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Romance / Re: No longer Applicable by BIHAD(m): 9:24pm On Sep 14, 2015
Gadaffii:


I wonder when current day teenagers will start thinking outside sex.
c dis mumu....y can't u go place d advert for news paper...maybe u go c one mumu like u...adult
Romance / Re: I Stayed Outside And My Fiancee Neva Introduced Me To Her Mum Formally.am Confus by BIHAD(m): 10:50pm On Sep 02, 2015
mkoabiola:
I have been dating my fiancee for a year,I Chose a date to visit her on during d week cos she stays with her parents.firstly,she neva allowed me to enter their sitting room neither her own room,she said we shud stayed outside.
Howeva,her mum met us outside,there was no formal introduction frm my fiancee,hence d mum greeted me casually.I spent over an hour sitting outside wit my fiancee including her mum.the mum nva ask who is ur visitor throughout my stay.I asked her why didn't u introduce me to ur mum?d answer she gave was dat her mum will understand.am just confused,I don't knw wat to do cos I av been a sleepless night,does it mean am been decieved as I intend to marry her nx year.pls,ur mature advice wil b highly appreciated.
u will b d one to give urself best advice...aside from wht happen dt day..u should av notice such..so b wise...take it from me.
Romance / Re: My Boyfriend Introduced Me As A 'friend' To His Dad. Should I Be Worried? by BIHAD(m): 10:40pm On Sep 02, 2015
u should b worried o...for him to av grown up to a stage dt he can introduce a lady as his own fwend...he should b able to tell his dad..meet ma girl fwend..take it from me...[/quote]
Romance / Re: My Boyfriend Introduced Me As A 'friend' To His Dad. Should I Be Worried? by BIHAD(m): 10:38pm On Sep 02, 2015
missKiffy:
I met my boyfriend's dad for the first time last week and he introduced me as a 'friend' to his dad. I later asked him why he introduced me as a friend just to clarify things and know if am just a 'friend' to him and he told me his dad understands what he meant even tho he referred to me as a friend, and I think he was right cos his dad was dotting on me after meeting me, he even told my boyfriend he likes me.

Should I still be worried or am just bothering myself for no reason.
u should b worried o...for him to a grown up to a stage dt he can introduce a lady as his own fwend...he should b able to tell his dad..meet ma girl fwend..take it from me...
Romance / Re: No longer Applicable by BIHAD(m): 11:53am On Sep 02, 2015
[quote author=Gadaffii post=37590243]I have been quite busy chasing a career for sometime, even form Uni days, my close female friends all used to believe I'm unserious, however an early understanding of "nobody sticks with a broke ass" made me stick with my huzzle.

Finished school early, got a good and chilling job, now I want to get a make sense girl friend. But mehn, dem scarce small...my conclusion after scouting. Perhaps, I have been looking at the wrong places.

Still in my early 20's, I'm now very comfortable. I have decided to use this medium to scout for a potential girl friend.

If you know you are beautiful, don't bleach, perhaps a student of a Uni, under 21, intelligent (I can't relate with dull people)....send that pm and lets talk, don't let your blessing pass you by out of "shyness". Trust me, individual like me are scarce in the market.[lol...broda ladies are not as cheap as dt...I no say na furk mate u dey find..]
Islam for Muslims / Re: Where Is Allah? An Intellectual Discourse by BIHAD(m): 11:15am On Sep 02, 2015
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AlBaqir:
THE BASICS OF THE QUR'AN
Where is Allah? In the heaven, on the throne or He is everywhere?Literally both school seem to be correct in their justification as supported by verses of the Qur'an.

However, according to the Quran surah Al-Imran: 7, there are two basic verses in the Qur'an: One is Muhkamat (clear) verses, and the other is Mutashabihat (allegorical) verses. The "clear verses" according to the Quran, are the foundation of the Quran which the "allegorical verses" are built upon.

There is no doubt, some of the verses that talk about "Allah sits on the throne", "The chair of Allah encompasses the heavens and the earth{ayat qursiyy}", "hands and face of Allah", etc are all allegorical verses and interpreting them literally will give a false meaning to these glorious verses.
If we however interpret under the guidance of the "clear verses" which are the foundation of the Quran upon which "allegorical" should be based on, one gets a true meaning of those ayah.

ALLAH IS NOT LIKEN TO ANYTHING
The fact that human is composed of matter, it is natural that we look and interpret everything on material level. This include our view on God.
Quran however cautions: [color=#990000]Glory be to your Lord, Lord of majesty; far above what is ascribe unto Him.
There is NONE comparable unto Him.

If it is interpreted that Allah really sits on the throne, philosophically, we have liken Him to a body which is confined in a particular space. Meaning He depend on something.
If we interpreted the "hands, face" of God mention in the Quran as literal, it simply means He is a body with shape and volume.

He is the Creator (al-khaliq)
He is Allah the Creator...{Quran, ch.59:24}.
Another ayah says He creates everything (khaliqu kulli shay'in).
The implication is that He creates "space" (where He is being said to occupy), "Arsh - throne" and "Kur'si - chair" (where it is interpreted to have seated on). All these are His creation.

He is "as-Samad"
Say: He is Allah, the One. Allah is He on whom ALL DEPEND {surah Ikhlas: 1-2}.
Therefore, He can never depend on "space, throne or chair". So Allah sits on the throne, or His chair encompasses the heavens and the earth can never be interpreted literally as it is against the foundational verses of the Qur'an.

Meaning of "ABOVE" or "HIGH"
"...what they call upon besides Him is falsehood; Allah is the High, the Great {Quran22:61}
The first group of Muslims in this discourse believe Allah being "Al-Aliyy" (Above or High) simply means He is "above His creation" as in high (height) in the heavens above His creation who are below.
However, the word "Al-Aliyy" is derived from "uluww", height, sublimity, or loftiness versus lowliness. The height refer to here is that of status. Al-Aliyy us High, so High that He can never be conceived or visualized. Minds are at a loss regarding His greatness; intellects are incapable of conceiving His perfection.

According to Al-Mufradat, one who is "Aliyy" is a prominent person, a man of distinction. When applied to the Almighty, as in Q.22:61 cited above, the implied meaning is that He is above being described by anyone or truly known by anyone. Quran says: "He is the Most High, the Great"{Q.2:255}; "...judgement belongs to Allah, the High, the Great" {Q.13:9}.
Allah is Great that even the "Asmaul husna (beautiful names)" in which He introduced Himself with in the Quran do not do justice to His Greatness.

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