₦airaland Forum

mrvitalis:
Countries that have legalized same sex don't their population grow ? Your argument holds no water

Jabioro:
OP if your parents has been lesbian or gay , YOU!!! I meant you won't be here, because,the course to gave birth to you won't arise.. You've done well by saving them..the nature promised them if they didn't desist..you won't be there next time to save..this time around not a mob...the law of nature gonna deal with them...I thanks your parent not you..

Klimaths:
Now let me say this @OP, every woman needs a leader, and leadership is influenced not by dominance. You have to stand up and take the leadership position as the man that you are. Every woman behaves most times like the horse which you need to put a reins on them to control their actions. There should consequences for bad behavior, if there is no consequences for bad behavior then there will anarchy within the home.

I strongly recommend that you take out time to go see your wife sit her down and talk some sense into her. That if such actions repeat itself again you will send her back to her parents house, also put her family in the copy too; that if their Duaghter continue this way that separation is inevitable, then watch their responses and then you will truly know where are loyalty lies.

You can also engaged the advice of her Pastor or anybody you think she reverence or hold in high esteem. That can help too.

LotusFan:
First of all I will like to commend you for opening this thread and attempting to take proactive steps towards salvaging what’s left of your marriage.

However, it appears your wife has a very dominant alpha kind of personality. Women long for leadership and if they find that, they will admire and “submit” (I use that word loosely) and love.

You seem to have allowed her walk all over you and this has made her respect and subsequently her love diminish over time. She just can’t be bothered hence the attitude. I really think you need to make her realise that you are fed up and you will not take it any more. You might have tried this before but you need to DECIDE not to allow her walk all over you the way she does to everyone else. It will not happen over night but you have to value your self respect enough to put your foot down NOW.

If you don’t, the kids will grow up to disrespect you too because naturally their mother’s behaviour will rub off on them.

Call an official family meeting if you have to but DECIDE and do this quickly. Personally I don’t like third party involvement but in this case it might help. Perhaps a woman she respects who has a successful marriage can speak to her but she has to have an opportunity to tell you what you have been doing for the last 6 years that is making her love disappear.

Good luck!

ZombieBuster:
Africa is a shithole

God why did you drop me off here

9jaown:
Glo. 2k5. 8g. 60days.

johnwegs:
naija who raped u?

GavelSlam:
Can you make it?

Ladyhippolyta88:
Sweden made no mistake why won't they take them in you are not different from them.

Ever8054:
he must be a Muslim or mentally unstable person.... what am I even saying?...both means the same thing.... let them put a bullet in his brain let him go and be smiling in the grave....