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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Win 10usdt With Taskon by BernieLee(m): 2:17am On Apr 18
FatherOfJesus:
lol, try withdrawing
Withdrawn all my winnings except Ethereum becos of the high gas fees. If you check that screenshot you'll see 10.1 usdt there.
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Win 10usdt With Taskon by BernieLee(m): 11:46am On Apr 16
Sunnyrado:
How does it work..give more details about it and also proof of withdrawal.
Thank you
that's my assets page

Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Win 10usdt With Taskon by BernieLee(m): 11:44am On Apr 16
Sunnyrado:
How does it work..give more details about it and also proof of withdrawal.
Thank you
Taskon is a site you perform simple task like liking following twitter account, reposting etc. most task like this one doesn't take more than 2mins.

Won $24usdt since I joined march.
Jobs/Vacancies / Win 10usdt With Taskon by BernieLee(m): 3:00am On Apr 16
Win usdt rewards with Taskon easy tasks. Spend 3mins of your time and voila. It works.

Click link below.

https://rewards.taskon.xyz/campaign/detail/774284034?ref=bernard_emem
Politics / Re: Ijaw/Ibibio Clash In Akwa Ibom (Photos) by BernieLee(m): 7:34pm On Feb 27
fergie001, Mynd44

This is falsehood that is intended to malign an ethnic group.

Posts should be thoroughly verified before being moved to FP.

Kindly do the needful.

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Politics / Re: Ijaw/Ibibio Clash In Akwa Ibom (Photos) by BernieLee(m): 7:23pm On Feb 27
This is propaganda taken too far, everyone familiar with the history between Eket and Ibeno will know that IBENO people have always been the aggressors.

As far back as 1990, my family lost everything they worked for when they settled in Ibeno to do fish business.

My grandmother and and my mother where in Church when they got news that their house and everything in it had been razed to the ground.

This was a coordinated attack on Eket people and their properties. They left the church and ran back to Eket with nothing except the clothes on their backs.

I have heard the stories as handed over by my great-grandfather and others of how Ibeno people came to exist in that location.

They were fisherman who came from across the Atlantic ocean and we're granted leave to settle there.

Today these people have been able to get a local government area but they want more.

They have become the landlords and want the original owners of the land to vacate for them.

It will not happen. I for one have been amazed to as to why Ekid people have tolerated their excesses for so long.

If this is true, then i'm glad my people have awoken from their slumber.

PS: They are NO ijaws in Akwa-Ibom. Oro Nation is a subset of Ibibio as the language is similar.

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Politics / Re: Name These Two People And Get An Instant Prize by BernieLee(m): 8:40pm On Jan 12
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Phones / Re: Lcds Vs Amoleds: The Pros And Cons by BernieLee(m): 8:47pm On Jul 02, 2023
atheistandproud:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dYWReoSU88I
Excellent video. You got a new subscriber.

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Family / Re: Frustrated With My Wife by BernieLee(m): 8:33pm On Apr 10, 2023
labake1:
Majority of the people advising the OP to divorced his wife are not married.

Dear OP, let divorce should be the last option, it's not an easy thing, the children are there to think about. Try out other options first, try having a private discussion with her by letting her know your feelings and the implications. Once some of my gender is earning more, they won't see the need of a man. Fear career women, ask if she still want the relationship. Your mental health is important, if you die tomorrow, she will move on with her life after two days mourning.

Some people doesn't know the value of what they have until they lose it
The bolded is why he needs the divorce. If he drops dead today(God forbid), everyone will move on.

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Family / Re: Frustrated With My Wife by BernieLee(m): 8:28pm On Apr 10, 2023
tomi4life:
I am 35 and my wife is 29, we have been married for 6 years now, we have 2 children a boy and a girl. We didnt court much during our courtship because of long distance.

I really have a problem with my wife and not sure what can be done to address, now I must be very honest am not sure there is anything I can do I just want to use the platform to vent my frustration.

