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AmazingGod:
Pls go to the hospital ASAP,that sounds like malaria symptoms which needs proper treatment.Sorry ma'am,you'll be fine.

but can I have malaria here? I'm outside the country at the moment. It's late now, I will go first thing tomorrow. Thanks mummy

Hi everyone, please can I take paracetamol, I'm running temperature and I have headache. I can't sleep. Please help asap

Miarose:
It's his habit since he was single. It's only the grace of God that will make him stop. Sad that u are already pregnant I would have advised you to walk away. You have to let ur parents know.. don't preserve his image by hiding it from them. Don't carry it alone.. ur mum should be good support especially now u are pregnant. If u know u can't live with it, walk away early.. don't stay and pray for him to change.else j will see urself with four kids and stuck in a sad marriage..

it's just painful we haven't spend more time together back in Nigeria then, due to my school and distance. I'm so sad. Feel like committing suicide. If I have done anything wrong, why can't he call me and let's talk it out. I knw no marriage is perfect, but this is a RED flag, and he doesn't want to even change. OMG

Hi Everyone, please do away with my English I'm writing this from a sick bed.

My name is Aisha, 27 years from Nigeria. I meet this guy 4years ago when I was in school, when you see him, he's religious, he prays 5times daily, he's from a good family.infact he's the most religious in his family, everyone call him Alfa.

This is the number one factor that makes me fall inlove with this man because I knw I'm weak when it's comes to religion, and I need someone who will enhance my family and children in future.

He proposed when I was in school then I said yes, but everything must be done till after my school which is about 2years time then. Later he had the opportunity to travel out of the country for his masters, he called me to come over to ibadan then, I spent a week at his place in Ibadan (No s3x then) he doesn't even make a move. Which gives me 100% assurance that I'm in a safe hand. But we later did before he traveled out finally.

We discussed and planed to go to registry so it will be easier for me to come over later(He's going as a married man).

Everything works fine as planned. My mum gave him very huge amount of money then when we were both looking for money to settle some of his school fee. 2 years later I went for my NYSC. And finished February 2019.

During my final year in school I went for some programming course that I have stated developing Applications, Website for big companies, before I graduated I make more 200k in a month. During my NYSC I opened one big office that I employed more than 8staffs working for me and everything is going well in Lagos.

He invited me immediately after my NYSC and I went to meet him in abroad. My office still function in Lagos til now.

Immediately I got to his place I have started putting some things in place to start my Programming job there and gradually it paying but not that much.

I got a new phone and laptop because he told me he's settling some bills then which I understand. I'm not the lazy type infact sometime I need to do cleaning for oyinbo to help him settle some bills then when i dindt see client for programming work. (If I didn't support him as a wife who will?) I knw it's part of my responsibilities.

Two months after I moved in i got pregnant. We clocked 6months yesterday that I have moved in to his place.

One day I was using his phone to work, I don't even check his messages, (I trust him 101%) one message popped in via messenger from random girls , I was forced to check that day. I saw my husband exchanging nude pics, s3x chat, with olosho, I didn't believe. I just keep quiet and monitored this, some days after, I saw his cousin (I knw her very well) s3xchatting with him also.(I was so mad with this) I can't withstand this I asked him and he denied.

Immediately he got to knw I'm aware of where they communicate. He blocked the ladies off his Facebook. I was glad and keep on with him.

Few days later I found out they changed mode of communication (it's now via e-mail) My God that's always by my side. I wanted to login my email on his PC, immediately I open Yahoo Mail, his messages popped in and he forgot to log out.

I saw some unexpected messages. I saw him patronizing prostitue, watching Indecency even after I have moved In, Exchanging n*de pictures, going to all Adultfinder site to hook up with prostitue. I was so sad and mad. I don't knw what to do because I didn't expect all these.

I called his brother and I told him all these, I screenshot some of these and their conversation for him to knw I'm aware and I keep records.

His brother called him and he said there's nothing like that. That the lady(his cousin)asked him for money blablabla.

I forgive him and forget. We moved on.

Recently, I have not bn sleeping. Infact I can be up from morning to next morning, I think all these are associated with pregnancy sometimes.

3days ago, I was awake alone in the house. I have pressed my phone the thing don hot. I said lemme check some mail on PC. Immediately I opened Yahoo mail. Hmmm!

My husband now have a new email account, new twitter account, new Facebook account all for his cousin, but God almighty that will make him got exposed. He forgot to log out, the house system and this used to be on 24/7.

Could you believe this man still communicate with his cousin, infact they exchanged video sexchat, begging the girl for nude pics and sechat, the lady will now ask him money Inreturn and he will send it to her.

As at a night before I saw this, my husband still send message to prostitue asking for her price , where do they meet bla blabla!

I asked myself if it was a mistake that he did, ever since I caught him and confronted him, why did he choose to continue? Why are they running helter and skelter to keep their conversation going?

Why did he continues with all theses nonsense despite I have moved him?

Wil he stop?

What exactly does this man want? you have never ask me for sex and I tell you No. Even when I was on a bed rest

Is this not a one chance marriage?

