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JastSiryin:
That you grabbed from the internet right? lol

can't his wife be on the internet abi no be person marry the ones wey their picture dey internet.

pablobellins:
He who finds a wife......

meet my sugar.

Your wife is beautiful ooo.

safarigirl:
I said it is not far from the truth. I did not say it is the truth, did I? Since you keep harping on the law, you must be conversant enough to know that English comprehension is a major part of the law and you must be familiar with rules of interpretations. You are purposely misinterpreting my terms, because you want to be quick to jump at me for whatever reason.

This is not a court of law, this is Nairaland. When we get to the court of law, you can object based on speculations, to your heart's delight.

PS: I have modified the first post of mine you wished to discredit and politely disagreed with that guy's stand. Politics is not the reason why rape cases are not handled properly in Nigeria. Feel free to look at it and come up with another rebuttal

Safarigirl I am not quarrelling with you, ok do as you please, if we continue this argument I know you will call me a rape apologist, so let's end it here.

safarigirl:
he did not say all are true, did he?

He said, for every 1 that is untrue, 9 are true, and that is not far from the truth.

Here you go again, why are you like this safarigirl, where is the stats to back up your claims, this is not the way a lawyer should behave, dealing with assumptions?

Xisnin:
Someone apparently missed logical reasoning.
While this lout is defending an unnamed lecturer against an unnamed female student
Fatoyinbo's victims came out in public with their names and faces and point fingers at their abuser.

It is a shame that I have to point out this glaring difference before you could see it.
Is it clear now?

There is no point in arguing with you, because if I do you will label me a rapist, just needed to point out your double standard.

Xisnin:
You are always there when randy lecturers supposedly get propositioned.
You are only fooling yourself.

You are same with him, you go round saying fatoyinbo is a rapist even though you were not there when fatoyinbo and busola we're meeting each other.

safarigirl:
You think political issues gave birth to rape?

Aren't there rapists in countries like USA, Britain and co that are politically sound?

Today is Sunday, I cannot address something thia unforgivably dense on a Sunday morning. Continue to live in your bubble and hope life's harsh realities don't burst them one day

You're not even smart, how did you become a lawyer? Where in the post you quote say political issues gave birth to rape, all the poster was saying is that if we had better system most rapist would be behind bars and justice would be gotten for the victims.

In a bid to attack every man here, you just missed just a simple point.

Sultan5:
You have been caught just admit it and stop giving more excuses. Why we do this still baffles me. If I was accused of rape and I didn't do and sure same will apply to you too. Why the hell will I use that strategy at all? Infact I will be hell bent on going to trial for full exposure of the lies being told so I will be fully exonerated and not just applying any law to escape legal proceedings. As that will not in anyway repair my tarnished image and prove I didn't do it.

And what expenses is he trying to avoid? I thought he was rich. Always so quick to defend Fatoyinbo and always so quick to discredit the victim. We really need to change our mentality in this country.

If you are truly objective, you will doubt Busola's account and also doubt Fatoyinbo's defence.

Ok it is a public forum abi, go and create a thread calling buhari a rapist, accuse him of stealing and let the mods put it on front page if they are really brave, try this let me see.

lilwetdick:
wating for what, arent you seeing that the case is in court already. it simply means they filed against him.

on September 6 2019, they filed against him

Ok, let's see how it goes.

lilwetdick:
so a lawyer will just apply statute-barred for a man like fatonyinbo to save legal expenses are you serious, dont you know that filing statute barred is like admitting that an event occurred but the court of law shouldnt take it up because the victim didnt file the case within a certain period.

the lawyer is filing that because there are evidence and witness

So if there is evidence, what is budola waiting for?

Ginaz:
Compare the rate men abuse women with degrading words to their inputs in those topic.

You this woman you like too much argument, answer the question asked in this thread or just ignore, simple stuff.

lilwetdick:
so explain to me why his lawyer is filing statute-barred if nothing happened?

I am not saying he is guilty or not, who knows his lawyer may just be applying the law to save them of legal expenses.

lilwetdick:
https://punchng.com/dismiss-busola-dakolos-rape-suit-against-me-fatoyinbo-tells-court/

statute-barred: right that can no longer be the subject of a legal action because the time limit imposed by the limitations act has been exceeded.

