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destante:
Number 7 like serzly?? LOL.

Asin ehn, guys are soooo silly.

I doubt that.

Dear Nairalanders i stumbled on this, and its soooooo hilarious, i mean are dudes this silly.

1. Someone was pursuing me. "I'll [sleep with] a woman to settle my curiosity. It has nothing to do with what my main girl is not doing, it's just, someone offered, and I was curious and wanted to test the water." --"Doug," 42

2. She's not freaky enough. "I want MouthAction. I want anal sex. I want adventurous sex in risky places, and I don't necessarily want that from my girlfriend. In fact, I'd PREFER not to get that from the woman that I introduce my mother to." --"Jerry," 25

3. I was tired of having sex with her. "I want to hear another woman's voice call my name. I want variety." --"Michael," 39

4. I'm not attracted to her anymore. "This is terrible, but my wife gained 30 pounds after she broke her foot, and I started to look elsewhere for sex. The cast and crutches, watching her struggle, it was just ugh. I was there for her, but she didn't arouse me anymore. I'd give her a kiss on her forehead and go out to [sleep with] someone else." --"Thomas," 44

5. Other options are always available. "Why settle for one sex partner when you can have two? Or 10? The ladies don't seem to mind that I'm wearing a ring. And I have my pick of the litter." --"Jack," 34

6. She always accused me of cheating, so I strayed. "I figured, what the hell? She thought I was sleeping with my coworker, our neighbor, random waitresses and I wasn't doing a thing. NOW I am seeing someone and she doesn't have a clue. I can honestly say that she drove me to do it." --"Michael," 39.

7. It doesn't count. "It's not really cheating if she doesn't find out." --"James," 22

8. No pre-intimacy is required. "I don't want to make love all the time. Sometimes I just want a quickie, get it in and go. I can do that with my sidepiece so I do what I've got to do." --"Kyle," 26

9. I'm fulfilling a need. "Being with someone else every now and then has nothing to do with my primary relationship. It's not cheating; it's just fulfilling my needs as I see fit." --"Mario," 31

10. I was conflicted about my sexuality. "I cheated on my girlfriends in college to prove to myself that I was into women, but it was a lie. I'm gay. I've always known it, I was just afraid to act on it. Now I'm in a monogamous relationship with my boyfriend and we've been together for two years. I would never cheat on him." --"Charlie," 28

The more I think about these responses, the more I realize that cheating is rarely about the girlfriend or wife's shortcomings, cheating is mostly about a man's greed.
Nigerian dudes is this why you guys cheat, thats to those that cheat.

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Once you master the small talk, here are some tips that will help you impress your interviewer.

• Work on your handshake: Don‘t offer up a flimsy or sweaty hand. Instead, when you meet with prospective employers or interviews, offer a firm handshake, with one or two pumps from the elbow to the hand. It‘s a good way to illustrate your confidence and start the interview off on the right note.
• Get serious: If you take a casual approach to the initial interview with a company, especially with a screening interviewer from the human resources department, you may be sealing your fate. Job seekers should treat every interview as if it‘s their one and only chance to sell themselves to the recruiter.
• Get the practice: If you find yourself being offered an interview for a job you are not really interested in, go on the interview anyway; you can make contacts for future job opportunities and get valuable interview practice.
• Be enthusiastic: Bring a positive attitude to your interview. Most interviewers won‘t even give a second thought to someone who has a negative presence or seems like they almost need to be talked into the job. “You‘re selling yourself, and part of you is the positive approach you‘ll bring to the office every morning,” says Alison Richardson, a recruiter for several New York financial firms. “That smile and friendly demeanor go a long way.”
• Ask questions: When interviewing for a new position, it‘s essential to have a handful of questions to ask your potential employer. Some questions could include: What do you consider to be the ideal background for the position? What are some of the significant challenges? What‘s the most important thing I can do to help within the first 90 days of my employment? Do you have any concerns that I need to clear up in order to be the top candidate?
• Tell a story: Your interviewer wants to know about your skills and experiences, but he or she also wants to know about you. Don‘t fire off routine answers to questions. Instead, work your answers into stories or anecdotes about yourself. People remember the people who are interesting. Prove your value by tailoring stories that address the main concern an interviewer may have: What can you do for us?
• Show restraint: During an interview, what you don‘t say may be as important as what you do say. As a rule, don‘t talk about money or benefits, especially during the first interview. You should already know if you fit the parameters. Don‘t badmouth about any of your past employers. Organizations don‘t hire complainers. Don‘t mention outside career aspirations or part-time jobs. Employers are looking for people who want to be part of their organization for the next decade and beyond. Whatever you do, don‘t mention the need for an immediate vacation. First of all, you‘re making an assumption that the recruiter wants to hire you. Secondly, you‘re essentially removing yourself from the list of potential candidates. A job candidate we once interviewed was quick to announce that she needed time off immediately for a two-week honeymoon. We hadn‘t even offered her the job. Needless to say, we didn‘t. certainly, there are scenarios in which you‘ll need to discuss pending scheduling conflicts, but the interview isn‘t one of them.
• Be memorable: Considering the number of job seekers interviewing for positions today, it‘s fair to suggest that many HR workers can hardly keep track of the differences. That‘s why it‘s important to do or say something that will allow you to stand out in the mind of your interviewer. It will strike a personal note and also provide a point of reference when it‘s time to recall the top candidates. Sure, the job candidate with “American Idol” experience we mentioned in the introduction had no real usable background for the job we were looking for, but he was memorable.
• Ask for the job: “Tell your interviewer you want the job — period,” says Dana Fulbright, an IT recruiter for Universal Studios in Orlando, Fla. “So many people leave without ever saying they want to be hired. It sounds so simple, but it‘s true. Let your employer know that you want to work there.”


