maybe u need a job then u wont spend your time going after smoking presidents. does the smoke stop him from performing. I smoke too! go get a fucking job!

let us face facts. there is no way u will be in possession of something for the very first time without u not going gaga about that thing, car, shirt, and even chicks, but after sometime (because we are humans) we tend to take that thing for granted this is why we always realize how much we love someone until after the person's dead or gone.
really if your BF met u fat and now thinks u should burn away some fat, respect his view. the world has made slim or chubby chicks more acceptable than obese chicks, its just like a computer and a typewriter. fat makes many ppl, mostly women look so old the guy wl seem like her son beside the chick. But there are guys out there who like fat chicks. depends on how fat u really are, but you can either do something about it or shop around for guys who dont mind dating slim chicks. But really, dont see the guy as cynical. It is better he expresses himself when u are still unmarried than he taking it out on u after marriage.