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CelebritiesRe: Orezi Chased Out Of Redeemer's University by Betasms: 4:12pm On Nov 17, 2014
hayoakins:
If the report is true, the members of the Redeemer's University Student’s Association would be suspended for a whole semester i were to be the Chaplain/VC. I am very sure they went against the norms of the school but would be allowed to write the semester exams sha undecided

If you want a rock'n'roll school, grab public institution forms.

BTW, what were those guys thUNKING (thinking), they want to be Shoking inside Redemption Camp? grin
Please did you attend redeemers uni, if you dint then stop talking nonsense. and btw, its no longer on redemption camp.
CelebritiesRe: Orezi Chased Out Of Redeemer's University by Betasms: 3:59pm On Nov 17, 2014
woodfrank:
oh OK. I'm sowie bout that.
Is this Bolu from Acc?
CelebritiesRe: Orezi Chased Out Of Redeemer's University by Betasms: 3:57pm On Nov 17, 2014
hotwax:
Education has gone to the gutters. Every little kid want to be a star without education. More armed robbers, more scammers..We will always be slave.

60% of naija students want to be musician. God help us. The future is very bad.
I really do not understand how the two topics rhyme, it is a social event in the school that he was invited for and this is not the first time a nigerian musician is coming to the school, so i dnt get your point, and you are the one that will always be a slave.
CelebritiesRe: Orezi Chased Out Of Redeemer's University by Betasms: 3:52pm On Nov 17, 2014
SAVEDBABA:
no matter wot,d rit tin should be done,how can d student invite a secular musician to a Christian school
Confirm well before you comment, who told you its a christian school, issit cuz of the name or the former location.
CelebritiesRe: Orezi Chased Out Of Redeemer's University by Betasms: 3:50pm On Nov 17, 2014
kennygee:
It was before it was moved.

I just realised that.

Thank you.
You are very welcome.
CelebritiesRe: Orezi Chased Out Of Redeemer's University by Betasms: 3:21pm On Nov 17, 2014
kennygee:
Dey sing Shoki for Redemption camp?

grin

The students messed up, they forgot where they were, obviously.

Singing Shoki in Redemption camp is hilarious.

When you're in Rome, act like the Romans.
Redeemers Uni is not in camp so get your facts right.
Jobs/Vacancies5 THINGS To Do After An Interview. by Betasms(op):
You’ve been anticipating the job interview for days or weeks and it’s over now. You have shaken hands and parted ways.
Now what? Here are five things you need to do after you finish a job interview.

Write a thank-you note immediately

Hopefully you collected business cards from each member of the interview team. The best way to follow up is to send an e-mail within 24 hours of the interview. Reiterate why you’re the best choice for the job.
You can also use the followup e-mail to thank the interviewers for their time, express your interest in landing the position, and mention anything else that led to a personal connection during the interview. Not many people write handwritten thank you notes any more, but if you do it could help you stand out. Consider hand-delivering your note so it arrives while the interview is still fresh in the interviewer’s mind.

Connect online

With business cards in hand, it can be tempting to connect at every listed address. But do so judiciously so as not to appear as though you’re stalking them.

For example, if the interviewer seems to be a heavy LinkedIn user with 500+ connections, he or she will probably be open to accepting your invitation. But if the person only has a few connections and doesn’t seem to use it frequently, he or she may view your invitation with skepticism. Following someone on Twitter, or their corporate tweets, is less intrusive and shows that you are interested in the company. Friending a professional connection whom you just met on Facebook is a no-no.

Continue to follow up
If it takes a while to get a response after the interview, consider following up again. However, make sure you are following up with something to offer each time.
One way to do this is to set up a Google Alert or do some online research to find out what’s happening in the employer’s industry so that you will have some news to share or topics to discuss in a brief followup note.

Keep notes
It’s important to keep track of job openings you pursue, contacts made, and resumes sent. After the interview, write down who you met and the date of the meeting, what you talked about, what you learned, your impressions of the workplace, and any concerns or questions you have.

Call
Electronic communication has become the norm these days, to the point that some people view phone calls as an intrusion on their time. So it’s best to be careful and considerate when you pick up the phone.
Did the new contact invite you to call them or did they state a preference for e-mail? If not, and if you have already reached out via e-mail and are still waiting for a response, think about what you want to say and what tone you want to impart before you start dialing. Better yet, practice that call first.
Romance30 Questions For Couples To Keep The Spark Alive!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! by Betasms(op): 3:53pm On Nov 13, 2014
To truly experience the perfect relationship, you need to make each other feel comfortable, and you need to learn to think from your partner’s perspective. And at times, the best ways to find out your partner’s perspective is by asking all the right questions.

