₦airaland Forum

Look out for the Land Title too.

1) Excision - good
2) Gazetted - good
3) C of O - good
4) Excision-in-process - is a No for me.

Is a No because I have one like that for 4yrs I haven't been allocated.

I have one of my personal land " inside Estate" ready for sale if you're ready contact me.

maximunimpact:
@op thanks for turning bible upside down. I used to think Christianity means living like Christ, but today's version of worship is teaching and indoctrinating everything Christ stood against. When the crowd gathered to declare Jesus king of the jews, he declined saying that his kingdom is not of this world, if Christians follow Christ's example of neutrality in politics, were is the op getting his message from? obviously this message is from the father of all liars, Satan himself!

what a sallow way of reasoning, playing Christianee, what happened to Daniel, Joseph and Co's they are children of the devil right! Quoting Christ wrongly makes you think your right, to what intends and purposes of His coming, as a earthly king?. If you refused to get involve then be ready to enjoy the reign of of the devil's.

Hexzyz:
Good points.
My parents and elders always believe that education is the way out. They never wanted us to involve in anything that will distract us from that pursuit.
Though before now when population have not surged and competition isn't as though as now, an educated person earns a decent living, so our parents are still having that idea not knowing that the world is growing fast and education is important but will not be sustainable in a competitive world today , learning a skill is important coupled with education, which will make it flexible for the individual.
I have learned, and will guide my kids and any younger one to learn a skill even though he/she will pursue their education.

you said it all.

It can only get better by the grace of God.

It can only get better

IYANGBALI:
Soon they will start using human beings to do their rituals

is case of the blind leading the blind, you know how it ended.

Oh! even the Church is missing it.

All I can see here is an OP who has lost money in FOREX, and want to thrown the baby away with the bath water. I do understand, is painful loosing money. But be sincere to yourself, do you really UNDERSTANDS WHAT IS FOREX all about?. Please... before you jump into forex trading go to COMPLETECURRENCYTRADER.COM listen to what forex is all about. I have all the free members Course video 1-10 I can give it out free. i am not asking for anything but like they say knowledge is power. FOREX IS NO SCAM! we are just not informed.

delishpot:
If say na GEJ make that promise now.........

Please this is not about the ''PERSON'' GEJ,PMB, or Ben Bruce, is about me and my country.
if it is well with my country is well with me. so i don't care who is in power i just want a country that works.

For your information GEJ too didn't fulfill all his electoral promises. like the one below

''In Aba on February 12, he promised to stamp out kidnapping; provide facilities that would boost the enterprising spirit of the Igbo; upgrade the Enugu airport to international level; dredge the River Niger; build a dry port in Aba for Igbo businessmen; complete the Second Niger Bridge; rehabilitate all the main roads into Abia; tackle the erosion crisis; and make Aba the Ground Zero of eventual aircraft production in Nigeria.''

A call for N5000 monthly pay for the unemployed by Ben Murray-Bruce and his bunch at this state of our economy, which even the employed, can hardly get their salaries as at when due, worries me. Is this a political call or zeal and patriotism for the nation and the teeming unemployed youths?

I am not holding brief for the APC and will not support any fail promises, even though I know that politician all over the world don’t keep to all their campaign promises. But I will not buy into this cheap publicity. And he should please stop insulting our sensibility. I was thinking he will be different but I was wrong.

Your brother and my brother from Akassa in Bayelsa state are worth more than N5000 government stipend, in fact they want a Nigeria that works, so that they can be gainfully employed. Must we play politics with everything! This country is going through a lot at this point in time and we should all bury this APC and PDP bickering because you’re all guilty.

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A long...... read, thought provoking.

A popular Nigerian celebrity musician was recently quoted as saying, “I really don’t fancy this whole idea of getting married or getting bogged down in a matrimonial home with a woman for the rest of my life. Yes, I love kids and hope to get them one day. What I am looking for right now is a classy African beauty who will be the mother of my children. My career is far too important and marriage will be an impediment. So, I am looking for that one lucky baby mama.”

