he definitely wants to cheat the both of u
he already tasted ur sist
and now he wants to also taste u
may be he will want ur mum next
be careful
a word is enough 4 d wise
there is no such word as love

there is not enough information here to discern the guy's true intentions.

tell him what ya heart says
be true 2 yaself ya sis n 2 him

But what if after rejecting this guy it happens that his is sincere what will happen.

This is not abt him.
This is abt your sister,can u bear it if it were to be you.

I think you are in love with this guy already.

You are not being fair on your sister.

hmm...That's a hard one, Goldenoc,I really do not know how to reply that, I guess you'd just regret it if you found out that the guy was being sincere.

Itz really a pity what some guys do or to what extent they will go to sleep with a girl. That guy has no conscience. His type gave us guys a bad name. U know what u should do? Tell him to DIE first if he really loves u as he said. If he really loves u let him die for u to prove it. some guys will simply never mature in their misrable life. itz very said. Age is not a determinant.

what are you talking about? there is no evidence here that the guy is trying to sleep with anyone. For all we know, the guy is being sincere. Its people like you who give guys a bad name, when your first instinct is to assume foul play on his part.

The fact is that l don't want to make mistake, what if, if l forget this guy and it happend to be a friend assigned by God for me, maybe as he was searching he comes accross my sister and later finds out that she is not what he want.

@ goldenoc do you love this guy?sounds to me as if you do!!iif you love him then just go ahead and follow your heart.

Girl, please dont make that mistake, it will be too bad and moreso think of your sister.

Do you like your sister at all? If yes you will be hurting her the most cos no matter what even if she doesn't really like the guy, the mere fact that you as a blood dates her friend will remain a scar for her.

goldenoc,goldenoc,goldenoc....my sista,if i talk now u will say am insulting you. But i go still talk. Blood is blood. If you think this Guy might be God sent to you, no problemo. Have you ever heard the phrase" if you love someone/something let it go, if its yours it will come back. If it doesnt then it was never yours in the first place"? Let him GOOOOOO for now cause your sista will get hurt. If he truly loves you he will keep a safe distance and retrace his steps later. Your obligation for is to your sis for now. Later i bet you even she will understand cause sistas are just so WONDERFUL,Well,at least mine are. I have five sistas, I lost one of them in august this year. I will do anything for them.

hehe. . .that statement is bs; if you love something, and let it go, its not coming back to you.

allonym you don't believe that i think what alheri said is true because what goes around comes around.

goldenoc:

allonym you don't believe that i think what alheri said is true because what goes around comes around.

- huh?

as for me i cant date my sisters boyfriend its not just possible i'll even tell them straight away so they can act

Please think about what your doing firstly:

1. This will affect your sister
2. If you dont tell anyone and you deal with it yourself (forums where your anonymous DO NOT COUNT) it will kill your conscience

My girlfriend went through the same thing, she had her older sisters boyfriend firstly seduce her. He started with words, then Kisses then phone intimacy (she did not even no it was phone intimacy till i told her in one of our fights) then finally he even got to get all her clothes off and they romped around naked!!!! apparently nothing happen, i am not going to say that I believe or disbelieve her as its just as bad to me!! (and whats worse is she did not feel comfortable doing either the phone intimacy or the naked bit but she just went along!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!)

I love her and this is the kind of things that go through my head. Her sister has an idea, and so do her parents but not the whole story. I do. And it puts a strain on our relationship. You know what she also discovered. That looking back it was not that she loved this guy, she loved the fact that someone would treat her special! Now her sister is going to marry this prick and the secret is with her and I. It is a VERY heavy burden. See if it were me I would tell everyone and make him face the music of seducing the younger sister and trying to coax her into sex (the getting naked bit) and you know what he said to her "I did not want sex just to lay on you" thats afterwards!!! Their talks on the phone were about can I just put the tip in (phone intimacy portion). Man, she's with me NOW and she REGRETS what she went through, that she was not strong enough to say no or that she is not strong enough to tell everybody the FULL story (they know that he wanted to have sex with her but not the details).

Do not make the same mistake, LOVE is used too often to discribe butterfly feelings, or attraction or the mix of the two. Love is neither, love is sacrifice, willing to give up something of yours to ensure the happiness and safety of the person you love. Love is when an older brother gives his younger brother his icecream when his brother dropped his, love is when a mother would give her life for her baby. Love is staying in a relationship that is not comfortable or easy because you care about what happens to the other person and you DO NOT TRUST anyone else to takecare of them properly or give them what they need.

Now ask yourself, are you in love with this GUY?? Does he LOVE YOU?? and have you discussed the things you guys do together to your family, sister or his family?? If you are ashamed then YOU KNOW YOURSELF that its wrong. There is no in between. Things are either Right or Wrong!!!!!! No ask yourself straight, whats your conscience and your HEART say!!!!!!!

PS: When you do fall for someone for real, can you look back on this and tell him??

