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yeyebrity:
Hello, if you are in the US and can help to pay an application fee while we credit you in Naira, please mention me.

What do you want to pay for and how much?

I have some coins I want to trade with a vendor who also uses the same wallet as me so I don't attract so much transfer charges that is associated with sending to a wallet on another network.

Please signify if you buy Bitcoins and also use Paxful.

Thanks.

do you have a tv stand with lights in it?

lordfalcao:
it's on WhatsApp

I'm still waiting for an alert for the eBay card.

SenecaTheYonger:
Sex don’t start from the brain though, I can tell you that.

If you’re sexually fit, you will randomly pop boners for no reason. And I mean strong ones. You’ll just be honey despite not even looking at anything erotic.

That’s how a normal adult should be. Sounds like you have low sex drive or you’re depressed.

Maybe a combination of both

I wasn't like that though, and what would be a valid explanation for an abrupt boner without any form of stimulation if not your brain doing the magic.

And for that, I think I found a way to train myself not to ever have that in public because it could be embarrassing. I'm a fairly tall guy and that means I have a fairly long dick so an abrupt boner in public cannot go unnoticed.
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So I've found a way to avoid that and it hasn't happened in a long time. I believe I'm healthy and I believe I could be fairly sexually active if I was in an emotionally healthy relationship with the opposite sex.

At least I've had a relationship with someone who happens to be a Nairaland member and we had bomb sex. Took me a while to connect but when we started we were having four rounds of sex twice every weekend. Initially, each session would last for hours. So I'm wondering what is wrong with me now. On the flip side, I'm thinking maybe I exhausted all my appetite for sex.

In addition, I'm not against all those things I mentioned above. They actually make such relationship beautiful but not when it's one sided.

A guy could be bouyant today and decide to spoil his girl with all these things but what happens when he's having challenges, would this same girl have his back. ofcourse not because often times this same girl needs backup herself 90% of the time.

It's totally different if this same girl is your partner, like real partner who is involved in what you do. That gives her the automatic right to your funds. You're both entitled to the trips and dates because she's on your team. That's basically the foundation to a good marriage, but when everything is one sided, you two might be together but it won't work because someone is leaching on the other. That's how I see things and what is preventing me from pursuing one.

Romanoff:
Is friendship expensive?

Dates cost money.

Would a girl start off her friendship with you by visiting your house?
Even at that, there would be something at stake.

Even that time you spend together costs something because you could have spent it on something more financially worthwhile.

Talk less of the long throats who would start demanding getaways , lunch and dinner in some fancy restaurant that would cost upwards of 20k to 30k just based in friendship.

Romanoff:
Take your time to be friends.

That's the point. I don't pursue any friendships. I hardly call, maybe once in a blue moon when I feel like.

Like kiriss216 said, I believe he understands me perfectly but then how long will I stay without them before everyone believes there's something wrong with me.

First off, I hardly come about my spec and when I do, I actually don't feel like putting an effort.

Ever since my adult life, I've had a non conventional way I approach females and relationships.
Even though I'm fairly good looking and most of the time easily get a girls attention. in recent times, I've had an ample opportunity to start a relationship with a few ladies but I no longer feel the need or the urge to make it happen.

I can categorically say I haven't been with or had sex with a woman upwards of a year and even at the last encounter, it was nothing to write home about. We just slept together after convincing her to spend the night with me, ofcourse with money. I could hardly have an erection talk less of sustaining it.

Now, this to me is not an issue because I believe sex starts from the brain and my mindset isn't wired that way anymore. It seems I can't bring myself to do it if I don't feel any deep emotional connection with that person.

That emotional connection is the problem because mostly these days, girls really don't care about that. All they mostly care about is what you're bringing to the table or what you provide financially and materially. Seems to me like love and sex is merely a transaction not different from paying a prostitute for sex.

Can someone help me put this into perspective. Maybe I'm getting it all wrong because this is costing me a lot of relationships I'm very reluctant to pursue even after the first contact and exchanging numbers. I no longer feel the urge to ask them on dates and all that.

Themainboy22:
See as the guys above are telling the OP to run for his life, even when it's obvious he's already on the run, But fail to advise women to stay away from marriage if they know they can't be contented with their husband.

