₦airaland Forum

Islie:
https://guardian.ng/news/workplace-bribery-reps-weigh-seven-year-jail-for-offenders/

Some billionaires should be in jail for the mining licences...and land allocations they got tru greasing some ppl palm.

treesun:
https://nairametrics.com/2025/06/01/exchange-rate-plunges-as-naira-closes-may-at-n1630-1-in-parallel-market-after-brief-stability/

They need to go after those selling things in dollars and after corruot politicians stealing naira and using it to pack all the dollars in circulation.

Means nothing stop overthinking things..tell her how u feel and hear wat she has to say..if she is interested u will know..if she wants to put u on queue u will also know..most gals will opt for the latter cos they can always get the gf treatment without the emotional baggage except they really like you.

Reminds me of the man that trekked from one state to another last last baba wan Co.mit suicide when everywhere red.

Peakdesign23:
Mine is garri. Wbu?

Coconut and garri.

Perfect opportunity for his ai to have enough data to munch and become stronger...enormous amount of data on telegram but I tot it was an encrypted platform.

Bukola94:
chai! Mr you can lie, hope you are not a player, I will like to be your friend. U go dey give me some lamba in case I am about to mess up or Bleep up and partner caught me red handed

Was once a player..but my moves still keep dem ladies falling by default no effort..but to wat end.

IceColdVeins:
simple or your barber forgot to sterilize the clippers used to cut your hair and you couldnt let any harm befall your loved ones due to your own carelessness, so you had to take medical precautions.
Na why i like myself, I will always cook up a valid excuse

U too much bros

Nna2025:
Hello Nairalanders, I know we are very sensitive to cheating so I ask for forgiveness.

I had a fling with a girl I have known for sometime now, I used CD but at some point, I used my finger. I started reading about Hiv and the possiblity of contracting it through fingering. Although my readings says % is very low provided there is no fresh injury, however I opted for PEP to calm my nerves. ( Pep is a drug used, when you suspect an exposure to HIV, remember you have 36hours to take it or else it won't work)

I tore off the pack, hid it in something and kept it in my bag. My wife for whatever reason searched my bag, saw it googled it and came back shouting and screaming since last night. My only comment to her is let's go for hiv test And that the drug was for my asthma, I know she wants to take it somewhere for verification.

My only fear now is if I disclose the reason for taking PEP, then my marriage is in danger.


Anything I can do to salvage this situation, I do not have time. Please my people

Tell her u had an injury at work and needed to protect urself from any retroviral infection and was given the med by ur office clinic. Adjust as necessary

Wananonly:
The garri was all he had to offer her and she stayed bro. Giving him cooking and cleaning and doggy and monkey. Whereas people were who would have given her more if she followed them.

She didn't buy the garri but what she sacrificed was 10x more.

I don't care bro. Let the simpsults rain on me.

To some women dey think all men flashing things are willing to go all out lifetime commitment dey very different from 1month to 4yrs love bombing with goodies..d day the goodies stop your skin go tell sharp ppl go ask you aunty shey u sick?

Dpsychologist:
I saw this tweet by Erigga and it hit deep.

“I was with him when he was drinking garri.”
But na you buy the garri? 🤨

Let’s unpack this mindset that’s becoming very common in our generation.


🧠 The “Loyalty” Women Talk About Today is Not Real

Many women love to say they were there when you had nothing.
But truth is, a lot of them were just witnesses, not builders.

They didn’t help.
They didn’t invest.
They didn’t even believe in you—they were just hoping for a return on their emotional “time.”

It’s all about positioning themselves for the future harvest without ever planting seeds.


📌 Presence ≠ Participation

There’s a clear difference between being present and being useful.

Ask yourself:

Did she contribute to your hustle?

Did she support with money, ideas, motivation?

Or did she just sit there… waiting?


Too many women want to claim royalty status for just hanging around during your broke phase.


💭 Real Loyalty is Silent

The girl who actually bought the garri isn’t the one tweeting.
She’s the one you remember when you finally blow—because she didn’t make noise, she made impact.

Loyalty is:

Showing up consistently.

Investing (not just emotionally, but tangibly).

Praying, planning, building with you.


But most of what you see now is emotional blackmail masked as support.


⚠️ Men, Stop Rewarding Passive Loyalty

Your success is not community property.
If she didn’t grind with you, she shouldn’t reap with you.

