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aribisala0:
blazin thank you for coming clean say you be ashy.
you agree you are selling your sex.
but not all women were brought up that way
those from deprived backgrounds see life differently.
i appreciate that . but there is no way of dressing it up
trade na trade
market na market.

Thank u for also letting us know that all the ladies u ve eva dated or come arcross are whores!
Like i said its ok, i undastand where u are commmmmmmmmmminnnng frommmmmm!
Simple.
Dont worry u will meet a non-LovePeddler soon.
I believe u will.
but for now? Its ok to call evry lady a LovePeddler.
Its ok my dear!

BABE!:
Yes, I know I'm very funny. I'm related to basketmouth.

You didn't get the point I was trying to make, and unfortunately I can't expatiate further. My vocabulary was simple enough. Scroll up and read my previous post meticulously.

Btw, what simple needs are you talking about sef? Biko, list some.

Million dollar question: Are you also doing one or two things to assist him?

Like seriously?
Screw up, i listed one or two.

aribisala0:
go and do what your mates do in
stripbars
streetcorner
or
elsewhere

it is NOT your boyfriend's duty to give you money. if you have an aristo that is a different matter.
for most young nigerians NYSC level down where is he supposed to get the money.

it is b1tches like you that make young men carry drugs and commit other crimes.
if it was that easy to get the money why not get it yourself.
nonsense
ashawo.

Mr man!
Why are so quick to call ladies ashewo?
Is it cos of the list all your galfrnds have been giving you?
Lol
Dont worry i will pray u come across a true lady who isnt a slut.
Like i said earlier?
I understand where u are coming from.

saintfrank:
@ Blazing88  Being a 9ja what other benefit do we derive 4rm a relationship of boyfriend & girlfriend?

Theres more to a relationship than Just sex!
Its sex thats giving ladies right to demand for diz n dat!
Forget the mutual part!
Cos all u men really look for in a relationship is mostly sex.
So if ur gal on ur neck for money na una cos am!

aribisala0:
clearly blazin's mentality na ashawo mentality.
dat is fine but it is better to be upfront
give a menu with price list

for

quickie
al nite long
dogstyle
wheelbarrow
BehindBased
blowjjob
etc
no need to pretend

So this is the list ur girlfriends give you?
Jeez!
Now i understand where u are coming from.

BABE!:
Forget Blackkberry babes. I'm talking about "normal" "regular" girls.

I'm extremely happy you used the word "CAN", and not "SHOULD".

Plus, if you claim you're working and getting paid, and you happen to have functioning parents, what exactly is it you're asking your BF for again --- ? School-fees? Money for Okada?

Don't get me wrong o, if your boyfriend is WILLING to spoil you with his cheddar, then shayo dey go. In fact, get money drunk!

Just have it at the back of your mind that it is not his RIGHT to take care of you.

Shoo
This is funny!
So if u go on outings wit ur guy because u are working u will pay for everything?
y not pay for his houserent and cab fees too cos u are working.
I am talking about simple needs!!!
I am working and am paid well.
Doesnt mean he doesnt do 1 or two tins to assist!
Not demanding stupidly!

BABE!:
Iswearigad, statements like this disturb me.

Needs? What Needs? Don't you have a father? Why can't you work, get your money and take care of your lazy self?

How in the hell--how the french is it your boyfriend's RIGHT to take care of your lazy a$$? Na him born you? Is he your husband? Note, take note of the title he has; BOYFRIEND.

Haba?! Let boys gbadun their lives small na. Na so so ask, ask, ask. Na wetin sef. Small time, some girls go begin to yan dust like "But he asked for s[i]e[/i]x and I gave him". Na crase? In fact, only an illiterate should utter that kind of yeye statement. Na only man dey enjoy s[i]e[/i]x?

Rabbish!

P.S: my use of "You" doesn't mean I'm referring to you.

Ofcos u have to work as a lady, n yes thats the responsiblity of ur parents to take care of you!
But they are little things ur boyfrnd can do too!
I am not talking about blackberry, brazillian hair and all!!!
Cos some gals are greedy and silly.

@op:
No love is not all about money.
There r lots of poor people in love.
Find out what she likes.(not necessary material things)
Spend more time with her.
Give her ur complete attention.
LADIES love attention from dr men.

sexkillz:
[color=#000055][size=14pt]SMH! So classroom means secondary school? I laugh in Naira! What about the universities? Where do you go for classes? Did i hear you say you go to receive classes in a lecture room? SMH again! How about master degree students? They receive classes in a masters room? Huh? What a pitiable lopsided thought!. . . Did he tell you his age, before you compartmentalized him to be in Senior high School? Before you responded and marginalized his age to be infinitesimal, to understand what love is? What if he is your age mate or a Master Degree Student, or a Professional student? Duh! You didn't think of that, did you?

