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Football Star Uche Nwofor, yesterday (31/12/14) tied the knot with Ogeychy Sunday. Ogeychy (she writes it this way) hails from Umuahia Ibeku in Abia State. They are starting the new year as husband and wife.
Congrats to them......

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3. She’s great at making plans and even better at taking detours.
She’s assertive. She knows exactly where she wants to go – and how to get there – but if obstacles arise, she’s prepared to use alternate routes. This is useful for her career, but it’s also a great indication that she won’t quit on your relationship, either.
Life is all about unexpectancies. The most successful women don’t look to avoid them, but instead stay prepared to respond to them.
2. She’s comforting in just her presence.
You could be having the worst day known to mankind – it doesn’t matter. You know once the clock strikes 5, and it’s time to go home, you’ll be welcomed to a girl who erases all of it just by being with you.
Finding a woman like this will prove to be the ultimate comfort, and it will never require any effort. Even the times when you’re not with her physically, just knowing she’s in your life will a lot of the times suffice. That’s when you know you truly appreciate a woman – and should never take that for granted.
1. She makes you better.
Simply put – she holds you down. Words cannot describe the feeling of having that one girl who’s truly your better half. It’s a cliché, but clichés always emerge from truths. It’s impossible to simply go out and find a girl who completes you, but when it happens, you’ll know immediately.
And you’ll see it in your own day-to-day life, even when she’s not around. I’ve always said this: Girlfriends are good for the soul. When you have someone you grow to think about before yourself, that inclination will translate to other people too. It’s honestly a beautiful thing.
When one girl inspires you to not only treat her the best as possible, but everyone – including yourself – that’s rare. You’re probably pretty lucky. By nwdailyblog

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3. She’s great at making plans and even better at taking detours.
She’s assertive. She knows exactly where she wants to go – and how to get there – but if obstacles arise, she’s prepared to use alternate routes. This is useful for her career, but it’s also a great indication that she won’t quit on your relationship, either.
Life is all about unexpectancies. The most successful women don’t look to avoid them, but instead stay prepared to respond to them.
2. She’s comforting in just her presence.
You could be having the worst day known to mankind – it doesn’t matter. You know once the clock strikes 5, and it’s time to go home, you’ll be welcomed to a girl who erases all of it just by being with you.
Finding a woman like this will prove to be the ultimate comfort, and it will never require any effort. Even the times when you’re not with her physically, just knowing she’s in your life will a lot of the times suffice. That’s when you know you truly appreciate a woman – and should never take that for granted.
1. She makes you better.
Simply put – she holds you down. Words cannot describe the feeling of having that one girl who’s truly your better half. It’s a cliché, but clichés always emerge from truths. It’s impossible to simply go out and find a girl who completes you, but when it happens, you’ll know immediately.
And you’ll see it in your own day-to-day life, even when she’s not around. I’ve always said this: Girlfriends are good for the soul. When you have someone you grow to think about before yourself, that inclination will translate to other people too. It’s honestly a beautiful thing.
When one girl inspires you to not only treat her the best as possible, but everyone – including yourself – that’s rare. You’re probably pretty lucky. By nwdailyblog