Shocking? Wait for this.

An A-List Nollywood actress was more direct as she weighed in on a television interview where she did not hide her aversion to marriage. “I have met several eligible men who have offered me marriage. Many of them are super rich bachelors. Who wants to stay under the roof of a man to be ordered about or become his cook? Certainly, not me. I want to have children for a guy who shares my worldview of marital freedom. No marriage; I need an understanding baby daddy.”

Yes, you heard them right. And in case you are wondering if these Nigerians are teenagers. No. They are well beyond their dating or marriage age. They represent a growing generation of Nigerians who now see marriage as an old fashioned institution to be consigned into the dustbin of history.

Really, who wants to be saddled with a lifetime commitment of a “for better for worse” vow that is the credo of the time-tested institution marriage? Certainly, not the present generation of Nigerians who see marriage vows as a sort of bondage. With the growing trend in our society, marriage may soon become a relic of history-an old school practice that has no place in their “modern” world where Hollywood celebrity baby mamas and baby daddies are the new role models.

Suddenly, for a growing class of young Nigerians, the excitement that once heralded the wedding ceremony may no longer be a fantasy to look out for. Over the years, the term, baby mama, popularised by the US tabloids, has travelled across the Atlantic from its inner city African-American associations to mainstream Nigerian terms.

Welcome to the new craze in town.

The baby mama syndrome, first having taken root among Nigerian celebrity musicians and the entertainment crowd has crossed the glitz of the red carpet into the mainstream Nigerian sub-culture.The syndrome is fast redefining the whole idea of man and woman relationship. It is also changing the concepts of family and marriage as we previously knew them.

As in every fad we imported from our big brothers across the Atlantic, the terms though a trend that is considered as one of the fallout of a decadent generation of young African-Americans has become a pop culture statement among Nigeria’s Nollywood generation. Now, a large part of Nigerian young women and even men rather than proudly look forward to being married as wives and husbands prefer to bear children out of wedlock for their baby daddies and vice versa. With more of our celebrities who have a huge followings getting enmeshed in this syndrome and showing their status proudly and egged on by the entertainment media, it is no surprise that the syndrome has become the in-thing for many of our impressionable youngsters and teenagers.

While growing up, young people of my generation were taught that marriage was a sacred institution. Growing up under a family setting where our parents had also gone through the rites of marriage, we looked forward to getting married to our “Mrs. Right” or “Mr. Right” or better still our future partners. Then, the word, fiancé or fiancée, held a lot of significance. After marriage, the words, husband and wife, become the symbol of marital union. Then, young people were told not to misbehave so as to not do anything that could jeopardise the future fulfilment of being legally married.

Girls were admonished not to engage in pre-marital sex that could lead to unwanted pregnancy-boys were told to zip up. For boys, it was a taboo to put a girl in the family way. Children born out of wedlock were seen as outcast. The girl who got pregnant while in school was ostracised as a way ward and promiscuous. But not anymore, today, as nobody bats an eyelid when a teenage girl gets pregnant or boy puts a girl in the family way. If they are celebrities, they are celebrated in the media as baby mamas and baby daddies. The families will even throw a party. Now, a growing number of women talk excitedly about just “having his baby” and not “being his wife.” There is an increasingly animated debate against marriage.

Sex has thus been liberalised and babies born out of wedlock are now the norm. I do not know if this trend is a good thing. But it is certainly becoming acceptable in the society. Look at a number of our celebrities who are seen by the youths as role models. Many of them attend red carpet events with multiple baby mamas or baby daddies as the case may be. They grace TV talk shows; they are invited for career talks. Babies born by baby mamas and fathered by baby daddies are growing up under a condition that is a little less than a broken home.

What exactly is going on here?

My young cousin came visiting recently and kept shaking his head in regret. He said he was wondering how I could live with a woman for the number of years I have been married. He said he was not contemplating marriage. Now, true to his prediction. His girlfriend has just given birth to a baby girl. Then, wait for this. My aunt threw a party for his son and his baby mama. In the past, the family would do everything to cover the shame of their son having a child out of wedlock.