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Have you ever dated someone with several friends of the opposite sex? What about someone who is friends with many of their exes and still keeps up regular contact with them? He's given me no reason not to trust him, but I'm still hung up on this. Is it just a matter of me working on my insecurity? Or should he be changing his behavior?

Most of his friends are female, and many of those he communicates with on a regular basis are past girlfriends of his (or just girls he fooled around with). I swore it would never happen to me, but it did. My boyfriend has more female friends than male friends. He probably has more female friends than I do, which is pretty sad. Here’s the thing though: I trust him with all of my heart and I have never had a reason to suspect any foul play. He displays our relationship for the world to see and I love him more each and every day. But seriously, what’s the deal with the slew of estrogen that surrounds him?

Some of these girls are people that he’s grown up with, others are co-workers and some are married acquaintances. But why do they flock to him? Yes, he has a warm personality and he’s a great listener and he may even have a great sense of style. Most of these girls go to him to help them figure out their mundane life problems, but enough is enough. He’s not their psychologist. Hell, he’s not even close.

He’s constantly texting these people and returning their phone calls when it’s like, “Hello, I’m right here.” Mind you, he never does any of this behind my back- it’s always right in front of me. Sometimes, I wish that it would be done when I’m not there because you know, ignorance is bliss.

Personally, I know if roles were reversed, he’d have my head. He already hates the idea that I have male friends to begin with and he claims that they’re all trying to flirt with me. Really? I want to stray away from the idea that males and females can’t be friends, but sometimes it’s difficult. Especially when you have a stubborn boyfriend like I do.

I was always a believer in platonic relationships between the two sexes and I still am. Hell, it has the potential to give healthy insight, but I have an inkling that my boyfriend takes it too seriously. The truth is- I don’t have a problem with most of those girls that he’s constantly talking to. They seem pretty cool and most of them seem to respect our relationship. Operative word being most. When some of them are calling at midnight wondering where he is, they’re taking it way too far. He has a girlfriend, you don’t need to know here he is at midnight, honey. Go back to your little mediocre life and keep my boyfriend out of yours.

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IfyAwazie:
Desmond look like a manikin wey get beard.

Lmao, all for the money oo, dont worry, he would look better after he wins.

Lool abi oo. its all about the money, since their various industries are not benefiting them anymore.

naijaboiy:
Wait let me ask Ogun

Ha! Funny

azidomedogo:
popularity gained from the movie/music industry.But they lack the ethics of politics.

Asin they just dont get it. Politics is a different ballgame on its own.

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Is this what is reigning now? Everything is all about politics now. Nigeria is so much better than what people are turning it into.

Here are 10 tips for long-distance couples to maintain closeness despite living far apart:
1. Visit. Seeing each other is key, so regular visits are a necessity. But be sure stay at each other's homes instead of just taking vacation weekends together. Vacations are great, but they don't give us any insight into our partner's daily life. Intimacy develops from a deep sense of familiarity with your partner, and this familiarity starts at home.
2. Become a talker. The most important thing you can do to build intimacy while you're apart is talk. Talk about your day, and ask about your partner's. Talk about the details, however unimportant you think they may be.
3. Video chat daily. Even those with the busiest of schedules can make time for a quick video chat each day. Being able to see one another daily, even for five minutes, goes a long way toward developing intimacy. The consistent visual connections build familiarity and confidence in knowing one another.
4. Send photos often. Taking photos throughout your day and sending them instantly is a quick and easy way to share your daily experiences. It also adds to the transparency of your daily life, which is a key factor in keeping trust alive.
5. Always be willing to learn. No matter how much you try to build intimacy, living apart means there will likely be things about your partner that you don't know. Whether it's his new favorite beer or her latest work drama, there's often something you haven't yet heard about. Recognize this, and try not to let it overpower how much you do know. Try your best not to be jealous of the people who are in your partner's daily life; people who may know more of the details.
6. Respect the importance of making an effort. Long-distance relationships often require more effort from each partner to keep the relationship healthy. You'll have to make time for each other when you're busy, talk when you don't feel like talking, and spend time and money on travel. Recognizing this and respecting its importance will allow for a healthier, moreintimate relationship.
7. Set an intimacy goal for each visit. To make the best of the time you do spend together, take time to plan an "intimacy goal" for every visit. One weekend might be all about staying in bed to develop physical intimacy. Another might be about showing your partner the details of your everyday routine. The next visit might be about meeting local friends. When you design your visits with an intent to increase intimacy, the visits will likely feel much more fulfilling, and bring you much closer than they would otherwise.
8. Fantasize. Instead of trying to forget about the physical intimacy you can't have while you're apart, fantasize about it. Let your mind create stories that you can share with your partner, and consider acting them out next time you meet.
9. Start the countdown. When you make the choice to pursue the relationship long-distance, decide how long you'd be able to live apart. Envision your future living together, and create a plan to get there. Take measurable steps along the way, and stick to the plan.
10. Enjoy your personal time. Instead of focusing on how much you want to share every moment with your partner, appreciate the personal time you have while you two are apart. Do the things that make you happy, and tell your partner about them. The happier and more comfortable you are as a person, the better you'll be able to communicate with your partner—and the more intimate your relationship will be.

