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Nice gesture 2baba

Is he allergic to smile?

sinistermind:
Highlight the message, then go up to the message menu, you will see delete message

it deletes on your phone but it doesn't delete at the receiver's end

sinistermind:
There already

i didn't see it o

please enlighten me

RETRACT

I dey vex right now

ibkgab001:
I'm angry right now

Please someone should tell the owner of this sure and his right hand moderator to remove
I believe there is no other God but allah on my page

U must have accepted that in order to comment on islam thread

How about Pepsi

I dont believe this. This is a paid news

I remember that shop.
when i traveled to Dubai last year june i was taken there. They sang wizkid songs and funny yoruba songs.

Lively guys

wrongchoice:
COURTSHIP DAYS AND MY HATRED FOR WOMEN BEATERS
During our courtship days I have always reiterated my stand on men that do beat their wife. I was of the opinion that they are not lesser than a beast.
She is very quiet, she hardly finishes her words, and she was full of smile that my grandma named her “smiling smiling girl”. My family members were thanking God for me because of her gentle nature. She doesn’t have friends, she goes to church regularly. I went for her because I have seen a lot of unhappy homes and by all means I wanted to avoid such situation. Before her, I had seen many girls that I love and they equally love me too. I leave them immediately I see a sign of anger in them. So, I told her that all I wanted in my life was happiness and I will make sure I keep the home together and going smoothly in as much that happens.
She has her trust issues which I thought they were necessary and not out of control (that was my greatest mistake), but aggressiveness and hatred ,I never had that thought a bit. She didn’t even look it.

MY FIRST SHOCKER
After the introduction, she was eager for the wedding despite the fact that I hardly got employed in a small firm barely a year. We fixed the date and arrangements were going.
3 days before the wedding , I told my wife to-be that one of my friends promised to bring event ;ushers for our wedding just to add glamour to the day, she didn’t allow me to finish when she started shouting on top of her voice and with this kind of never seen before aggressiveness. I never saw such red eyes before in 2 years of our courtship and over 6 years as friends. She said my friends and I were bringing oloshos to sleep with for bash eve which I never even plan to have. Her argument wasn’t a concern but I never see her reacted that way. I cried and I knew I was in for a big trouble.

THE REAL SHOW

Fast forward to after wedding. To my surprise, before any argument she would hit me, sometimes slap just less than 2 months in the marriage. I discovered she has the strength of 3 men. We are talking about a lady that never misses any church program as a youth and when we moved to our new area , she became more popular than myself in the church. This went on for a while coupled with terrible issues that I would be taken one after the other.

THE DAY OF LESSON
There was this afternoon that an argument ensue base on (what I will share latter) , she took out knife, I collected it from her, she brought out fork I collected it from her, she resulted to my belt and she started beating me with it ,I didn’t even struggle with her just like before. She took her shoe hitting it on my head ,I didn’t even move, I wasn’t even angry self. She bite me on my shoulder and thumb which nearly had that finger off if not for quick medical attention. At this point a question flashed through my mind, “would this be how my live would be going?”. This woman may even ask me to lay flat to receive some lashes if I didn’t make attempt to stop her. I concluded that I have to do something. Then without any iota of anger in me. I raised my hand up and gave her 2 thunderous slaps across her face. She opened her mouth for complete 5 minutes she couldn’t close it. I knew she would be thinking she has over stepped her boundary. She started shouting that I have killed her and all sorts. People that never had me speak in that street for good one year I stayed their plus close to a year she has spent with me were aghast. Since that day many things changed for the worse. Though she stopped hitting me after that, except sometimes when she would push me against the wall and i get some bruises.
I later travelled home and my siblings were asking me if my hands were tied to my back while a woman was inflicting all these injuries on my body. They saw both the fresh ones and the old bruises. It was a very big issue that families, church members had to intervene. I can tell you since that day things had never remain the same again. It was the beginning of trouble and unhappy home.

My question is this? If you were in my position what would you have done differently?


you can check the previous post here
https://www.nairaland.com/4126638/how-wife-been-terrorizing-me

I beg u.....leave.

My brother had exact same experience. They were married for 6 years and she didnt change.

Pls leave...i know what im talking about. Marriage is not a do or die thing. Would have loved to send dm but cant.


Lastly...pls leave that house for a while.

Stay blessed

Thank God i was able to secure a better accomodation last week.

Im soo happy

Prefer assorted meat psoup

FisifunKododada:
One of Nigeria's best. Him, Baba Suwe, Sam Loco Efe (RIP), Nkem Owoh, John Ibu etc. They will make you laugh till you forget all your problems.

I dont think Ibu is funny

You are good at what u do.

Keep up the good work

ifeo:
fine couple equals fine children

Not always

Go and marry her jor!
See his bear bear like ogbuefi!

True sha....

But every house maid with its own agreement.

Some is money, some school others handiwork

This Arole needs to take it easy with his smile.
His lips are gigantic and it gives me a scare when he smiles

Dont quote me pls im still frightened

Why that one dey form alhaja

So Toyin don dey bear Abraham abi?

This guy can do mumu in movie ehn!


He gestures like a woman...hope hes truly the father

Congrats to him

No to office romance oooo

Dont be too close to any of your colleagues

Do not share your personal life at work

Do not be an ass licker

Stop being flirtatious (any woman/man u want to hug)

If u aint called into a discussion don't contribute or poke nose

Dont eat too much

Flush after using the toilet

If you must fart on your work station make sure no one is close

Use mouth spray before talking if you know your tongue gets stale easily.

Always use a body cologne

Hope its HD

veekid:
Oga Bally wey no Sabi flush

He has sleepy eyes

good how mercy didnt change her skin color

mrphysics:
By 11 am you will wake up. 1-2pm lunch time, then you come back from lunch by 3pm, before you sit down to check your phone its past 4 and the day just ended.

Lol

lol

After loading myself with rice and pepsi this morn, i feel sleepy.

Wrong color of bag for outfit

This is really uncalled for