If your partner doesn’t open up at first, ask your partner to question you first, hear your answer and then answer.

Use these 30 questions with your partner, and you’ll definitely help them open up to you, just as long as you remember to have a laugh, pull your lover’s leg and let them know that you’re completely fine with all their answers.

There are no *no* answers here. Your partner has to say something, anything!

#1 What’s the one secret you’ve been too embarrassed to tell me?

#2 Does it bother you if I look at another person and say he/she is sexy?

#3 Have you ever snooped on me behind my back?

#4 If there’s one thing you’d want to change about me, what is it?

#5 If we hadn’t met each other, where would you be right now?

#6 When was the last time you grazed against a sexy someone’s body accidentally?

#7 How would you describe love?

#8 Tell me five instances where you think we’ve had the most amazing sex.

#9 Reveal a sex confession you haven’t told me yet. It doesn’t matter if it’s a weak confession.

#10 What if I told you I was bisexual?

#11 What would you think if you caught me watching porn? Would you get turned on?

#12 What was on your mind the last time we were having sex?

#13 The average duration of sex for most couples is around ten minutes. How long do you think we last?

#14 The average frequency of sex for couples is about eight times a month. How many times a month do you feel is ideal?

#15 Of all the things you do to me sexually, what do you think turns me on the most?


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#16 What’s the most erotic thing a guy and a girl can do together?

#17 What’s the most recent awkward moment you experienced that I don’t know about?

#18 Tell me a sexual fantasy you like, one you haven’t told me yet.

#19 Do you think you can read my mind, what am I thinking right now?

#20 Have you every indulged in PDA with me in front of someone else just to make them jealous?

#21 What’s one manipulative behavior of mine which pisses you off?

#22 If you had to give me a funny nickname based on my personality or some part of me, what would it be?

#23 Right now, what would you like, mind-blowing sex or a cuddle in a hammock to watch the stars?

#24 If we were at a nude beach together, would you get naked and flash at someone, or would you want me to get completely naked?

#25 Have you ever wanted to buy a intimacy gadget, but hesitated?

#26 Celebs or friends, name one person you would want to sleep with if you were single *other than me, of course*?

#27 If I called you a Hot pervert, how would you confront my accusation?

#28 Why do you think some couples end up cheating on each other?

#29 How could we make our sex life more exciting?

#30 If you caught me in a room with an attractive person, and I tell you that nothing’s going on, would you believe me?

These 30 questions for couples may seem funny, or even a bit of a tease. But each of these questions will reveal a trait about your partner. It may be about their sexual interests or their views about cheating or insecurity, or many other things that matter in a relationship. And a few other questions can help both of you understand each other’s expectations in the relationship.

Try to have a light hearted conversation and ask each other these questions, and don’t take offence no matter what. At the end of the day, your partner is opening up to you only because they feel secure. By getting angry or annoyed at any point, you’re only going to make your partner hide deeper in their emotional shell.

RomanceRe: Dilemma Of A Single Female Banker. by Betasms: 1:32pm On Nov 13, 2014
ojubi:
SORRY TO DISAPOINT YOU MATE. ANY FEMALE BANKER WILL DIE TO MARRY A CLEANER IN MY COMPANY. THANKS TO OUR MANAGEMENT AND THE CLEANERS THEMSELFS FOR GOING BACK TO SCHOOL TO DO PART-TIME STUDIES AND CAME OUT WITH DEGREES.
THEY WERE ALL UPGRADED AND THEY EARN UP 5 MILLION NAIRA YEARLY.
DID I TELL YOU THEIR HOUSING ALLOWANCE IS ABOUT 1.2 MILLION NAIRA YEARLY? PAYEBLE IN THE FIRST QAUTER OF THE YEAR?
NEVER LOOK DOWN ON A CLEANER MATE, MOST OF THEM GOT DEGREES.
Please what company is that oo, let me come and work there.
RomanceRe: Dilemma Of A Single Female Banker. by Betasms: 10:05am On Nov 13, 2014
humilitypays:
What majority of serious guys seek for in a lady they want to settle down with are: humility, availability and simplicity, not status or career, and unfortunately, many female bankers and some working class ladies lack those qualities cos ladies get easily carried away by little career achievementsmiley

Men who are ready to marry and have a stable source of income don't care what a lady does for a living...all they want is the things I mentioned above, ladies take notesmiley
Maybe they dont have availability, but in this life, nobody wants simplicity, people just say they do cuz thats all they can get for certain reasons.

Everyone is attacking the banker, what about the cleaners, what if thats the only way they can get better living standards.