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Even Finance Minister Okonjo-Iweala knows that there is money in this country. Even the former Ekiti State governor got a 50million naira bed. I mean, people are living the life in this country. Business Owners, Tv-Presenters, Fashion Designers, Make-Up Artists,Musicians getting richer, Actors and Actresses are making it, even Comedians.So where does a common civilian fit into in all these. Nawa oo, Please show me the way oo.

During my free time, i am usually bored and tired of watching DSTV since they dont really show much anymore.
So far I have completed:
Fringe
Breaking Bad
Lost
Prison Break
Arrow

-Looking for something in line with the first 5 shows listed. Thanks! Please I need suggestions.

GlorifiedTunde:
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On a more serious note, relationships tire u early when you don't start it well or entered for the wrong reasons. You probably were just infatuated to each other. And I think I heard sex Seriously Its a sin for non married people to engage in sex, no mata what anyone says. Now you have chop each other finish, the infatuation is gone.

If you sincerely need help, take a look ant one of my excerpts below, because it may not be spicing you need, maybe you need to quit.



1. Do I need a relationship now?

2. Am I ready for commitment?

3. How well do I know him/her?

4. Do I really like him /her [physically, socially, spiritually, behaviorally, ...] after knowing him/her?

5. Am I ready to sacrifice for him/her

6. Why are we starting this relationship? what do we hope to achieve from it? Marriage or Fun (which I do not support)?

7. Do we share similar values, goals, or objectives?

8. Will I be sincere in this relationship?

9. Have I gotten to that level where i can say he/she will be/is "an addition to my life"?

10.Can I love this person still even if the weaknesses I can see in him/her right now are tripled?

GOODLUCK

Wow, this is really helpful and i will with this, thank you sooo much.

yinkablue:
am available

Lool, okay. Lets hope after 5months i dont get bored again.

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Vivly:
Negative effect of premarital sex.
Nothing to look foward to anymore

I get your point of view but does that mean i will never have a funfilled relationship because to be candid what has happened has happened.

Lordabas:





Ntn is perfect. . . It's the little things. . .

Look into her eyes. . .give her a hug for no reason. . .flirt with her. . .tell her how great she looks. . .tell her things abt yourself. . .make mad love to her. . .intrigue her. . .make her think. . .make her wonder.
Come on dude..stop being so lazy.

These are real men oo. They know how to treat the ladies.

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Emotional abuse, verbal abuse, and domestic violence are on the rise, especially among young people. The risk of falling into an abusive relationship is greater than ever.
There are obvious red flags to avoid in a prospective lover, such as angry, controlling, possessive, jealous, or violent behavior. Unfortunately, most abusers are able to mask these tendencies in dating. By the time many people notice the obvious red flags, they're already attached to an abuser, which makes it much harder for them to leave the relationship.

More useful than a list of obvious red flags are guidelines based on very early warning signs of a potentially abusive relationship, signs that are visible before an attachment bond is formed. The following is a list of qualities to look for in a potential lover. Avoid them at all costs.

[b]A BLAMER:[/b]Avoid anyone who blames his negative feelings and bad luck on someone else. Special care is necessary here, as blamers can be really seductive in dating. Their blame of others can make you look great by comparison:

"You're so smart, sensitive, caring, and loving, not like that bitch I used to go out with."

"Why couldn't I have met you before that self-centered, greedy, woman I used to date?"

"You're so calm and together, and she was so crazy and paranoid."

Hearing this kind of thing might make you think that all he really needs is the understanding and love of a good woman to change his luck. This disastrous assumption flies in the face of the Law of Blame.

The Law of Blame: It eventually goes to the closest person.

When you become the closest person to him, the blame will certainly turn on you.

Blamers can be dangerous to love because they usually suffer from victim identity. Feeling like victims, they see themselves as justified in whatever retaliation they enact and whatever compensation they take. Blamers will certainly cause pain for you if you come to love one.

[b]WATCH FOR PATTERNS OF EXTREME JEALOUSY:[/b]Anyone who gets angry or sulky when you want to go and have a night out with friends or questions you mercilessly any time you're seen talking to a member of the opposite sex is being unreasonable and jealous. If you feel you're being kept away from friends and relatives, or smothered because you can't go anywhere without your partner, it's a sign of a potentially abusive relationship. It's also almost always the way physically abusive relationships get started.
Notice if your partner gets angry when you spend time with others, even if it's only your own family members. If your partner suspects you of suspicious behavior when you're spending time with coworkers, close friends, and your own family, you're dealing with an unstable person who needs to back off.