Guys, think about your own mother — and probably your first love. The beauty you see in her doesn’t come from libido, whatsoever, but from her character – and it will never fade. That’s the type of beauty you should chase in your own love life.
Not only will you find a woman who will remain attractive without end, but it will also foreshadow her ability as a future mother.
If you’re at a place in your life where you’re thinking long-term, there are certain qualities to catch sight of. Here are the 10 signs that a woman will make a great mother.
10. She’s loyal to a fault.
You never have to worry about her. From highs to lows, all the way back to even greater heights, she’s been by your side. You’ve never even had to doubt it.
Your greatest achievements have traces of her fingerprints all over them, and you know if it all goes down, she’ll still be down for you.
Loyalty is royalty, and the backbone of most human relationships. When it’s lost, none of the other virtues you also might have depended on will have any substance. Never take a loyal woman for granted. Trust is something that takes years to build and can vanish in the blink of an eye.
9. She doesn’t just listen so that she can speak.
There’s a difference between listening – genuine listening, and simply waiting for your turn to speak. Listening shows interest, it shows a level of concern, and it will often times speak louder than any string of words ever could.
Finding a woman who is eager to listen will always prove to be harder than finding one with something to say. Everyone has something to say. The ability to listen doesn’t show submissiveness, it shows compassion and the ability to put someone else’s needs before your own.
8. She anticipates your needs before you have them.
You never have to tell her, she’ll just know. Whether it’s the morning of a big meeting, or the night of a big game, she’s always had the foresight to accommodate you before anyone else.
It shows she’s nurturing, and it also shows that she has the prudence to anticipate things before they happen – like a cornerback who can telegraph a quarterback’s pass before the ball comes out.
You love that she’s thinking about you, and knows what you like, and you love it even more that you never have to tell her to do it. Things are always better when you don’t have to ask for them.
7. She never goes to bed angry.
Everyone argues, especially people in relationships. Arguments don’t mean you’re doomed or not destined to be together, they just mean you can’t agree about something. Trying to find a woman you’ll avoid bickering with will take forever, instead, look for one who works toward resolutions once conflict arises.
A woman who doesn’t harbor grudges will never go to sleep angry – and that will translate to constant forward motion in your relationship. It takes a great deal of maturity and awareness (of self, and the bigger picture) to set aside self-centered bitterness, and maintain positive energy for the benefit of the relationship.
6. She doesn’t need to have the last word…
And it’s not that she couldn’t have it, she just doesn’t need to. And you’re well aware of that fact. Ultimately, getting in that last word won’t prove anything – besides pettiness.
As a rule, people who are incessant over their pursuit of the last word usually allow their egos to grab the wheel and turn trivial matters into personal ones. While seeking to have the last word is not all that impressive, holding back on them for the sake of someone else’s feelings, and something bigger, is.
5. …And she can say 1,000 words with just one look.
A lot of times, the things we don’t say will resonate louder than the things we do say. This is especially true with her. If you’re doing something wrong, she doesn’t have to tell you because you’ll just know. It only will take one subtle look into her eyes.
You know when she’s smiling because she’s uncomfortable, and you know when it’s genuine. You can tell when she’s excited about something going on in her own life, and you know exactly when she’s excited about something going on in yours.
Words can be sexy, but the sensuality behind body language can’t be replicated.
4. She always has something to teach you, and she’s always willing to learn.
I don’t know, there’s just something sexy about acquiring knowledge – and often it won’t necessarily have to be presented in the manner of a “sexy school teacher.”
When a person shows an interest in something, or a passion for something, that is authentic – it will always be an attractive quality for other passionate people.
Be on the lookout for a girl who takes an interest in something, even if it might seem mundane initially, and let her passions open your eyes to new things. In turn, do the same with her. Like I said, truly passionate people will always be tempted by other people’s passion – regardless of what it might be

Tanx all....am glad..lets ride on

andysnoopy:
Human being is complex. We keep reading list upon list here .. How to toast babe, how to find a god wife, 10 reasons for this and 20 reasons for that but none of them work!! It depends on the person at the end of the day.

we learn everyday... Is good to learn to be better

So you’re with a guy who loves kids and says he wants them? Obviously, those are good places to start. But what about the slightly subtler signals that he’s up to the parenting challenge? We break them down:
1. He’s Intuitive
If you’ve ever heard the phrase, “You look tired—can I make you dinner/give you a massage/do the laundry?” come out of his mouth, that’s a sign he’s attentive and takes initiative, which are biggies when it comes to kids. “Children need attention constantly,” says Jane Greer, Ph.D., New York-based relationship expert and author of What About Me? Stop Selfishness From Ruining Your Relationship. “There’s the hands-on taking care of children in terms of what routinely has to be done—and then there’s the whole other layer of tuning into where they’re at and what their mood is and what else they might need that you didn’t anticipate or plan for. That level of awareness is really significant.”
2. He’s Affectionate
Does he hold your hand and stroke your hair? Clearly love your pet? “That shows a lovingness and caring,” says Greer. Plus, it shows his ability to connect on an emotional level to maintain that bond, which is crucial for parents, says Greer.
3. He Can Handle Stress
Does he shut down or disappear when things (work, the relationship, family stuff, etc.) get sticky? No good. You want a partner who talks through stressors with you, says relationship therapist Rachel Sussman, LCSW, author of The Breakup Bible. Because, fact: Kids are super, duper stressful. You want to have them with someone who can manage the pressure.
4. He Shares His Food
Seriously. See, a good father is someone who’s generous, not stingy, says Greer. So if you’re out to dinner and he doesn’t even pretend to offer you a taste, then reaches over and grabs something off your plate, that’s probably not a good sign. “That tells you that they’re looking out for themselves and they’re more concerned with taking care of themselves than sharing and reciprocating with you,” says Greer.
5. He’s in Touch with His Emotions
If he’s comfortable telling you how he feels about you or talking about the future, that’s good, says Sussman. “Then that person usually, when they make the decision to be a parent, they’ll take it seriously. They’ll be able to be up front with you and tell you how they feel if they’re upset about something, if they’re happy about something.”
6. He’s Down to Shop, Cook, and Clean
You want to co-parent with someone who’s “a true partner in all senses of the word,” says Sussman. If he’s not willing to pitch in now, that could mean trouble down the road.
7. He Makes Sacrifices for You
Maybe he blows off guys’ night to take care of you when you’re sick or he works overtime so he can take off for your friend’s wedding. These unselfish acts show that he’s flexible and responsive, says Greer, and those are both things you want in a partner and a parent.
8. He’s Reliable
If he says he’s going to do something, he needs to actually do it…on a regular basis…without constantly being reminded, says Greer. It’s clear why this is important: You can’t raise a kid with someone you don’t trust to take care of things.
9. The Two of You Have a Great Relationship
“Assess your own relationship and make sure it’s really solid and really in a good place,” says Sussman. “You’ve got to have the relationship first, because having kids will put a stress on you.” All good on the coupledom front? “If you’re really in love, if you have good communication, if you really respect each other, if there’s a really solid friendship, if you have a lot of fun together, and you both want to have children,” she says, “chances are it’s going to work out really nicely.” by Allison Goldman