I truly believe she isn't ready for it, but some guys aren't just ready to let go especially when they've invested much in the relationship. In this case, J always pity the guy because he simply can't control her with just money. This lady has lately been posting stuff that's so obvious and I wonder what the dude feels about that knowing she's craving attention somewhere else.

This very pretty lady who once rejected my advances met someone and got married but the funny thing about this whole episode is that she still craves my attention which I totally declined giving her. Before, I used to view all her social media posts and often times she makes them in the middle of the night when she knows I'm certainly online and deletes them before day break.

Now that I've ceased communication with her, she seems to be craving that attention again. Unfortunately, since she got married to the foreign based dude and made It public. I've lost complete interest in her. Just wondering what she wants now.

It's really disturbing to me, as a matter of fact I know her to be very manipulative, always wanting to bend things into her favour. Like wanting to eat your cake and have it at the same time. tbh! It's humiliating to me to be.wanted as a side dude to pass time until the man of her choice is available. I refuse to be that guy and by a indication I refrained from her ever since she started the relationship. The dude knowing about me quickly made plans for a traditional marriage which she kept secret until recently she had no choice to make revelations after putting pressure on her.

The way I see things, it appears she's getting married to the dude for economic reasons but her heart is somewhere else. left to me, I wouldn't want to come between her marriage so I ceased communication but it appears otherwise on her part. Apparently, she isn't getting enough attention from her said partner unfortunately there's nothing I can do about that. I already moved on.

Is the keyboard backlit

nwakgr8:
Let me have your whatsapp

I just sent a DM

You're probably close to or exceeded your limit.
since your account is verified with your i.d you should be able to retrieve your Bitcoins.
check your PM.

id911:
Still trying to rabs my head around this. What does it mean?

I help people who want to receive payments or make withdrawals from their freelance accounts through PayPal using this account.

Both for direct deposit or PayPal withdrawal.
DM for business.

Dwightventures:
Straight to the point, how do I get my page advertised, aka "sponsored" on Instagram?

On Facebook also, they show you how but they never accept my payment.

How can I solve all this, in order to be free from Jiji and Facebook groups with their nonsensical members.

Thanks

Anyone interested in running Instagram add should DM me.

victorroycebet:
I need a web developer that can create a delivery site that works with tracking code. signify if you can build it.

Here..DM me let's talk.

Romeo3:
Seun, lalasticlala, mynd44 and any other moderator who has the power to delete this thread, I plead that this thread be deleted.

I have accepted my wrongdoing. I did not protest the ban even if I wasn't happy about it. I have done the time. I am sorry I shared my experiences here. It's a mistake that won't be repeated. I was banned for 48 hrs without a warning. Offenders are normally banned for 2 hrs with a warning, and a harsher and lengthier ban follows if the warnings are not heeded. But I was banned outrightly. No wahala. Its past now. Pls delete all.

To those that have felt insulted by the experiences and pictures that I posted, I am sorry. You have written epistles about why i should be sanctioned and why the ban should have been harsher. I agree. Pls prevail on the moderators to delete my contents and let's forget this ugly episode ever happened.

If this thread and my contents aren't removed by my request, I will manually commence to do so, no matter how tedious it may seem.

You said I invaded privacy.... No faces were shown. No home addresses revealed. No real names revealed. No street names revealed. Pictures I took were all in public. None were private. I have never revealed anyone's personal information and I will never. Things i write about are all true, but i write them in the way it happens in my head. I have never insulted a rider, I have never made fun of them verbally.

All you read happens in my head.

Nairaland isn't the end. It was the beginning. I am grateful to everyone who has been very supportive. The calls and messages are all appreciated. It's time for me to move on and expand my horizons. It has already started. I can't be stopped, but on nairaland it's over.

Pls oblige my request to delete my contents... Thank you.

To those who may want to read more of my experiences, I have my own site now. It is being brought up to speedy updates so that the stories can all be synchronized across the social media handles I use.

Blogsite: diaryofalagosuberdriver. com

Instagram: @diary_of_a_lagos_uber_driver

Facebook: diary of a Lagos uber driver

Twitter: @romeonl.

The moderators high handedness has to stop.

How is 40-50 young?
At this age and generation when a 40 year old could have been a grandparent, talk more of 50.

Over to you Mr Sowore, i think you now have Maradona's support.

What profit is it for a man to gain the whole world, yet lose his soul.

R.I.P . Young man.

Ghen ghen!

Oyibo!

lol!

Great job.

How much?