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A friend of mine introduced me to a social media chat called BADOO.. Since i registered, i noticed that whenever i say hi to any girl on the platform, the response i normally receive is... I can spend a nite with you if you can pay my bills.... And when i go a bit further and ask, please how much is your bills, i get '' 40k till day break, 15k short rest!, and before you know it, they will send their no and say please call me lets talk on the phone!
I have received this type of response for not less than 50 girls i have chatted up on Badoo..
Please nairaland guys do you guys have same experience? Please ladies, are their any decent girl on Badoo?? the way it is now, i will never, i mean NEVER, take any girl on Badoo as a responsible girl, i see all of them as e prostitutes
Matured response only
thanks

2. Mynd44: Quote Post

Err.....

Can you get a temporary separation or outright divorce?

This is the same thing I will tell a woman whose husband hits her


We have a strong business together. We both play a big role in the company and the company is here in Nigeria.... She cant do her part of the job if we are divorced. Also for the record. she loves me so much, just that she wants it to be just me and her alone...no family or friends around

Hello Guys

My name is UD (not real name), a Nigerian and i am married to European who is 10 years older than me. We met in Europe but got married in Lagos.

Well, after our marriage, we always have family issues and fights like every other couple, but the problem i am having with my wife is that any time we are having our small misunderstanding, she always gets physical.. Initially, its just a small slap to my face and some nail scratching on my body here and there. And when this started in Europe, i will always try to walk away or hold her hands to calm her down, but seems the more i take the beatings, the more courage and bold she becomes in always hitting me during an argument or small misunderstanding with her.

Recently, we both came back to Nigeria for a business we brought down from Europe, and since we started living in Nigeria, i couldn't hold myself any longer as i have tried so in so many occasions to avoid hitting her back, but at a point i couldn't take it any more and i had to hit her back! though not so hard, but like oyibos, her skin where i hit her turned purple color and the next day everybody at our office was looking at me like the devil himself and a woman beater... I felt very very bad that i swore never to touch her again!

But last night she came all out for me again, hitting me, throwing lamps and whatever at me, and i lost it again and had to hit her! This time a bit hard! Please what am i supposed to do because i don't feel good after this fights especially when i have to hit her back.

And some of you might ask, why are we always fighting Well, i happens to be the bread winner in my family, but my wife doesn't understand why i should give money to my brother to help him in his business or pay for a new home for my mum. She said my family is too lazy and they should go and fend for themselves. My family is all i had and i feel obliged to help them even as i have a joint business venture with my wife and we run same account, thus finds out anytime i give them money. My brother was the one who helped and paid for my studies in Europe when his business was moving fine...now i feel i have to support him too because he has some problems with his business, but my oyibo wife will not hear of it and thus leads to our fighting and she getting physical with me..

Please guys, advise me what to do if you are in my shoes...only matured advises needed. Thanks

Pls read and think of it ...,Pastors are building Empires for themselves.... These Pastors tell us 'law' came by moses, but 'grace' came by Jesus... They pray with the grace of Jesus, and collect money with the law of Moses. They are Christians, but nothing Christ-like about them anymore... Jesus Christ was a just man, who understood the principle of the 'widow's mite', but our today Pastors don't give a shit about widow's mite... The more you give, the more important you're in today's churches, irrespective of wether the money is ill-gotten or not. JUST GIVE!!!! The bible is now a weapon of mass deception... They twist the bible knowing that people are lazy to read. They collect 10% tithe, they collect welfare offering, they collect building offering, regular offering *all from one month's salary etc.... After which they will ask you to make vows and sow seeds at random! Haha!! Why won't they be billionaires?After collection, they build high profile schools, exotic Hotels and Hospitals for Politicians and their children, not caring about people who have been giving their widow's mite. The bible said "give that there may be meat in my store house"... God never said you should keep collecting after you have an overflow.
Otunba Fayo OgunkanmbiBOWEN UNIVERSITY N650,000 persemester, COVENANT UNIVERSITY N640,000 per semester, BENSON IDAHOSA N500,000 per semester, JABU450,000 per semester, BABCOCK UNIVERSITY N450,000 per semester, REDEEMERS UNIVERSITY N450,000 persemester, AJAYI CROWTHER UNIVERSITY N350,000 per semester, MADONNA UNIVERSITY 350,000 per semester. ALLOF THESE UNIVERSITIES WERE BUILTFROM TITHES AND OFFERINGS OF THECOMMON PEOPLE WHO NOW CAN'TAFFORD TO SEND THEIR CHILDREN THERE! where is the morals of thechurch going? These schools were all built with the sweats of their church members who kept sowing seeds; special offering seeds, first fruit seed,redemption seed, thanksgiving seed, harvest seed, tithes, pastor's birthday seed, church building seed, evangelism seed, father's day seed, mother's day seed, children' day seed, pastor's cake seed, olive oil seed, etc. These schls are now elite schools, only for the rich politician children. The gainers then use the profits to buy private planes $ jets to fly up high in luxury. While Warren Buffet who has a company that build jets, still fly around on public commercial jet. Meanwhile, their members sleep hungry & d next Sunday, they will read Malachi 3:6-12. If you think this is unfair, like me, please pass on dis msg because this is reality & we should start the change now! May God deliver us.

