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silverr:
Lobatan

She should sue his sorry ass, take everything and walk away.

What is there for her to come back to?
Unless the hubby loves her enough to relocate the mistress.

The mistress has taken full liberty not to leave the house. Even his relatives has started to flock the house as she is almost due for delivery. The man has not said anything since.
More sugestions on what the legal wife should now, before she goes to rash decision. She has been reading all your comments. Pls keep it coming. Thanks all

Love knows no color or race. Great pic. May God guide them through

queenesthr:
I can't see any marriage here. The lady should move on with her life.

They were legally married for 7yrs

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crownprince7:
The girl in question has been found,this is an old news,did nt appen yes'day,dis incident appened in ABJ

@cp7 you are right,just got a confirmation that the little girl has been found and with the parents. Nairalanders thanks for your concern.

merahki:
It is safe to think that the marriage is over (for me)
The disrespect, disregard and deceit is out of this world

The man is not, or has fallen out of love with his wife...this is a blatant "got to hell" from him to her..this is her time to walk away, and change her story from that of a victim to a victor. If he wants her back he should make proper, big amends, and then she should reconsider, weighing it against the dynamics of their marriage. If he has been a good man and husband prior to, then maybe he gets a second chance. If not, then the marriage is dead.

But why do I feel there is not going to be even the slightest one minute separation here? . Is he even sorry/mortified/totally beat up at his deed? Or is he oozing entitlement and justification? Why is she the one running about when she was wronged? There is this need to be in marriages (any kind) by our people that I just cannot wrap my head around. Women make it soo easy for status quo of a " a man's world" to stay that way in these climes. It makes me wanna SMH most times, but then...what do I know!? Thank God for this I have to say! Good luck to them! And to her? My heart goes out to her, I hope she makes decisions and moves that would empower and better her as against the ones that would make her curl up most nights, with a sinking, nauseous feeling in her gut...

Wow, what a mouthful. Can we pls be kind enough for the way forward for this woman? The marriage is just 7 seven yrs and she is still very much young o.

sisisioge:
But why craze finger the bobo's brain enough to embolden him to bring home his pregnant Mistress? Whew?

What does the woman want? Does she still want the disrespectful SOB or she wanna fork him up? Whew! The cool me will see what I could do to patch my estate(yeah for me and my kids while I plan my exit) , the let's-scatter-ground me would be too livid with annoyance...Na to fork him up I go dey think. But what can I do? Sue his behind (if we did court marriage) for as much as I could get and then mess his relationship up with the kids we have together...sod it! I'm not gonna be nice one bit! The SOB made her nurse the pregnancy of his mistress! Forking azzzzxhole!

Thank you for your words, but its a bit too harsh o,. But she is reading and learning from your comments

AroOkigbo:
when are you posting her pictures?

Been trying to post the pic,but I couldn't, can u help pls on how to go about it, I have actually sent. Cuople but didn't appear.

Na wow o. Enjoyment galo. Nigeria TSA is empty oo. Nairalanders what do u' all think?

blogAlive:
Nairlanders, I just received the message below and its happening now. Kindly spread and keep your children and wards at home, there are hungry people out there that desperatly need money, and the quickest way for them is through this process.

"This is a friend friend's niece. Her name is Anibe Alexandra Odoma. She's 5yrs old. She was kidnapped last night by unknown persons.

Pls help me forward to / share with as many people as you can.

Number to call is 08035959513, 07060685083

This happened last night.
Pls help anyway you can
At least spread the picture
Pls let's be careful
She went to open the door bell in her home yesterday and she was taken
Her family hasn't slept, they are waiting for a phone call
None has come in yet
Her mother has to be sedated this morning, she still isn't sleeping
Kindly spread"

This is a friend friend's niece. Her name is Anibe Alexandra Odoma. She's 5yrs old. She was kidnapped last night by unknown persons.

Pls help me forward to / share with as many people as you can.

Number to call is 08035959513, 07060685083

This happened last night.
Pls help anyway you can
At least spread the picture
Pls let's be careful
She went to open the door bell in her home yesterday and she was taken
Her family hasn't slept, they are waiting for a phone call
None has come in yet
Her mother has to be sedated this morning, she still isn't sleeping
Kindly spread

Nairlanders, I just received the message below and its happening now. Kindly spread and keep your children and wards at home, there are hungry people out there that desperatly need money, and the quickest way for them is through this process.

"This is a friend friend's niece. Her name is Anibe Alexandra Odoma. She's 5yrs old. She was kidnapped last night by unknown persons.

Pls help me forward to / share with as many people as you can.

Number to call is 08035959513, 07060685083

This happened last night.
Pls help anyway you can
At least spread the picture
Pls let's be careful
She went to open the door bell in her home yesterday and she was taken
Her family hasn't slept, they are waiting for a phone call
None has come in yet
Her mother has to be sedated this morning, she still isn't sleeping
Kindly spread"

mii4u:
If she is leaving the house, let be that she only wants to regain sanity and then return, she has more rights in that house than the mistress...wen she eventually come back, na run the mistress go take comot from the house except na charm she dey use. These men sure know how to break the hearts of women.

Thank you @mii4u, she is listening, planning to come back is in her plans, but don't know what to do when she gets back, to her husband and the pregranant mistress. Nairalander, more suggestion, @ seun, kindly put this on front page, it just happened and the lady is helpless

Will this bring about the needed change in the country. Tuface should try and employ a gooud fashion expert for his wardrope combinations o

A lady married to a man for 7yrs did not know what to do after her husband confirmed that the lady he brought to the house as his cousin, was actually his mistress. The lady welcomed and took care of her and even accompanied her for ante-natal. She got to know the truth after both of them start quarrelling and having nightmare of the mistress,threatening to kill her. During one of their quarelling sections, the lady mistaken told her that the child she is carring is her husband's own. After regaining consiousness, she decided to leave the house.

Fellow nairalander,she is calling for advise on what to do before she goes to do something stupid.

There should be changes, if the pope wants to change the statuquo, so be it, and let othe people experience the seat. Pray for him at 80.

Good job freeze! Good way to get members. I want support the lady. Can I send my accounts details as well?

Good for them, they should add one more.

BlogAlive is on nairaland, big ups to the crew!