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Bros she has a spiritual husband dealing with you. Talking from experience oo

KevinDein:
Ahhh

A troublesome spouse. I don't wish such on even my enemy. And then the type the op is talking about; they lie and genuinely believe their lies, make life difficult for the partner and still play the victim card. Funny enough, they also genuinely believe they are the victims.

Trust me there's no winning with these guys.

Very true

My cuz called me this morning lamenting about his ordeal with his wife. She lacks respect for him, insults him when they quarell, shes not in good terms with her husbands family, she lies about everything. Has assasinated his character to her family now they dont regard him.

Every morning she wakes up she doesnt greet him and when ever she comes home she just passes as if he doesnt exist. Talking to her is like walking on eggshells. What can be done to advise him? I pity him because he is the easy going type that doesnt talk much

oomowoomie:
Employment letter, confirmation letter, payslips (if you still have them) can suffice and also LOE stating that the employer didn't want to give one.

Thanks. What is the best reason to give on the LOE.

Pls what do i do if a past employer is proving sturbborn to give employement reference. Is there another alernative?

oluwaCanny:
no unless your program is a Co-op

Whats a co op

1stNumeroUno:
No boss.

Tot it would fetch extra points?

What is the best time for one to start arranging for funds in his account.

Can one be given work permit when one wants to go as a masters student?

sisisioge:
Get your facts correct. Go and ask. If it's exactly as thought, get help from alausa free of charge. There are human right lawyers there that specialize in labour issues like this.


By the way, try to read your terms of employment again. It is well.

Thanks dear. Pls note that I'm a full staff not contract

Dexema:
Yes go and find out but don't take the token and any other documents along with you just in case.

Why?

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