₦airaland Forum

EmptyGarden:
I had genuinely forgotten about our VP. Man has been relegated to the background…. He should engage the services of influencers to boost and restore his image.

fergie001:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KNqjCJCN9Dk


Olanipekun Olukoyede
EFCC Chairman

ednut1:

thesicilian:
Why does that matter? The 20m you hear don enter your eye abi?

ricson11:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2g48Y4ZtTR8?si=Kx3pU3oj22nf3LDW

In a deeply emotional reunion, a Nigerian woman welcomes her husband back home after 19 years. He left in 2006 to hustle abroad and finally returned in January 2025.

SadiqBabaSani:
1# is still not 1$, we will never forget the deception

Wakatumbit:
I've made some previous posts about how my wife threatens me with leaving our marriage everytime we have small issues (I didn't post it with this account).
She always threaten to leave anytime we have misunderstandings, not even only misunderstandings, even when we are having normal conversations and someone refers to maybe a bad marriage experience, she always says if it's her she will leave. I've spoken to her about it several times, I have even spoken to her family about the issue but it keeps repeating itself.

She has this kind of mentality that she can leave the marriage at any time I do something to her and she repeats it every time, the last one was during an outing when we had a misunderstanding, even before hearing my own side of the story, she said she already tired of the marriage and wants to leave, so I told her to go if she wants. The next morning, she came to wake me up and told me she doesn't want to do again that she wants to leave, she said she'll call her people and I should call my people. I said fine.

I told my family about it, and they supported me because a woman can't threaten me with marriage after one child.

Another thing my wife does is that she constantly compares me to other men, telling people I don't provide for my family, I don't take care of her, to the extent her friends are telling her that if a man doesn't provide for his woman, then he's pushing her out to meet other men.

In regards to the issue of providing, when we met, things were going very well, it was just the two of us and I had money at the time, I took her on vacation, booked flights for her, bought her hairs, a new phone and all. But now we have a child, added responsibilities, and money isn't as it used to be before but one thing I never do is to starve my family.

Last year I made close to 20m but I didn't see the money, not because I'm an extravagant spender but because of family expenses, I can't even explained what happened to the money aside the fact that I bought a car.

I opened a business for her with almost 3 million, the business crumbled, she doesn't want to do anything, she stays home all day just pressing phone. If I don't have any money at all she can't support me, she calls me for everything, even to as little as salt in the house.

She started comparing our marriage to when she was single, that she used to wear the lastest clothes and buy the lastest hair, and now she's married she doesn't get those things forgetting those where the thing I used to do for her when there was enough money.


This whole thing has made me tired of the marriage and I don't feel like continuing it any more, I've told her to call her people since she doesn't want to continue the marriage so they can return the bride price. I just want to focus on my life

PressMyButton:
https://leadership.ng/tinubu-gave-states-more-funds-to-implement-projects-gov-eno/

kay29000:
That's not true. I'm not rich, but i'm definitely not poor.

Newsgeek24:
https://news360ng.com/fg-files-criminal-charges-against-suspended-senator-natasha-akpoti-uduaghan-give-reasons/

lavylilly:
You were honest, open, and vulnerable—and you got hurt. That’s real. But to turn that one experience (or even a few) into a belief that “all women are liars” is not just unfair—it’s dangerous thinking that can poison your future relationships.

Let’s break it down:

🔹 “Game is game… all women are liars.”
No, some people lie. Some women lie. Some men lie too. Lying isn’t gendered—it’s human. And ironically, the moment you convince yourself everyone’s fake, you stop looking for what’s real. That mindset attracts exactly what you’re trying to avoid—more games.

🔹 You met women who were virgins in their mid-20s and up.
That’s rare, and if true, maybe you were just in circles where certain values were emphasized. But the idea that this made you stop trying to connect with women doesn’t logically connect to the rest of the story. Virginity doesn’t equal virtue, and sexual history doesn’t determine honesty.

🔹 You told a woman the truth, and she lied.
Yes, that’s painful. But again—it’s her, not all women. Being married and honest about it is commendable in a way, but it also puts the relationship in a morally grey zone from the start. People lie for many reasons—fear, insecurity, ego. It’s not excusable, but it’s also not unique to women.

🔹 The bigger issue
It’s easy to cope with betrayal by building a wall and calling it wisdom. But real wisdom is being able to spot red flags without throwing dirt on every flag you see. Generalizing all women as liars only ensures you’ll miss out on the ones who aren’t.

So yes—game exists. People play. But not everyone is playing. Don’t let a few heartbreaks turn you into someone who stops believing in authenticity.

Learn. Discern. But don’t lose your heart trying to protect it.

Racoon:
https://punchng.com/85-of-nigerian-foreign-scholarship-students-dont-return-minister-laments/

donogaga:
Men, what are your biggest mistakes with women?
Share them so that other men can learn and not repeat them.👇👇👇

RenaissanceGuy:
Many yahoo boys fled from plum cities like Lagos, Abuja, PH (Rivers) to places like Kwara, Kaduna, Adamawa, etc, thinking EFCC's eyes are only on those cities, but the EFCC has been surprising them picking them from those states they went to hide I think you're wrong—it's not a matter of lifestyle inflation not matching their environment. The EFCC uses high tech computer system that always breaches their own 'palasa' online security, so it doesn't matter where they live — they'd still be ratted out.

Tradepunter2:
Good on you... Am 8 years older than my wife... I married way into my financial strengths... Most of una when marry age mate una na the call pass for help.... Except you married woman with sense and you married in your 20s

Dalohad:
How old are you?

I laugh. Do you think that your university classmates who 21 and you are 23 is really your age mate in terms of suitor and the kind of husband she will marry?

chi4ik4:
and you will not grow old right?

Spursy:
People are doing all they can to escape Poverty, no matter the cost.
I believe if the woman was in same position as the Man, she would have done same.



https://x.com/Oludeewon/status/1924781981876862995?t=39PgRLJ2ABwChij62iS41g&s=19[/quote]Chief emergency therapist abeg no knack the woman I take God beg you..let her heal

Newsgeek24:
https://news360ng.com/fg-launches-manhunt-for-as-seven-inmates-escaped-osun-correctional-facility/