gimakon2:
Hi My friend,
I do not have much to say, but let me say few things.
The issue of Ladies cheating , is not very new. They cheat a lot just like us men, and if they ever get into sex, especially raw sex with a man, that relationship of yours is gone. Better go start something with someone else. Men cheat by what they see, Girls cheat by what is given to them, what they see and what they hear. Sounds funny right?
You dont have to beat yourself , you did your best, she was being greedy. She wanted more and she definitely got more. Its time to be a man. Walk away from that relationship that has no respect and regard for you and console yourself. Let me tell u what i do in this type of Scenario. I know forgetting would be hard, at the same time, we all have been down that line before, ME typing here , i don see shege for these girls hands , but at the same time, i learnt a thing or two. I give money, i give them peace, I do not fight them, what I get in return...lol... One is even asking me for money and has the temerity to upload her man everyday for me to see on whatsapp status. Shows i am not even in her class.. Sounds funny right? But i had to man up, behave like everything is fine, na she day send me message day ask me what is wrong, why am I really distancing from her? If its because of the money she asked of me, I just fine something tell am, I used to call before, but not anymore. I just free her make the mumu day do the talking and let me keep my calm , proceed with my plans, Japa plans and all and let her be. When she realises her mistakes , she would definitely know the entire fault was hers, but if I had taken it to be a fight, i will lose regard , respect and even face to talk to her. Gradually, she would come to her senses and realise, but then, the mistakes will not, cannot, will not ever , wouldnt be anywhere near being reconciled. Make she just day go like that.
Some girls actually think, "I get Nyash, i fine" they can get any man. It is fine, do not allow it get to you. Let her have her fun. Do not Panic much, just allow her be. That money you give her and she gives you attitude, put the money together, put yourself together, plan a trip to some west african nation and be there for somedays. Go on Tinder, seek for a real person both of you can mingle and talk, if you can pls avoid Nigerian girls and those Togolese girls, for your sanity, if both of you have travel interest, take time to travel together. Take sometime out visit Locations in and outside Nigeria, open a Youtube channel and upload videos , get paid by YT go places and be living a good life, Its a promise, when she sees you are better, she would definitely come back. Try it and see. Then it would be left for you to decide if you would wonna go back, but for me, I would not. Make she continue day fuck__ day go front na she sabi. I like when girls make mistakes, especially the ones they cannot reconcile. And the only way is to let them make those mistakes for a Lifetime.
I wanted to say few things, but i ended up typing lines. Learn a thing or two from here.... Do not let some girl way no even know what she wants spoil your day. She no worth am.
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[quote author=purples25 post=89461932]I've spent some good portion of my life giving all to my erm, love. I didn't have much, but I gave all my money and stuff. It still didn't work out.
A guy being broke does not make him an angel and doesn't mean he deserves you. At the end of the day, he will leave for greener pastures and a woman who NEEDS him, a woman who makes him feel like a MAN. This is that woman that probably never worked or suffered with him, the one that just looks pretty and has her hand out for money. For staying there and managing, you become his masculine partner, a work mule
The truth is bitter. Truth is everything you put up there, OP. So hypergamy and co. really works. Keep up the teaching abeg.[/quote
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