Let’s break it down clearly:

If What She Did is to make you feel Encouraged, supported, sacrificed then sje deserves Respect & loyalty
If What She Did is Invested in your dream then What She Deserves is Return on value
But if she Complained, watched, tolerated you then she deserves Nothing but silence 😐


💬 Final Thoughts

Let this sink in:

🧾 Presence without contribution is just observation.
And observers don’t get trophies.

So next time a woman says, “I was with you when you were drinking garri”, calmly ask:

“Did you buy am for me?”

Because sitting on the sideline doesn't make you a teammate.

What do y’all think?
Have you experienced this?
Drop your thoughts and share with someone who needs this reminder. 🧠🔥

She didnt buy the Garri..she yabbed him that his mates were eating turkey...that she no know wetin she dey think wey she choose am..but as pikin don enter na b3cos of her pikin she stay..bla blabla when money land na we drank garri together..na some women way be this..

Ppl wry don cashout don cashout ppl wey buy lank for lekki 1m to 10m don become billionaires..

Mekuseh11:
When you pay attention to the intent of a word of advice, then you can gauge if it's from a place of care, concern or disguised mockery.

The " Go and marry" tag falls in line with the disguised mockery often packaged as a genuine concern.
Age, finance and status are mostly the determinant of these fallacious shows of sportsmanship as it is always a subtle way to remind you of your decline.
Rarely does happiness, companionship or even peace of mind be considered as a criteria for the supposed " Go and marry" advice.

Isn't it surprising that if there is a refusal on your part to cling onto the marriage ship, they throw in a subtle jibe and undertone caricature, reminding you of your anticipated decline and risk of losing out in life.
Every other achievement is discarded and you are faced with multiple reasons why you are on your way to doom.

Then the game starts,
Pressure from onlookers
Constant reminder of your lack of purpose (marriage wise)
Subtle jibe and derogatory insinuations
Age shaming and broke shaming.

It's like there is a calculated arrangement to undermine every good thing in your life outside of marriage.
Soon it gets to a stage where the pendulum swings and they become loud, aggressive, judgmental, mean, disrespectful and what have you! Just to sway and hasten your decision.

The question is why do you get offended at my refusal to heed your supposed advice?
Why am I getting mocked all of a sudden?
Why are my achievements secondary to your concerns?
Why do I need to prove my intent of life with marriage?

Think about it slowly!

We are all a product of life and it is expected through procreation to give life too. I understand that sometimes you need a slight push to make future decisions especially when it concerns others.
What I don't understand is why there is pressure to act quickly, a timer to determine my right to what fulfillment entails.
Maybe I'm overthinking, just maybe?

" Go and marry" is far from what it looks like, it has become a source of pain, caricature and a reminder of a looming failure.
The pressure takes a toll on people.
The sigh of relief that comes after marriage is mostly from a place of freedom against the society, instead of a genuine path to a beautiful next chapter.

Ppl don't mind their business I remember it took me 2yrs before I had a child after marriage..I wasn't willing to get my wife pregnant but ppl no gree mind their business even the pastor wey join us see me one day dey ask when we go invite am for naming I tell am say when it's time we go let am know me wey dey use cd with my wife..dey begin dey give one eye..even neighbours..until we ready na im we born..no be them go buy aptamil and Hughes for me

How much

U would learn

I remember the day my hostel was robbed in the dead of the night dem flog vigilante chook him head inside toilet...shoot one guy for thigh and all I could hear was mopo...mopo.

nlfpmod:
VeryDarkMan posted some photos with a tattooed curvy lady in Istanbul, Turkey.

He captioned the pictures:



https://www.instagram.com/verydarkblackman/p/DKO-6eJIrzy/

The photos got Nigerians talking.

She has got my wife's qualities outwardly

nlfpmod:
VeryDarkMan posted some photos with a tattooed curvy lady in Istanbul, Turkey.

He captioned the pictures:



https://www.instagram.com/verydarkblackman/p/DKO-6eJIrzy/

The photos got Nigerians talking.

Na the owner of that leg be this nothing u wan tell me

Fiscus105:
1. Gambling.
2. Smoking cigarettes.
3.Porn watching.
4.Masturbation.
5.Drugs.
6. Phone/internet.

To me it's phone addiction is most difficult to quit.

I gambled for the first time last year after loosing close to 250k I stopped and deleted the app dec 31st and I have never gambled again
I still watch porn till date even though I am married with a child
I masturbated before marriage and when my wife was pregnant cos I was going to womanise if I no knack.. she tried to satisfy me when she isn't nauseous/tired or when she feels OK but it wasn't enough..don't think I can ever stop.
I don't do drugs..though i take alcohol occasionally I have some bottles of martel..don Julio and cream I haven't used in months I go just see am commot eyes ones of these days I go open am sha. I have never smoked.
Internet is life so I can never stop. I have never seen data as a big deal.
Womanising should be there cos its very powerful.

