Please think about what your doing firstly:

1. This will affect your sister
2. If you don't tell anyone and you deal with it yourself (forums where your anonymous DO NOT COUNT) it will kill your conscience

My girlfriend went through the same thing, she had her older sisters boyfriend firstly seduce her. He started with words, then Kisses then phone intimacy (she did not even no it was phone intimacy till i told her in one of our fights) then finally he even got to get all her clothes off and they romped around naked!!!! apparently nothing happen, i am not going to say that I believe or disbelieve her as its just as bad to me!! (and whats worse is she did not feel comfortable doing either the phone intimacy or the naked bit but she just went along!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!)

I love her and this is the kind of things that go through my head. Her sister has an idea, and so do her parents but not the whole story. I do. And it puts a strain on our relationship. You know what she also discovered. That looking back it was not that she loved this guy, she loved the fact that someone would treat her special! Now her sister is going to marry this prick and the secret is with her and I. It is a VERY heavy burden. See if it were me I would tell everyone and make him face the music of seducing the younger sister and trying to coax her into sex (the getting naked bit) and you know what he said to her "I did not want sex just to lay on you" thats afterwards!!! Their talks on the phone were about can I just put the tip in (phone intimacy portion). Man, she's with me NOW and she REGRETS what she went through, that she was not strong enough to say no or that she is not strong enough to tell everybody the FULL story (they know that he wanted to have sex with her but not the details).

Do not make the same mistake, LOVE is used too often to discribe butterfly feelings, or attraction or the mix of the two. Love is neither, love is sacrifice, willing to give up something of yours to ensure the happiness and safety of the person you love. Love is when an older brother gives his younger brother his icecream when his brother dropped his, love is when a mother would give her life for her baby. Love is staying in a relationship that is not comfortable or easy because you care about what happens to the other person and you DO NOT TRUST anyone else to takecare of them properly or give them what they need.

Now ask yourself, are you in love with this GUY?? Does he LOVE YOU?? and have you discussed the things you guys do together to your family, sister or his family?? If you are ashamed then YOU KNOW YOURSELF that its wrong. There is no in between. Things are either Right or Wrong!!!!!! No ask yourself straight, whats your conscience and your HEART say!!!!!!!

PS: When you do fall for someone for real, can you look back on this and tell him??

Please think about what your doing firstly:

1. This will affect your sister
2. If you dont tell anyone and you deal with it yourself (forums where your anonymous DO NOT COUNT) it will kill your conscience

My girlfriend went through the same thing, she had her older sisters boyfriend firstly seduce her. He started with words, then Kisses then phone intimacy (she did not even no it was phone intimacy till i told her in one of our fights) then finally he even got to get all her clothes off and they romped around naked!!!! apparently nothing happen, i am not going to say that I believe or disbelieve her as its just as bad to me!! (and whats worse is she did not feel comfortable doing either the phone intimacy or the naked bit but she just went along!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!)

I love her and this is the kind of things that go through my head. Her sister has an idea, and so do her parents but not the whole story. I do. And it puts a strain on our relationship. You know what she also discovered. That looking back it was not that she loved this guy, she loved the fact that someone would treat her special! Now her sister is going to marry this prick and the secret is with her and I. It is a VERY heavy burden. See if it were me I would tell everyone and make him face the music of seducing the younger sister and trying to coax her into sex (the getting naked bit) and you know what he said to her "I did not want sex just to lay on you" thats afterwards!!! Their talks on the phone were about can I just put the tip in (phone intimacy portion). Man, she's with me NOW and she REGRETS what she went through, that she was not strong enough to say no or that she is not strong enough to tell everybody the FULL story (they know that he wanted to have sex with her but not the details).

Do not make the same mistake, LOVE is used too often to discribe butterfly feelings, or attraction or the mix of the two. Love is neither, love is sacrifice, willing to give up something of yours to ensure the happiness and safety of the person you love. Love is when an older brother gives his younger brother his icecream when his brother dropped his, love is when a mother would give her life for her baby. Love is staying in a relationship that is not comfortable or easy because you care about what happens to the other person and you DO NOT TRUST anyone else to takecare of them properly or give them what they need.

Now ask yourself, are you in love with this GUY?? Does he LOVE YOU?? and have you discussed the things you guys do together to your family, sister or his family?? If you are ashamed then YOU KNOW YOURSELF that its wrong. There is no in between. Things are either Right or Wrong!!!!!! No ask yourself straight, whats your conscience and your HEART say!!!!!!!

PS: When you do fall for someone for real, can you look back on this and tell him??