I just feel it all depends on the person you get to like, why are you a man that wants to be the head of a family intimidated by a stern looking

female banker, yeah some are unapproachable. But as a dude, if u want it, u know how to get it.

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Jobs/VacanciesBANK SALARY At Entry-level. Who Knows How Much Each Bank Pays? by Betasms(op):
Hi people, please who knows what the salary scale for each bank is like at Entry-level?

Its better to know that I will be overused at the highest paying bank, than to be suffering and still be earning low compaired to the other banks.


Please if you know kindly drop a comment.

THANK YOU.

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Jobs/VacanciesRe: How Do I Boost My Self-Confidence At Job Interviews? by Betasms(op): 3:25pm On Nov 04, 2014
beau49:
Bros kehuh? Mmm

Not everyone defended their project,take for example me and also not every department do defence e.g accounting(Delsu).

I don't get it,what has that got to do with the op. Am sure you also felt that way when you went for your first interview.

And no I don't expect you to pat him in the back rather atleast give him guidelines on how to overcome his shyness/fear. Like he said he has never been for an interview,so it is normal for him to feel jittery at first.

Some of the bold and confident people you see today started out being shy/timid/fearful and am sure if people had told to move aside and let others take over,they won't be where they are today. Some just need a little guidance,a push here and a shove there in order for them to wake up and be able to take control of things. So give the op a breathing space am sure he would learn and take charge of his fear.
Thank you jare.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: How Do I Boost My Self-Confidence At Job Interviews? by Betasms(op): 2:58pm On Nov 04, 2014
kilokeys:
bros... op should encourage himself in the Lord o

how did he defend his project to graduate?
he should do the same thing.

having submitted 300 applications and gotten less than 5 interviews.. u dont expect me to pat a dude on his back cos he is timid.
if he is, let him step down for others
Ehya sorry. I see where the pain is coming from now.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: How Do I Boost My Self-Confidence At Job Interviews? by Betasms(op): 12:10pm On Nov 04, 2014
taiwolusol:
You just Described my motto!!!

Interviewers are Human, as a matter of fact they want to HIRE you. You dont need anything Extra.

Just go to Interview venues as you. Be yourself.

Not every graduate is suitable for every Company. What Nestle, Shell, NBC and KPMG needs in their staffs are uniquely different.
What I'm I trying to say?
Oando might find you "not" suitable and NLNG might just describe you as their "Perfect" candidate.



Be yourself and It might just be a Walk in the pack.
Impress no one but you, you'll do fine wink
LMAO Oando must find me suitable oo. Thanks anyways
Jobs/VacanciesRe: How Do I Boost My Self-Confidence At Job Interviews? by Betasms(op): 12:01pm On Nov 04, 2014
dawealthiestman:
Your head is there
grin

Your head is there
Im not shy bruv, im afraid, fearful, nervous, panicky, agitated, alarmed, worried, intimidated. NOT SHY.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: How Do I Boost My Self-Confidence At Job Interviews? by Betasms(op): 11:58am On Nov 04, 2014
OMG Thank you sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo much guys, plus

those that want me to take weed and alcohol. You guys are the best. smiley
Jobs/VacanciesRe: How Do I Boost My Self-Confidence At Job Interviews? by Betasms(op): 11:56am On Nov 04, 2014
missrock:
seconded
Lool, will do.
Jobs/VacanciesHow Do I Boost My Self-Confidence At Job Interviews? by Betasms(op): 5:28pm On Nov 03, 2014
There are questions that employers commonly ask at job interviews and it's important to be prepared to respond to those interview questions. I have never gone for a job interview before, i have read about the potential questions online, and practically memorized their answers but i still feel that I will freeze on the day of the interview.

I dont want to be put on the spot during the job interview. What can I do?
TV/MoviesRe: What New Series Can I Watch? by Betasms(op): 4:44pm On Nov 03, 2014
scorpion is new doesnt have alot of episodes yet.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Went For FCMB Aptitude Test Today by Betasms(op): 4:21pm On Nov 03, 2014
im not working aswell, just finished nysc
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Went For FCMB Aptitude Test Today by Betasms(op): 3:25pm On Nov 03, 2014
TV/MoviesRe: What Is The Best Movie U Have Seen This Year 2014. by Betasms: 3:14pm On Nov 03, 2014
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Jobs/VacanciesRe: Went For FCMB Aptitude Test Today by Betasms(op): 2:56pm On Nov 03, 2014
bukky18:
pls ow did u applypls ow did u apply
Sent my Cv online and got called for the assessment test on friday.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Went For FCMB Aptitude Test Today by Betasms(op): 10:34am On Nov 03, 2014
Lagos, Gate crashing wasnt allowed oo.
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50 questions to be completed within 60 minutes. I dont know where they got their own clock/wristwatch from oo, it was as if someone was chasing them with all the verbal reasoning passages that someone had to read. The time wasnt enough. Any how sha it wasnt hard atall, even tho i was guessing at a point.
I hope they dont do negative marking like i heard. Those going for Access test, read your GMAT well oo.