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owolabiza:
I just got an invite for a second interview in Ibadan.....I wrote in Onitsha toooo!!!..@blessing chk ur mail box

when did u get oooooo.....i av'nt gotten....*sobbing*

Malcolmx12:
@blessenE yeah I wrote at onitsha.. ... Reason i tagged u.. .. Got mail.. ...Wednesday 10am in Ibadan

wow...i av'nt gotten any o! What is wrong?

@malcomx i didn't get anything o...where was ur test centre? Had mine @Onitsha.

Pls has any onitsha pix gotten invite?

Chei Dragnet na so una MUMU reach Not fair o...just playing with job seekers.

Oya NLanders play with them, find gurus to assist u in the test...no dulling....

Dragnet....chop shit.....am not writing but i dey vex

Obere4u:
Is the offer still available

Yes it is

Please share, dont just view

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Role:
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Ideal Candidate:
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* SSCE/OND holders preferred
* Females only
* Reside in Onitsha and Awka respectively

Salary:
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kakashi12:
i thot u will say go and study

lol....the funny tin is that 'it is not what u read dis nyt that helps, but what one knows before'

kakashi12:
i thot u will say go and study

lol

Pals stop worrying about calculators.... Go with a good calculator but prepare for a 'worse case scenario'. Which is, Dragnet might not allow the use of calculator so as to reduce the number of people that will pass. Normally SHL questions need d use calculator....just be prepared. To pass SHL u need all ur thinking faculties to be alert & at its best......sooo go and sleep!!!

crixtex:
Pls o, how were u informed about d test score... voice, sms or email?

sms and email

Dragnet said i scored 48.21% as against the 50% cutoff and can't proceed to the next stage. Kudos and Success to those that passed.

Even if i passed, i rily dont think i would have gone for the 2nd stage coz is another test and @Lagos. Travelling from east to Lagos for a test 'no be beans'. Dragnet u guys should decentralize na.

For those writing 2mao. SHL is not that difficult. Be relaxed but fast. Success all. Am praying for another opportunity like this oo...coz i want chop oil money too. lol

@chiscobaby read previous posts

Yea and u are?

Abdomox:
How many passed the test at Onitsha?

13

owolabiza:
days true,they later collected our passports,after u left!!!. so hw do u go abt d passport issue

he said if there is still need for it he will ask me to send it online. That it is just for identification purpose

owolabiza:
@blessene,I asked wen we would be contacted,and they said soon......it was kinda tough sha...,,.....let's wait and see d outcome!!!

ok. God will see us through. The guy called me, said he forgot to collect my passport....

Mr man what is the next stage?

iffydaniells:
My Fiancee got the highest in the test. 72% . She just entered to face interview panel......wishing her favours.Team Onitsha

so the ABSU babe, Oluchi, is ur fiancee...lol

truvine:
how did you know you scale through..
is it an instant result ?

yes is instant @Truvine plus interview. I scored the second highest 64% (team Onitsha). Please who knows how soon we will be called or what's next? @owolabiza how far? What did they say na?

cyberry21:
noo nor mind me na just some plenty things wey happen send me ur mail make I inbox u

PM me i will get it

cyberry21:
I have done it was good

babe u get mind ooo...interview was by 10am u went by 12noon. Hope is not ur way sha..nt gud

cyberry21:
@ blesssen e u don reach dere what was it like nd what did de say?

yea, we are thru. It is good, normal interview. Y didn't u come?

truvine:
I drop meadow at the point of hearing primary section...I don't think I will cope
this one too I don't know yet
cos am not sure if it will worth the long journey

ok. Mine is not far. @least you still have Oando and Access bank na