My cuz called me this morning lamenting about his ordeal with his wife. She lacks respect for him, insults him when they quarell, shes not in good terms with her husbands family, she lies about everything. Has assasinated his character to her family now they dont regard him.

Every morning she wakes up she doesnt greet him and when ever she comes home she just passes as if he doesnt exist. Talking to her is like walking on eggshells. What can be done to advise him? I pity him because he is the easy going type that doesnt talk much

This one is a wife?
Na witch be this...

Always 3 sides to a story, what did the Husband do? People only tell their own side & make themselves look perfect

That's what you get when you marry to an enemy. But it seems ur friend didn't take a critical look at thing before embacking on this journey. If he can no longer cope with the situation, let him walk out now.

This only happens when a guy marries a lady for nothing more other than the sex was good back when they were dating cos i see no way he wouldn't have detected a little of her behavior before marrying her...

Mehn, that's something no1 wants; a troublesome spouse.

Maybe he should try communicating, find out what's wrong, whether he offended her or something, someone cannot just wake up one morning and start disturbing naa,

Except she was like that b4, & was pretending.

The woman maybe is protesting something,

you are the head of the family,ur wife is ur wife,sit her down like a friend and talk.some brain needs artificial sense ok.i know whomen there is always a reason for their behaviour be it good or bad.dialogue bro.

mikejj:
you are the head of the family,ur wife is ur wife,sit her down like a friend and talk.some brain needs artificial sense ok.i know whomen there is always a reason for their behaviour be it good or bad.dialogue bro.

just intentionally make are suspect u are cheating on her ...she go maintain

Samsimple:

just intentionally make are suspect u are cheating on her ...she go maintain

abi

Prayer is the key.

goodmorning40:
The woman maybe is protesting something,

what a way to protest. Make life miserable for everyone. She's just a terrible person and I can bet my Arsenal Jersey that the dude noticed some of these traits during their dating days but probably thought she's gonna change or he could live with it.

It's not too late to run, though.

Ahhh

A troublesome spouse. I don't wish such on even my enemy. And then the type the op is talking about; they lie and genuinely believe their lies, make life difficult for the partner and still play the victim card. Funny enough, they also genuinely believe they are the victims.

Trust me there's no winning with these guys.

KevinDein:
Ahhh

A troublesome spouse. I don't wish such on even my enemy. And then the type the op is talking about; they lie and genuinely believe their lies, make life difficult for the partner and still play the victim card. Funny enough, they also genuinely believe they are the victims.

Trust me there's no winning with these guys.

Very true

What qualities attracted him to her? Did he overlook these signs?
I think he should report her to someone of authority since she cannot listen to him.
Also, he should ignore her. Women don't do good with being ignored. Ignore her to the point that she would bring people to beg him and then he will give her conditions.

no matter how bad the wife is painted ,i am sure she was a good lady berore marriage


time changes an iindividual same goes with the situation one find himself in