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Romance3 Things Your Spouse Needs To Hear by Betasms(op): 4:02pm On Oct 30, 2014
These simple, heartfelt statements will deepen your love for each other.

I did

At our wedding ceremony, I chose you to be my spouse.
I promised to live with you according to God’s holy Word.
On that life-changing day, I promised to love you,
to comfort you,
to honor and keep you.
I swore to stand by you
for better or worse,
in sickness and in health.
At our wedding I renounced all others
and promised to give myself to only you, so long as we both shall live.
The pastor said, “Will you take this one?”
and I did.

I do

Today, I choose you to be my spouse.
I promise to continue living with you according to God’s holy Word.
On this ordinary day of our life together, I promise to keep on loving you,
to keep on comforting you,
to keep on honoring and keeping you.
Today, I am standing by you
for better or worse,
in sickness and in health.
Today and every day, I renounce all others
(no websites, no magazines, no videos, no lingering leers, or secret meetings).
I give myself to you and only you, so long as we both shall live.
People may ask, “Will you take this one?”
and, you must know, I do.

I always will

Tomorrow and every day God gives us, I will choose you to be my spouse.
I will continue living with you according to God’s holy Word.
Every day we share by God’s grace, I promise to always love you,
to always comfort you,
to to always honor and keep you.
As long as I have breath, I will stand by you
for better or worse,
in sickness and in health.
I will always renounce all others
and always give myself to only you, so long as we both shall live.
Our great-grandchildren may ask, “Will you take this one?”
and, you can count on this, I always will.

I did. I do. I always will. Your spouse needs to hear these three things and you need to say them as you gaze into his or her eyes.

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RomanceWho Is Being Faithful Harder For? The Guy Or The Girl by Betasms(op): 11:45am On Oct 29, 2014
Rather than answer this question, I’ll ask another question. If being faithful is easy, then why do so many people cheat? Have you asked your partner if they’ve always been faithful or their thoughts on cheating?

To be clear, I’m not only talking about physical encounters. Many people limit their definition of cheating to physical encounters. However, most infidelities don’t leap to the physical. You often work your way up to the physical point, so what about all those missteps you took on your way there?

What about all those indiscretions you overlooked, ignored, or somehow excused until the inevitable? You know the type: the extra DM on Twitter, the inappropriate ‘Like’ on a Facebook picture you had no business viewing in the first place, or the “hey, how have you been?” message to an X even though you’re in a new relationship. Then there is real life: the extra flirtatious laugh, touch, or suggestion you give or overlook from a person of interest. You know you respective statuses so instead you entice each other, playfully at first, until that invisible line between flirtatiously innocent suggestions and outright deceitful actions blurs beyond recognition. What then?

When I posed the question on Twitter, most people responded that being faithful is easy. This is an interesting theory. Are those who are faithful relatively stronger than those who are not? If so, what makes them so strong? Is it a strong moral resolve? Code? Ethics? Or do they simply have more will power than their cheat prone counterparts?

Does this mean once a cheater, always a cheater? If so, then telling someone who has cheated to simply avoid or stop cheating is like telling a drug addict to stop doing drugs. Yes, you’ve identified a solution, but if it were that simple then no one would cheat (or do drugs). This is why I think it’s important to identify the true cause in order to successfully address the issue rather than make blanket and dismissive statement.

Further, it may help to determine is it harder to be faithful than it is to cheat? Do men or women have it harder or easier? Is cheating more about avoiding situations that can lead to infidelity or having the strength to resist all opportunities real or imagined?

