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RomanceRe: Simps Have Won by blessedinnoma(op): 7:08pm On Apr 10
The prices are real bro
RealityKings1:
Don't believe those things the admin and some users post. It's just unnecessary price hype.
If they call it 100 price it to 15k or 20k
RomanceSimps Have Won by blessedinnoma(op): 10:11pm On Apr 09
Brothers, simps have won, they have taken over our girls. Last time I posted here how a girl mistakenly added me to a hookup whatsapp group of more than 1,000 babies in the group. I have been crying seeing how much simps offer for a night. Imagen guys paying 100k, 150k 200k 300k. I have also seen 500k, 800k and 1m job posted in the group though 500k-1m clients always requesting for BBL babies. How did we get here? What is wrong with our guys , are they thinking through their anus.100k a night excluding hotel's room money, food and drinks. Even if the money was gotten through yahoo, why can't our guys reason properly. Tomorrow the person will get broke and start begging around.
RomanceRe: How Adam Take Know Say Na For That Hole Dem Dey Put Preek by blessedinnoma(m): 7:19am On Mar 27
The story of Ada never happened in the real life. It is a picture story to explain sin and how man react to sin..
RomanceRe: Can You Buy Sanitary Pads For Your Woman As A Guy?? (pics) by blessedinnoma(m): 1:19pm On Feb 07
I have bought for my wife many times and have also my bought for my house help once.
Foreign AffairsRe: Trump Orders US Withdrawal From 66 International Organisations,including U.N by blessedinnoma(m): 2:55pm On Jan 08
He will kick Tinubu out
CyynthiaKiss:
grin ; I hope this man allows Tinubu to enjoy his term in peace
RomanceRe: These Girls Are On Cloud 50000 by blessedinnoma(m): 9:36pm On Jan 04
A girl mistakenly added me to their Hookup whatsapp group. There are more than 1000 girls in the whatsapp group. Can you imagine that guys are paying 100-250k a night. If a girl is connected to a job of 100k she will pay 20k as a cut to the person that brought the client and goes home with 80k, 200k attracts 40k cut. Very beautiful girls with different shapes. They do apply for a Job by posting their pics and videos on the group. I don't watch pics and videos tire. Yahoo boys and simps don spoil our girls tire.
PoliticsRe: ₦70k Salary, ₦100k Light Bill! — Abia Residents Protest High Electricity Tariff by blessedinnoma(m): 5:44pm On Oct 15, 2025
But they have been enjoying the light. Light in Umuahia is almost 24 hours. I have never seen it so in any state in Nigeria.
FamilyRe: Man Lists 8 Benefits Of Marrying A Virgin by blessedinnoma(m): 7:51pm On Aug 11, 2025
Omo, it is good to marry a virgin. There is this feeling of fulfillment knowing that another man didn't touch your wife. I married a virgin and the marriage is 10 years old now with 4 kids and we still live like we just married this year.
RomanceRe: Hookup And Whatsapp Group. by blessedinnoma(op): 6:40pm On Jul 29, 2025
Rubyjade:
The growing prevalence of hookup culture among young women, especially as seen in certain WhatsApp groups, is a troubling reflection of how materialism and social media validation have shifted societal values. The fact that some girls can now command ₦150,000 to ₦300,000 per night through hookups—without any formal skill, trade, or employment—has created an illusion that legitimate work is no longer worth the effort.

This is especially concerning when young men, often referred to as simps, willingly spend huge amounts on temporary pleasure, reinforcing a lifestyle that discourages hard work and long-term ambition. It’s a cycle: girls are incentivized to monetize their beauty quickly, while clients elevate the price tag of casual intimacy, making short-term gains more attractive than consistent labor or education.

What’s even more alarming is the normalization of this behavior. Within such groups, the women not only post provocative pictures and openly share their locations for ‘clients’, but also openly mock or degrade men who treat them nicely. This shows that transactional relationships are replacing emotional bonds, mutual respect, and values.