[b]WATCH FOR SIGNS OF POSSESSIVENESS:[/b]Part of abuse is establishing control over the relationship––and thereby over you. Pushing constantly for affirmation or for more intimacy, especially early on, can be a sign of the type of insecure behavior that can help create an abusive relationship.
Does your partner insist that you go everywhere together and never spend time apart? Does your partner tag along to events that they have no business attending? It may be a sign of possessiveness.
Saying things like "You belong to me, and only me" is a sign that your partner views you as property and will likely become jealous when you behave like a normal person who talks to and interacts with others. Proclamations of love when you've only been dating a few days or weeks can also be a sign of a possessive and obsessive partner.
Interrogations or accusations about where you've been and who you've been talking to should not be tolerated. Relationships should be built on trust, not suspicion. If you're not cheating on your partner, you have no reason to be interrogated.

[b]SUPERIORITY:[/b]Superiority is the implication, at least through body language or tone of voice, that someone is better than someone else. Potential abusers tend to have hierarchical self-esteem, i.e., they need to feel better than someone else to feel okay about themselves. They need to point out ways in which they are smarter, more sensitive, or more talented than others. This, too, can be seductive in dating, as he will point out ways in which you are superior, too.

The most abusive form of hierarchical self-esteem is predatory self-esteem. To feel good about themselves, persons with predatory self-esteem need to make other people feel bad about themselves. Many will test high in self-esteem when they come for court-ordered treatment, while everyone else in their family tests low. But once intervention increases the self-esteem of the emotionally beaten-down spouse and children who then no longer internalize the put-downs, the predator's self-esteem invariably declines.

A variation on this very early warning sign is self-righteousness. If you dare to disagree with him, you will not only be wrong but immoral!

[b]PETTINESS:[/b]If he makes a big deal out of nothing or focuses on one small, negative aspect of an issue, a relationship with him will be disastrous. This might show itself as being extremely particular about how his food is prepared in a restaurant or seeming impatient if someone drops something.

In a love relationship, his petty attitudes and behavior will make you feel reduced to some small mistake, as if nothing you have ever done right in your life matters. You will feel criticized and diminished for the smallest of infractions, real or imagined

SARCASM:[/b]Sarcasm comes in many forms. Sometimes it's just poorly-timed humor - saying the wrong thing in the wrong context. Sometimes it's innocently insensitive, with no intention to hurt or offend. More often it is hostile and meant to devalue. The purpose is to undermine a perspective the sarcastic person doesn't agree with or to shake someone's confidence, just for a temporary ego gain or some strategic advantage in a negotiation.

Sarcastic people tend to be heavy into impression management, always trying to sound smart or witty. Their tone always has at least a subtle put-down in it. In dating this will be directed at others. In a relationship, it will center on you.

[b]DECEIT:Unintentional deceit happens all the time in dating, due to what I call the "dating self."

We all try to put on the best face possible in dating. Most of us will exaggerate our good qualities at least a little, if we think the other person will like us more if we were just a bit more like that. "Oh, you're religious? Well I've been feeling a bit more spiritual lately, so I'm going right home and read the Bible, or at least watch the movie version."

This kind of unintentional exaggeration is meant less to deceive than to motivate the self. The exaggerator really wants to develop qualities you like; he's just not quite there, yet.

Of course, the dating self often includes blatant deception, as in, "Oh, did I tell you that I went to Harvard?" or, "Yes, I know some rich and famous people." Deceit shows a low level of self-respect -- and respect for you -- that can only bode ill in a relationship.

PAY ATTENTION TO YOUR PARTNER'S SUSBSTANCE USE: Are alcohol or drugs being used to excess? Does your partner become more violent, difficult, nasty and selfish when using drugs or alcohol? Have you discussed treatment options with them. Are they willing to quit? An addict who chooses to stay in a drug- or alcohol-infused state of rage is dangerous, selfish and in need of rehabilitation. You do not deserve to be harmed and your partner may need more help than you can offer.
While alcohol or substance use is not necessary a sign of abuse in a relationship, abusing substances, or using to excess is a risky behavior that should be considered along with other warning signs. At the very least, it should be a sign of a partner that needs help.

OBSERVE THE WAY ARGUMENTS PROCEED: How do you disagree? Calmly, rationally, expressing your feelings and negotiating a resolution that's satisfying to both of you? Or does every disagreement escalate into a huge, hours-long row? Does your partner instantly begin pouting, yelling, or calling names? This can be a clue to bad things in store.
Particularly, watch for your partner to shut down into a moody, angry sulk, with the only responses to your complaints a terse or angry answer.

TRUST IN YOURSELF

While a certain caution in dating is a good thing, you want to be sure that your caution is proactive, rather than reactive; you want it based on trusting your instincts, rather than distrusting love.

Trust in yourself stems from your deepest values. As long as you stay attuned to the most important things to and about you, you will naturally gravitate toward those who truly value you as a person.

But even if you are firmly grounded in your values, it's possible to be fooled by hidden resentment, anger, or abusive tendencies in the people you date. That's because it's easy for those prone to such tendencies to put on a false dating face. Because they have a more "fluid" sense of self than most people, it's easier for them to pour it into any container they think you might like. But they can't and won't stay in a nice container once you establish a relationship. Then their resentment, anger, or abuse will emerge in full force

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adepiero:
Curry and maggi will do the trick

Just kidding.

What happened was that you didn't study your partner prior to the relationship and now both of ur flaws are opening up to each other. A concrete advice could be BREAKUP! but I doubt if you would want that so I'll give you these hint.