Op!
I wont date someone in my classroom! Simply because she'll be the number one cause of distraction to me when she's in class! i'd rather we remain friends! But if she is in another class of the same school, then. . . [/size][/color]

@at the man killing sex!
We call them lecture halls or lecture rooms most of the time.

frank3.16:
i hear you. as if if he does not ask her for sex she wont say he is not man enuf and go and get it from gate man, or the neighbour



my problem with u is that u think sex should be exchanged for mony, i suspect u to be an ashawooooooo

Awwww, Ashawo?
I dont blame u sha, i guess all d ladies u ve been meeting wif are one.
Its ok. I undastanD,
Smiling @ ya,

Otunbakay:
Is se x meant for only the male to enjoy? The feelings to be intimate is a mutual thing and you girls should stop the pretence that you give sex as a favour and just to satisfy your man therefore he has to pay for it. Stop the 'candle stuff' or 'hawking' and get true value for companionship.

Value for companionship?
Now dats a big haha,
Den u guys should shut up and take care of ur women!
Noise every day, if u cant attend to the needs of ur galfrnds? Stay single.
Y d complains, ?
Sex is mutual but u guys disturb more!
Its a 50/ 50 thing!

@op
I am so sorry.
God will give u the strenght to pull thru
Sorry dear.
It will be well.

ArQueBusieR:
Apparently, you're unaware of the fact that I'm an NSA operative. Come on, give me your number, and you'll be petrified by the outcome. Hehe

Oooops!
Am so scared am shaking in my boots,
Somebody help!
*I laugh in spanish*

anataala:
yes any girl that is always asking for money from her boy friend na ashawo period, is only his money she is intrested for

Is it only her body he is interesed in?
He shouldnot ask her for sex just because they are galfrnd and boyfrnd!
When he gets married? He can spend his money on his non-ashewo wife!
Zip up and keep ur atm!
Simple

if he wants to marry her only cos shes a virgin. Den he doesnt love her!
She didnt lie abt it,she said she wasnt initmate with her previous lover!
hasnt he disvirgined other men fiances too.

U can wear studs its ok.
But piercing ur ear?
Wat if tmw u want to run for president? How do u get rid of the hole?
if a guy in his 20 wears earring its sexy n thready.
But a guy in his 30s, ?
Dat one don lost o, he needs to be found!

bin gbagbo:
so i cant share my problem with unna again?

okay!

U bring sensible problems to nl, not crap like diz.
so what do want us to do?
Cant u take her to d hosiptal for checkup?
Maybe its becos of u shes shi*ting sef.
Mayb if u guys break up she might not shi*t too much again.

if shes not ur atm den stop sleeping with her!
Zip up and enjoy ur atm!
U b sexing ur galfrnd morning till nite, n when she ask for money for panadol u frown face!
lol.
But gals demand too much @ times sha.

seedord247:
Face your Book.

*Rolling on the floor lauffing*
@op
if its classroom,dat means u r still in secondary sch! D best advise is to face ur studies. Ur too young to understand wat love means. Or even handle it.
So face ur studies.

love pinging is sweeter,
Hehehehe

@op:
Why didnt u use condom!
Havnt u heard the saying ''aids no dey show for face'',
Now ur crying!
*hiss*

pendo89:
Its not recommended cz of policy but c'mmon people meet in offices,date and marry

Now if she's interested

>she will keep passing by your desk every now and then and look for the slightest excuse to meet you.eg dropping unnecessary docs at your desk when you least expect.
>She will dress to kill. Notice a change in her wardrobe.
>She will keep praising you to her co workers.Her hope being that you get wind of it.
>Her work perfomance goes up. She will arrive in office on time and leave after you have left or when you are about to leave
>She will talk to you seductively. Trying to act official but with a seductive tone here and there. Her body language also speaks a lot.
>Check the way she smiles,looks into your eyes,swings her hips,plays with her hair, and moves her hands.
>And yes cologne.

op: she has said nothing but the truth!
These are the signs.
Seek no more.

Yes o.
Lasgidi all the way,

Ah!
well i wont do it, cos he might just be testing me.
Besides it wrong.

wat about people that advertise their Personal numbers nko?.
Giving u my number doesnt mean u will know the way to my house.
To murder me, or wateva.
Except u wanna do that via a phonecall which is a big lol!
Sometimes d lady/guy might just b looking for phone friendship sef.

how sad!

it sure isnt easy been a lady.
I remember when i was growing my hair in secondary school, i had to do rubber thread.(pulling of the hair,dragging n all)
kai! Torture.
waxing? Yikeees!!! dont even wanna talk abt dat
braiding? Jeez. A killa! Straight headacne for hourssss.
Ear piercing? Goosebumps @ d tot of it.
Killa heels? Well diz i can work wif.
Funny but i cant get tired of killa heels.

kai! Gals ve suffered on diz nl.
Han han, Bashing here and there.
African men just dont appeciate dr women @ all,
Ok yes most gals r materialistics,sluts, diz and dat, But not all are diz way!
There r still very good ladies out dr.
smh!
Boys are really not smiling!!!

Wow!
Dis is the best thread i ve eva visited!
@ op, U are a God sent! So much truth in d words.

@op
Its not blind love
It is real love,
U are in love with her
No matter how u fight it,u will only end up hurting urself.
my advise: Talk to her abt,tell her how u really feel. Shes probably confused hence d off & on, (i pray she feels d same way too oo, if not i smell heartbrk)

she had better marry the doctor o, cos hes in nigeria n she knows him well, unlike d american guy dat she hardly sees. She doesnt even know wat he is reallllly up to over there o.
This is marriage o.
Shine ur eyez!