Kingsteve:
It seems to me you genuinely like her and want the best for her.
Approach this situation with utmost maturity.
What you should do: ask her when she intends quiting the stripping job.

Be open with her.
Tell her what plans you have for the both of you (if any), but that you won't be comfortable/go ahead with the plans if she continues as a stripper in the foreseeable future.

Wait for her response, and wotk with it.
In the meantime, keep being nice to her and gradually encourage her to take a different route.





Enjoy your stripper gf

Damn... That strippers bf is the part I hate most. We ain't dating at the moment, we just cool together and having sex. I want more though, and that's why she need to quit before I can accept her as my gf.

Akin404:
The truth be told if she really wants to stop she will, if you're thinking you can change her that's mission impossible, if she really loves you and cares about your feelings she'll definitely stop, she can't be a stripper forever, and God so good you're in the UK, a land of opportunities, if she has a degree she can get a descent job and start afresh or even go back to school and combine working together, you just need to sit her down and talk to her calmly, talk about your plans, future and aspirations, ask her about her future plans and aspirations from there you'll know if you can continue with the relationship or not, just my little advice.

I like this. Cheers

MrCork:



strippers are the best my nigggger...truss me. ..Am paying rent for one of them.
When she shake that thing on my face..Am in paradise

I really can't stop laughing.

She is a nice girl from Zimbabwe but grew up in the UK. She is cool, lively and fun to be with. She likes me a lot and I do same but then there is a big problem.
She is a striper and I get hurt whenever she is at my place and when its about time for work she ask me to drop her off at the strip club. Damn that's one hell of a crazy shit to think of but something about her is that its not an everyday job, maybe like two or three times a week and whenever she closes, she heads straight to my house for sex.
She keeps telling me she knows I am not comfortable with her striping job but that I am the only person she has sex with because strippers don't just have sex like that with their clients. Yeah I know that's true but I can't even call her my girlfriend because I feel that would mean am the stripper girls boyfriend WTF.
But aside this her job, she is so much more of a perfect partner with a beautiful inside and outside personality. A lot of guys within our neighborhood have tried sleeping with her but she turns them down I sometimes I could see the beef in their eyes like, so of all the guys around, she decided to be with this black ass naija dude but I really don't care.
I really like her but I don't know how I can make her stop that useless stripping job especially when ladies here don't depend on guys and prefer to work not to talk about this kind of job that pays her bills well with just few hours and few days.
Please anyone with any idea how I can stop her from doing this?

You are a graduate of a professional field of study and you have also gotten your masters degree but no reasonable job yet. You have been sending application and CV for a year or even more and maybe your last koko corporate shoe is already joining the league of chopped sole association of job seekers in Nigeria.

On one very good day, someone called you to inform you that there is vacancy for the position of a gateman in Chevron Nigeria Limited and if you are ready to accept the job they can work it for you. With your first degree and even your masters degree, will you accept the gateman job in a multi national oil company?

saheedbadmus:
Nvr bite d finger that once fed u.. Obaseki needs to apply wisdom .. dere is a saying in Yoruba.. eni ba junilo leh Juni nu.. person wey senior u fit throway u..

When you don't know something, sometimes you learn to keep quite and let it pass. Do you have a clue who the Obaseki family is in Benin? Are you aware that it was the Obaseki that fed Oshiomome and now same man is biting the finger that fed him because he became the governor before Obaseki and now the National chairman?
Get your facts right before making comments to avoid embarrassing yourself sometimes, although I know no body really cares because more of the naija population are senseless.

So its now they know Nigeria is a shithole. I don't feel bad when I hear news like this because everyone living in that country personally chose to live the kind of life they are all living. Either be rich and enjoy or suffer and keep crying as no one will listen.

I wrote waec once and passed everything. I wrote jamb once and failed woefully. Thank God I didn't need the jamb to enter university then because a private university had just opened and they needed students that had the money to pay so no loss. I entered uni immediately I finished sec school without having to ever think of that yeye jamb again.