1. Study your relationship very well to check if ur compatibility is still worth it

2. Try not to get too involved in each other! this give room for unknown and curiosity thereby leading to interest.

3. Too much communication is tagged as stalking! once in a while like 5-6times a week or less is ok.

4. visit fun spots or go on road trips helps a lot!

5. There is no harm in watching pórn movies to help boost ur sex life. try new things sex positions, fore-play, etc

6. learn his do's and don'ts and share yours with him if he doesn't know. so as to better understand yourselves.

Wish you a happy life...

Thank you so much, i would try this out.

I have been in a relationship for about eight months now, and its already getting boring.

We have The daily routine: the relationship is a boring routine. It’s completely predictable, and we know exactly what we’re going to do with each other every day of the week.
The frenzied excitement: i dont remember the last time we did something exciting together.

Better opportunities: Everywhere i look around, i see better dating potentials.

Emotional affairs:i find it easier to talk about work or personal problems with someone else but not with my partner?

Sex is just boring

Special memories: there is no excitement and fond memories, so i have nothing that’ll make my love feel special and wonderful.

Communication:I get tired of trying to explain something to my partner because it takes too long to go into all the details? This is exactly how we lost communication in the relationship. My partner is too bored to talk about the little things because he feels like it’s unimportant. But in reality, it’s the little things that count.

Together time: Together time is good, but too much together time can be claustrophobic, and thats the stage we are in right now.

Now i find alot of things annoying about my partner that i did not pay attention to before,Even hanging out with my partner is not soooooo much fun anymore.

I once felt like the happiest person in the world so why have things changed? What can i do to make my relationship more fun and enjoyable? Please help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


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Dumb First Date Move #1 – Expect her to pay
The biggest rule with money and dating is to never let money cause awkwardness. Don’t look at money as a tool in your arsenal. Think of it as a bomb you don’t want to go off. For example, most women will expect you to pay for at least most of the first date. In an age of equal-pay laws, you can be political about this, but what’s the point? Plenty of things in our world are illogical, and you’re not going to get much sympathy talking about how men get a rough deal in society. Assume you’re paying. Now, some women will resent the notion that they need to be paid for on the first date. So if she insists on splitting the bill or paying for some activity even after you’ve declined her offer once, and then let her. It’s that simple. 

Dumb First Date Move #2 – Take her somewhere super expensive
This is a more subtle flaw than expecting her to pay, but it can be just as devastating. A lot of women will be turned off by an overly-expensive first date. They will be anxious that you will “expect something” at the end of the night for what you spent. Or they will wonder if you have so little going for you that you essentially have to try to buy affection. Even if she’s not turned off, overspending can be counter-productive. A friend of my ex-girlfriend was being pursued by a rich businessman from Hawaii. He flew her around, bought her jewelry, and spared no expense. I asked her how he was in bed. Her response: “Are you kidding? I’m not going to sleep with him. if he’s spending this much to pursue me, I’m going to keep the chase going as long as I can.”
Dumb First Date Move #3 – Overinvesting
The Dumb First Date Move #2 was overinvesting financially, and #3 is overinvesting in any other way. When I was in college, long before Love Systems, I invited a woman to my place for dinner. I cooked a delicious meal from scratch and organized my apartment to be lit entirely by over 200 candles. It looked beautiful. It was romantic. And it was a complete failure. Overinvesting on the first date sends the same kind of signals as telling a woman you just met what an amazing person she is. It makes most women uncomfortable, because she knows she hasn’t earned the value you are placing on her yet. So your affection isn’t about her – its desperation, or a mechanical desire to be with any attractive woman you see. Neither point of view is attractive to most women.
Dumb First Date Move #4 - Grill her
Don’t bombard her with questions. So many men do this, and I’ve heard lots of women compare the process to “interviewing for a job that I don’t even know if I want.” No one goes to job interviews for fun. But isn’t the point of a first date to get to know each other? Yes – but getting to know each other is as much about chemistry and emotional fit as it is about comparing facts about each other’s lives. Of course, you’ll want to ask some questions – and you should. But questions aren’t the only way to get information. If you tell her something about yourself, she’ll probably reciprocate with the same information. Or use statements or even guesses. Instead of asking her what she studied in college, take a guess. Instead of asking her how she felt on her canoe trip, tell her it sounds very fun and peaceful. And so on.
Dumb First Date Move #5 – Dinner and a movie
This one won’t completely kill you, but it’s really not ideal. Dinner-and-a-movie dates are very conventional and will remind her of every other first date she’s been on instead of revealing your uniqueness. Both parts of a dinner-movie night are bad for first dates. First date dinners can be awkward--you can’t touch, and there’s little external source of entertainment. Movies provide almost no opportunity to get to know each other. Instead, take her somewhere more fun and interactive, like a comedy club or bowling alley. You can talk, touch, have fun, and be entertained. And she’ll probably love you for it.
Dumb First Date Move #6 – Argue about facts or logic
it’s okay to disagree with her. In fact, it’s good to do so a couple times, to show her that you’re your own man and not hung up on someone’s approval. But this is best done over subjective topics, where there is no right answer. She says he likes oranges; I say oranges are disgusting and apples are the bomb. And keep it playful. What you don’t want to do is argue about whether global warming is real, or who invented the telescope. Even if you know she’s wrong, even if you can prove she’s wrong by browsing your phone, even if it’s completely common sense, let it go. If you see her again and develop something with her, there will be plenty of time to show her the truth later.
Dumb First Date Move #7 - Brag about yourself
You absolutely want her to know about your best qualities. But you want to communicate them to her in a way that she finds interesting and compelling, not braggy or insecure. It’s natural to talk about yourself – or blurt out anything – when you’re nervous or feel an awkward pause in the conversation (another reason to avoid dinner and a movie). But it’s OK on dates to let a silence develop and let her fill it once in a while. It’s not like at a bar, where she could wander off any moment and you need to keep the energy level high at least for the first few minutes. You’re best off revealing your good qualities through a Love Systems technique called embedding. Tell a story about something you’d tell anyway, but fit in ‘incidental’ details for her to ‘discover’ about you. For example, you could tell a funny story of something that happened at a restaurant, mentioning in passing this took place during you last trip to China. If the “China” angle is purely incidental, the reference will seem incidental. In doing so, you’ve conveyed that you’re a traveler and must have at least a certain amount going for you..
Dumb First Date Move #8 – Being negative
You’ve probably heard by now not to be negative about your ex-girlfriend, and that’s good advice. But it’s even better not to be negative in general. People, who are negative about their family, friends, career, etc., usually aren’t very happy people or much fun to be around. Just as importantly, guys who complain about everything don’t generally have very good lives. Instead of believing that everyone in your life has randomly done you wrong, she might reason that the common element in all of your complaints is you. Be positive. It’s easy to do and will make a big difference.
Dumb First Date Move #9 – Making a second date
This might seem paradoxical. Presumably, if you are attracted to each other, you want a second date. That’s true, but you still don’t want to make the second date during the first. Flirting and romantic tension is part of the process for a lot of women, and if she knows that she’s earned a second date already, that deprives her of wondering when you’re going to text or call to invite her out again. You won’t come across as much of a challenge – and, as I wrote in my book The Magic Bullets Handbook, being a challenge is one of the eight crucial factors to attract beautiful women. Press too quickly for a second date and she might start to doubt her attraction to you. A partial exception – you can make vague long-term plans during any date as long they’re not specific – e.g., “You like sushi too? Awesome, we should go to that new place on the beach sometime this summer." Just don’t get specific or make firm plans.



