₦airaland Forum

Jerkbaba:
If you want to have sex with a regular girl, you'll have to talk to her, fool yourself, lower your level for her and make her feel like a queen when she's not. Even take her out maybe once or twice. Even when that's all done, having sex with that lousy girl is still uncertain. She's still be forming rubbish in the bedroom after spending all that time and money! I can never do all of these rubbish things! I'm a straight to the point person. I can never waste my time with woman just for sex. I just prefer going to the brothel, look for a clean girl, discuss small, enter room, fvuck and disappear! I don't waste my time with women o. Cus I only need them for only one thing and that's sex. Gbam!

You smell like poo

thunderfirebubu:
Lately Nigerian girls disgust me so so much, i don't even pick calls of my female friends I grew up with. I studied outside the shores of this country and saw how civilized and cultured the girls there are and ever since I have this hatred and disdain towards naija girls. Today I was at a bar/restaurant in uyo and 3 girls came in, only one requested for food to eat and the others watched her eat without saying a word, I got pissed and asked the girl eating why she couldn't buy for her friends and this led to argument and the stupid girl was like as I saw her friends not eating why didn't I buy food for them, I almost slapped the girl if not for the intervention of the people around. Had a guy taken these hoes out you would have heard they wanted take away for their friends at home. They good at spending people's money but can't spend theirs, seriously I pity people who still think naija girls are worth it.

Are you a stranger in your own country

CuteMike01:
Don't be a queen waiting on a king. Be a queen busy with her kingdom until her king arrives. You shouldn't expect your boyfriend/suitor to do everything for you. Engage yourself in a skill or business. Don't be the girl who needs a man. Be the girl a man needs. No man wants a liability as a wife. No one. Personally, I would rather be punched by Hitler than to live with an overly - demanding and ill-entitled woman. Come on It is the joy of everyman to see you achieve your goals and living purposeful not dumping all your issues on him.
In addition, pls respect us as men. Of all the cravings a man seek from his woman, respect is the biggest of all. Give a man respect and he would treat you as a queen. Be rude or take over the relationship instead and he would shrivel into a shell. If you want to be rude then you should become a celebrity not a lazy ungrateful ass who expects a man to worship her just because she has a hole in-between her legs. When love and respect work together, expect a positive response. Worry less. Smile more. Listen carefully. Take responsibility. It doesn't mean you're weak, it means you are matured enough to be in a relationship. Stay faithful … make him feel loved and wanted … Respect your partner … Don’t flirt with others. You can't make a man treat you right, But you can make him wish he did. Only a dumbass would cheat or dump a lady who treats him like a king. If another woman steals your man, there’s no better revenge than letting her keep him. Real men can’t be stolen. Just chill out with these principles and watch your relationship turn out for better. It isn't rocket science, it is maturity. I hope I'm making sense...

Tell them until them hear word meanwhile,Zzor is coming 4 u bro...watch nd see

sKeetz:
I'm dating an older woman. The difference in our ages is just 2 years. She is everything a man can ever dream of.

She's very supportive. Doesn't bother me and let's me do my thing. She doesn't boss me or anything of sorts. She's also very independent, but the only thing that stresses me out is our age difference and it's quite obvious cause i even look quite younger than my age and she's quite matured both physically and mentally.

Are there any cons to marrying a lady that is older? Guys who are married to older ladies, are there any traits i should look out for ?

Ps: we've been dating for 4 years now, so its not like i just met her. So i know everything about her and she knows everything about me.

This op self lwkmd.. ......u wan marry evening news paper u cum begin blow trumpet.why would'nt she be loyal now,wen she spent her early twenties salvaging her pussy doin dog style,and wheelbarrow style.

xedyl:
Staged.

I'm seeing 3in1 foam.....did anybody see that with me!!lolzz

Escabado:
If to say you do that sub for her , she will never reply your chat again or even pick ur call . One girls tried it with me . She asked me for 3k to fill her gas and I send her the money immediately she stopped picking my calls. I say this one still dey learn work.the kind of treathen I give the girl eeh nobody tell her to send my money back. I even plan to embrace her in her place of work or even report her to there Manager because she is roug and a thief.

