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CrimeRe: COZA: Court Dismisses Pastor Fatoyinbo Rape Case Filed By Busola by beresponsible(m): 2:34pm On Nov 14, 2019
After judging your case on social media courts of public opinion this is the real court judgment that matters . Gavel down, case closed, pay pastor N1m. Oya let's move on.

Or abi you wan appeal?
CelebritiesRe: Nigerians React As Tacha Spells NYSC Corper As Copper On Twitter by beresponsible(m): 2:30pm On Nov 14, 2019
You no need English to make money in Nigeria
PoliticsRe: A Boy Sleeping On A Pile Of Dirt In The North. Photo Goes Viral by beresponsible(m):
Arrange your country first instead of travelling all over, signing white elephant contracts with people who have already arranged their countries whereas in your country, the common man is sleeping next to the gutter .

Christianity EtcRe: Nigerian Pastor Arrested For Preaching Without Permit In Kenya (photo) by beresponsible(m): 6:01am On Nov 14, 2019
Exporting your lawlessness
RomanceRe: Pretty Mike Talks About Seeing Symbas Erothick’s Ass In Person (photos) by beresponsible(m): 5:50am On Nov 14, 2019
Ogbeni see cheeks

PoliticsRe: PDP Ignores Court Order, Holds Election In Lagos by beresponsible(m): 5:44am On Nov 14, 2019
Let pdp form their own coalition. The longer they remain opposition, the slimmer the chances of coming back. Money is running out and apc is getting more and more comfortable
CelebritiesRe: Davido Throws Lil Frosh Fake Watch Into The Sea And Promises Him A New Rolex by beresponsible(m): 3:14pm On Nov 13, 2019
Wetin dey happen sef? Davido buy this, Davido dash this, Davido throway this, Davido sex this or no pregnant this, Davido arrests some girls, Davido born pikin, Davido name pikin, Davido receive 1 goat from 1 guy so, Davido sing this, while writing this Davido just surprise some people for Dubai, abeg person help.

And all these na this week oh
SportsRe: ‘messi Is The Greatest Footballer Of All Time’- Premier League Star Says by beresponsible(m): 9:44am On Nov 13, 2019
Mad man talking. Even Messi know