Please think about what your doing firstly:

1. This will affect your sister
2. If you don't tell anyone and you deal with it yourself (forums where your anonymous DO NOT COUNT) it will kill your conscience

My girlfriend went through the same thing, she had her older sisters boyfriend firstly seduce her. He started with words, then Kisses then phone intimacy (she did not even no it was phone intimacy till i told her in one of our fights) then finally he even got to get all her clothes off and they romped around naked!!!! apparently nothing happen, i am not going to say that I believe or disbelieve her as its just as bad to me!! (and whats worse is she did not feel comfortable doing either the phone intimacy or the naked bit but she just went along!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!)

I love her and this is the kind of things that go through my head. Her sister has an idea, and so do her parents but not the whole story. I do. And it puts a strain on our relationship. You know what she also discovered. That looking back it was not that she loved this guy, she loved the fact that someone would treat her special! Now her sister is going to marry this prick and the secret is with her and I. It is a VERY heavy burden. See if it were me I would tell everyone and make him face the music of seducing the younger sister and trying to coax her into sex (the getting naked bit) and you know what he said to her "I did not want sex just to lay on you" thats afterwards!!! Their talks on the phone were about can I just put the tip in (phone intimacy portion). Man, she's with me NOW and she REGRETS what she went through, that she was not strong enough to say no or that she is not strong enough to tell everybody the FULL story (they know that he wanted to have sex with her but not the details).

Do not make the same mistake, LOVE is used too often to discribe butterfly feelings, or attraction or the mix of the two. Love is neither, love is sacrifice, willing to give up something of yours to ensure the happiness and safety of the person you love. Love is when an older brother gives his younger brother his icecream when his brother dropped his, love is when a mother would give her life for her baby. Love is staying in a relationship that is not comfortable or easy because you care about what happens to the other person and you DO NOT TRUST anyone else to takecare of them properly or give them what they need.

Now ask yourself, are you in love with this GUY?? Does he LOVE YOU?? and have you discussed the things you guys do together to your family, sister or his family?? If you are ashamed then YOU KNOW YOURSELF that its wrong. There is no in between. Things are either Right or Wrong!!!!!! No ask yourself straight, whats your conscience and your HEART say!!!!!!!

PS: When you do fall for someone for real, can you look back on this and tell him??

Wow bibli are you serious? And shes gonna let her sis marry that A-hole? Pls and pls advise her to tell her sis now cos it will be worse if she finds out after marrying the guy. pls i beg you in the name of God. That guy is evil! Imagine! phone intimacy and getting her naked? Pls,she should tell her sis. I know its not your place to tell cos its really your friends secret so convience her to tell. Infact blackmail her, tell her you'd tell if she doent.

what's there 2 say again other than leave me alone. except he's actually turning you on by his approaches...u know you ladies. Simply tell him as it is...i don't see how this is a problem...because except you have some feeling for him other than that of "my sister's boyfriend" then simply tell him to stop bein a jerk and concentrate on his relationship if he continues then i strongly advice you tell your sister or threaten him with with the thot of it

Note taken

U neva can tell if d sister has done it to the elder one b4 2.

Mayb she reaping wot she ones sown

does it mean he choose the wrong people @ the right time?pls think twice b u cross d door.

Gold

I am sure you can clearly see that he wants to eat his cake and have it. Tell him that he needs to run for the hills or else you would go loco on him. It is the oldest fantasy in the book "Two Sister" and when a man does it, he has a chip on his shoulder for the rest of his life. Please tell him like it is........... and get him straightened out.

Okay your sister's boyfriend is asking u out,  da answer for me would be HELL NO! I would've been like hey yo nigga do u really think that i'm a hoe 2 go wit u. And do u actually realize that i'm your girlfriends sister. Abi are u goin' 2 say u did'nt know? And if he still bugging i'll make sure 2 disgrace him. What an insult. You know that if u say yes 2 that kind of person they'll b using it against u till da day u die. And i know whether if your sister is with him or not she would'nt allow u 2 go wit somebody so stupid and inresponsible.

Well I have an even more unusual situation and need some advice. Last night, I was partying with my sister and her boyfriend of 3 years. We came back to my place and had a few drinks and then my sister left because she had to work early and her boyfriend stayed at my house. Well he broke out a little nose candy and we did a few lines. Then we started talking about sex. (I am a bi-sexual male, he is strictly straight). After i showed him the guest room, he sort of started pulling at my shirt and one thing led the the next and I ended up giving him a great Mouth Action. Now I have all of these mixed up feelings. I feel guilty for cheating on my sister with her own boyfriend, I imagine that my friendship with her boyfriend will now be different or uncomfortable for awhile. What should I do? Signed, Anonymous.

somehow, this seems like a copy of something that exists somewhere else, and not your own personal problem.

particularly since I remember reading something with either extremely similar or the exact same text more than 4 months ago in another forum.

lol, yeah me 2 i remeber reading it somewhere, dude u didnt have 2 replace urself wit d guy, datz not a good reputation 2 keep, lol

no way!!!!!!!how will you go out with your sister"s guy?its better you telll the guy off so as not to cause commotion btw you and your sister,tell him off he is a BASTARD!!!!!!!!!!!

You guyz keep saying ----nO DNT NO DNT

ave u guys ever asked her if she was the 1 askin d guy out?

godness gracious. wat r u askin us for? advice? its all common sense. girl, tell him to get lost. the bobos ball is thinkin for him o.