra state. i am 28 years old, a final year student of Mass communication department in UNIZIK... I was born and brought up in Lagos but spend most parts of my education in Anambra state. Initially, i never wanted to further my education because of lack of financial funds in my family but to God be the glory, i started work at a boutique and my boss was a kind-loving woman. she encouraged me to write Jamb exams which i did and had a good result, she was happy about my result but i wasn't happy...Why??
Because there was no money to further my education but my boss promised to see me through. Oh how happy i was, things went smoothly and before i knew what was happening; I was a student at UNIZIK(Awka, Anambra state)...My parents were so happy, its like we have won a lotto or something, our joy knew no bound.
After making the necessary payments and other relevant school documents, i was finally a student. At first, thing were going smooth until one day i met a girl in my hostel, she is really hot and every man's dream. I admired her if the truth must be told, she was a 200 level student of business administration, She approached me and the following conversation ensued;
Girl: "Hi, are you new here"?
Queen: "Yes, why do you ask"?
Girl: "Just that your face looks familiar. by the way, am Tonia and you are"?
Queen: "Chioma...Just call me queen"
.....After discussing for close to an hour, we were really into each other, sharing vital information until Tonia fired a question at me!!!!
Tonia: "Are you a Virgin"?
THE MASTER PLANNER
(Life As A Virgin)
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Tonia: "Hello, did i say something wrong. You look lost"
Queen: "Don't mind me, i only remembered something"
Tonia: "And what do you remember?"
Queen: "Never mind...its not important"
Tonia: "If you insist...So back to my question, are you really a virgin?"
...I gave her a long stare, probably trying to figure out what to say to her. Oh how i hate such question, its kinda embarrassing. And moreover we just met so she can't just ask me such question!!!
But nevertheless, she seems to be a nice person, jovial and chatty as well. There is no need hiding it from her, its not like i was probably gonna win a trophy for being a VIRGIN, guess i have to split it out...
"If i tell you, will you believe me"...I said to her
"Of course yes, what are friends for, although we just met but i believe i have known you all my life"
"Alright, i will tell you"
"Am listening"...Said Tonia
...I guess i have no choice than to tell her, who knows, she might be a virgin too!
"Well, uhm, well, (I was beginning to scratch my head, trying to figure out what to say to Tonia)
"Well what"...Tonia cuts in
"Alright...i am a virgin and i have never lay with any man"
"You are joking right"...Said Tonia
"No am not...seriously, i have never lay with any man and i kinda find it strange"
"Indeed, its very strange...how old are you Queen?"
"Why do you ask?"...I replied her
"Just tell me please"
"Am 24"...I replied her
"24...do you mean 2 and 4, as in 24years. Wow, and you are still a virgin. I can't believe it"
"You better believe it...Being a virgin is not a new thing so i wonder why you are surprised"...
"Am surprised because in this era you hardly find a virgin of your age"...Said Tonia
"If you say so! So tell me, are you a VIRGIN?"...I asked her, directing my gaze towards her.
....She was speechless, trying to figure out the next thing to say, i noticed that she was restless, it was like something had erupted inside her.
"If you don't want to answer my question, just leave it, its not important anyway"
"I will answer your question"...Tonia finally utter a word
"So?"...i replied her
"I was raped, its a long story"
"You were raped, how? Why?"
"I will tell you everything"...
# To_Be_Continued

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