Against this backdrop, any young woman who chooses to work legitimately, who resists the lure of fast money, should be deeply appreciated. She is choosing dignity over shortcuts, long-term growth over instant gratification. In a society where morals are increasingly negotiable and where quick wealth is glorified over honest living, such women deserve respect, support, and applause.
God bless you dear
RomanceRe: Hookup And Whatsapp Group. by blessedinnoma(op): 7:11pm On Jul 28, 2025
Blitzking:
Hook up is very rampant...I pity men who later pay their bride price...how would he be able to keep up with the billing..cos how u wan take keep woman wey dey collect 300k per night for just 45mins to 3hrs knack of single or group sex.
very very rampant. It will be difficult for such girls to settle down in marriage or even work again.
RomanceRe: Hookup And Whatsapp Group. by blessedinnoma(op): 10:03am On Jul 28, 2025
essentialone1:
Post the WhatsApp link
i don't have the link. I was added.
RomanceHookup And Whatsapp Group. by blessedinnoma(op): 6:28pm On Jul 27, 2025
A girl mistakenly added me to girls hookup whatsapp group and i kept low key and be following the activities in the group. How clients demand for them and how they apply for the job. Omo, simps have finished spoiling our girls. Imagine guys request for clean girls for 300k,250k,200k,150k a night and even 100-150k for short time. These girls will be posting their pictures and locations. You also need to see how they discuss about men in the group. They quarry alot in the group and still settle amicably. No wonder none of them want to work again as they make cool money from the hookup stuff. When you see a fine girl working legitimately, i appreciate her .
PoliticsRe: Wike Slashed His Son’s ₦200M Land Bill To ₦2M In 48 Hours– Senator Ireti Kingibe by blessedinnoma(m): 11:09am On Jul 18, 2025
SmartPolician:
This woman has to be vigilant and on ground during the next election. Considering what Wike did during the 2023 presidential election in Rivers State, he may rig her out in 2027.

She has to be firm like Natasha to stand up to Wike. If not, that man with a cracked voice will end her political career and brag about it later.
As long as she is with the same party with Peter Obi, she will win
PoliticsRe: APC Fixes July 24 For NEC Meeting To Replace Ganduje by blessedinnoma(m): 3:28pm On Jun 30, 2025
APC may likely scatter before 2027 general election.
RomanceRe: Evening Newspaper: Girls Feeling Pressured by blessedinnoma(m): 2:16pm On Jun 23, 2025
Taquin:
This one is for the babes who are starting to question their worth because of what they see online. I turn 30 next Sunday, so I believe I’m in a good place to write this, not from a place of fear, but from experience and sense.

Over the last few months, I’ve seen some wild comments from men on Nairaland. Things like “after 7”, “evening newspaper”, “depleted ovaries”… you name it. But let me tell you: that’s not on you. That’s on them.

If you're feeling down because of these words, pause and breathe. grin grin. These men; the ones who use these terms. I’ve studied them. Yes, I went through their old posts. The youngest among them is about 43. 😂 Imagine a 43-year-old man online calling women expired. God forbid my own future husband is wasting his time typing such rubbish on a forum.
One even replied me once saying I should "rest". This is someone struggling to pay N150k school fees for his 8-year-old child and rent somewhere in the bush in Ikorodu. 😭 Another one, sleeping in the office Monday to Friday because transport to Ajah will eat his entire salary. We already had our third degree by 23 but one man from Ogbomosho thinks he would be doing me a favour by marrying me. These same people shouting “in saner climes” but the only airport they have seen is from watching James Bond movies. 😭😭😭

And these are the same ones screaming "I can't marry a 25+ year old, they’re too old." At 40+? You’re not even ashamed. Ato ole.

Ladies, these are the ones calling you evening newspaper. Do you now see that it has nothing to do with you? If you’re here and you’re worried about these people, don’t be.
This message is not for the real men who respect women and are just struggling financially. My message for you is: it’ll be okay soon, amen.

Now for the rest of us baby girls 👸🏽:
There’s a flawed logic these same men like to push. This idea of "100 women to 1 man". It’s a lie. Statistically, there are more men than women in Nigeria and in the world. You can Google it. They just use that flawed stat to make women feel desperate.
Let me say this clearly girls: angry
If you are not earning your own money, you have no business dating.
Once you start making money, your standards go up naturally. That’s why you’ll see Regina Daniels with a Ned Nwoko, but you’ll never see Temi Otedola with Dangote. 😏
I saw a thread the other day. One Nairaland uncle asking for advice on dating an 18-year-old. By page 2, he had mentioned giving money to her mother.
So please, work. Even if it’s small. Take yourself on mini-vacations within Nigeria. Join clubs. Play sports. I play chess. In fact, there’s no antichess player in Africa better than me. Just recently, I came 3rd out of 2,500 players globally in the Antichess World Championship grin grin grin grin grin. 💅🏽
I’m also starting Pilates with my girls, and I’m going to take standard chess seriously again. I want to become Nigeria’s first grandmaster by age 37.
So please my girls:
1. Buy good skincare.
2. Learn how to do your makeup — Mac, Fenty, Lancôme… get at least one.
3. Look younger, stay fresh.
4. Don’t ever beg for transport fare to go on a date. 🙅🏽‍♀️