Lolzzzzzz

Mynd44:
If every lady you find around you begs you for money, it might be because your conversation doesn't have substance and money seems like the only thing you offer.

People hardly beg me for money and we are all fine. We just talk about life and progression

Clap for yourself

Perfectsouth:
Cc royalroy

Well, I don't wNt my kids to go through what I went through so I forgave her.. God was answering my prayers and things started picking gradually.. I went to meet them, took them all out and did shopping for them..
I was planning on how to relocate them to where I was...
Now this is the revelation..
My wife has been used,thats the fact...
My photography business first collapsed.
I did about 5 businesses that just one of it can make me a millionaire, every business collapsed.. The more I sleep with her, the more things become worse for me...
All these revelation came after I was told to pray and fast..

When things started picking gradually for me this year, I payed for a shop 300k,it was almost my son's birthday. So I went to see them.. We slept together, I came back after the birthday.. Could you believe, I was chased away from that shop and till now, I was only able to recover just 50k from the money..
Before my mom's birthday again, I was doing some business and it started picking. Went for my mom's, she came for the birthday too, we slept together, and when I came back to my business, the war I fought was unfathomable.. It collapsed too..
I am a very prayerful person and believe me, in the 8yrs we've been together, I never slept with another woman. I sweared with everything they gave me cos they couldn't believe me..
Before my daughter's birthday, God was merciful to me and I started another business.. I was warned severely never to sleep with her again.. Till now, my business is gradually picking and am able to send them money for upkeep and my kids school fees....

Now this my wife have an immediate younger brother who is a travel agent, I remember last year I introduced a friend to him and even vouch and stood for him that nothing will go wrong.. Truly he did this guy's traveling to Dubai and the guy went.. But we didn't know what happened and this guy came back.. Maybe he was deported or not, nobody knows but this my friend came to arrest me and I was told to produce my Inlaw.. He came and we were both locked up for 3days..along the line, the matter got settled, I parted with some money after selling one of my equipment. And he too also raised some money.. So this year, when things were already picking up for me, he got into another problem and this time, they were gonna jail him, so I borrowed him 100k and he promised to pay them 50k monthly till he complete the payment.. It was a travel gone sour though I know some people he has done traveling for and they are doing fine in their respective country of choice.

So this year, someone decided to help me travel out, he gave me UNIVERSITY OF MANITOBA admission processing fees, it was 120cad, but I gave this my Inlaw 150$ believing that atleast, since I am his Inlaw and have done him alot of goods before nothing will go wrong..
That was in August..
Fast forward to 2days ago, I messaged University of Manitoba since I wasn't getting any update, and I was told my application was not submitted neither paid for, I almost collapsed... So what he did was doctored some documents and sent to me and I believed him..
Right now, I am in a fix..
About my wife's promiscuity, I have all evidence of their chat..
After forgiving her over that chat, when I went for my daughter's birthday, I wanted to go through her phone, she gave me a heavy fight that I can't go through her phone, the phone I bought for her with my money..
When she slept, I opened it with her Fingerprint.
The chats there are so damaging. Some have slept with her and still wanting to do more, some she is already negotiating with.
She works in a beer parlor now and she is already using waist beads, she knows I hate these things..

I can't tell it all but if you have a question to ask, or anything you think I missed, ask me and i will tell you the truth..
My Inlaw hasn't pick my call to tell me why that happened..

If you think this is a fabricated story,
I have all evidences.
If enough people ask for it, I will release it here..

Please we are asking for the evidence

What is wrong with naija girls and begging, honestly this is going out of control.....met this young girl were I went to pay for my DStv subscription,she was good looking so I decided to start a convo with her it all went well and we exchange contact I got home added her up on WhatsApp and said hello...omo make una come see begging oh... her reply "pls I'm empty can u sub me" a girl I just met 4 the first time in my life and at the same time we are just having the first conversation...spit on majority of Nigerian girls