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Properties / Re: Decorative Stamped Concrete by bjcole(m): 12:49pm On Oct 17, 2021
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Family / Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by bjcole(m): 3:39am On Oct 11, 2021
Kobojunkie:
The claim in bold is the result of a curse God placed on marriage - Genesis 3 vs 16 - a curse, which Jesus Christ came to redeem all of those who chose to submit to Him from. undecided

So if you are still bowing to that curse instead of to Jesus Christ, the one who God who redeem you from the curse, then you should look inwards to what is wrong with you. undecided

Don't misquote the Bible. Jesus gave us an example of a Christian model house.

Ephesians 5:20-33
[20]Giving thanks always for all things unto God and the Father in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ;
[21]Submitting yourselves one to another in the fear of God.
[22]Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.
[23]For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body.
[24]Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing.
[25]Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;
[26]That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word,
[27]That he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish.
[28]So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself.
[29]For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church:
[30]For we are members of his body, of his flesh, and of his bones.
[31]For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh.
[32]This is a great mystery: but I speak concerning Christ and the church.
[33]Nevertheless let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife see that she reverence her husband.
Family / Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by bjcole(m): 3:35am On Oct 11, 2021
PeaceJoyLove:


grin grin grin
I quite understand this was the home you came from. You father is/was the "alpha and the omega". Hahaha. Fortunately for him, the society suppressed your mother, and she was over used. No wahala. The same mentality, you have. Do not worry.

Unfortunately for you now, women have woken up. Oga, congrats. Please, do not change. I need you do exactly like your papa. Continue. And be the "Lord Luggard" of your house...and say...oh well, she can bring advice too. Lol. I have nothing to say to you.

One thing I am sure of. You will spend your old age alone. Take it. You will definitely be a lonely man. Dont worry. Continue. And let me tell you another issue...you will definitely have children with many women. You will be FFK. You see how that man is living a reckless life? A man who should concentrate on his first set of daughters and be their rock is busy holding fixing to a set of triplets diapers. Lol. That is exactly how your life will soon be. Dont worry.

Continue. Be the alpha and the omega of your home. And keep saying it that it is the way God made it. Na the woman who sees you and didnt notice it go suffer am. But mark my words, you will pay times 10.

Now , let us talk about the way God made it in the garden of Eden. God is not wicked. He gave them food in the garden. He did not give the woman a work. Just to comfort the man. It is not good for a man to be alone is what the Bible says. She is a companion first before being a helper. The woman no dey wash clothes in the garden. Abi she dey wash? The woman no dey hustle round hine things. In fact, Adam was taking care of the home, and the business. God did not give Eve a job to do. He gave it to Adam. And God did not say Eve should be a dummie to Adam. Cos if she was a dummie, she wouldn't talk to the serpent. She made decision also. So, oga, you can see that God's way was freedom. He didn't say the man is alpha and the omega. I dont know where you saw that in your Bible. But you guys twisted the Bible. And I dont blame you. You saw it in your papa, and you automatically think it is the right way. This is exactly your father. I think you need to visit a psychiatric to help you.

Goodluck!

The insult is unnecessary, the husband is the head of the woman, just like Christ is the head of the church. There can't be two heads, anything that has two heads is a monster. Anyone that wants peace and progress in his or her home would follow God's rule. That a man is the head doesn't mean you treat your wife badly, you love and treat her fairly. It is well.
Family / Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by bjcole(m): 4:27pm On Sep 27, 2021
neonly:
Am not good writer please trying to make it short

Everything just falling apart in my house
Sometimes I hear some folks saying I will tolerate rubbish in marriage but honestly it easier say than done if it actually happen to you
Where did I get it wrong sef
We use to be good friends before church matter enter
Now she does nothing in the house
I go to work come back to go to market and cook clean the house wash the children uniforms for the younger ones

All she is interested now is her own career
What my fate when I grow old
Is this not a red flag for me
What will be the fate of my wonderful innocent children how will they feel not growing up with their mother and father together all these are pounding in my head
the issues are too much I can't type it all am really depressed but sha life goes on
But my children what will be their fate

If you don't mind we can talk. There is no marriage that can't work if the parties are willing.
Family / Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by bjcole(m): 4:26pm On Sep 27, 2021
PeaceJoyLove:

The questions are:

1. We was/were doing the highlighted part initially?
2 When did you take over?

Bro, if she had previously done it for 10 years or more before saying NO and a resounding capital NO to you; then, she is not at fault.

You asked what will be your future for doing the activities? The same question she had asked herself most likely before she said NO. She decided she was not going to take it again.

But then, you said she works and she makes money for herself. I do not not know if she had been working all the while before this trouble, and just being selfish.

Talk to yourself first before talking to your wife. If she had been doing it all, and her career was on the line; then, it is you who was selfish when she was doing it alone. But if you evaluate it all, and she has just been exactly like this all along; then, she is selfish. The other possibility is that the two of you are being flexing muscle against each other in the house. In this case, you are the one who asked for advice here, and you will be the one to first call her, and you both have a heart to heart talk where you share all responsibilities and activities 50 - 50.

If you cannot do 50 - 50, then, oga, I have no suggestion for you.

Goodluck!

There is nothing like 50/50. Marriage is God's laid down procedures, and we must follow his procedures for it to be successful. The husband is the head of the home, he dictates the tunes the wife supports and follows suit, the woman can bring advice too, but it's still subject to the man final approval. Responsible men always give some of these controlling roles to their wives, willingly and guides her if she falling out and it helps their family in a great deal.