OK, Still doesn't give fact that he raped her.

lilwetdick:
there are facts,

on September 20, 2019, Fatoyinbo lawyer told the court to dimiss the case on the ground of statute-barred

why is he asking to dismiss the case on statute barred, if nothing happened?

Ok post evidence of him trying to dismiss the case. I am waiting.

zeuss:
Kai! Something just didn't make sense to me there.
I have no intention of making anyone feel bad here but I think there was no rape in the whole saga. There was rather a silent attraction that gave birth to mutual conjugality.
Why be around a man for that long if you never liked him?
Why keep mute on him raping you while your sister was in the house if you never liked it?
Why didn't you shout and raise alarm when he was leaving, after the purported rape if you never liked it?
Why didn't you share the first and second rape issue immediately to your beloved family if you never liked it?
Why still go to his church if you never liked it?
Why go stay at his house to help his wife and even sought to sleep in their master bedroom if you never liked it?
Why follow him in his car to drop you if you never liked it?
Why didn't you struggle when he took the u-turn to give you the supposed second rape if you never liked it?
Why didn't you tell anyone again or even the police if you never liked it?
After the third day, when he came to find out why you didn't go to church, why didn't you refuse going to the same church when he asked you to if you never liked it?
Why didn't you show any sign of what he did to anyone? Why conceal the whole issue if you never liked it?
Are you totally innocent
Why didn't you tell us if you ever seduced him?
Why didn't you tell us if you fell for his looks?
Why did you do what you did and are still doing what you're doing to him now? Is it fair?
So because someone accused you of sleeping with pastors in the past and is accusing you of being unfaithful in your marriage now you want to pick on the pastor who was in your past just to cover up on the accusation meted on you?
Who knows if you probably seduced him to push him to that extent?
What looks did you give him when he entered your house with your nighty on? Why didn't you rush to change? Why allow him to come in when you were probably Unclad in a transparent gown?
Please,
Pastors are humans. Let's be fair on them and their weaknesses as human as they are.
Don't go seducing a man with your talent and beauty and expect him to act as brother Paul in the Bible when you refused to leave him and his territory.
A man will chase you and get what he wants when he knows you're interested in him.
We're not fools please ����
The woman should just admit that she was wrong as much as she claims that he was wrong

You said you are a lawyer, seriously is this the way a lawyer thinks?

[quote author=zeuss post=79806185]Kai! Something just didn't make sense to me there.
I have no intention of making anyone feel bad here but I think there was no rape in the whole saga. There was rather a silent attraction that gave birth to mutual conjugality.
Why be around a man for that long if you never liked him?
Why keep mute on him raping you while your sister was in the house if you never liked it?
Why didn't you shout and raise alarm when he was leaving, after the purported rape if you never liked it?
Why didn't you share the first and second rape issue immediately to your beloved family if you never liked it?
Why still go to his church if you never liked it?
Why go stay at his house to help his wife and even sought to sleep in their master bedroom if you never liked it?
Why follow him in his car to drop you if you never liked it?
Why didn't you struggle when he took the u-turn to give you the supposed second rape if you never liked it?
Why didn't you tell anyone again or even the police if you never liked it?
After the third day, when he came to find out why you didn't go to church, why didn't you refuse going to the same church when he asked you to if you never liked it?
Why didn't you show any sign of what he did to anyone? Why conceal the whole issue if you never liked it?
Are you totally innocent
Why didn't you tell us if you ever seduced him?
Why didn't you tell us if you fell for his looks?
Why did you do what you did and are still doing what you're doing to him now? Is it fair?
So because someone accused you of sleeping with pastors in the past and is accusing you of being unfaithful in your marriage now you want to pick on the pastor who was in your past just to cover up on the accusation meted on you?
Who knows if you probably seduced him to push him to that extent?
What looks did you give him when he entered your house with your nighty on? Why didn't you rush to change? Why allow him to come in when you were probably Unclad in a transparent gown?
Please,
Pastors are humans. Let's be fair on them and their weaknesses as human as they are.
Don't go seducing a man with your talent and beauty and expect him to act as brother Paul in the Bible when you refused to leave him and his territory.
A man will chase you and get what he wants when he knows you're interested in him.
We're not fools please ����
The woman should just admit that she was wrong as much as she claims that he was wrong[/quo

ornicus:
Some years ago, a colleagues daughter innocently told him that her uncles ( a young in law staying with them) had put his hand in her vagina while bathing her.