Don’t settle because some man with a “Akungba university 1984” ID is calling you names online. 😭
Look at Asa Asika. Look at Davido. Look at Toolz and Tunde. Real rich kids marry close in age because they’re not looking for desperation, they’re looking for a match.
Take your time. Don’t lower your crown. Someone will love you fully with money, respect, maturity, and peace of mind.
There’s someone for everyone. Just don’t rush because of what these agbado philosophers are saying on Nairaland grin grin grin. 😂
Remember:
When they say “You’re too old,” just remember, The only thing outdated is their mindset which expired after Jonathan’s first tenure. Stop explaining your standards to people who’ve never met them.
There’s a man for every woman and yours will see your worth without needing you to shrink or beg for it. cool cool cool
So to every woman reading this: You’re not behind.
Evening newspaper still has breaking news.
Bye baby girls
You are fearfully and wonderfully made.
Foreign AffairsRe: Understanding The Difference: England, Great Britain, And The UK by blessedinnoma(m): 7:30am On May 21, 2025
Mcdubai:
Just like United Arab Emirates as a country which most people calls Dubai which is the capital of UAE and one of seven Emirates in UAE.
Abu Dhabi is the capital of UAE not Dubai.
PoliticsRe: Obi Visits Anglican Comprehensive School & Anglican Hospital, Donates ₦10M Each by blessedinnoma(m): 8:49am On May 20, 2025
[quotHe has been donating since the days of his governorship

author=Chucks13 post=135435062]Him don start again.


Pls who are this man advisers? I seriously never seen a political defiant like obi in my entire life.

Obi stop going around donating money unecessary those you have be donating for pls where are the money, what project or development have they use the money for? Nothing but looted, stop it politics have gone beyond all these waka about flinging cash here and there and doing these won't make you the president in 2027 or in 2031 or in 2038 or in 2047 go and rest the game was finished long ago. "A word is enough for the wise".

Money you didn't donated before 2023 election and suddenly now you are donating it and you think sensible people won't ask "why not do these donations 3 years ago, 4 years ago, 5 years ago, 6 years ago etc ago, why suddenly now?

Desperation, failed on arrival...

We have told you to your face we will never allow you to rule Nigeria, nwanem go rest.[/quote]
PoliticsRe: Soludo Should Find Me Land In Anambra For My Retirement Home, Says Tinubu by blessedinnoma(m): 8:31am On May 09, 2025
We don't need Tinubu in Anambra. Even Tinubu visit was useless to us . Many Anambrians didn't come out emass to welcome him because he stole our brother's mandate. Tinubu will soon be chased away from Aso rock.
Christianity EtcRe: Do Not Mock Us, Catholic Bishops Rebuke Trump For Photo Dressed As A Pope by blessedinnoma(m): 4:35pm On May 04, 2025
Austema:
History records man down fall of those that jokes with Holy things, Trump be warned!


Only fools treats both Sacred and the secular alike
Trump has respect for God. During his presidential campaign, he clearly stated he was not the boss rather Jesus is the Boss.
Nairaland GeneralRe: What Is Your Biggest Regret This Year So Far? (Photo) by blessedinnoma(m): 2:00pm On Apr 02, 2025
Couldn't save much for the past 3 Months. It pains my heart.
HealthRe: Man Slumps, Dies Inside Sex Worker Room In FCT Community by blessedinnoma(m): 7:27pm On Mar 13, 2025
Lalami3232:
grin
Imagine how his soul will feel when it looks at his corpse. No man has ever died on a virgin, it's only non-virgins aka boreholes tha carries this wicked pattern. If this man were to have been a Ghanaian, his coffin would have been the shape of a wide kpekus grin
What do I even know sef aside enlightening my fellow men nationwide with the good news