Please my brothers,,,,, i thought from Friday to Sunday is 2 two days? how come they Jesus rose on the 3rd day, while all i can count is 2days?/ guys i will an ans o...

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Guys, i noticed that linda ikeji the blogger is always invited in any cerebrity event happening in naija, her pics is every where, i heard she was even sponsored to America recently, all expenses paid!, she was also mentioned on cnn news the other day.... But for oga seun for Nairaland, no one knows about him, i have not even seen or heard his name been mentioned anymore not to talk of been invited to a celebrity function . If you ask me, i think Nairaland drives more traffic than lindas blog, which is mainly gossip news, and nairaland is more informative and educative too! well, i hope someone should help me out....

A former Nigerian national basketball player was shot dead in a botched burglary in Texas before Thanksgiving, it has been revealed.



Chinedu Onyeuku, 29, was trying to break into a home in Plano on November 21 and was shot and killed by the homeowner, police say. Onyeuku had played for the Nigerian team that qualified for this summer’s Olympic Games in London.

According to the Dallas News, Onyeuku and another person allegedly tried to break into a residence on Rio Grande Street in Plano, Texas the night of November 21.



The homeowner told Plano police that he saw ‘multiple people’ approaching the house. The two apparently entered the residence by breaking a glass patio door.

The homeowner shot Onyeuku, killing him instantly. His accomplice ran away without injury. Police are still trying to track the second burglar.

No one inside the home was injured in the burglary. Upon their arrival, EMT workers pronounced him dead at the scene.

It is unclear why Onyeuku and his companion were trying to burglarize the residence.

The Nigeria Basketball Federation posted a statement saying that the 29-year-old athlete played basketball for the team that qualified for the London 2012 Olympics.

However, Onyeuku was not on the Olympic roster and did not actually compete.



The statement reads:

'[His] passion for playing with D’Tigers was deep-seated and he will be greatly missed. The federation joins his family and team mates to mourn a departed son, father, husband and great patriot”.

According to online sports records, Onyeuku was born in the Nigerian capital of Lagos in 1983. He moved to the United States at age six.

He played college basketball at Illinois State University and then went semi-pro for awhile, playing for the Arlington Bulldogs, in the American Basketball Association.

In 2009, he was invited to play for the D’Tigers, a national squad in Nigeria. It also said that Onyeuku lived in Omaha, Nebraska.

VIDEO: Chinedu Onyeuku Granted A TV Interview In Prep For The London 2012 Olympics Basketball Qualification

There are a lot of successful Brothas out there and during your dating escapades, you may need some help in separating the women who genuinely like you, and those who are just after your wallet. When your professional game is tight, you’re going to meet some attractive women who just see you as a meal ticket. We’ve crafted a list of the top 10 signs to know the girl you are seeing is a certified gold-digger. There is nothing wrong with a woman being attracted to financial stability and ambition, but we’re talking about something different here. Iron Mike and Sir Paul probably wish they had studied this list before they got married:



1. She asks you to buy her something or borrow money early on in the relationship.
Unless you are fine with the idea of paying for your sex and the company of this woman, this is a red flag.

2. She wears a long weave down her back, cakes on the make-up and doesn’t have a job.
This is probably controversial for a lot of people, but we need to throw the political correctness in the trash if we are talking about saving you money, embarrassment and extended headaches. Trust me; if she has a long fake weave down her back, sans the job, you should be “extra suspicious” of her intentions. If you must, make sure you put these types under several stress tests to determine if they’re genuine or not.

3. She never offers to pay and only says thank you occasionally…as if she’s entitled to your spending.
A man should pay for the first date and a thank you is necessary. In terms of identifying diggers, a thank you after a small dinner means more than her going down on you when you get her back to the crib. If after several dates she has never offered to pay for anything, you should be suspicious.

4. She only wants to go to expensive restaurants.
After impressing her on the first or second date, take her to a few inexpensive places like Red Lobster and see how she reacts. If she reacts unappreciative or complains, she is either a digger, or may be too high maintenance. Don’t be a punk or weak for the panties and call the digger back. If you do, you may as well hire a dime quality call girl which will save you some money and more than a few migraine headaches in the long run.

5. She has dated multiple professional athletes.
Food for thought: Why has she dated guys on four different national football and basketball teams? Do these brothas have the most character and best personalities? What ball players are always sure to have is money. Guess what? So do you. Diggers and ball players have a long history together.