This is a man I have loved despite his physical challenges.

This is a man I'm planing to spend the rest of my life with.

This is his cousin, who knows who it might be in future?

Are my children safe?

Is this how marriage used to be?

I have sacrifice alot in this marriage yet all these are happening to me!

God Why?

I went to the hospital yesterday for my 2nd trimester check up, my GP said my BP Is high I need to rest and eat. Right in me i knw there's something I need to talk out, I cannot tell my parent or friend or anyone. I just want to say it out

I'm 13weeks 3 days today, Team July inshaAllah. I was seeing blood on/off in the last 12 weeks. It's stopped at exactly 12weeks and I went for Downsyndrome ultrasound and screening at exactly 13 weeks. Baby is doing good and fine no issues. I was told reasons for seeing blood was due to where my placenta was located then, that as the pregnancy grow the blood will stop, and it's happened exactly like that at 12 weeks. But I have not bn eating at all, my weight Reduces instead of increasing, kindly help. Also during my scan I was told there's anterior uterine fibroid 4cm or so, my GP said there's no issues for that. Please I need your advice generally. First time pregnancy and mama

nikkyshyne:
Hello dear. How are you and the baby now?

sorry. I have bn off for a while. Bedrest ni o. And my phone was switched off and seized. Alhamdulillah I'm back and healthy

Greatness366:
u won't lose ur baby in Jesus name Amen

Amen

Mummy4life1:
I was thinking they will place you on bed rest. Anyway sis, you need bed rest and take enough water because you can't take medicine without your doctors permission.

I experienced the same thing 8years ago with my first pregnancy. I was seeing blood but the doctor said they can only attend to me after 12weeks which I later had miscarriage before the 12weeks because they did not tell me to be on bed rest.so, I was still going to work with the bleeding which later leads to miscarriage and evacuation was done afterwards.

And after that miscarriage I did not conceive again until now. I will advice you to visit another hospital biko.

Okay, I will do that tomorrow. It's late now. Thank you for your advice

Mummy4life1:
Ma'am, you will not loose your baby by his grace. You need bed rest and take enough water. Progesterone will be given to you.

I am 20weeks now. I also experience bleeding with clots for two weeks in my first trimester but drugs such as progesterone(Cyclogest, Genstone injection) was given to me and I was advised to be on bed rest for two weeks, only 30minutes walk was required within the house, no bending or lifting of any heavy weight.

the bleading as stop but little fainting, I was ask to go for another scan tomorrow. These oyinbo don't give any drugs expt you are 12weeks old, they don't care of you lose your pregnancy. I'm going home now and will come back for scan tomorrow to check if the baby is doing fine. I'm sad

I think I'm about to lose my baby, hot/warm bleading with clots immediately I took hot rice. I'm at the emergency unit waiting to be attended to. Please help me in your prayers.. 8 weeks 6 days no be moimoi

Pweetiebabe:
I can't laugh o, sowi ehn but about not doing again u are definitely still coming back here for baby no 2 and 3, just thank your stars u re not vomiting because @ almost 18weeks my vomiting is still so constant, I believe you will get better ones u enter 2nd trimester

Ohh, so sorry about that. I'm having the urge to vomit whenever I perceive some odour, but I won't still. I thank my stars then. But this body weakness is too much. I can't eat much but I'm taking this yoghurt.

Good morning, i don't know na like this pregnancy dey o I'm not doing again after this one abeg , I'm seriously weak, no strength, sometimes I can't sleep it's just 8 weeks 3 days today. No vomitting, but this body weakness is too much abegi, my GP said I should come back 11/12 weeks for my antenatal classes. She only gave me this drug to be taken everyday. Whalahi, it's not easy at akl

4realwoman:
Welcome and happy nine month.

thank you I appreciate

Liftedhands:
Congrts and welcome here, wish you a stress free preggy.


Meanwhile everybody there's giveaway on the new born thread

thank you màm

Official signing in

8 weeks 1 day

EDD according to scan: July 26,2020

First pikin

Hi everyone. I'm new here.

I'm 6weeks 8days now, I'm in overseas and this is my first child. Recently I have bn seeing light blood when I wiped with tissue and within hours it will be clear and won't see anymore. I went to my GP and she gave series of test including HCG to check the pregnancy hormones in me, and also ultrasound to check if the baby's still breathing (All these happened when I was 6weeks 2days) , All went well, the baby's heartbeat was 118per minutes and all test was nice. I was happy, yesterday I started running stomach pain on/off and later saw light bleeding not much but I was seriously concerns, I went to see my GP and she said Its not much and sometimes it's normal if the kind of job I'm into is to stand up, move from one place to another. she said I should observe till Monday if I'm still seeing the blood I should call emergency. But since that yesterday I didn't go to work nor do anything, I just lie down (hubby not helpful at all)��� but I'm managing I notice the blood not showing anymore the color is now brown. And no stomach pain again. Please who else experienced such? This is my first pregnancy and my first child, I'm 27yrs Help oooooo