How did we come to this?

Copying a decadent and debased culture of ghetto America and making it an acceptable mainstream culture. I think the media, the entertainment genre, should share some of the blame. I do not know if this is a passing fad. But one thing is sure. There have been concerns about its implications on the institution of marriage and the impact on the children produced under this arrangement. Even for medical reasons. How healthy is it when a countless number of baby mamas have children with a dozen baby daddies? Have we not been warned about the health hazards of multiple sex partners? Who will stop this madness?

Can we also guess what will happen a few years from now if this trend continues? Our country will be populated by a new generation of children born out of wedlock to the so-called baby mamas. Does anyone know the implications of this? Even at that, we are already seeing the fallout of this new scourge. In Lagos, people have complained about the menace of street urchins. But do they know that street urchins of today were the products of pregnancies produced by baby mamas to absentees’ daddies? But hey! Who cares? It’s the age of the baby mama drama.

just4now:
l plead with you in the name of the Lord to jettison your idea it is inspiration from hell. l used to love football until one day the Lord showed me how deep He detests football in the church or church getting involved. In addition He frown at TV stations own by churches from showing it. He said worldly news casting in these stations also infuriate Him. Please always ask Holy Spirit before you introduce anything to the church.

Shalom.

Please don’t try to paint Christianity as if is a kind of cult, that cannot be verified or validate. If you’ve a peculiar encounter I will agree with on that but to generalize it that football is evil! Is like throwing a baby away with the bath water.
That’s pure religion and I know that religion is deadly. Please came out of it bro. there is nothing wrong in having a football unit within church I can attest to lives been saved from our football encounter with AREA BOYS in my church. But like with every other good thing that can turns bad due our attitude towards it. If it replaces God in your life then it becomes an Idol, is good but you decided to turn it so. That makes you the bad one not the football!

just4now:
l plead with you in the name of the Lord to jettison your idea it is inspiration from hell. l used to love football until one day the Lord showed me how deep He detests football in the church or church getting involved. In addition He frown at TV stations own by churches from showing it. He said worldly news casting in these stations also infuriate Him. Please always ask Holy Spirit before you introduce anything to the church.

Shalom.

Please don’t try to paint Christianity as if is a kind of cult, that cannot be verified or validate. If you’ve a peculiar encounter I will agree with on that but to generalize it that football is evil! Is like throwing a baby away with the bath water.
That’s pure religion and I know that religion is deadly. Please came out of it bro. there is nothing wrong in having a football unit within church I can attest to lives been saved from our football encounter with AREA BOYS in my church. But like with every other good thing that can turns bad due our attitude towards it. If it replaces God in your life then it becomes an Idol, is good but you decided to turn it so. That makes you the bad one not the football!

There’s absolutely nothing wrong in having a football unit in the church. We had one in my church and we use it to engage Area Boys in football competition and in the process some gave their life to God. To us the sole aim is to get DE BOYS out of the wood and propagate The Gospel of Jesus Christ to them. Evangelism has gone beyond handling a microphone.
Even the greatest evangelist Paul in the book of 1st Corinthians 9. 20-23 Says ''and to the Jews I became as a Jew, that I might win Jews; to those who are under the law, as under the law, that I might win those who are under the law; to those who are without law, as without law (not being without law toward God, but under law toward Christ), that I might win those who are without law; to the weak I became as weak, that I might win the weak.
I have become all things to all men that I might by all means save some. Now this I do for the gospel's sake, that I may be partaker of it with you.’’

Hey! Did anyone knows a reliable, ‘’MATURED’’ cooperative society out there that one can belong.

Mr Wike THE TOWN CRIER please go to EFCC if you're serious about your ALLEGATIONS, the court of public opinion wouldn't help you.
Oh! by the way I hope you've not been to the GLASS HOUSE or still in the GLASS HOUSE, if you have, please TAKE AM JEJE with the stones.