That was the end of the boys stay in the house. My guy and his wife did not even for a moment think the girl was lying, they did not for a moment try to defend or excuse their blood relations behavior, and they had a relationship with their child that meant the child told them immediately. It could easily have gone a different way, and this uncle would have been molesting and raping the daughter for years.

It is very important that your children are able to tell you anything that happens

There is a lot of similarity between unilags Boniface and our coza pastor. If there was no video, and that lady who had been with him came out to make allegations, the same things said about Busola Dakolo would have been said about the girl. The man was also a celebrated pillar of society who smoothly transited and mixed fatherly pastor mode with lewd lecher mode. If the bbc had hired a porn star, or if it had been an expose by some tabloidish reality tv show, we may have seen events lead to actual rape.

There’s a family I know that has a son who we all knew back in school to be a prolific rapist. It was an open secret. This guy was a madical student from a very wealthy family. It was also a paradox of sorts, and instructive in its own right. This guy had five siblings we knew. Medical and law students. One sister was hit party chick, one was abaya down to the socks. One bro was fine boy, the other was Alfa with Shokoto anabi. The guy himself Dey always form Alfa, greeting people with asalam alaikum. He caught a case once, where the victim, a poly student had a psychiatric incident after he raped and threatened her, and a friends dad got involved in the investigation. Nothing came out of his arrest, and I remember meeting the guys family and his dad talking about the time a girl framed his son.

Unfortunately for this guy, rape became a very dangerous escalating habit for him, and he moved to gang rape with photo souvenir and weird fetishes. He and a friend took a police chiefs daughter on a date, gang raped her, shaved her pubic hair, took photos, threatened her. The girl went back home and that is how it might have ended if her strong willed friend did not intervene. The guy was arrested again and this time, there was too much evidence. His mum has a stroke from the shame. His dad was already dead at this time.

But today, the guy is married, ‘born again’ a free man and the last time I checked, successful. He may even be running for some political post. If someone else were to accuse him today, his wife would probably also come out to defend him, even though it is impossible she does not know some of his history, as all this happened in unilorin and we were all students there.

This doesn't still help the busola-fatoyinbo's case, we need facts and evidences not silly stories.

Seun, lalasticlala Nairaland is biting more than it can chew, why bring such a topic that supports defamation of fatoyinbo for a case that has not been sorted in the court of law, if fatoyinbo Sues Nairaland what would you people put up in defence.

Nairaland is suppose to be a public forum and not a home of sentiments, it's just too degrading to see this.

safarigirl:
if you were minding your business, you wouldn't be on this thread to start with, guy.

If you were minding your business, you won't quote him.

Michellekabod2:
There are few sane people I learn from....plus the stupidity I witness especially on this section is entertainment to me and I have a good laugh watching folly

Good for you, you enjoy the folly and still complain

Michellekabod2:
You keep using this analogy to condone bad behavior...you must not be in an official environment like office, or church to behave responsible!
Even online,you should behave well. Do you Know some people learn from this forum?check quora,Reddit,etc and see the quality posts dropped by individuals..
Do you know some employers now check the social media accounts and posts before giving jobs?
Do you know USA now request for all social media accounts from applicants before issuing visas?and trust most developed countries will follow suit....

If the reverse was the case and it's ladies bullying and acting misandristic on this forum,will you repeat this?

Is it not better you move to quora or Reddit since you feel Nairaland is bad?

Girls have been broke-shaming guys since and guys didn't bat an eyelid.

Funkyswagzz:
No it's because of Lillyval and she has deactivated her account

Open another thread about it.

LOMBARDY:
I won't be surprised if most NL's didn't watch the show but just want to join the crew for likes since dissing Tacha gives a lot of likes this days

Who the hell is this?

One is a winner while one is a pathetic serial loser.

One is a winner while one is a pathetic serial loser.

Guest007:
#sarcasm

I know, never even considered myself a genius in the first place.