₦airaland Forum

SweetCunt97:
Lolzzz, you never really know a man's true color when he's struggling. And many do not need the distraction of relationships when trying to better themselves. Ladies are still dating struggling guys so that one no follow.

Lol...go check everywhere....90% guyz end up with ladies standing firm with them at the budding stage.......

I didn't say 100% for reasons we both know....

The real good guyz are not flashy and all putting, they hardly try to impress even when they have money...they face you and say they are broke, you know them easily cuz u just feel it..still don't know how it is that gals run away from such guyz and want them back at 28...only age brings ladies to their senses

Example for me...I HV always been a cool headed ,very focus but super struggling guy. My own struggle no get mate...I have everything no going well for me except looks...honestly I would lie...I grew up one of the most handsome guyz you can ever meet.....but na so so struggle...

Met a lot of gals along the way; "all" dumping my sorry ass cuz I no get money..but all attesting to they are sure I will make it cuz of the focus and hard work...now I still never mk am but far better than b4...

Du u know all these gals.7 in number are all not married and wouldn't let my fine rest..coming and doing all kind of house choirs to sell face..cuz they are all in late twenties while am in mid 30..

One says am super sure u will hit it...cuz u no dey rest..so if they are so so abt an extremely handsome ,intelligent,very cool headed guy..do u know av never drank nor smoked all my life..?..av had just 2 gf all my life..?

Am super supportive of people around me, including gals to mk positive impacts..yet they all ran away for biga boiz...

Gals will continue to b stranded and av long stopped pitying them.....

SweetCunt97:
Aim low and one can crash land... You feel?

Not really true dear....OK..see it like this,naija is very tough so guyz come tru gradually and it takes time, but u guyz want the best life at his budding stage...not allowing him grow and blackmail him with jilting maneuvers.....that's the primary reasons gals find good guyz hard to get.....

Non want to grow with any man citing "dey will dump you wen they make it"... Now that ladies can't wait,what do we see this days..stranded ladies everywhere...

Am not evening begging them to change, only age humbles ladies

FiletMignon:
Good men are scarce.

They are not...just DAT u people aim too high

...seeing thing unfold before our very eyes both positively and negatively.... Election comes to mind,and I just try to test the polls here on naija biggest community online on these 3 questions

@2015..who did you vote for for presidency and why..?

@ 2019...who did you vote for and why..?

And come 2023,where will your vote go to and also why..?

donprinyo:
Excuses for everything. Of course fuel subsidy is not good for Nigerian economy and removing it completely ain't good for citizens for now. Gradual withdrawal is de way to go and also encouraging private sector to build mini refinery is also the solution. In fact, executives should never have involved themselves in trying to control judiciary and legislature cos real investors don't trust de system.

Whom did you vote in 2015 and 2019..?

kpukpuyenke:
This people get problem o

It wasn't a dellibrate act .



We just have to be "calming down" always.

Sorry Djoko. Better luck next Slam

Which slam..? Nadal's slam..?.

Red soil slam..?

OP, since size down below can't define a "good in bed" guy..

All.u nid do to prove what u want is just by trial..
Nothing less

lefulefu:
for all those mumu guys that will be hurrying sending pms to op..i will have u know that its a guy behind that moniker

Op is not a man: that gals code sh just released most guyz don't know it.."the same way,we just look at the size of his hand and tell size of his D*"

Sh is very serious..DTS y sh created a nu acct

Am happy he didn't get this slam..he waited till his main rivals pulls out b4 he made his announcement to participate...

Good for him

excellence44:
I encountered the same challenge in 2014. She refused to tell me the truth until it was too late to turn back. My folks asked me to ditch but I said no because of love. No regrets. If she had told me earlier, I bet you I will just put an end to the relationship.
Reason for my advice above.
Girls should stop deceiving men into marriage because she and her family pretend all through to the last moment.

What is deceive in all you said....marriage is all about Tue two of u guyz...or was sh fake with her feelings..?