PoliticsRe: Will Another Governor Continue With Wike's Real Madrid Project? by beresponsible(m): 9:38am On Nov 13, 2019
Of course abandon that crap. How many rivers state indigenes play for Real Madrid or even in their academy. Go to rivers not pH and see what billions will do for the the people, i bet you it's not real Madrid academy that will change their lives
Christianity EtcRe: Do We Have Igbo Muslims Here??? by beresponsible(m):
Yes and I islamised because of the uniqueness in prayer and worship in the Islamic faith.
I spent 30 yrs looking for spirituality in its pure form, ability to adore and beseech God directly one on one and always ask for forgiveness without any intercessor.
Born, baptised and confirmed Catholic boarding school youth. My problem with Catholicism was too many coded messages/parables and all knowledge rests with know it all priests.
Tried protestantism and evangelicalism, problem was too many denominations with different messages compounded by following varied men of God; political, occult, business pastors and thus confusion in my spiritual direction.
My Islamisation was unintended while working for the UN in Khartoum.
Brief. Having been posted from the US, I was a true womaniser (2 abandoned kids by 2 baby mamas) and confirmed a drunk (1btl hennessy alone type).
Being Christians in an Islamic country we were confined to the Hilton hotel (only place allowed to serve alcoholic drinks and hookers) in Khartoum, Sudan.
I became good friends with a Libyan family living Khartoum bariq and soon was regularly invited to leave the hotel and spend time with them at their home.
At the beginning, I accepted these visits outside the hotel with expectations of more freedom to groove late nights and stay away from my inquisitive colleagues in the confined hotel.
But my interaction with these practising (emphasis) Muslims daily completely exposed my wayward lifestyle and peaked my interest in the islamic way of life. A
Firstly I was fascinated by their adherence to prayers 5 times a day no matter what they were doing and also the whole family and their friends exhibited some kind of strange selfless kindness towards me (a traveller). I started noticing the homogeneity in the faith, everybody globally recites prayers in the same language, face the same direction during prayers at the same time (locally) and the most particularly was no interpretation of the holy Quran thus no intercessors, pastors, priests, deacon, elder, no hierarchy just humility towards God. I noticed that there were no thrones in their prayer grounds, everybody from kings, presidents or dignitaries sat on the floor during prayers.
I was told a good Muslim must adhere to the 5 pillars of Islam; Faith, Prayer , Charity , Fasting (30 days/yr ramadan) and Pilgrimage to Mecca (once in a lifetime). As a Christian i could do most of the above requisites so no drastic changes in my life if I became a Muslim except for the obvious abstinence from all the booze and chicks, this was a life changing moment and so I decided to become a Muslim, performed the Shahadah at the central mosque in Khartoum bariq.
I received a gift of the Holy quran in English from my friend and immediately started reading, my initial shock was the clarity, like reading prose, no secrets, no coded messages to be decoded, interpreted nor preached to me by some supposedly wiser person as it is done with the Holy bible. From the very first verse the Holy quran recites " This is a perfect book; there is no doubt in it; it is a guidance for the righteous... Who believe in the unseen and observe prayer, and spend out of what we have provided for them" (al baqarah 3-4). Just a straightforward guide of God's recommendations on how to live with unbridled faith, fervent prayers, selfless charity and even the intricacies of who and how to marry, how to divorce, dowry payments, how to write your will, how to do contracts, how to speak in public, women how to dress in the company of family or in public. This is the real guidance I had been searching for and I was immediately hooked. I memorised few prayers so I could pray alone and I was desperate to ask for forgiveness for the life i had lived. I stopped drinking and chasing women and practised sincerely to myself. My first ramadan fasting came along and I was in Ndjamena, Chad for another assignment and that was a blissful period that culminated this experience.
On a flight back to Nigeria i was sitting next to my igbo brother and listening to the quran recitations on my headphones. His question to me was " why you dey listen to those mad people music?" so he sparked this conversation and i replied " bros it's just faith like yours, not attached to any particular tribe (Hausa nor Yoruba), babariga clothing, nor beard..a Muslim will never be a suicide bomber, terrorist nor any of those ignorant things some engaged in, if you kill another, rape, kidnap, womanise, drink alcohol you are not a Muslim...Al qaeda, boko haram, isis of the world are not even connected to the islamic faith...forget the Allahu akbar they keep shouting...if you are a practising Muslim with knowledge of what you are reciting you will never ever commit those acts..you won't even hate because hatred or all the other vices are all contrary behavior for those who want paradise in Islam ".
Back home the difficulty was explaining to my family and the village people what this was all about. It took time for some to respect the difference but after some years of thorough introspection my family just commended the changes in the life of their child. No more mischievous behaviours, excessive drinking, outlandish behaviour, smoking, and no women drama. I became prayerful, thoughtful and selfless and a complete different and better human being. With my Christian majority family, I don't rub it in, no changes in dressing or hair/beard, i don't announce prayer times i just sneak away to my privacy five times a day. I still pray with family, accompany my mom sometimes to her big occasions in the Anglican church and nowadays there's better understanding that Islam is just another faith.
I believe that when one comes of age after life experiences and different understandings there should be an internal reflection on one's own spiritual direction and preparedness for what comes after this life on earth. I hear when people wrongfully say i was born a christian or muslim, we are all born human beings and then we follow our parents or we create our own path.
In all this, I don't know if I am right but the difference in my story is i have taken control of my spiritual life from human intercessors because I will be standing alone on that judgement day and no pastor nor priest will intervene on my behalf. I am chartering this life's voyage and searching for that eternal salvation in the islamic way and it is has been a splendid success.
Sorry i couldn't keep it brief but here's 's my experience and am Delta igbo from Iguachuku

PoliticsRe: Confusion In Oyo: APC, PDP Claim Victory In Appeal Court Judgment by beresponsible(m): 1:46pm On Nov 12, 2019
Confusion in the whole nation
PoliticsRe: Arewa Youths To Osinbajo: Fight Back Or Resign by beresponsible(m): 1:45pm On Nov 12, 2019
Fight back what? The man is enjoying the vice presidency.
Don't take panadol for another man's headache
PoliticsRe: Indimi Slams Reno Omokri Over Comment On Otedola Donating 5bn For Charity by beresponsible(m): 6:20pm On Nov 11, 2019
Sharrap there. Your father is busy donating to foreign universities while the one in your village is 60% under construction . Daft