My marriage has not been very good, lately myself and my wife leave like room mates and not lovers, despite the age difference between me and my wife she doesnt really respect me. For the 6 years we have been in marriage 3 things have caused all our fights: cooking, Sex and finance

My wife rarely cooks in the house, things around welfare are not taken seriously, actually in a week, my wife can cook for me just 1 time. She cooks for the children and baths for them daily, we also have a help who does alot of cooking. She rarely askes me what I will eat, honestly I always have to go to the kitchen to sort myself, sometimes I buy food outside from eateries and bucker. Sometimes when she cooks it usually very late 10pm. I have complained severally and what happen is she tries to change, after a week, we are back to the same state. My wife can do without cooking for me for weeks. It really really pains me cos am a foody and I knw hw my mum treats matters of food. she is this person that forms busy, either she is busy with work or some church activities, she always has an excuse. She goes to work only ones a weeks the remaining 4days are remote. To address this issue I now order soups from major restaurant outlets, An example is today easter sunday, I had to tell our maid to prepare rice for myself and the kids, cos my wife was in church, we all went to church but she decided to stay back, knowing fully well no food was prepared.

Sex: [/b]our sex life is very boring, when we got married we always fight about sex, cos anytime I ask for it she always complain she is tired, so what I now do is ask for it only sat morning, brethen this is only day I get sex. If I miss that day, it is still next week. We sleep in different rooms, she sleeps with the children in the master bedroom while I sleep alone in another room. I can tell most time she doesnt enjoy it and never ever askes for it, I always ask and initiate it. She just lays like a log, even kisses is a no no, except she is really on, which rarely happens.
[b]
Finance:
I have always earned more than my wife, when we got married, I was earning 3 times what she was earning, but she changed jobs and got promoted severally and we were earning the same amount. she also does alot of side runs where she gets 200-300k monthly as side hustle, there was even a time she was earning more than I did. I dint let it bother me I continue to foot the entire house bills. 95% of the enitre house of comes from me, she only pays the maid , buys cooking gas and my sons diaper. Every other thing in the house is covered by me, house rent, school fees, project, all the bills. I give her 75k as food money monthly. I have continue to question her why I should give her food moeny if I still have to end up going out to eat. I think the only reason she sometime listens to me is cause i still provide the finances for the house. The time she was earning more I could see how she belittle some of my decisions. I just prayed to God, cos I noticed the respect was gone, when I talk to her about her role as a mum and mother to the home, she says she is working, she is busy, I mentioned to her that the money she works is for her, she doesnt share with the house, I have never asked her for it and am not against her working, she however should not neglect her responsibility as a mum. That my role as a father, God helping me is to provide, and this is why I work. I also noticed when I got a new job and my salary increased she kinda off felt jealous she didnt tell me but i noticed it, she began to aggressively look for jobs.


I really dont think we have that initmacy, we are just there, my wife cant come to tell me anything bothering her, she keeps to herself. Funny part is she is a very religious person, my wife will sleep with bible on her hand, wake up with bible pray and serve in various church unit, I however dont think she really understands what she reads. She also has a very bad temper sometimes when I raise certian issues, the ways she talks sometimes I have to hold back a response if not the whole thing will escalate. There are days I will raise certain issue up, the next things she mentions is " let just dissolve this marriage as it is not working" sometimes , I just refer her to her bible cos the utterances that come out of her mouth makes me doubt her understanding of Christianity.


I have never assaulted her, we have nt had any physically fight, what happens is most times when we have issues, I dont speak to her for days, then she come back apologizing. Sometimes when am wrong I also apologies.

Am not saying am perfect, I know there are areas I can do better, like in the buying off gift, I rarely buy her gift, not cause I cant but Cos she earns well and I believe she should buy whatever she needs with her money my wife earns approximately 800k monthy.


I expect my wife will support me but it like she is stressing me. when we go see my parent or our parent, it is all smiles, they dont knw hw stressful their daughter is, she even forms trying to serve me food and all.

Dont get me wrong she has some good side, but this thing is really getting into me. I dont drink, smoke or womanise, divorce is also not on the table for me.
At this point. Divorce should be the only option on the table for you. Initiate it and don't look back.
But before that, seek to involve both parents in a last ditch effort to salvage things.

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Business / Re: If You Are Uber Partner In Lagos, Please Share Your Experience Here by BernieLee(m): 4:37pm On Jan 12, 2023
YeyeGbami:


The only amicable settlement is him sending back your excess, if he thinks the fare is not enough he should contact bolt for review.