Dt a thing is her tradition ,is sh d one that formed it..? Feeling like u came from the clouds and don't have tradition

Suppose ur wife to be decided never to allow ur family ppl wash her feet as sh tries to enter the house if her groom,shebi u would call her disobedient..? But are you the one that formed the tradition even if u claim it doesn't hurt anyone

I know the tradition the OP is talking about..and its harmless just like feet washing in Yoruba land..its a southeastern traditiom where you have to buy goat and give to the family in a small scale. Gathering where her mom takes the main parts of it..finish!

He is now painting it as if he is angel and the gals family are evil.... Fake people everywhere

kikero:
Most if not all African economies fall victim to the IMF because their sources of income have problems.....

First, most African countries rely on selling raw materials and commodities to the global market

Second we use the income from the sales to import goods and services, including some that we can produce on our own at a value that is higher than our income

Third , we don't control the price of the raw materials we sell. Prices of crude oil are determined in London and New York

Fourth, we spend billions on subsides and other socialist welfarist projects which end up costing more than we estimated because of our growing population and low tax base

Fifth, we tolerate corruption, both at the low and also by the big men and women. And most of the money stolen comes from loans taken

All these puts us into deficit and into the hands of the IMF and the world Bank.

Nigeria is a classic example.

We could be free.from the IMF, but because it involves fighting corruption seriously.and cutting subsides seriously, and becoming an industrial economy which means an initial period of hardship, we refuse to take those routes.

Bro I can see your stereo typed into believing that every policy is cuz of IMF and world bank

Check very well,naija owes them very little compared to China...naija has started implementation of the needful economic policies in order to avoid china's wrath..

China loans deadlines are coming closer, hence govt is hasty to live up to her repayment plans..

Its China that is making us strengthen revenue drive and not IMF

Just like non Igbo's love and hail orji kalu....

They are thieves and very crafty...they could manipulate ur mind into thinking they are soon good...

Tinubu became a billionaire without owning any firm from 99"

He want to control everybody and he loves money too desperately.. Same with orji uzo kalu....exactly the same type of persons

Oritsewhandey:
........
PENAL code BRO!

Tanks man!

...your the one causing all this trouble for yourself....

Women are like children, they can be decieved easily ..y would you stay so long apart and for too long from ur family..?

If your huzle is the main deal,move them to where you are..later everyone will settle in ..and if sh refuses,that's another story altogether...

Certainly your wife is cheating...no need for James band investigation, but to prove your point, just gather more evidence.......

God help us all

Timekeeper:
And we blame the north in every thing whereas things are worst In our own backyard....


Imagine 8 kids at 27..... Wickedness... The husband dick shud served to the God

That is y its a big news and correction are about to b made...

In the north..the pineal code and sharia system won't allow for correction

CilicMarin:
The Slayer Of IPOB Vandals....


May God Bless You Abundantly , Daddy Mi!

Do u watch tennis..

Cilic will b beaten this even without winning a set

flyingpig:
Igbo girl. Enugu/Imo

Yes Igbo, but not those states

Efe94:
Enter into a non-disclosure agreement with him and an agreement that will stop him from starting a similar business in Nigeria. Get a lawyer for the process.

Wow! Is there such agreement..?

Alonso80:
You are already seeing the signs, don't ignore your instincts. Except maybe you could get a trusted person for that particular position probably a family member, childhood friend or your wife, someone loyal. It's a dog eat dog society and a mere acquaintance wouldn't hesistate to throw you under the bus when push comes to shove.

Yeah! Family member ! I will work 2wards that angle...not married yet...

Only very enlighten and outspoken bro I have i s a doc.and earns pretty well..

But I will explore that angle..tanks!

Solzate:
Blood of Zachariah

My man if you know you want to go far don't tell him the secrets of ur business,tell him only if you really trust him .Let me give you an example

You own a restaurant, and ur meals are always delicious thanks to a secret recipe you own. It's because of this recipe u attract more customers.

