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He is no right to your body!
"I am your boyfriend, we have to have sex" boyfriend kee you dia!

No one has rights to your body except your husband. If you are not married, you are single baby. I see young girls enslave themselves into this mentality 'he is my boyfriend, I have to give him sex'.

I wish ladies will work on their self-esteem, if you don't want to have sex with him, don't!
If he is threaten to leave you because of that, let him!
It's only a child that thinks he has rights to your body.
If you want to have sex with him, do so! You aren't cheap or hungry for having sex with him, it is your choice, you are a f**king king, own it!

He isn't obliged to handle your finances!

It is utterly disgusting to see Kings wait on a man to handle your finances. I am not a bitter feminist, neither do I have daddy issues, but I think an adult should be able to handle her finances.

This post isn't to get 'gifts or money' from men, and to those who think so, how much you get sef?

This post is to help women handle their entitlement and their entitled men.

Learn a trade, go to school, start a business or educate yourself, you have so much potential! It hurts me when people turn being 'girlfriends' to full-time jobs.

This reason is why some men don't respect us, this is why some men's ego keeps getting bigger. As much as I dislike an egoistic man, I do think women should equip themselves with essential skills to remove dependency on men.

We all have financial crisis, I am not saying you can't help each other, but it shouldn't be a 'birthright'.

When he is egoistic!

Most guys are egoistic, but some more than others. Usually, you are told to stroke his ego to get what you want, here I say, deflect it!

Nothing hurts an alpha male than 'not being man enough' lol. When a female plays hard to get with an egoistic man, he can go extra miles to get her heart, just to feel 'man enough'.

During this phase, show you are genuinely interested, laugh at his jokes, stroke it enough to make deflecting hurt. After he thinks you are all over him, refuse him a bit, don't pick his calls sometimes.

You will leave him calculating quicker than my grandma's thermometer. You will leave him wanting more of you. He is not doing you a favour for asking you out, neither are you doing him a favour.

Warning
Be sure he isn't a psychopath, so he doesn't hurt you(physically)

The problem with playing hard to get
Now, don't get me wrong, playing hard to get might be essential in certain cases. But, this is the 21st century, you've to use this very sparely.

Situations You Can Use Them
*When He Doesn't Like Commitments:
"I have had issues with ladies in the past, not ready for commitment, can we just be eating each other's work?" If this sounds familiar, babe don't even sweat it. If a guy can't commit, well, play hard to get!
In this game of hard to get, play with him, bring him close, when he is starting to enjoy your company, distance yourself!

You are an ore, so precious, you can't be tossed aside like someone casual. Once you go through with the get close - distance phase, he makes a choice. The choice is, whether he is willing to stay or not, that means committing.

You can also go with the flow if you are not looking for commitments too, you are a king, you are allowed to make your choices!

Good day everyone, don't you just love the weather?

Despite the many threats from self acclaimed 'redpillers' or 'alpha' males, I will write my thoughts. Now, it is your choice to read or not, isn't that great?

For clarification, I do not oppose the "guys' dating drills," why should I? It's good to see guys taking good care of their dating ethics, I really don't care if it's toxic or not, that's your business.

Now to business. Guys have been studying, getting very inclined with psychology. Gone are the days which guys just 'dated', now they are getting calculative, uh oh.

Females are wonderful, empathetic and loyal people, might be even too trusting if you ask me. Most females work on the *Hard to get* playground.

Tbh, you are very right.

Guys have their own hub for calculating ways to confuse someone's daughter, I decided that we females need our own dating drill!

They have broken this ones heart.

Nawa oh, didn't you just say she is your girlfriend? May we not jamb bad market.

Hey dear, go to literature part of the forum, click on literature ads above the page, you will see various work vacancies. You can try getting upwork, freelancer or Fiverr, you are better off using a Canadian, UK or US number to verify it, goodluck!

Nawa oh!
Una be careful sha, you don't know who is ogbanje amongst us.

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