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ba7man:
Leaders who's influence ends at Onitsha head bridge or Nnamdi Kanu??

What leaders?

@bolded is the type of leaders they like. A deranged leader

You run your shows, I run mine. Mine is going better than yours. Instead of you to try to get how I am doing it, you came calling me names that I am not doing it like you (and you are far behind me in terms of productivity and results). If that is not madness, I don't know what we can call it.

Let each one do what pays him. We like rallying figures, you like to beat and kill your elders and brilliant heads by tagging them Saboteurs. You hate leading figures cos all of you want to lead at once (madness).

But you want us to leave our working principle and join in on your own madness. Now, I am sure these youths are using drugs truly. They do it before logging in on nairaland.

vanbonattel:
We have leaders too. We don't support elders who will interfere with the smooth running of our government. There's a difference between leaders and godfathers

That shouldn't be any of your concerns, should it? You run your shows I run mine, how should that be any of your headaches?

vanbonattel:
Remove the FG oil money invested in Lagos since the days it was capital of Nigeria and Lagos descends to Abeokuta levels.

Lame. Lagos predates Nigeria itself. Lagos colony was merged with southern Nigeria cos of budget deficit. And southern Nigeria was merged with north for same reason. Lagos is bailing out the whole country. So putting Anambra on same place with Lagos is an insult to intelligence

vanbonattel:
Copy them in accountability, stop twisting things out of proportion.

We can't copy anything from Anambra. We are light years ahead. That itself is indicative of how what we are doing is working well for us.

Talking about accountability, what is Peter Obi saying about those murdered people in the river? Has obiano give up his aid that facilitated the murders?

But you can all see how Lagos is handling aftermath of endsars so far.

vanbonattel:
Apart from rumors, has Obi or Obiano told anyone they are having issues? What led to Obi leaving is the VP position in PDP. There are no godfatherism in Igboland, the Igbo are wired differently, know this and know peace.

That is why you are not in national politics. You have no rallying figure as a leader.

I know what you guys want sha. You want Yoruba to demystify Tinubu so that we won't have such things as leaders. Then we can be on same fighting level with you. Nice try though, but it can't work. Remember we built empire, we are wired to rally around a figure and look up to him as a leader. Even if Tinubu is no more today, there will be another leader we can always rally around. We know the power in such strategies.

ba7man:
Lagos pass Anambra in all ramifications.

Why should Lagos copy Anambra, a state beneath it in economy and development??

I am shocked o. Imagine saying Lagos should copy Anambra

The joke taken too far.

All these wailing on a state that is not yours. Hate is indeed in-depth within some people. Face your Anambra and let others face their Lagos. Both are not on same pedestal anyways.

Tonero5200:
your assumption can kill a Witch, fûck off here

You are the one assuming here. I hope the assumption doesn't kill your young marriage.

And sorry, I can't fvck off, you brought your wife and her families to the social media for people to drag. You unfortunately got drag. You are irresponsible and I guess it was a little too late for the lady and her family to understand that you are a mistake.

Foolish ingrate.

NoToPile:
That's my fear oo, maybe he comes from a place where the groom bears all the costs, but he should have had an idea about how it's bride's family that is the host in Yoruba land and despite the fact that people on this thread have told him severally that it's nothing to worry about, he still seems worried. I hope now it has gotten on FP and several people have attested to it his mind might be at rest. Intertribal marriages does have its disadvantages sha

The op despite reading many posts here trying to convince him that it is Yoruba culture is still adamant (I guess his overpriced ego). When I concluded there will be problem in that marriage is where he acknowledged a post that aligns with his own OT. It shows he is not convinced otherwise and he will pay back. Na that girl he go frustrate.

My friend's family is planning a wedding in coming months. The way they are preparing e, you will think they want to host the president. And the groom is just a young boy who can't foot those bills.

The op people think Yoruba are called owambe people for no reason.

NoToPile:
The OP is not seeing it the way you and some of us are seeing it which is father in law hosted the guests EOD

He is concerned( using a mild word) that it was clear to all and sundry that the FIL did all the extra stuff's like the extra drinks extra food and all. Possibly he might have felt better there were no extra stuff's or it was not visible to all where they came from.

Not a healthy thinking at all, this line of thought will begin to grow and grow and resentment for his wife's family will set in if he's not careful. If they buy clothes for baby wahala, if they say this wahala, if wife talks too much wahala.

It's even better the bride's father spent the money on the rice and cows than giving it to the couple, if the FIL did give them the money only God knows what the OP would be thinking.

That marriage will soon crash. The op is a wrong groom.

No matter what you give, in yorubaland, the bride family host the wedding and whatever they spend will be assumed to be partly collected from the groom. Whatever added to it is also the responsibility of the bride family for their daughter. This is why I don't like intertribal marriages. There will always be cultural shocks. And op and his families are not taking it lightly for the help rendered. His families will start to frustrate that innocent girl.

Candidlady:
iwasnt even sleeping ijust laid there!

am nat down neither am i even up! Ijust dey there!

again ithink it is my meds thats cfvkn with my brain! The medication is turning me to "ogbolo"

Keep up with your drugs. And watch your circle of friends. It is easy to go back to bad habits if you still have friend(s) doing it. I will advise you change your friends especially your bf if he is a taker as well.

Sonnobax15:
. Why not reduce the rate at which you take your meds then

Bad advise. Why

Iyaebe:
When I start having children, I pray I remember my husband that time.

Schizophrenic girl. On another day, you are an old woman on menopause.

I don't know why we can't have a violent free election in Nigeria. Armed groups against armed forces. Na civilians go suffer am

CallmeGideon:
So any one that is not Tinubu ass licker is Igbo? Wow this your logic is just a pure reflection of you.

Check his threads and posts. I guess you can't.