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Financial independence is the dream many individuals aspire to reach. The idea of being able to earn your own income is a worthwhile thing to pursue, and luckily if you’re an entrepreneur, you’re already a step ahead of the rest of the world.
On the other hand, just because you’re bringing in your own source of income at the moment doesn’t mean the situation is set in stone. Whether you’re an aspiring entrepreneur currently working for someone else, or an established business owner, here are a few steps you can take to protect and preserve your financial autonomy.

INSURE YOUR INCOME:Nothing can disrupt your plan to remain financially independent like losing your ability to earn a living for yourself. It’s important to protect yourself from sudden disabilities or severe illnesses that could prevent you from working.
You take the time and effort to insure your life, car, home and health, so it makes sense that insuring your income should be included in that list.
Income protection insurance or, if you’re already operating your own company, business expenses insurance, guarantees that you can remain financially independent even if you’re physically unable to work.
If you’re currently working part time for someone else and running your own operation on the side, research income protection and speak with a specialist to help you decide which option is best for you.

KNOW YOUR COMPETITION:One of the biggest business rules of all time is also one that many small business owners fail to keep up on. Knowing your competition is vital to being able to continually offer services that your clients want.
It’s important to always be one step ahead of the game, so don’t wait until you stumble across what your competitors are doing, but actively keep up with what they’re doing on their website and social media outlets.
By knowing what you’re up against, you’ll have no problem thinking of ways to stand out and offer something unique.

AVOID BEING TIED DOWN BY LOCATION:When it comes to running your own business, always be on the lookout for ways to make your services mobile. Being tied down to a physical location corners your ability to branch out; the economy ebbs and flows, and certain geographical locations are better for running a company than others.
Sometimes all it takes to heal a suffering business is marketing to a region where your services are in higher demand. By having the option to hop anywhere the market is flourishing, you’ll help secure your ability to earn your own income.

HAVE A BACKUP PLAN:Always go through life with an optimistic demeanor, but at the same time, have a plan for if things fall down. If you want to continue to bring in an independent source of income, it’s vital to have a backup business plan.
You've started a company once before, so you could easily do it again if it came down to it. The trick is to have the resources ready to do so before it becomes a necessity. That and by having a setup of what you’d offer along with a list of connections you could network with, you’d be off to a much smoother start than having not prepared at all.
Running a company is a great way to become financially independent, and in order to make that feeling of freedom a long-lasting reality, it’s necessary that you take any steps you can to look out for the future. By insuring your income, knowing your competition, creating a mobile business plan and having alternative business options, you have a great chance of living a life full of financial security, freedom and independence.

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If BH broke cease fire deal, what is the army doing?.... Boko haram does not deserve to even make a deal with the government, they only deserve to be wiped out!

Exactly, lets just hope for the best.

Abi oo, God help us sha.