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Properties / Re: Gypsum Plasterboard Ceilings, Dry walls, POP & Screeding by bjcole(m): 8:32am On Sep 18, 2021
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Crime / Re: Mistress, 26, Baths Housewife With Hot Water Over Husband by bjcole(m): 9:00am On Sep 16, 2021
PeaceJoyLove:
If is dangerous to be idle. This house wife is in trouble. Is she had supported her husband with the business, Precious would have not come in. But I guess she prefers sleeping at home in the name of taking care of the kids. If she joins her husband, and when it's time to take care of the fish, she dumps the toddler with the father to take care, will the father shout on her? Some women are the reason things go wrong. That man kept spending on that Precious till he ran out of money while Precious is still bucked up. She needs to check herself.

And she needs to quit the marriage if the man is toxic. She should find a good lawyer who will compel the man to take care of the kids also. Marriage is not by force for life. If the two are silly to not know how to keep their bed holy, they should quit it, and stop messing around. Look at how she has allowed a kid to ruin her skin. I pray she gets healed.

Some men don't allow their wives to join them in their businesses, though some women too are lazy, and others prefer to do their thingd separate from their husbands. For me, and I think that's the model God wants, is for the husband and wife to join things together, do things together and you would be able to close gaps and avoid loop holes for the enemies. It's well.
Crime / Re: Mistress, 26, Baths Housewife With Hot Water Over Husband by bjcole(m): 8:11am On Sep 16, 2021
archbishop007:


Hmmmm
You're right I don't know if you're a man or woman. I'm talking out of experience some women are so wicked when it comes to sexual aspect of marriage most especially among christians they are too religious to give their husband his right. I pray you will never be a victim of that. It's hard but the grace of God is sufficient.

That is if the man too is not joining her in the faith, a wife is born again and the husband is still jumping from one random girl to the other, she can't do it the way you want. Most problems in marriages are caused by men, there are bad women, no doubt. Stand up spiritually, physically and with wisdom your wife will definitely follow after you.
Good marriage is not a mirage, it's a possibility and it's in our hands.
Crime / Re: Mistress, 26, Baths Housewife With Hot Water Over Husband by bjcole(m): 8:00am On Sep 16, 2021
Mr100Dollars:
As a married man don't keep a mistresses, just have sex with a random girl without any emotional attachment, move on. Respect your wife and your peace of mind....

Your advice is cool, this was what I was doing, until I almost caught an STD. You would say, I wasn't protecting myself, I actually was, but you can't be too sure.

The bottom line is, stick to your wife and forget girls. There is no gain in it is foolishness and costly.

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Properties / Re: Gypsum Plasterboard Ceilings, Dry walls, POP & Screeding by bjcole(m): 8:46am On Sep 15, 2021
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Politics / Re: Fulani Herdsmen: Oyedepo Describes Buhari’s Government As "Bloodthirsty" by bjcole(m): 10:12am On Sep 02, 2021
GOTVee:
sad Even though I'm a born again Christian, I think its time for the federal government to swoop in on this man before his actions and utterances undermine national security. Move him to DSS head quaters in Abuja and put him in an under ground cell. The Bible admonished we Christians to give what is due to Cesar to Cesar and also respect constituted authority. Calling our government blood thirsty is highly inciting and insensitive. Despite our attempts to demonize Muslims you will never find any northerner especially speaking ill of the government with divisive statements as this. Oyedepo is very arrogant and too aggressive to be a true Christian. There is nothing Christ like in the man and I wonder how he managed such follower-ship with his Talibanistic Christianity sad

Is this govt not evil and blood thritsy? Or what is your definition of evil?
Politics / Re: Borno Leaders Forgive 3,000 Repentant Boko Haram Terrorists by bjcole(m): 7:35am On Aug 30, 2021
It's just quite unfortunate how we handle matters here
Politics / Re: Police Panel To Grill DCP Kyari As US Issues Arrest Warrant by bjcole(m): 8:03pm On Jul 29, 2021
HonNL:


The Cable

Criminals want to investigate criminals. Nonsense. The whole police, army, Nass, Executive, everywhere is corruption in Nigeria.

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Politics / Re: Hushpuppi: Abba Kyari Flew To Dubai To Spend Good Time With Ramon Abbas - FBI by bjcole(m): 1:07pm On Jul 29, 2021
gaventa:
No matter what don’t allow these foreign people treat your own like shit, let Kyari be sanctioned by Nigeria. Don’t always see these foreigners as superior. They do way worse things than us but a typical black man sees the white man as superior. Well what do you expect, majority of Africans have a White Saviour. Wake up! Shell and Chevron are killing and stealing from you daily using pen and paper!!! Chastise your own by yourself , don’t sell your brother out , you won’t be able to buy him again. WAKEUP Africa!!

Thrash, so because he is our own, we should defend a fraudster, rubbish and nonsense mentality that has destroyed the whole Nation. Everywhere is corruption, nonsense.

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Politics / Re: Hushpuppi: Abba Kyari Flew To Dubai To Spend Good Time With Ramon Abbas - FBI by bjcole(m): 1:04pm On Jul 29, 2021
Righteousness2:
This is not a good one at all.
This is a Huge stain on the Security/Corruption apparatus of our Nation as a whole.

Mr Supercop, You don't need an angel or Prophet to tell you that Huspuppi is not pure.

Seems the Cup of Iniquity of our Supercop Abba kyari is Full..

You are sounding like you are new to the system, are you not in Nigeria? You don't know what is going on? Don't sound like an alien pls? Everything is riddled in corruption here as far as govt is concerned.

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Autos / Re: SOLD: '05 Accord #660k by bjcole(m): 5:45pm On Jun 29, 2021
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Properties / Re: POP DESIGN & TV WALL INSTALLATION by bjcole(m): 8:10am On Jun 17, 2021
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