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Bru, I salute your audacious maturity & aplomb. Believe me its absolute maturity on display here. I dare say I gat the same mindset on these issues & I tend to stick with this particular line of action or reaction (as d case maybe) that you have adopted.

Your womans reaction to your aloofness is natural & expected. If I caught a hint in your post right, you.ve kinda somewhat invested in her or your relationship which sorta gives you a particular leverage.
On the surface, it raises some false flag your not really into her or you got some side-chics thats why your not bothered enough about her keeping other "potential contenders" as chums. But if you truly love her, thers the imperative to continue to subtly draw a line albeit reign in to discourage her from receiving gifts as could end up as some preface to someone getting a different idea. Temptation takes different shapes too....& we all still human

harveyspecter: So what can I do?

My mindset is this "I have put in alot & I expect u to know that, if u mess up, I push u out" simple

If u go take a gift from someone & it backfires or u're trapped, u're ur own

Not that I told her this plainly but come to think of it, she isn't my wife so what right do I have to shield her from other guys

I'm not saying she has the liberty to date other guys but I can't stop her from being friends with other guys

If a guy is trying to cross the line she should back off immediately, that's my stand

So if u say I'm wrong, how can I make it right?

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I recall as a youngster & through my teenage years, that chant was a diabolic constant with me. Now more than 30yrs since its evolution, I watch & hear little kids carry on with the tradition & this provokes the question will this puerile chant ever fade into non-existence?

Is power instability a curse on Nigeria? :/

May 15th....

You left out Gideon Orkar, Umukoro and the rest...

They r strange bedfellows, everyone knows that. While Buhari is conservative in his leanin, Tinubu is capitalistic but d calculation is without d SW which is blived to b in Tinubus wraps, Buhari wuld hav a hard time gettin any attention ther, d argument we stil soaked up in more political mess than nearing eldorado.

VIPERVENOM: Well i wasn't born then. But from what i've seen and heard about him, he seems to have a clean wrapsheet. But i wonder what he's doing with someone like tinubu. I have neva liked dat man from day one

No mattter what d trolls say bout him, he's still d best alternative out of d criminals parading themselves around & keeps shovin their stinking political arses in our faces. He may not b a saint as no one is but if Nigerians prayers (d only thing we seem to be good at) to get d system cleansed of d stench of corruption is to b answered, u should endorse d emergence of Mai Gaskiya!

Your right but stats have it VE has blocked some 14 very clear & dicey goal-bound attempts as against Ochoas' (i dont really have his but surely not as much as VE) attempts....

safarigirl: Based on the records though, I think Mexico's Ochoa should be the best goalie. He's conceded just one goal as opposed to Enyeama's 3.

From ur post you have highlighted certain qualities you seem enamoured to in her.

I tell you in the world we live in today, you might not always get it all. Dating a single mother aint a problem or such big deal, but in the final analysis, the decision rests squarely in ur court bru.

mencade5: I have been seeing a lady of recent. She is beautiful, kind and hardworking. But there is a big problem. She has a son. She likes me too but her son is the main issue here.

I dont know if to continue or stop seeing her.

Advice.

Source: ME

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