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Less than 24 hours after the much-publicised ceasefire deal reached by the Federal Government and the Boko Haram sect, the terrorist group attacked two communities in Borno State, a security source told Punch about the unfortunate incident.
The Nigerian government announced on Friday that the sect and the military had agreed to a ceasefire. But according to the top source, about 20 Boko Haram fighters in two pick-up vans stormed Maikadiri in Abadam Local Government Area, northern part of Borno on Friday night, shooting into homes.
An indigene of the attacked communities, Masta Ibrahim, said in Maiduguri that, “My parents are there and my brother called from Monguno to inform me early this morning but we couldn’t get across to our aged parents.”
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A member of the local vigilance group, Adam Kolo, in a telephone interview with our correspondent in Maiduguri on Saturday, said the sect had shown that there was no ceasefire with the latest attack.
He stated that the insurgents killed the father of the former Speaker of Borno State House of Assembly, Goni Ali-Modu. Also in a renewed attack on Shaffa, Hawul LGA, south of Borno on Saturday morning, scores of Boko Haram insurgents rode to a village near the town in the early hours of the day, shooting indiscriminately. Eight people were killed, according to a resident, Elijah Msheliza.

He said that many of the residents of the town had fled into the bush. Msheliza said, “There was pandemonium in Shaffa as Boko Haram invaded the nearby village, shooting at everybody at sight. We had to flee into the bush and, as I am talking to you, many of us are taking refuge in the bush.” Shaffa is about 230 kilometres from Maiduguri and had witnessed series of attacks by the insurgents. - See more at: http://www.naijalatestnews.com/boko-haram-breaks-ceasefire-deal-kills-scores-in-fresh-attack/#sthash.9heDWFIV.dpuf

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Well, the Super Eagles don’t only know how to play football…there’s the romantic side to them which not many get to see. In this piece we take you into the love lives of some of the Nigerian football stars you know. Enjoy!


Kanu And Amarachi Nwankwo

Kanu And Amarachi Nwankwo Retired Super Eagles star, Kanu Nwankwo popularly known as “Papilo” and his wife Amarachi got married in December 2004, in Imo State, Nigeria. Kanu and his wife dated for a few years before tying the knot at a star-studded wedding attended by who-is-who in Nigeria’s sports and political circle. They are blessed with three wonderful kids,two boys and a girl.
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Peter Osaze Odemwingie And Sarah Fallon

Super Eagles striker, Peter Osaze Odemwingie, 32, and his wife, Sarah Fallon, met during his early days at West Brom. He met Sarah at a local restaurant, and they have been together since then. The couple exchanged vows at Castle Ashby in Nottingham, England on May 26, 2012, and welcomed their first son, Noah, on January 20th, 2013.

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Austin And Nkechi Okocha

Austin And Nkechi Okocha Former Super Eagles midfielder, Austin “Jay-Jay” Okocha got married to his beautiful wife Nkechi in 1997 after dating for three years. Jay-Jay, 40, met his wife shortly after his team golden performance at African Nations Cup tournament in Tunisia in 1994. Austin ‘Jay Jay’ Okocha, Nigerian football legend recently threw a lavish 40th birthday party for his wife of 16 years, Nkechi Okocha on Friday October 25th at Civic Centre in Lagos.They have being married for sixteen years and are currently blessed with two children; Daniella and A-Jay.

Yakubu And Yvonne Aiyegbeni


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Out of favor Super Eagles striker, Yakubu Aiyegbeni married heartthrob Yvonne Lameen Ikhana in Lagos in July 2008. Yvonne is the daughter of one of Nigeria’s soccer legend, Kadiri Ikhana. Aiyegbeni, 31,who talked about his love for his wife in an interview says, I go for training and play my matches with happiness in my heart. That is the motivation that makes me perform well. She often tells me: ‘Just go there and play well and score for me. That gives me more confidence and belief in myself,” he said. They are blessed with a daughter named Kayla.

Joseph And Adaeze Yobo


Super Eagles captain and Fernabache of Turkey defender, Joseph Yobo got married to beauty queen Adaeze Igwe at what is still termed the “oddest wedding of the decade” at midnight of December 31, 2009. They met during the summer of 2009 when Joseph was in Nigeria on holiday during the football Off-Season in former club, Everton FC in England, while Ada was enjoying the last few months of fun before embarking on her course at the New York Film Academy. The couple are proud parents to a son, Joey Yobo, born in April 2010.

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Cheaters:

Look at the statistics: The chance of a successful relationship born of infidelity is not even one in 100. A marriage that starts in infidelity has no foundation. You go into it with guilt, shame, angst, worry, and all the baggage that comes with that. Add to that managing your ex and going through possible custody battles for children. Is it worth it?

Be honest with yourself: Is the unfaithfulness over with? Moving forward, do you absolutely and unequivocally have nothing to hide? You'll never get past this until you start being drop-dead honest. Remember, the best predictor of future behavior is past behavior. If you don't think you can stop on your own, get professional help.

Be honest with your partner: By not being honest with yourself and your partner, you're doing nothing but perpetuating the deception. If you know that you will continue to be unfaithful, and if you really care about your partner, you will let him/her go and get yourself some help.

