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dohyn: Ma'am,let me correct this misconception u and lots of people seem to have..the test kit I'm talking about uses a lancet to pierce the thumb.it's just like using a needle to pr.ick ur hand only that it's sharper.Using a syringe to draw blood requires u tying a tourniquet around the forearm and obviously,someone who's asleep would wake up.I'm sure if u google it up,it will be explained better.
My grouse with her doing it is that it's a matter of trust..I trust u enough to sleep next to you at night knowing that u could wake up and kill me..if I don't wanna do the test,u should try to make me see reason and not betray the trust I have in you.if your girlfriend can do that to you whilst asleep,I fear to think what she'll do if we break up..remember"all hell hath no fury like a woman scorned" to paraphrase congreaves.

talk abt trust there is no one dat wouldn't claim he or she is trustworthy, but would u go about trusting people becos they said u should trust them? No. Trust is earned especially when it involve relationship. There are attitudes dat could cause distrust among partners. Like do u know how long the girl must have been persuading him to go run the test and he keep dodging the test. Only dat can give the girl sleepless night becos dats a signal dat the guy is playing around. Even if it's fear, yes I know it causes fears when u want to run the test especially for the first time, but with time u'l come to realize dat what we are talking about is life and ur future as well. If u truly love ur partner u will do it for him or her so as to clear all doubt and have some level of trust in the person. I had a friend like dat who refused when I suggested dat we go for the test becos of his past live. and for me I decided that we either do it or I will part becos I cannot live in fear. So after some many talks and promises he summoned courage abd said let's go. U can never believe how relieved and happy he felt after running the test for the first time in his life. His life style became better and when we were no longer in the same state, he called to tell me he now check on himself every six months and he encourage people to do it. He is grateful dat I caused him to the test. So what am I saying? The girl must have notice something that made her to want to be sure of whom she is going out with and tried to convince him to do the text but he is not responding and dat could be reason why she did it.

[quote author=Mr..Cork]Say what?? you aint even fine!! [/quote]Fine is not even enough to qualify me, am an angel

tellwisdom: Bro, dont advise benyansh. She wil go and marry the man. #I know it

Benyansh, you can go and marry him now. We have tried

Lefool, ur case don tire God sef. i'v got a youn man, u heard me.

MRbrownJAY: as far as i know he wasnt, he just brought to her life what she needed/desired (and it had nothing to do with money or status).

ok, dis is an exception.

Am a witness to this, slim u want my brother

this kind of sleep that one could piersed his body with syringe and he couldnt feel anything na lie be that.

U can sue me for all i care, i dont blame her. why should we be in relationship and u wouldnt accept ur responsibility?
she deserve to know his hiv status becos her life in involve. may be the boy is playing and not sure of himself.

slimyem: no babe,but i've been to the market square though...

I heard the sell smoked fish in the grocery stores

[quote author=Mr..Cork]that reminds me. Ladies,i want to settle down. Pls holla at me if you are vacant. cheers! [/quote]so if the op did not remind u, u would not realize that u r 50 and still single

slimyem: okay,we now know you are out of the country...
What else is new?

have u been to the grocery store before?

did any one see my car some where?

:Phow can she say yes? Mbanu

MRbrownJAY: @OP
what is the issue here, are you saying that a 27yr old female CANNOT fall in love with a 53yr old man, for genuine reason other than greed etc? are you saying that the fact that her father is younger than this guy is an issue?

we all know that many younger women crave for the father figure and fall in love with older men because of that, so couldnt it just be that she was looking for a more mature gentleman after having wasted her time with younger immature men.

i was talking a few days ago with a very close friend of mine of 26, and after dating a few guys her age in the past (looking for love etc) she ended up falling in love with a 50yr old guy. they were first friends, then "good" friends and it happened, and as she put it to me:" she's never felt love with a guy before, like she felt love with this old dude".
so is it possible, hell yeah, so long as they are ok with the occasional look and stare about the obvious age difference.

In that case that old man must be rich, has acquired more access or at least more confortable. u can rarely see a young girl fall in love with a poor elderly person of 50 plus.

[quote author=Mynd_44]Is that what you tell the mirror every morning?[/quote]what mirror?

190: Oh beync
Oh beync
D only last survivor of d nigerian female race
Finally gone mad, what happened 2 u beync how can u ask a question
And huh follow it

Dats madness - wetin we fit do 2 salvage ur madness

U mad 190, u chairman of mad people association of NL calling some one mad
now go to the gate and get busy, ode

[quote author=Kevin_II]beync i need a sugar mommy. any recommendation? since u walk in those circles[/quote]Huh

bennyraz: common beync.. You're d one. Why hiding under the canopy of A FRIEND hun?

[quote author=Mynd_44]I hate it when people drop a story about them and lie that it is their friend[/quote]gerrout! i have a man 32 and dats exactly what i want, not a kid like u and not paparazi, tongue.

Huh?

I met with my friend yesterday and she told me abt a friend of her I know, she is 27 and she is getting married a 53 year old Man dis coming july. I learn di man is buoyant, so I wondered if the man were not rich could dis same girl agree to marry him at the same age? Could dis be true love? Girls would u fall in love with some one older dan ur father? I know age is just number but dis girls's dad is just 43. how will u tell ur dad u r getting married to some one older dan him?

Very correct op. In fact @ the 1, 2 and 3rd months into a relationship all u see is a perfect spouse. U almost in lust with everything abt him or her.

Did u see my end of discusion?

Why should I trust kola?

Chelsea noise makers

U should have rejected her wen she started coming, but u were enjoying the pleasur. What have gained from this pay back? becos that exactly what u did.

[quote author=Mr. Globe]why do you even pay that foolish illeke idi any attention. She is so dumb that she cant maintain a sound argument when you get into one with her. She has the brains of a kindergatten so its better for you to ignore her like everyone else on Nairaland has done. Cheers![/quote]. I u r right bro, I'v never seen such a dumb! I couldn't v agree more, thanks.

[quote author=*Ileke-IdI]Neither did Sudan start its revolution on an online forum like NL. Lazy online warriors like yourself should join MASSOB whose presently lagging behind other groups.[/quote]. U r suffering from brain tumor!! What's ur obsession with ibos? U bigot!

[quote author=Mr..Cork]huh??SAY WHAT? sweery beans. do u realiaze how many chicks chase me on Nairaland including you & mrs Chima? you aint even light skin![/quote]. Hey chicken, they r chasing ur laps or wings?

U wish

Good Girl: First of all, Mr. Cork never uses his brain.

Secondly, the reason why there's a higher rate of divorce among the white/Western folks is because the stigma of divorce is relatively minimal among them than it is in Africa (especially in Nigeria), and because of that, they do not have to put up with the kind of s[i]h[/i]it that Nigerian African women have to put up with. They know they have a way out of a bad marriage (translation-philandering husband), unlike Nigerian African women who think that divorce is the Armageddon. They'd rather be burnt alive and melt in 6,000°C heat than be tagged a "divorcee". Yeah. I know. I know. It's THAT bad.

Thirdly, don't be fo[i]o[/i]led by Mr. Cork. He loves Black/African women. End of story.

. True black women deserve apology frm black men for all the shiits the take frm them. White women will kick their bottom if they try nonsense. Btw, I can't take cork for serious, no woman has said yes to him.

[quote author=D.pinaku][/quote]. It's not funny for me