Oga if you no meet your wife as a virgin, oga go for DNA test oooooooo because non-virgins aka boreholes can't be trusted atall atall
thanks for completing the statement today
RomanceRe: My 25yr Old Girlfriend Has Over 40 Body Count! I Need Help!! by blessedinnoma(m): 8:42am On Feb 13, 2025
The devil you know is better than the angel you don't know. For her to get the mind to reveal her past to you shows she has repented. Repented people are the best to work with because they will do everything within their strength to prove their new life. That girl is a good girl.
CelebritiesRe: Once A Woman Stresses Me I Leave - Timaya by blessedinnoma(m): 10:43am On Feb 11, 2025
Lalami3232:
cheesy
Whenever she also says: if you do DNA test, that means you don't trust me, oga run oooooooo. The virginity that God entrusted her with, did you meet it?
What do I even know sef aside enlightening my fellow men nationwide with the good news
you don't complete this your statement these days
CareerRe: Dr. Walter C. Eze(MA, MD); The First Nigerian Military Medical Doctor: by blessedinnoma(m): 3:25pm On Jan 08, 2025
He is an uncle to Arthur Eze not brother. We are from the same Oranto village in Ukpo town.
RomanceRe: Married Couples: How Often Do You Face Temptation To Cheat? by blessedinnoma(m): 6:39pm On Jan 05, 2025
Am done with cheating this year. I have been cheating on my wife for 3 years now . Cheating is expensive and takes your peace of mind. Family! Family!! and family!!! 2025 and beyond.
FoodRe: Food Combos That Used To Be Considered very Cheap Meals. (pictures) by blessedinnoma(m): 6:49pm On Jun 21, 2024
MatrixReloaded:
Prepare it aat the back of your compound or get a farmland to start farming
This one used to be very cheap those days but it costs above 1k these days.
FamilyRe: My Fun Hangout With My Daughter And The Daughter Of Our Gate Minder. by blessedinnoma(m): 12:27pm On Jun 20, 2024
Asaba amaka
BusinessRe: I Feel Embarrassed When Guys Bargain For Foodstuff In The Market by blessedinnoma(m): 9:31pm On Jun 14, 2024
natedensel:
Is it just me or it's same with other guys, the embarrassment I feel is as if I'm the one doing something embarrassing, and I can't help the feeling, because of that I shy away from buying foodstuff or other stuff that will make me bargain, most times I ask my sisters or girlfriend to accompany me so she can do the bargaining or get the stuff for me, my older brother bargains alot like he can't do without bargaining and for that I avoid going anywhere with him, Incase you're wondering how I survive without bargaining, I just use people close to me when its something I must bargain for, but if it's something like clothes, I know the standard price for stuff like that so I just make an offer, and for basic things like packaged groceries I buy from supermarkets in more than one quantity.
If I come your Shop to buy food stuff. If I didn't end up buying it at the cost price or a little above the cost price I won't be a happy man. I must price like 5 different shops before I finally buy from one person.
RomanceRe: Seriously, Some Guys Are Damn Crazy. by blessedinnoma(m): 4:40pm On Jun 11, 2024
Dexy4yah:
I saw a guy that i know, a guy that i respect having some fracas with a hookup girl in front of his house, this dude knack her raw and he didn't complete the payment as agreed between them.
She was shouting you knack me raw and you no wan complete my money...say wetin happen.

It was the intervention of her friends she called that made him to complete the payment. 40k

for a sane man to go raw with a hookup girl still beats my imagination...dammnnn
This is crazynes
RomanceHookup Girls In Asaba. by blessedinnoma(op): 4:03pm On Apr 09, 2024
I went to Asaba from my village at Anambra to spend the weekend. I was in the Best western hotel DBS road and came out in the night at the pool bar for some drinks. I saw more than one hundred beautiful girls at the pool bar and some were hanging around the hotel. Many of these girls are pretty and young. My greatest surprise was that about five girls I approached couldn't accept 25k for a night. They insisted between 40-50k. I had to moved to my room and had a good sleep.
CrimeRe: Ebonyi Boy Murders His Master In Anambra State (Photos) by blessedinnoma(m): 10:30pm On Jul 15, 2023
Jesus Christ! this guy na my guyooo. He was one of my men in suit during my wedding
BusinessRe: See How I Was deceived By Loan App Agent by blessedinnoma(m): 6:58pm On Jul 13, 2023
I once find myself in the situation. They threatened me like tomorrow no dey. I also threatened them back and I told them that I will report them to FCCPC and make sure their app is removed from Google. After many days of both of us threatening each other, they got tired and move on. don't fear their threatening of sending messages to your contacts. Start threatening them back with full boldness. They will soon leave you and move on with their useless life.

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