419 started when the first set of brilliant Nigerian scholars sponsored by the Nigerian govt were abandoned abroad..they had to survive and they resorted to scamming

Good Rich gals especially those ones whose parents are wealthy don't bill u dey just need u to show her you care by the little memories you make together..but the spoilt ones ehn them be disaster.
But dey desire too much attention. And their families have a lot of say in their affairs

Zee0007:
Do men who date rich get billed. If you have experienced one please can you let us know how it went or going.

It's lovely if u sabi game.

Hezzyluv:
Letting her know your account balance. Most women will not rest till they see THE END.

After that they would be disappointed.

Always happy

Operation talk am as e dey do you...no follow who don collect big money dey give you crumbs

Un any organisation there should be an orientation...before you start work..things like this shouldn't happen..if u feel you are not in agreement after the orientation of the organisational ethics you avoid signing the agreement to take the job. Lots of organisation engage in sharp practises to make ends meet.

myami:
which style you like?

No place where I no find the video reach..until I see igbereTV for telegram

myami:
which style you like?

Any style but carrying my gal no bad.

FIRDAUS3:
This Is Not for Civil Servants: A Mockery Masquerading as Marketing

There is a rising phrase in the marketplace of modern Nigeria. It is not born out of wit or wisdom, but from the dark wells of mockery. “This is not for civil servants.” That is the line, now stamped on car ads, promoted in social media skits, and tucked beneath the lips of the self-satisfied elite. It began with an Abuja car dealer who, in his bid to sell exotic cars, decided to insult an entire class of working Nigerians. What he called a catchy line is in fact a sneer, a slap in the face of decency.

Yesterday, I watched a video that pushed the mockery even further. A young man stood before a pen of rams, advertising them for the upcoming Eid celebration. The prices he mentioned were obscene, starting at 3.5 million naira. For rams, not elephants. With confidence soaked in arrogance, he smiled at the camera and said, “This is not for civil servants.” And the crowd laughed. People reposted the clip. Some added emojis. No one seemed to pause and ask, “What exactly are we laughing at?”

We are laughing at our nurses. At our teachers. At our clerks and secretaries. We are mocking those who keep government schools open, who record files, who monitor roads, who issue documents, who teach children how to write, read and think. We are laughing at those who have served this nation with decades of loyalty and have almost nothing to show for it. It is not funny. It is cruel. It is psychological torment clothed in humour.

More disturbing than the mockery is the mindset it reveals. It reflects a culture obsessed with wealth at all costs. We now measure human worth by bank balance, not by value, virtue, or contribution. It is the reason prices of basic things are bloated intentionally. It is the reason many now sell products not to meet needs but to manufacture social classes. A ram becomes a symbol of status. A price tag becomes a tool of humiliation.

What message are we sending? That honest work leads to disgrace? That civil service is a punishment? That the only way to earn respect is to become a millionaire, no matter how?

The damage is deep. When the phrase “this is not for civil servants” becomes a national joke, we are saying that labour is laughable, that discipline is a mistake, and that only crookedness deserves comfort. If this continues, a time will come when even the air we breathe will be branded, "Not for civil servants."

We must reject this culture. We must remind ourselves that wealth is not virtue. That ridicule is not wit. That every man who earns honestly deserves honour, not pity. The civil servant may not wear designer suits or drive a foreign car, but his place in the nation’s story is sacred. His sweat oils the engine of the country.

We need to stop laughing and start thinking. Above all, we need to start correcting. If civil servants cannot afford this or that, it means many things are wrong. Hopefully, someday soon, they won’t say, “This babe is not for civil servants. He cannot marry her."

He is right make civil servant focus on wat they can afford..or u want make civil servant buy G WAGON OR G63S OR ROLCE ROYCE ...NO NAH..THOSE ARE FOR ASTUTE BUSINESS MEN AND WOMEN...IF CIVIL SERVAMT BUY AM NA THIEF.

Heard the woman dey give style wey no good na why those women dey protest

BlackViper:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o1F9vW-LYY4?si=cf0UfnB5lqKI0fKB



https://nypost.com/2025/05/26/world-news/emmanuel-macron-shoved-in-face-by-wife-during-squabble/?utm_medium=social&utm_campaign=nypost&utm_source=twitter

This man just dey collect wotowoto first that street slap now this.