chidyhels: Marriage is for everybody. Even if u are 50 just be patient, Ur right combo will show. I don't belv in soul mate

olasmith10:

I as a Christian might end up bringing her to Christ.. or what do u think?

sunnyshayne: Only the married will understand what OP is saying.

BluIvy:

Sir, you are robbing me here with your response. What you just said is what many ladies know especially Christian ladies in their thirties.I had already mentioned my understanding of the word which is exactly what you have explained in detail.

Where I challenge you is where you tell ladies who are clearly "hot and bothered" that marriage is not for everyone, without even sitting them down to understand the "bother".
The same bible says "seek and you will find". My suggestion would be advising them the right way of seeking Godly partners e.g. through prayer etc. Your interjection seems to be more discouraging and could well mean since you are not married at this point and time in your life forget it, God has decided for you not to marry so whatever is getting you all "hot and bothered" just suck it up and be a good Christian. This seems to me as you are more discouraging them and making them feel even more pressure and start judging themselves negatively. Hence my questions to your post.

Please re-read what you posted and see if it does not sound completely judgmental & final? I think its about time that the church should learn to teach truthfully and with compassion. What if all the number of people you tell this to opt for other ways to meet their needs because they are now hopeless and end-up falling into sin, while their God ordained partners are around the corner? Only if the waited upon The Lord just a little bit longer?

BoboYekini: Forget. We go do am for corner. *I'm the bestman at this wedding coming up, wonder if I can charm the bridesmaids into posing like this....

nabsprada: I don't want to start the "not everyone has a dirty past sermon" but its the truth...its marriage for crying out loud and the worst thing you'll ever do to yourself is being in it with the "i've got secrets guilt",start with keeping secrets and you'll keep doing so even in your marriage...you don't wanna play the "not all secrets are bad card" discuss everything,and if you re not ready to,then you have not found that one person you feel safe with.....my opinion ne o...

odufanabasa: But y will a man want to know everything about a lady? Then when she opens up,and they know they ugly truth(if there are any),they back off? Abeg every saint has a past, and every sinner has a future! If u can't stand by her after
hearing, pls respect urself and don't ask.... curiosity kills d cat..

Jennydoris: I no so.

shigoslim: THREAD CLOSED

somcherry:
ur type is the reason why black gals with inferiority complex bleaches.

SELENAqueensy: We do crazy things, but not to this extent

Krasid: It is only a matter of time before Nigerian ladies follow the trend.

Snoggy: Our naija babes no go even gree do am.

With the kyn stretch marks wey dem gather for nyansh .

Sijo01:


Don't worry we wont join them.

Sijo01: This people can craze

shoefreak: I don't think so ooo. But if you mean to flirt tat night and tap bums and fool around, then yes. But to go sleep with a guy that's not your fiancée hours before you get married. Omo, it's things like that, that we call flimsy, that ruins everything.

Make out, dance, smack bums and just be happy. But that's it. Go back home and get married. Well, me I go still smack bum even if I marry ooo. its harmless.

disloman: Hmmm.Ladies!C as u twist am.@OP:U were rightto an extend.

sexylogan:

Lolz....as if your own babe no get black ny*sh

Donchinex: This would actually look horrible in Nigeria...seeing black a**es. eeeeeeeew!

egift: We can do crazy things but not this.

mstik: this story is funny! The man is a douche

Segirl18:

hmmmm... A statement from badt guy like them.

babycarey: No matter how beautiful a guy's gf is he will definitely still be flirting with that beautiful girl passing by, and if he gets the chance na number straight!!! I just wonder if they is a any guy that can ever be faithful??

Segirl18: Dear, faithful guys re out there bt VERY RARE to find.
D fact remains dat though its normal 4 any guy to admire a lady, bt nt to d extent of cheating, same applies 2 a lady except wen such persons r nt handling their relationships properly..
One tin dat tends to amaze nd annoy me is if caught cheating(guys especially), his response will b he's keeping her for d stupid excuse of wife 'material thing' like they normally say.. Bt ma own question is why is it that d 'faithful' ones re d ones always falling in d hands of 'play boys' viceversa?

adebayor1490: Yes there is. Its just that you meet people like you.

rozzay: Strange things r happenning.