6. You catch her online reading the lipstick alley message board.
This community is known to have an abundance of life-long diggers who share war stories and battle strategies. If you go forward and this girl turns out to be a digger, you are likely to be put on blast by the vicious and sneaky “sisters” who are part of this digger community.

7. She wants intimate details about how much you make.
If she is a dime and you are eager to soak up her panties, you may just want to play along, sex her, and then not call the digger back. She played a gold digging poker game with the wrong guy and lost.

8. She doesn’t demand you wear a condom or “says” she will go on birth control early in the relationship.
Diddy reportedly had to pay more than $4.5 million in child support for his youngest son Christian. He has had three more kids since then. You get the picture. A hard core digger will see kids as a lifelong financial insurance policy. Even a condom may not save you as there are digger “baby strategies” that can compromise the standard condom.

9. Physically speaking, you two are completely mismatched.
You have to be objective here. If you look like Craig Mack or weigh 400 pounds and the girl you’re dating looks like Nia Long in the Boyz N' The Hood days with the little catholic school skirt, it may not be your personality, game, or funny jokes doing the work here. You have to be honest with yourself in determining how good your game really is. Your game is likely not on the level as “RP” or Bishop Don Juan on American love-vendor. It’s ok to go after dimes but be careful if things look “stretched” from your usual dating experiences.

10. She only lets you hit when you buy her something.
If the only time you get some is after an expensive date or if she only hooks you up with brains after she gets an expensive gift, you probably have a digger on your hands. She is attaching sex to money and this is part of gold diggings 101.


This list doesn’t suggest there is a perfect science to identifying sneaky gold diggers, but if you find a woman you’re interested in is matching up with a few of these, watch your wallet and don’t be a simpleton.

@huros.... but you are not one of them....lol. i am still waiting to see one

I cant find just one vegetarian in Nigeria.... that is sooo bad!, in fact my friends were like, if i am a babe, that every guy will want to date me!, cos i will very very cheap to maintain or take out!..... 70% of our sickness is attributed to what we eat, especially MEAT!... and morally, its very wrong to kill animals too!... i challenge you, come and post here if you are a Nigerian Vegetarian!... of cause i know no one is...meat is the highest addiction of all things..it is even more addicted than drugs, cocaine, smoking.....i know the next question will be...but where do we take our proteins from?... well that is another discussion for another day... if you are a meat eater and you think you are better than a cocaine or drug addict then you must be joking!!!

I travelled to Nigeria recently, and i couldnt find even one vegetarian food store.... and when i tell people that i dont eat animal products, they look at me like i came from another planet. i guess Nigeria is still very far behind

Please i have an argument with a friend and i want my fellow nairalanders to help me clarify.... Why is Tuface's head always shaved?.... for people who have seen him live, is he really bald or he loves shaving his hair?...
thanks for your answers....

24 views and yet no reply.... NLer na wa o!! its d question so difficult or just that u guys dont wanna ans... at least a lot of u guys have gone for German visa, just wanna know if you were thumb printed or not
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Hello all, please i will like to know if you are asked to do finger printing when you go for visa in Greece and German embassy..... i know in UK and USA, you must do your finger printing, but i dont know about Greece or Germany... i need answers from experts... thanks all!

thanks bro, thats a relief

o boy!, 10 views but no reply, na wa o!!!

Hello guys, please i want to know where one can do a court marriage in Nigeria, the groom is from 9ja but the bride is whitey. a friend said its only in ikoyi registry that you can marry a non 9ja resident and that the registration fee is 70k. those of you that married your white soul mates in 9ja, please tell me where and what doc and how much is required
thanksss

thanks so much kennybuda!, u are really indeed a brother!, well, my wife works and pays taxes, infact she has been working and paying taxes for almost 20 years now, but she is not based in Romania, she is living and working in a neighboring European country, but she owns a home in her name in Romania and she once owned a bizness in Romania too, she wants me to come to Romania 1st, and do all my paper work there and after getting my 5years card to join her to her base, hope for the fact her job and tax is not in Romania will not have any problems 4 me, since Europe is now one big family, well thanks once again for your help!

@Kennybuda, please my brother i want to ask you some questions, Am currently in 9ja but will be getting married to Romanian girlfriend by next month at ikoyi registry, my questions is as follows
1, what doc should my wife to be, bring with her to file for me for the visa at romanian embassy abj
2, how long do u think i have to wait b4 the visa comes out
3, do you know the docs we will need to submit for my 5years residence card when i get to romania
4, to register my marriage in Romania, do i need to authenticate the marriage cert we will collect at ikoyi registry
5, do you know how long i might wait b4 i can collect the 5years card and do i have to come for an interview with my wife so that they will know if the marriage is real or not, finally will love to see u when i finally come into romania. by the way my wife is from iasi, cant wait for your response
thanks