₦airaland Forum

I dont think the poster was tribe/ethnic group specific in his post. Why are people so insultive on nairaland? I think your message can be passed across to the OP without trying to proove you'v got a better command of insults.

Who cares really? Yoruba, Igbo, Hausa, Urhobo, Ijaw, Efik, Ibibio and all the other 200 smthn tribes, the international community will see us as one nationality only "NIGERIANS!"

Sometimes, a man cheating does not mean that he has no integrity. He might have married the wrong person due to circumstances beyond his control and remained faithful for a while only to meet his soulmate whom he does not cheat on.

It will surprise you to know that there are a lot of marriages where intimacy is a thing of the past. The man has a woman outside whom he considers his wife. Due to social standing, family etc, the man cannot divorce his wife.

BTW, all men are guilty of cheating because the mere thought of it, i.e lusting after a woman in your mind is cheating. God will see it as adultry, because He is a God that reads the heart.

Any man that has never lusted after another woman other than his wife should please speak up.

I meant to say the sperm and not the "fluid" is killed. sorry.

I think abortion could be called murder depending on the stage of pregnancy.

If a pregnancy is 2 weeks old, an ultra-sound cannot make out the foetus let alone hear the heatbeat. The only evidence of pregnancy would be the blood test.

There is a drug ladies take if they suspect they are 2 weeks pregnant without even going to a specialist (cant remember the name now, but it starts with a G.) All that happens here is that the foetus is flushed out in the form of blood. Is this murder?

From 4 weeks upwards, the foetus begins to develop. I think it is safe to categorize this as murder because there is actually a heartbeat at this stage.

Judging from all I have read here on NL today, I would say that taking birth control pills is murder because in this scenario, the sperm is killed which makes the unfertilised egg to come out in form of the menstural cycle, hence killing the egg as well.

Im open to corrections and not insults. Thank you.

olas2u:
We are Nigerians madam,we are cultured people.And he already engaged her.That should tell you more

Im sure you can see from d postings above mine that the OP is a perv as well, which just goes to proove my theory. We should not be so fast to shoot people.

olas2u:
We are Nigerians madam,we are cultured people.And he already engaged her.That should tell you more

Im sure you can see from d postings above mine that the OP is a perv as well, which just goes to proove my theory. We should not be so fast to shoot people.

Not like im supporting what she did, but in all honesty, I think internet sex is quite common amongst girls. In more developed countries, some gurls make a living out of phone intimacy but still carry on with their normal lives and relationships.

Like you'v been advised, confront her. I think almost everyone is perverted in someway. A lot of pps have dirty secrets, its just that "na whom dem catch nai b thief" Im sure if you are true to yourself, you would know if she's your wife.

Goodluck.

1. It is possible for a 55 year old woman to have a child, cos i know of a 56 year old woman who had 1.

2. What is so wrong in Pastor Bakare's political aspirations? afterall, he is a full fledged Nigerian who can exerciise his right to vote and be voted for. If he strongly believes he can bring about change in the fast deteriorating socio-economic and poiltical situation of the country, its not a bad idea to actually give the guy a chance.

e bi like say we Nigerians like to dey endorse corruption sef. should we continue to fold our hands and watch PDP rapidly disintegrate our nation? We cant continue to do things the same way and expect different results.

Truth is, some Tenants are extremely difficult. i know of a tenant who insists on paying 400k for a 3 bedroom flat in Maryland area of Lagos state. (same rent he paid when he moved in 5 years ago) the landlord increased the rent this year, but he was so adamant on paying the new rate. of course, the landlord gave him a 6 month quit notice and he even refused to sign it. telling the landlord that he is highly dissapointed in him. Now telll me,

Where do u get a 3 bedroom apartment for 400k in a place like maryland?
Do u blame the landlord for subsequent actions taken?
Do u blame this particular landlord for handling other tenants with iron fists due to his experience with this stubborn tenant?

My point is that people just come and write one-sided stories. Yes, there are difficult landlords, but a lot of tenants feel they are too smart and try to tell their landlords that they are stupid. and in answer to the post,

YES! ur landlord can eject u, cos its his house!!!