₦airaland Forum

Otamayomi1:
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Its Very Very Wrong. She Is Nt Yet Married 2 Him. Evn If She Is, She Is Supose 2 Extend Respect 2 Her Hubby Sibling More Sef.

Omoyi! Ota ode ni yo e! Wa gbayi jare! Ur input makes massive sense dear.

FLAWLES:
Mtwwwwwws,for common plate?some of u re just here putting blames,who knows if she always wash d dishes bt forgot to do todays own?(cuz if she's always eating and nt doing d Dishes d elder bro won't talk to Hz younger 1) who knws if she was in a RUSH b4 she left?na today mk she no cun wash na OP carry am come NL mtwwwwwws, ,,,,mk una de use brain

U call plate 'common'?... Lols. Wait til u get married and u'd see it ain't common. Most ladies live is d 'movie' world. Dis tins are happening out dere everyday breaking homes in millions! Its a bitter reality dat ev1 sh'd be prepd 4. My dear, it isn't a 'common' plate out dere in d real world.

njays24:
What kind of a silly and nasty uncultured attitude is that? She left the plate for her houseboy to wash or what? Even me that the madam of my house,whenever I visit my mother-in-law or sister-in-law,I would be the one to do the dishes,cook and tidy the kitchen even when his younger sisters are there. Onibaje oshi.

U sound like an home gal... D typical yoruba(mama-trait). I like ur response.

ayoolanr:
Would you refer to your mother as a "mere" woman? You are a chauvinistic lunatic! The basic tenet of life says treat others the way you want to be treated! Someone rightly corrected you and yet you fail to see what is right and civil as a human being! You are despicable and you make me sick!

What is it about nairalanders and dis super-charged tendency 2 be insultive! Using 'mere' is a mistake. Accepted, but absolutely no need talking 2 his mum. Don't u think?

repogirl:
okay, so..... What if it had been the other way around? If it had been the younger brother who had come visiting and left his plates, I guess it would have been okay for her to wash it?

For me, I believe she was wrong but doesn't mean the younger brother is right either. It is obvious he has no respect for his brothers wife to be. If he respects the brother, he has to extend the same to the wife to be.

Dassall!

U'r right! However, d peace keeping or fostering job in dat 'unit' is d fiancees', not d younger brother. She'd not even enjoy a union whr 'families' re fighting over an action of hers. And blv me, no gal should even dare say 'wateva', dat scenerio can drive any woman 2 an early grave o.

freecocoa:
What do you mean? So you go to people's houses and then start cleaning up or what? And don't come at me with "she's his fiancee" we already know that.

Point is, she doesn't live there, his brother does, she prolly didn't sleep over and, does it even matter who does a dish? Anyone can do it for feck's sakes, why must the younger brother read meanings into something as trivial as that?

Dat is far 4rm trivial. Read marriage break-up stories and u'd see sillier tins leading 2 terrible separations. Nothing is trivial with any family when 'marriage' is on d horizon. Its wat every gal intending 2 be a wife should learn and plan for now!

freecocoa:
If I were to be that lady, I'd seriously reconsider being married into such a family, good thing her hubby to be is sensible sha.

What's the big deal in doing a dish? Why does it have to come down to who ate with the plate? the said fiancee is a guest if I'm correct, so why should she being doing dishes in a house she's visiting for starters?(not that it's bad anyways), just that, it's not proper etiquette to demand your guests do chores(well except there are rules, which you must let them know about) then again, it just isn't normal.

I blv a 'fiance' has gone past d 'guest' stage. Either she's visiting or not. Its a process. She's a gf b4 becoming a fiance.

spicykev:
My sincere opinion is that the guy is exhibiting pride....There are times in life one needs to overlook certain things with humility and maturity, for me the story dozent start here, maybe the guy has been flexing muscles in the house with the lady and she probably wanted to belittle him.

If dat was d case, den she maybe got it wrong. A woman must be able to foster peace. Not d oda way round. But jst speculating if dat were 2 be d case.

Ibo girls are very easy and cheap to get. Yoruba girls wil make u work harder. Yoruba guys wants easy and cheap, so they go 4 Ibo Girls.
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Mister2:
You missed it there! I was just having fun on this social platform; I'm not really pained. I'm only puzzled by how a "human" would emit such a "bile" on a platform like this. Also, I don't see any reason why I should insult you in turn.

............................................Lolssssssssss

Mister2:
Did you swallow my post and it became a large bone in your throat or you get orgasm from insulting people? Be careful what you say to people so you don't truncate your destiny with your own hands!

E pain am die!!! Mumu!

CR77:
Ode there master is taking over tomorrow

Expected more from u... U dunce no be small. Except u can prove dat up dere..

Oponu osi!!!

Mister2:
Boko Haram was fighting for Justice - GMB 2015

U'r a nitwit 4 putting that up! I hope you re at least sane enough 2 know that!

Mumu, just carry anyhow dey yan opata. God go punish u!!! Oloriburuku!!!

Keneking:
" I brought Facebook to Nigeria"
This outgoing government sef

Abi na...Lolssssssssss

asala1:
It's a research and all they did is to report their findings. They didn't say it's a law! You can do yours to prove them wrong.

Nice response man.

Simplestone:
na wa ,make ona mind ona business all dis oyinbo people,

Really? Who's business is facebook b4?

Xiana:
Same here x2

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