Accept responsibility: Have the decency to tell your spouse in all honesty and candor that you own your choices. You're the one who ran this relationship off in the ditch. This had nothing to do with your partner. If you want to fix your marriage, you have to accept responsibility and do whatever it takes to earn your partner's trust back one step at a time.

Assess your commitment level: Are you committed enough to your partner in order to do the work necessary in order to repair the relationship? However long it takes to get this relationship back on the road, is however long you need to work at it.

Behave your way to success: Keep in mind, you can no longer be in contact with the person you were having an affair with. Avoid the places you know he/she frequents, change your phone numbers, and if you're unsure of your strength in staying away from him/her, then move. If you're so out of control that you're like a moth to a flame, then get away from the candle!

Turn toward your partner: When your life or relationship becomes rocky and affects your sexual relationship, that is the time you should turn toward your partner, not away from him/her because of your sexual needs.

Re-engineer your life: If you are a sex addict, and you really want to change this, it's not a quick fix. It's an entire reengineering of your life, values, beliefs, thoughts, conduct and emotions. It's about deconstructing your life, and reconstructing your future. Unless you get professional help, you're going to continue to victimize everybody who you touch because you're controlled by your impulses rather than your values

If You Are Being Cheated On.

Get real: The best predictor of future behavior is relevant past behavior. What do you predict? If your partner has cheated on you repeatedly and now swears he/she will stop, what are the chances that this is true? You can't change what you don't acknowledge. Isn't there a point at which you say, "I deserve better. My children deserve better. He/She may not have any boundaries, but I do. And my boundaries say, 'You either treat me with integrity, dignity and respect or you don't treat me at all'?" Stand up for yourself and for your children. You've given your power away and you've got to get it back.

This is not your fault: Stop beating yourself up about this. You have got to know that this has nothing to do with you. You are not the one who made the decision to break your commitment to your partner and cheat. You have nothing to do with your partner making the immature, inappropriate, self-destructive choice to turn away from you to someone else.

What is your payoff? Do you want to get past this? Or is there a payoff you receive from the situation? Do you enjoy playing the victim or subjecting your partner to a life sentence? Do you fear that if you forgive a partner who truly is remorseful and has changed his/her behavior that you are "letting them get away with it?"

Assess your commitment level: You can either handle being vulnerable with your partner again or you can't. And if you can't, you need to get out of this relationship and move on. And if you can, then you need to let him/her earn the trust back and start putting this relationship together again.

Consider the consequences: If you have children, your decision will affect them as well. You do have responsibility here for what you do next. You have to make a decision about whether or not justice is best served by allowing your partner to re-earn your trust, or if it's better not to subject your family any longer to the current situation.

Decide if you can choose to forgive: Forgiveness is a choice. It doesn't mean what your partner did is OK. How much you trust your partner is in part about what your partner does, and in part a function of whether you have confidence to handle it if he/she disappoints you. If you find out that he/she strays again, can you handle that?

If you can't forgive, let go: When you choose the behavior, you choose the consequences. If you continue to throw this in your partner's face, you will eventually run him/her off. Ask yourself if this is going to be a life sentence for your partner. Can you heal from this and forgive? If not, don't continue to live in anger and/or be with someone who causes you pain.

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Well we’ve got a lot of Nigerians playing beautiful football abroad and they are all really rich but we will narrow it down to the top 3 richest football.
Here our list of the top three richest footballers in Nigeria.

John Mikel Obi
Sources say John Mikel Obi, the Chelsea midfielder is the current highest earning Nigerian footballer. He joined Chelsea in 2006 from Norwegian club Fc Lyn Oslo on a US$25 million. He is currently on US$120,000,(N20m), per week excluding bonuses, and income from participating at the UEFA Champions League.
The 25-year-old Jos born player owns mansions in Jos, Lagos and London worth about N800m. He has shares in top companies, and he recently launched a record label, MATURED MONEY MIND (MMM). He drives a Mercedes G Wagon, Black Mercedes G 500, a Range Rover Sport and an N30Million Bentley Continental. He once said it’s very difficult finding a wife. Why won’t it be with all that cash?

Obafemi Martins
He’s been everywhere. The on loan UD Levante of Spain forward has played for top clubs like Inter-Milan of Italy, Newcastle united of England , Birmingham City of England, Vfl Wolfsborg of Germany , Rubin Kazan of Russia and currently Seatle Sounders in the US. Obafemi Martins is the fifth highest paid player in US Major League Soccer for the 2013 season, according to a players’ union release.
He is also the highest ever paid player for Seattle Sounders with an annual basic salary of $1.6million. The 28-year-old striker owns 2 mansions at VGC Lagos worth N500 million, a massive home in Como, Italy valued at N800 Million, and top hotels in Italy. He splashed N400million on his charity foundation not too long ago. He drives a Lamboghini worth N50m,Porsche Gemballa worth N20m, Bmw X6worth N 18M,and a Ferrarri sport car.

Yakubu AiyegbeniYak
As he is popularly called is still widely regarded as the most successful Nigerian footballer to play in England. His assets include a mansion on Manchester Road, London, a duplex in VGC, 2 massive buildings in Benin city and hotels in Auchi,Edo State. The former Boro man owns a petrol station in Benin City which is run by his brother Momo Aiyegbeni. In his garage back home in Nigeria are a fleet of cars including a Range Rover and a BMW

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