Now you employed me ,yes me and showed me the secret recipe,
Do you know what I will do, I will work with you for some time and boom! I quit, yes I will quit working for you.

The little money I gathered while working for you ,i will use to open my own shop and I will become ur rivalry..

So my man trade with caution okay, even tho he knows the secret one still needs the grace of God to flourish in any business.

Very very well noted....tanks alot

Professorcplus:
You better don't waste time in indicision. If you think your business plan is secret to you, then, don't be surprised when you see total stranger already executing your ideas elsewhere. I will advise you to make a legal contract between you and him and make sure it is bond to the business incase of foul play in future. Nevertheless, life is all about "you chop and make I chop" .

Tanks sir.. For the advice especially your beginning lines

Uzomacharles:
Note:Two heads are better than one but that same head that came to pair might also come to fall you so all I can advice you is that you should not disclose the Business secrets to the person...

All business have its secret and since you've been on this bizness then you should know about it...

I think I made some suggestions but try to hear from others

Thanks

There is no way one wouldn't know dt secret if one is intelligent and man that position.....

Someone said i shouldn't pay well so that funds to rival wouldn't b easy to generate..

Tanks anyways

Alonso80:
My guy my guy no dey for street oh

So I shld ignore him shay..?

...I am a new entrepreneur. I am kinda gifted in idea creation for Bizness, so I set up this small firm.....currently its still a one mam show. But I know I will later need educated and reasonable personnel to man some positions later....now here is the dilemma.

I have an aquiantant, an older guy who fits perfectly for the position,he is married with two kids without a job,his wife runs the family from a small Biz center she manages. The guy is enlightened and outspoken..he fits my choice he is Also very ambitious to make things right for his family..

If I engage any one by employment, I would pay fairly well for the position, but all my trade secret will b exposed to such persons,my fear is dt this Biz is rare one in town,and could fetch me about 12million in 12 months, I don't need a rival yet as I fear,if I employ him....he will capitalize on my good pay and his new knowledge about what I do as is common in naija and break away to become a rival, even when am not balanced yet......

He stalks me now for the space. And I will need such employee in about 4weeks.

Should I engage him..?

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I laff very very hard..when someone says ppl abadon good friends cuz one gats to huzle while one is abroad.....

Lemme ask,which set of ppl huzles more on legit Nigerians abroad or Nigerians in Nigeria.....

Guy ppl don't sleep we don't go for outings,beaches, friends gatherings or even party...till specific period in the year..and someone says its cuz they realized they GATS huzle in their nu environment...

I laff!.... Ppl abroad trying to form "focused"... Nonsense!

.. Can never happen in naija.... We love our couch but all love change........

Who is kidding who?

I repeat stop marrying kids. Marry only a lady who wants to get married... Ladies are usually ready by 26 ND above:at that age u see them make effort to get married......

Then they have fuvked all they want to fuvk ND liitle remain they value their marriage ND try to keep outsiders away from it

CodeTemplar:
Speak English please.

Stop stepping on ur brain... Should b on your head and not under your foot

CodeTemplar:
So many half truths in this shamefully stitched up piece.

Iweala was there when we paid off debt but credits goes to OBJ and not Atiku, who is now sponsoring media campaigns and stoking up sentiment with debt claims, or Iweala who PDP-fied easterners like to associate with excellence.

If NOI was instrumental to debt repayment as claimed why did debt soar under her again during GEJ's time?

The article clearly avoided narrating the details of how debt rose under PDP in GEJ's time even with record oil earnings.

You can lie and try but are not guaranteed

Go to skl you no go gree... Naija owes two types of debt. Foreign ND domestic debt... Iweala a d obj cleared foreign debt. But domestic debt was still in place. Sh led obj to borrow foreign dou small small in hundreds... Bubu. Ow borrows billions of dollars with care....