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RomanceRe: I need Someone Within Osogbo Or Osun With Computer Running Windows 10 Or Above. by Bestok: 4:03pm On Jan 22, 2023
Bro, your invite is it from Dragnet?
Christianity EtcRe: Please I need help. My life is crashing by Bestok: 12:48pm On Feb 26, 2022
Freedom2022:
Hello people. Please i beg someone here who is sincere and have the fear of God and want progress for his fellow human being to recommend a place where i can receive deliverance. The last 8 years of my life has been HORRIBLE. MONEY CANNOT STAY IN MY HAND FOR 48 HOURS and it is gone. I will not exaggerate, i have lost over 30 million naira over the past 10 years and i have been in DEBT for over 8 years consistently. I have NEVER been happy for straight 1 week for the past 10 years. Once money gets to my hand, it vanishes within 48 hours. I don't want to mention what it goes into because people are actually making millions from it so as not to discourage people. IT IS JUST ABOUT ME.
Now let me say something.

Whenever I have money with me, a mysterious cough starts and once the money is gone, the cough goes. It has been like this for the past 8 years. I cant explain it.

Right now, it has gotten to the worst and no matter how much is with me, it goes within hours. For example, if someone send me money right now, a mysterious cough will start in less than 30 minutes that the money gets to me and immediately i will not know what i am doing again (for real). Then i deposit all the money immediately into my Forex account, then this cough will get intense, i will cough and cough without stopping and before i know what is happening, the money is gone. Then that is when i realize and come back to my senses. I am been real and this is a true life situation.

Please guys dont joke with this because my life ruined right now. I can't boast of anything in my life right now. I have NOTHING. and the worst part of this is that i owe all loan apps money. I owe about 20 apps money as of today and all loans due and they have rubbished me already which as been going on for the past 8 years too.

I have tried to find out what could be wrong with me and i believe there is an unfamiliar force in my life. I can't explain somethings here but i need a powerful/powerful men/man of God to lead me through because i am ready to embark on a journey to redeem my lost glory. I have tried several time on my own but i think i am facing a lot of resistance and i give up almost immediately. Some people call it "agbana" but this type is so strong in my life and needed to be broken else i will be finished completely because right now, i am at the last days of destruction.

To shock you guys, i have someone in my family that experienced this thing too but in a different dimension and recently another person (i dont want to give too much information).

I have come to realize or believe that its is either a generational curse (ogun idile) or something i dont understand. See guys, something is happening spiritually in my life that is manifesting physically and this has to be broken IMMEDIATELY. Some people here may think otherwise which i agree with for a long time until i begin to see a pattern and i can tell it is not ordinary.

Right now, i have run away from home and i have promised myself never to return until this chain is broken.

I will be reading advices and recommendations here and i pray God guide me to pick the best because i know someone will recommend something that will change the narrative.

PLEASE GUYS, THIS IS A LIFE ISSUE AND I HAVE GONE TROUGH A LOT ALREADY. PLEASE DON'T ADD TO MY PAINS AND SORROWS. IF YOU CAN'T HELP ME PLEASE I BEG YOU IN THE NAME OF GOD TO JUST READ.

UPDATE

I think i need to add this. On 3 occasions, i got a very juicy high paying job with big companies in Nigeria. One is one of the top 5 big companies in Nigeria and have spread across some African countries while another is one of the top 5 companies in the world (It is a big company). But guess what? My offers on the 3 different occasions were withdrawn few days to resumption without any explanation. Is it a coincidence?
Stop playing bet and try having a restful heart.
Meditation on God's holy words will help u
All d help you seek is in the bible but you have to meditate while reading
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Please How Legit Is This? by Bestok: 4:40am On Jan 14, 2022
You dey see fire, you dey ask if e red

This fuckers ask you to make a video that you took loan from them and you just wanna cooperate cause of the need to secure a job?
Mehn don't loss your head trying to wear a cap
InvestmentRe: I Got A Multimillion Dollar Game Ideal by Bestok(op): 11:19am On Dec 28, 2021
[quote author=SocialJustice post=108871603]Nobody will listen, go and start the idea by yourself. If you gain any traction, people will start calling you to invest. [/quotd

Disappointingly I'm not a tech guy
I have only visionise the game. And also evaluate the target gamers circle
What i need is someone that will valuate the ideal and see if its test worthy
InvestmentI Got A Multimillion Dollar Game Ideal by Bestok(op): 7:22am On Dec 28, 2021
I have a game ideal that i know will interest and the pay the youth at the same time stand as a business platform for the developers

I need someone in the game industry to listen to my ideal
FamilyRe: Could He Have Ulterior Motives By Disagreeing To This? Should I Opt Out? by Bestok: 2:45pm On Dec 04, 2021
I just feel like reporting the post so it will be taken down. Like why the Bleep you educating us about vasectomy, we are Africa men, you choose to have one child then family plan, don't force it on him. He has his own plan! Why would you even suggest another man kills his sperm while you fertile? You came up with the suggestion for a single child do the family planning on you.
]Hi fam.

