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People like this always regret this wicked move much later in life,some people don't have that luck to wait long before karma hits them hard,this is almost similar to my last post,the story is worth dashing nollywood to act,its a serious eye opener for everybody,I wish I could make another tread explaining in details how everything happened but I fear that some bloggers will steal it. I just have no words for the op!

Thank you itbomb

Thank you imoy

He is from anambra and I'm from imo state and his ex with his child is from imo state too, I'm scared that his parents will refuse me if he proposes and I am also scared that if we get married his past will hunt us,I have spoken to him about my fears and also advised him to check on his child at least but he said he doesn't care afterall she has money to train the daughter alone! His parents too are not helping matters because they don't ask after their grand daughter,I'm just scared.

He just has a regular job

How do u mean? @itbomb

Hello.
This is real and not fiction,advice needed!
My boyfriend and I started dating officially when he broke up with his girlfriend because she got pregnant for him.it started when he was dating Someone and I was sort of a side chick to him,I really loved and knew secretly that his relationship with her won't last,so when he broke up with I expected him to make me his main and only chick,I'm still a student and mostly in school.

He said he couldn't cope with her jealous nature.I was happy and decided to leave school to see him,called him and he said his new girlfriend will not allow me to spend the night at his place,I was so angry because I thought I would automatically become hos real chick, so I cursed and abused him because I was terribly hurt,

After few months into their relationship he started chatting me up and telling me his girlfriend is pregnant but his family won't let him marry her because they don't know her and she is mot from their place,he told me he really wants to marry her but without his family's blessing he won't, I asked him what he would do about the baby he said his family is pressuring him to force the girl to abort it, but the girl was bent on keeping the pregnancy with or without him her reason being that she would not risk her life for anybody.

To cut the long story short he left her because of it and asked me to be his girlfriend and apologised for everything he did to me. I still loved him so I said yes.

My problem now is I'm worried because the girl has given birth and throughout her pregnancy he never bothered to ask about the girl and her health and even after she put to bed. Now the baby is 7months old and he only saw her for the first time when she was 6months old and he only went to see if the child is really his own,his daughter is a carbon copy of him. And after then he hasn't cared much about his daughter, he said it's extra cost for him and he is not ready to make such commitment!! How can someone I love be so heartless like this not to care for his daughter,even though I love him I feel karma will catch up on him and I don't want to be a part of it, he said the girl is doing very well for self.
The story is too long but if there are questions I will gladly answer.

This is a friends predicament and she told me about it so I decided to bring it online to ask people.

You are a child for even trying to convince me that u are in your forties,you are so full of yourSelf so makes you so special that she wants to trap you with pregnancy and why did you not use a condom with her. I know guys like you, u don't have balls,you are nit even fit to be called a man, let me ask you, when u when doing the thing with her did you ask your parents the position wey go use knack am? Na when shit hit fan you ran to mommy and daddy and spare me that carp of you seeing her true colours after, if it wasn't for the pregnancy would you have noticed all those traits you complained about, but you just wanted to look for something to hold against her so that you will fee. Alright with your miserable self, I tell you my dear you will definitely get what is coming you way, when ppl are doing things they don't think of tomorrow and just because you have small change you think you can do anyhow,u better go and make peace with that Lady. Another thing that is bothering me Is why would a woman give up her child so easily like that,this guy is mot telling us the truth! Abeg shift go one side you think say everybody be mumu like u abi

This man is not forty something years,what nonsense? anyway you are even lucky that she's only rude to you!how can you take away a child from its mom,you and your family are wicked and evil and you will definitely get what is coming your way with full force! For the records I don't believe this your story,its not the complete truth,you twisted things to suit you! So u think by paying her off you will escape the karma that is about to hit you,Mr man you can't cheat nature.

Nigerians and their bad mouth and bad bele. The girl is enjoying her life and you are bothering yourselves about her relationship status.I love this lady cos she knows what she wants and knows how to get it.you all think it difficult to get a husband?with the kind of money she has she can buy a husband just like some celebrities (I won't call names)so that Nigerians will let her be but I'm certain as a wise woman that she is ,she won't do that cos you all will still find something negative to say about her,human beings sha,madam abeg live your life, marriage is not for everyone.