PoliticsRe: Appeal Court Nullifies Oyo Governor Makinde’s Election by beresponsible(m): 6:12pm On Nov 11, 2019
Too bad. He just made his wife head of AIDs agency.
PoliticsRe: Maina Is Kept In A Dilapidated Cell In Kuje Prison – Family Raises Alarm by beresponsible(m): 6:09pm On Nov 11, 2019
Craze. After looting N2 billion he has mind to complain. Send this fool here

PoliticsRe: Man Melt Heart After Taking Photo With His Mad-father. Photo by beresponsible(m): 3:08pm On Nov 11, 2019
Correct guy
CelebritiesRe: MAD MONEY! See The 55 Million Naira Wrist Watch Davido Just Bought (photos) by beresponsible(m): 6:30am On Nov 11, 2019
Eat sh*t. Omo Osun

CelebritiesRe: Davido Acquires £119K (n55m) Richard Mille Watch [photo] by beresponsible(m):
Who this watch epp? This one for you and Chioma so keep it to yourself my friend. Osun is flooded and your people are dying. Donate them 55 million naira and change lives. We dey hear Adeleke billionaire only during elections.

CelebritiesRe: Femi Otedola Donates 5 Billion Naira To Cuppy Foundation (save The Children) by beresponsible(m): 5:49am On Nov 11, 2019
God bless you Femi. If only Cuppy go save children and not save some Gucci, Prada, ice box, Bentley, Rolls Royce, footballers, boxers, music manager and some banana island niggas because na there her head dey
CrimeRe: Nigerian Border Closure: Bag Of Rice Hidden Inside A Bag Of Chillies by beresponsible(m): 5:44am On Nov 11, 2019
50kg pepper. Custom bow. Soon we go dig tunnels from Cotonou to Lagos and another El Chapo will emerge
CrimeRe: Customs Uncovers “sack Of Rice” Hidden Inside Bag Of Pepper (video) by beresponsible(m): 5:40am On Nov 11, 2019
Making Nigeria Great Again (MNGA) for Nigerians by Nigerians
CelebritiesRe: Meet Instagram Model Jaye,who Claims Her Backside Is Natural, Is It? (photos) by beresponsible(m): 5:33am On Nov 11, 2019
All natural. Just a big ass.
RomanceRe: After inserting semen into her from a used condom, she bore a son Nd won million by beresponsible(m): 5:26am On Nov 11, 2019
Sharp babe. Only in Vegas. That's why it's the sin city
Nairaland GeneralRe: President Buhari Visits Archbishop Of Canterbury. by beresponsible(m): 7:08pm On Nov 10, 2019
Forget this foreigner. Liverpool dey beat man city abeg make man hear word
CrimeRe: This America Scam Scheme Is Now In Lagos. Please Be Careful by beresponsible(m): 11:58am On Nov 10, 2019
Deterrence message to a normal ear, opportunity to a guy man's ears. This is Nigeria
CelebritiesRe: Regina Daniels All Loved-up As She Wears Brazilian Hair Worth N125k by beresponsible(m): 11:46am On Nov 10, 2019
Market survey for Reginald Daniels wig

RomanceRe: A Beautiful Sex Worker Highlights Her Achievements At 22 (Photos) by beresponsible(m): 11:43am On Nov 10, 2019
We hear. You are an educated sex prostitute
FamilyRe: The Poor People In Nigeria Are A Terrible Lot- Nigerian Lady Says, Gives Reasons by beresponsible(m): 11:37am On Nov 10, 2019
How you think poor people with good heart feel?
CelebritiesRe: The Look On Chioma's Face After She Caught Davido Drinking Alcohol (photo) by beresponsible(m): 11:15am On Nov 10, 2019
Na today? Davido has been drinking since the time of king David
Christianity EtcRe: Bishop Claude Berkley Apologizes Over Bikini Fashion Show In Trinidad Church by beresponsible(m): 12:49am On Nov 10, 2019
After enjoying the show

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