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RomanceTop 10: Relationship Killers by Betasms(op): 11:47am On Oct 28, 2014
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As if getting through the early stages of dating without blowing it isn't enough, things don't get any easier from there on. A million things can still collide with an otherwise solid relationship and leave a couple wrenched in two.
Of course, many of these problems can be worked through, but deciding to deal with any relationship killers requires careful thought as to whether the relationship is worth the trouble or not. Sometimes, despite all the hard work getting there, it's best to just cut your losses and move on. No one can list all the potential things that can screw up the course of true love, but we can give you a heads up on the most likely causes of coupledom death with these top 10 relationship killers.
10) Friends and family
A massive part of your life is made up of your friends and family and, like it or not, the same goes for her. So, not getting along with the other people who share your partner's life can push any relationship to its breaking point. It’s impossible to love everyone she knows, but maintaining “friendly” relationships with the closest people in her life (like her sister and best friend) is important in keeping your own relationship afloat.
The long-running disagreement over politics with her father that has turned serious, the fact that you and her best friend can't be in the same room... at some point, she’ll have to choose, and there’s no guarantee she’ll side with you.
9) Life stresses
Often, being part of a couple can put you in a “bubble” that closes you off from the rest of the world, giving you an us-against-them mentality. However, when the real world comes crashing into your little bubble, things can go really wrong. Issues like money problems, children from previous relationships, and issues carried over from past relationships are possible relationship killers that might place strain on you. Even little domestic issues (one person refusing to clean or cook) can chip away at your coupledom.
cool Persistent suitors
A couple is, by definition, made up of two people. Throw a third person into the mix and things will start to go wrong. If someone else if trying to get with you or your other half, distrust and suspicion can breed quite easily and can be a serious relationship killer. The effect of this is increased if the “other person” is a lingering ex. If the issue should arise, deal with it as quickly as possible. If you're the one with the admirer, simply tell her you're not interested; being friendly with her could give her hope and permission to stick around longer and toy with your current relationship.
7) Annoying habits
We already know you can't like everyone all the time. Well, sometimes this counts for your partner too. Everything about her might be great, but if she has a few annoying habits, be careful. Stupid and trivial as these annoying habits might be -- like talking in her sleep, leaving the cap off the toothpaste and wearing too much makeup -- they can be relationship killers and wreck a couple. Over time, these habits become magnified until you're angry with her more often than not, and you've talked yourself out of a relationship.
6) High comfort levels
After being together for a while, couples tend to grow comfortable with each other -- way too comfortable. They become more like friends than lovers as intimacy becomes way too familiar and routine, and they start to let things slide. Sex falls off the agenda and, before they know it, they've become the person stopping the other one from dating someone else.
5) Different goals
Over time, if a couple isn't careful, they might begin to drift apart. This could be due to a lack of communication as other things, such as careers, become more important, or it could be a symptom of a relationship that just isn't working.
If both people are chasing separate goals, such as one wanting to put down roots where they are and the other going after a promotion which could involve relocating, clearly their future is in jeopardy. When this situation is left unchecked, someone is eventually going to have to choose between their ambitions and their significant other.
4) The past
People who live in the past find it impossible to move forward. If one of you insists on comparing your new relationship to previous ones, the future doesn't look good. While learning from past mistakes is a good thing, treating them as a blueprint for every other relationship is not. What you have now is different to anything you've had before, so let it grow free from past screw-ups. Likewise, dragging the past of this relationship into the present is also damaging. So what if one of you messed up in the first few weeks? There's no point mentioning it in every single argument. If a couple decides to move on from a problem, they move on and focus on the future; the past should always be left in the past.
3) Moving too fast
Healthy relationships progress naturally. While not always at the same speed, they tend to move on as both people become more and more comfortable with each other. It's an unspoken, instinctive thing. However, some people seem to lack this instinct and rush to make a blossoming relationship into something it's not ready to be.
No one likes to be rushed. A couple that sees one partner constantly pushing the other to commit before they're ready is a couple that won't last long. Especially dangerous is the M-bomb. Once one person is chasing a wedding the other isn't ready for, an otherwise successful relationship is usually over.
2) Dependence/independence
Maintaining the right balance between dependence and independence is tricky. Too much of one and people feel smothered. If a couple gets to the point where they have nothing in their life apart from each other, they need to back away a little. Otherwise, one partner will feel the need for space and resent the other for taking their freedom away.
Conversely, if too much independence is asserted, the other person starts to feel lonely. If one partner has an all-absorbing job or interest with nothing but the minimum of time for their partner, things are equally bad. While space and time apart from each other is needed, too much is as bad as smothering -- both end with someone looking elsewhere.
1) Cheating
Cheating is the ultimate relationship killer, and one that the majority of couples won't survive. The initial betrayal of finding out that a partner has cheated is often enough to leave a couple stone-cold dead while the bed sheets are still warm.
And even if a couple does try to work past the cheating, the future doesn't look good for them. By now, all the trust in the relationship has been blown. No matter how much anyone promises there will be no other indiscretions, both people will expect the other to one day fall into bed with someone else.


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RomanceRe: 10 Men Tell The Reasons Why They Cheat by Betasms(op): 2:28pm On Oct 27, 2014
mikedimeji:
Every body is looking for a way of justifying their actions. So so unfortunate
very true.

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