Something has been bothering me of late and leaving me emotionally and mentally stressed and drained for the past weeks and I'm cut between the devil and the deep blue sea.

There's this bro we're trying to see if we can work things out. though, I never really wanted anything relationship again or at least for now until I'm decided later in the future on what I really want for myself.

Before, I delve into the main discuss , let
me quickly highlight how it all started.

Some months back, My publisher came to deliver the books I ordered for. So while sorting the books, he just got teasing me like " Babes, na wa o. What's up with your romantic life now?. I've never seen you pulling with anyone. It's always work, biz Money money money I see you pursuing. Lol... I just told him, guy, free me abeg and I went on counting the books at the boot of his car.

He now walked up to me and said, on a more serious note, what is happening? So I told him it's a personal choice cos I dont have the strength for relationship brouhaha now. He agreed with me that truly its not easy and even as a married man, he too feels the heat but the good thing is, he married in the Lord. So I should choose wisely from among the brethren.

So he said, he has this family friend, an eligible bachelor, who wants a decent lady and I'm the one that comes to mind each time the guy mentions it because since he's be dealing with me, he can vouch that I'm a very honest, hard-working and decent lady. So he would want the bro to have me.
That was how I got to meet bro.

Now fastforward to the main reason of this post.
There was this particular day we tripped out to cool off and discuss about US. So we got talking and planning on how to build our home in a way that we will not be caught unawares with some setbacks and unplanned responsibilities. So the issue of children came up and I suggested we have only one, which he reluctantly accepted after much convincing. So we tried to look at ways we can maintain that decision and I suggested a vasectomy. citing the possibilities of health risks (as a result of mismatches ) and failures that might occur if the family planning is done on me but with vasectomy, no issues. He looked me in the eyes and said, "my darling" no!

I was dumbfounded.... And became a little worried because, if he has no plans of having more children, why would he kick against the idea of a vasectomy?

If we are going to be one and follow one course, why shying away from a plan that will benefit us as a couple and a family?


Could it be, he only agreed to have one with me and plans to have more else where?
Is vasectomy a life threatening condition?

I was still trying to wrap my head around his refusal, when he said, it will be done on you ( the family planning). That instant, I felt all alone, like im on my own. So I told him I needed to cool off, and he said feel free.
I left the tent and went to the waters prentending to be playing with the water. He came and dragged me out of the water. we strolled without a word and I asked him to take me home. He did.

He called when he got home. I was cold to him so, he promised to call again but since then Ive refused to pick his calls or reply his texts.

The big question is ..
WHY DID HE BLUNTLY REFUSE A VASECTOMY?

COULD HE HAVE ULTERIOR MOTIVES?

IS IT NOT BETTER TO OPT OUT NOW THAN PRETEND I DIDN'T GET THE MESSAGE AND END UP IN REGRETS?

WHAT DOES IT MEAN WHEN A MAN KICKS AGAINST VASECTOMY?[/quote]
PoliticsRe: Man Divorced His Wife Because She Vowed To Vote Buhari by Bestok: 12:34pm On Jan 24, 2019
Caseless:
It takes superhuman traits to be this man!
And what exactly made him a super human??

some people sef
EducationRe: Federal Government Scholarship (fsb 2018) Thread by Bestok: 4:20pm On Jan 22, 2019
Thefantaboy:
I'm not an admin....least I can do is send your number to the group to be added
pls send mine too 08147719324
EducationRe: Federal Government Scholarship (fsb 2018) Thread by Bestok: 1:43pm On Jan 22, 2019
could u help me sir with d remain photos either via this mail okhinemoyabestok@gmail.com or 08147719324 whatsapp
EducationRe: Federal Government Scholarship (fsb 2018) Thread by Bestok: 12:39pm On Jan 22, 2019
am seeing a name on the list that got 2016/17 session .......i think that list is for last 2 yrs

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