You have every right to get your money back, i never see driver wey talk say fare too high refund rider. So kala gba owo è
Baba I don let am go jare. Thanks a lot.
Business / Re: If You Are Uber Partner In Lagos, Please Share Your Experience Here by BernieLee(m): 12:24pm On Jan 12, 2023
SamuelTaiw0:


As you've now reported him to bolt now, don't you think you should let Bolt too know you've settled your differences?

I'm just saying o.
Done that already.

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Travel / Re: Man Drowns While Riding A Jet-Ski On Ikoyi Waterways by BernieLee(m): 12:17pm On Jan 12, 2023
I know the man personally. Won’t mention the name here but he’s a northerner. We worked for the same establishment at some point.
Very simple and easy going. From what I gathered he wasn’t on life jacket.

RIP to the dead and another lesson for the living.

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Business / Re: If You Are Uber Partner In Lagos, Please Share Your Experience Here by BernieLee(m): 12:10pm On Jan 12, 2023
Hello everyone. Thanks for your inputs. Happy to say the Driver in question called me last night and we had an amicable settlement.

No money is too big or small to let go. After all majority of us work our butts off to earn it.

But things should be done properly. That’s all.

Thanks.

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Business / Re: If You Are Uber Partner In Lagos, Please Share Your Experience Here by BernieLee(m): 12:03pm On Jan 12, 2023
Dailyparrot:


Don't encourage this. Drop his number and call him, and what next? I don't support the driver but this is not a rider's forum where they should seek punishment against drivers.

Solidarity forever, solidarity forever, solidarity forever, we shall always fight for our own, solidarity grin
I will not join issues with you as to all the nasty things you have said.

Drivers like you encourage bad behavior and it’s people like you the system needs to stamp out.

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Business / Re: If You Are Uber Partner In Lagos, Please Share Your Experience Here by BernieLee(m): 6:55pm On Jan 11, 2023
obinoral1179:
if he doesn't respond to you report to bolt and you can drop his number here for us to call him, if we can call out bad riders we need to call out bad drivers too.....
I’ve reported. Waiting for a response.
Business / Re: If You Are Uber Partner In Lagos, Please Share Your Experience Here by BernieLee(m): 6:54pm On Jan 11, 2023
Barbiturate:
@Bernie, when he said 8k plus, you should have told him to send you the screenshot.

Anyways, report the matter to bolt. You can also drop his number here make guys help you call am
I was in the vehicle with him and that time Bolt did not give any fare for after the trip ended. He just felt it would be 8k plus. I have just written to bolt and will post his number here if I don’t get a favorable response. Thanks.
Business / Re: If You Are Uber Partner In Lagos, Please Share Your Experience Here by BernieLee(m): 4:56pm On Jan 11, 2023
Hi guys. I need some information on how to go about this matter. I took a ride from the ikeja airport last night 7pm to diamond estate in iPaja. Rides lasted for 1hr 28m.

When I booked, the price showed 5200-6500 taking into account mma2 and mm1 parking fee. One driver cancelled and then the 2nd driver said he couldn’t drive into the airport cos his vehicle would be impounded so I offered to walk out to the AP fuel station a few meters outside the airport.

And the ride started, when we arrived Bolt ended the trip and did not show fare. It just showed 0 on my phone and trip price is in review on driver’s phone. An argument ensued for 30minutes and I offered to pay 6500 with the understanding that if bolt sends a receipt we would balance each other depending on the amount. He claimed the price was 8000plus.

Lo and behold Bolt sent the receipt by 11:37pm and it was 4300 meaning I overpaid by 2200. I have reached out to the driver and he’s not taking my calls. I’ve sent him a text with my account details and still no response. I intend to take this up with Bolt. It’s not above me to leave that money but not in this fraudulent manner. Kindly advise.

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Celebrities / Re: Davido Secretly Got Married To Chioma After The Dismiss Of Their Son by BernieLee(m): 11:17pm On Nov 13, 2022
OtexDbaba:
We just got the news that Davido has finally paid the full bride price of his lover Chioma after the dismiss of their son, this was supposed to happen next year but with what we heard, Chioma thought there’s nothing left of the union since she lost her son..

Read more here >> https://247newsbreak.com/davido-secretly-got-married-to-chioma-after-the-dismiss-of-their-son/
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